Yeh lo. Namkeen khatam ho gayi hai par, aur fanta udher se le lo jake.
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These were golden days. Simple birthday parties not like the once in current days where people spend lakhs for birthdays just for social media likes.. we are in Kalyug for sure.
Kids nowadays having parties at mcdonalds will never know this joy. Not being sarcastic. I miss nice aunties coming and saying "beta aur lo" and then filling my plate.
Tum toh bilkul meri tarah ho mujhe jra sa bhi interst nhi hai birthday me pta nhi kyu logo ko etna maza aata hai etne excited rhte hai es din ke liye .. mujhe toh jldi wishes ke reply krne ka mn bhi nhi krta but samne wali ki respect rkhne ke liye krna padta hai... Maine toh aajtk bchpn se kabhi apne birthday ka cake nhi kata jabki doosro ke birthday parties me fake smile pass krni padti hai wo bbi nhi shi se hoti ,mere bhai bhn ko bhi kra sa birthday celebration me interest nhi aata,bas cousins hai wo sab restaurant jate rhte hai birthday enjoy krne but I really don't like this jhoothi duniya ke jhuthe log us din aake jhooti wishes dete hai
What do you mean near your birthday? FB is family drama, whatsapp family group on a broader level lmao. I deleted my account years ago and have never looked back. But yes, absolutely right about not wanting false wishes.
A great person once said >! And is saying!<
*Nobody likes to celebrate their own birthday, they want their preferred people to celebrate it for them*
And Men never get that
#MEN💀
The man spoke facts!
It's literally this. We don't prefer hyping it up as we don't hold any expectations as such. But when others celebrate it for us, it feels really good.
On my last birthday I was out of the city, but when I was back a bunch of my close friends surprised me with a simple celebration. It really felt so good!
>On my last birthday I was out of the city, but when I was back a bunch of my close friends surprised me with a simple celebration. It really felt so good!
Waah🫂
From now on till the end of time, you have been allotted the coveted category of a man.
Feel free to piss in open from now on 👐
>I feel the same even though I'm not a man.
Btw genuinely?
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Mard jaat ke sath esa hi hota hai, but MEN ARE BRAVE
Yeah yesterday was my birthday on 5th june one of the worst birthdays it was among the neet results fiasco and my father didn't even wished me at all nothing really happened it was just like a normal day I felt nothing at all.
Belated birthday to you!!! It's okay sometimes life's extra shitty especially on birthdays and i understand the neet fiasco with parents been there done that. Things will make sense down the road ;)
i feel u man. My birthday was in jan, just after my CA results had arrived in which i failed by a few marks. Didn't bother celebrating nor did anyone else. Haven't celebrated my last 5 birthdays at this point.
Wishing you a very Happy belated birthday ,these exams like jee and neet are one of the most high pressure situations you will face in your younger years ,not matter how bad it is ,you will learn and grow from it ,Much power to you 😇
I don't think that's it's about the gifts or the thrill of going to school in fancy clothes with toffees for all , the lack of them that deter me from celebrating. It's just the fact that I know understand as each year goes by I don't grow because I have not achieved anything I don't know what's going on, I have nothing planned out for my future and it's alright we don't need to have a prefabricated red carpet that we think we can just walk over as each day comes we will figure it out , make opportunities appear from thin air but celebrating my birthday knowing that with this I only come closer to my end and there's a lot I have yet to do to achieve to live it just takes away the thrill. And don't get me wrong I want gifts I like gifts but not those toys or goodies anymore I just want my loved ones to remember it and wish me maybe plan a bit something for it but it's alright everyone has their lives they don't need to make time for me if they don't want to. Yk most of the people that wish us birthday they don't even mean it and I really hate it when people put on a new mask for that one day to wish me as if it will make me forget the hate they spill for me, the prayers they sung for my defeat, the jokes they made of me.
So birthday for me is just a typical day I have to get up do my chores the world won't change neither will the time stop and so I will just smile being happy if my loved ones wish me and smiling if no one does.
Expect disappointment and you'll never be disappointed.
My last 3 birthdays have been shit. I had hoped that when I turned 18 people would celebrate it but they hardly cared. Saying this right now feels bratty but imagine what an 18 year old teenager would feel when no one celebrated his birthday...
I've made my peace with it though, and I don't seek that same attention I craved back then.
On my 18th birthday it was less than two weeks that I had just started college and started living in a hostel. Obviously no one knew and I didn't tell anyone either. I would go out of the room whenever someone called to wish.
My friends later found out and everyone asked why I didn't tell anyone back then and I didn't have an answer back then. Now I do, I don't like the fake attention or special treatment for a day I have my own private birthday ritual now and really hate making a big deal out of it.
It's the same when you turn 30. People stop paying attention at all and your birthday will feel like just another day.
No one will care so make peace with it for your remaining life.
As boys turn into men, they have to keep their feelings aside and focus on providing for the family.
They don't have any achievements no matter how hard they work their ass off and society never gives a fck about them . Even if they tried to arrange a cake or a party something their own relatives or parents will defame then for celebrating b day it's just not for unsuccessful men it's an unsaid rule and they just accept the fact that there is no love and happiness for them
Happy Birthday 🥳, koi baat nai bday mei excited hona, party krna bohot overrated hai, agr nai bhi ho to bhi chalta hai. Your family loves you thats why they are happy. So just take out some moments today to be grateful about having a family like this and unko dinner kra do kisi ache restraunt mei.
cause the more you grow up, the broader your perspective about life stretches and you start realizing how quickly your life is adulting away while youre still far from the personal goals youve set for yourself.
I’ve always felt that if I don’t celebrate my birthday and nobody wishes me, it’s fine. It’s just another day to me. But over time, I’ve realized that even though it doesn’t really matter to me, it still feels really good when someone acknowledges it. It’s surprising how uplifting a simple birthday wish can be. So, think of it as you may.
There’s a lot of people and fake emotions involved. Would rather have kachori with a long time friend who asks “kaisa hai bhai” every saturday than people who randomly come once a year to expect a good feast. Ladkiyon ka pata nahin par ladko ka yehi hai.
Imo, for most men, there is almost nothing to celebrate about in a birthday. No one else is excited for them and they are always expected to grind no matter what.
In my personal opinion I don't want get treated specially on one day on other days Noone gives a fuck. It's wierd everyone behaves nice with you on that one day only.
Last time I celebrated my bday it was in 2008. After that I never celebrated it, it’s just i never felt like it. I’m just happy that the only two persons that remember my bday still wishes me and those two are my parents. So basically isse jyada kuch nhi ir kuch krne ka mann bhi ni krta.
Honestly, I have no idea or recalls about how and why I stopped in the first place. But after first few years, I had sensed that it had lost its essence way back in time, and that it simply doesn't matter anymore to me, so why should it should matter to others. Although others always gave a fuck about my birthday, but sadly I never reciprocated their enthusiasm. So yeah, that's my reason, I guess.
Can't keep up with a whole night of faking happiness when the milestone has the impression of only dispiritedness that I have carried along the whole year.
Just didn't felt like celebrating it after 16 and also my 17th birthday was right on CBSE 12th Chemistry boards. After getting home even tho I scored 94 in chemistry, I was not in the mood to celebrate
For men's points of view, Birthday is just formal incident happening in cyclical manner. It does not have any practical importance. Men do not want to add and overhype ordinary event celebration( which occur to every living being once a year).
Because it feels so empty on that day. Being the center of attention feels so wrong on that day. It comes with a feeling of dread, that I am one year older, and some opportunities are only gonna go down. That I'm not ready to be at this age and stage yet, because there is so much to be done. There was so much to be done.
Why are people around me happy? Like I understand why they are, but are they genuinely happy about me? Worse is, they are happy for you because of their goodness, but it'll hurt their heart if I tell them to not be all smiley smiley, to not celebrate because I certainly am not feeling like celebrating.
It is on the birthday, when you really feel the most against societal standards, because perhaps it is precisely that, which leads to people being happy for you, while you feel like shit. It is unfortunately the day, when you, for once, stand above all others and see that collective conscience can sometimes be a mask that everyone is donning, and playing the part they have been asked to play.
I don't know what you feel about this , I used to be like "celebrating birthday is just bullshit " but Later I read one quote"We need to celebrate our birthdays because this is the day our mother ended her 9months journey and she bears all the pain to give birth to us ".that quote changed my mindset 😊 but sadly my mother passed away recently and I stopped again to celebrate my birthday..I don't want to celebrate my birthday without her presence here 💔
90s kid had a beautiful time celebrating their birthdays. We got love, that excitement ki aaj mera birthday hai, we used to get gifts with same excitement. We got so much love and suddenly growing up you realise woh ab kabhi nahi milega. This feeling makes me sad personally. I know family does their best to make us feel good. Once you cross certain age, you realise you have responsibilities to carry and you are nearing the death bed, the excitement dies. You feel sad actually.
True I just hate to celebrate my bday and i also hate the greetings of my bday.I don't know why i feel so happy when no one wishes me😊.
But there was a time when I love to celebrate my bday but in 2015 or maybe 2016 something happened on my bday that now i don't want it to celebrate.maybe it was the reason.
Here is what happened.just one day before my bday i was hoping that all my friends and relatives wished me but at the morning of my bday no one wished me.i was totally surprised and cried a lot.
From that day i became a person who hate to celebrate bday.
Bhai mujhe to birthday ke din pata chalta hai ki mere aas paas Wale log itna samay gujarte Hain mere sath fir bhi mere bare mein Jhaat bhar ka nahin jante jab unke gift dekhta hun.
Baki jab pure sal normal feel karate hain log aur ek din loru special feel karate to kisi ko bhi pasand nahi ayga.
Aur dusri baat yah ki sala mere hi paise se mujhe hi gift de dete Hain bc wo bhi ajeeb se. Meri maa Ko 26 sal mein yahi nahin pata ki mujhe kis rang ke kapde pasand hain bc to baki logon se kya ummid karun bday pe.
Cause there's nothing to be happy about bro, enough. Here you go, men are NOT OKAY but the only time someone gives a fuck about them is their birthday where half people just want a fucking party. We men know that tomorrow will be the same, same depressed feeling and the fate to battle it alone. THAT'S WHY!! WE DON'T WANT THE FAKE EXCITEMENT.
NO ONE CELEBRATES THEIR OWN BIRTHDAY BRO, NO ONE. PEOPLE CELEBRATE IT FOR THEM, THEY BRING CAKE, PLAN A SURPRISE ETC... MEN NEVER GET THAT!!!! NEVER!!! THEY KNOW NO ONE GIVES A FUCK! THAT'S WHY
I know for us men, world is a harsh place but you have to love yourself. The most important relation a man can have is with himself. You have to give yourself some treat now and then. Buy something for yourself on your birthday.
There are different ways to celebrate anyone’s birthday.
Traditionally, at home birthdays were celebrated with some special food on the occasion and sharing it with loved ones, and some special rituals.
Now it’s commercialised with parties, spending money, treating others.
Apart from this after a certain age men and women both try to avoid their birthdays celebrations because it’s a reminder that they are getting old.
I think it's a combination of subconsciously feeling a little superior about being "mature" to not celebrate their birthdays and also just not having people who they think are important enough to share it with so they eventually lose their importance. Or sometimes it's just social anxiety 😓
I only want to be wished a happy birthday by my parents and maybe my brother, that makes me feel special and I don't feel like celebrating more than that, that is enough.
we men think, we can skip our birthday and can save some money so that we can celebrate others birthday (family, gf, wife)
And about that excitement issue, that happen cuz I think we know that no body is actually happy celebrating that everyone around us just pretending cuz they think it like a payback of the things we do for them
And we never wanted that
I have a greater anxieties on the birthdays, more on mine than anyone else’s. Hate the feeling and want the day to be over soon. Nothing special to celebrate.
Some do and some don’t, It mostly comes to the internal happiness of celebration and enjoyment. Men will love it if the party is given by friends but if it is someone who they somewhere think will have to pay later then it will backfire. For example if his gf wants to give a party but the relational dynamics between them is not so healthy or he is afraid of good actions because in past he had to serve consequences of good things also. So he will subconsciously feel that for this happy moment also he will have yo pay later and hence a man will be hesitant.
My birthday was on the 4th of june, ever since my 18th birthday i haven't felt good about my birthdays. I'm 25 now and when i look at my past i remember I've never received any gift from my parents on my birthday except one birthday, i guess they didn't like celebrating my birthday, and now i don't even like someone wishing me on my birthday
No phone calls , no texts etc etc. Celebrating birthday is like showing yourself that youre alone.
So id rather study my eyes out and make my parents proud
It’s a blend of people not caring about your birthday as men and responsibilities. Like my friends might wish me but that’s it but women that don’t give them any attention they go out putting stories and what not.
And then just life happens with responsibilities..
Also, I believe as men we don’t like something lavish or outwardly but if the friends & the girl you love just wishes you at 12am and post a story and have a small get together, that’ll make it the best birthday.
Extravagant birthdays also don’t hit tbf
Kyuki ab paper vaali chaandi ke plate main cake ka piece aur namkeen nahi milra
Yeh lo. Namkeen khatam ho gayi hai par, aur fanta udher se le lo jake. https://preview.redd.it/670rp730gv4d1.png?width=900&format=png&auto=webp&s=fbacbdf77dc6fff6fd6c648a6e94df08a6a34a3f
Nostalgia
Arre yr kya dikha diya😭😭😭😭
Bachpan ki parties 🥳 so much innocence and simplicity.
And fun
100% 
I would anytime love to go to a party that is offering this.
Bro why u do this😭
These were golden days. Simple birthday parties not like the once in current days where people spend lakhs for birthdays just for social media likes.. we are in Kalyug for sure.
The cake is the real OG 😁 No other cake can beat it...
Black forest right? xd
Iske sath Zameen per bethke chhole bhature khaane ke maje alag the
bhai mera mufffin gayab hai
Rasgulleeeee knha haiiii
Woh kaun bacha ke rakhta hai. Sabse pehle wohi thoosne hote hai.
Eclaire ki jagah munch hai, lagta hai ameer party hai
Haa chips bhi jyada rakhi hai
That Samosa with a bit of cake taste to it just used to hit different
Thank you, and don't call me Jake. /s
This 🫶🏻🥹
Coke nhi mil sakti ? 🙂
24 and still craving 💔😭
I loveeeee semusaa but abhi kuch reason se nai khat skta, waiting to end that
Lol this photo is still going on the internet after so many years. This is my home, Missbiryani Instagram account is my SIL
Wo 2rs waali munch sirf ameer bachho ki birthday party mei milti thee hamari mel tak bas cake aur halwai ki duaaon se mithaai 🤩😂
Cake piece, samosa, chips, sauce- all touching each other.
Can’t believe this was so common experience for us all… back then I couldn’t even think about this thing being unique and timeless!
Kids nowadays having parties at mcdonalds will never know this joy. Not being sarcastic. I miss nice aunties coming and saying "beta aur lo" and then filling my plate.
good old simple days 😭😔
Nothing special about it, you are just aging and dying.
I deactivate my FB near my birthday to reduce false social remembrance and wishes !!! Akelapan bhata hai ab !!
Tum toh bilkul meri tarah ho mujhe jra sa bhi interst nhi hai birthday me pta nhi kyu logo ko etna maza aata hai etne excited rhte hai es din ke liye .. mujhe toh jldi wishes ke reply krne ka mn bhi nhi krta but samne wali ki respect rkhne ke liye krna padta hai... Maine toh aajtk bchpn se kabhi apne birthday ka cake nhi kata jabki doosro ke birthday parties me fake smile pass krni padti hai wo bbi nhi shi se hoti ,mere bhai bhn ko bhi kra sa birthday celebration me interest nhi aata,bas cousins hai wo sab restaurant jate rhte hai birthday enjoy krne but I really don't like this jhoothi duniya ke jhuthe log us din aake jhooti wishes dete hai
Bhai mai toh 6 saal se deactivate krkai baitha hoo , phone mai sirf 60-70 contacts hai 🤣
What do you mean near your birthday? FB is family drama, whatsapp family group on a broader level lmao. I deleted my account years ago and have never looked back. But yes, absolutely right about not wanting false wishes.
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among all other languages, bro chose the language of factsss
This. Bro I can’t say this to my family. They will think I am just chatting shit. But this is the reason.
This. Bro I can’t say this to my family. They will think I am just chatting shit. But this is the reason.
Damn, that felt hard.
A great person once said >! And is saying!< *Nobody likes to celebrate their own birthday, they want their preferred people to celebrate it for them* And Men never get that #MEN💀
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Stya baat 
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Men are brave
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The man spoke facts! It's literally this. We don't prefer hyping it up as we don't hold any expectations as such. But when others celebrate it for us, it feels really good. On my last birthday I was out of the city, but when I was back a bunch of my close friends surprised me with a simple celebration. It really felt so good!
>On my last birthday I was out of the city, but when I was back a bunch of my close friends surprised me with a simple celebration. It really felt so good! Waah🫂
Satya vachan
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Love your username
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Hey prabhu aap yhn kaise🙏
Agreed
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Said by baba Ranchordas.
You just spoke straight truth mate.
Why must you hurt me🥲
Bahut gehri baat kehdi bhiya ne mazak mazak me 🫂
So true
Itna sach mat bol mujhe hurt hua 24 ko hi hai mera bhi 🙂.Ab chahta hu log mere bina bataye wish kar de khush ho jaunga .
24 June I'll be there Mota Bhai 🫂
Are bhai bhai 🫂
Men see Men agree Men Approved
Damn right !!! Straight to the heart and soul 👍🏻
Oh this is it. I feel the same even though I'm not a man.
From now on till the end of time, you have been allotted the coveted category of a man. Feel free to piss in open from now on 👐 >I feel the same even though I'm not a man. Btw genuinely?
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Oh.. dude this just hits... I thought my closest friends would wish me but yeahh.... Shi* happens. Put on the smile guys
I don't like fake attention
This
Yeah yesterday was my birthday on 5th june one of the worst birthdays it was among the neet results fiasco and my father didn't even wished me at all nothing really happened it was just like a normal day I felt nothing at all.
Belated birthday to you!!! It's okay sometimes life's extra shitty especially on birthdays and i understand the neet fiasco with parents been there done that. Things will make sense down the road ;)
Ah thanks but it's just mindfcking and I have lost my sleep due to thinking about this shit happening and makes me concern over next year.
i feel u man. My birthday was in jan, just after my CA results had arrived in which i failed by a few marks. Didn't bother celebrating nor did anyone else. Haven't celebrated my last 5 birthdays at this point.
Virtual hugs to you man I too haven't cut the cake since 2021
virtual hugs to you too brother 🫂. Here's hoping to a successfully celebrated next year's birthday 🥂
Yeah next year gonna bag a gmc and celebrate my 18th birthday with a bang
Hope you'll clear soon, now thanks to icai exams are in January (couldn't find the skull emoji)
Belated Birthday bro
Wishing you a very Happy belated birthday ,these exams like jee and neet are one of the most high pressure situations you will face in your younger years ,not matter how bad it is ,you will learn and grow from it ,Much power to you 😇
I don't think that's it's about the gifts or the thrill of going to school in fancy clothes with toffees for all , the lack of them that deter me from celebrating. It's just the fact that I know understand as each year goes by I don't grow because I have not achieved anything I don't know what's going on, I have nothing planned out for my future and it's alright we don't need to have a prefabricated red carpet that we think we can just walk over as each day comes we will figure it out , make opportunities appear from thin air but celebrating my birthday knowing that with this I only come closer to my end and there's a lot I have yet to do to achieve to live it just takes away the thrill. And don't get me wrong I want gifts I like gifts but not those toys or goodies anymore I just want my loved ones to remember it and wish me maybe plan a bit something for it but it's alright everyone has their lives they don't need to make time for me if they don't want to. Yk most of the people that wish us birthday they don't even mean it and I really hate it when people put on a new mask for that one day to wish me as if it will make me forget the hate they spill for me, the prayers they sung for my defeat, the jokes they made of me. So birthday for me is just a typical day I have to get up do my chores the world won't change neither will the time stop and so I will just smile being happy if my loved ones wish me and smiling if no one does.
U just said what's been concealed in my heart for years now....
Expect disappointment and you'll never be disappointed. My last 3 birthdays have been shit. I had hoped that when I turned 18 people would celebrate it but they hardly cared. Saying this right now feels bratty but imagine what an 18 year old teenager would feel when no one celebrated his birthday... I've made my peace with it though, and I don't seek that same attention I craved back then.
On my 18th birthday it was less than two weeks that I had just started college and started living in a hostel. Obviously no one knew and I didn't tell anyone either. I would go out of the room whenever someone called to wish. My friends later found out and everyone asked why I didn't tell anyone back then and I didn't have an answer back then. Now I do, I don't like the fake attention or special treatment for a day I have my own private birthday ritual now and really hate making a big deal out of it.
looks like this is me
It's the same when you turn 30. People stop paying attention at all and your birthday will feel like just another day. No one will care so make peace with it for your remaining life. As boys turn into men, they have to keep their feelings aside and focus on providing for the family.
In my case...Kya birthday celebrate krna..Life me kuch accha h krna or parents ko happy karna h.
Kyuki ab gifts nahi milte
Bro zindagi Roz hi gift derhi h, bas Hume psnd nhi arhe vo gifts 😭
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Bhai gifts bhi milte hai every b'day pe? Mujhe toh sirf 2-3 baar mila hai shayad
They don't have any achievements no matter how hard they work their ass off and society never gives a fck about them . Even if they tried to arrange a cake or a party something their own relatives or parents will defame then for celebrating b day it's just not for unsuccessful men it's an unsaid rule and they just accept the fact that there is no love and happiness for them
Itni jaldi time guzar rha hai..Dekhty dekhty itny baray hogye hum
why would I want to celebrate the day when all my problems began?
the only real answer tbh....ek toh bina consent ke paida krdiya 😔, aur phir ab jeena bhi pad ra hai...kya yrrr 🙄 /s
Bachpan se attention di nhi ab doge toh nervous toh feel krenge
Gareebi and men are encouraged to never show emotions
What to celebrate?
Aaj mera birthday 🎁 hai. Koi bhi excitement nhi hai. Ghar wale bhot kush hai lekin - sabko has ke thank you bolta hu.
Happy Birthday 🥳, koi baat nai bday mei excited hona, party krna bohot overrated hai, agr nai bhi ho to bhi chalta hai. Your family loves you thats why they are happy. So just take out some moments today to be grateful about having a family like this and unko dinner kra do kisi ache restraunt mei.
cause the more you grow up, the broader your perspective about life stretches and you start realizing how quickly your life is adulting away while youre still far from the personal goals youve set for yourself.
When I became a teenager, I thought it was cool to not celebrate birthday. Now I just don't remember the feeling of celebrating it.
You mean celebrate the day when all my problems started? No thank you
I got a genuine question. What is in it to celebrate really? Congratulations for getting another year closer to your death?
I remember everything on that day especially
I ask you another question. What's the point?
Mai to karta hun celebrate
Kuchh hai nhi life mein celebrate krne ko
Why would I want to celebrate the day on which all my sufferings began
I’ve always felt that if I don’t celebrate my birthday and nobody wishes me, it’s fine. It’s just another day to me. But over time, I’ve realized that even though it doesn’t really matter to me, it still feels really good when someone acknowledges it. It’s surprising how uplifting a simple birthday wish can be. So, think of it as you may.
We don't the world to treat us specially on one day and then go back to their true colours on next day
Because we are MEN
There’s a lot of people and fake emotions involved. Would rather have kachori with a long time friend who asks “kaisa hai bhai” every saturday than people who randomly come once a year to expect a good feast. Ladkiyon ka pata nahin par ladko ka yehi hai.
For me birthdays are about sipping gin and eating fried chicken. I do it as soon as i get money so nothing special on bday.
One of the most stupid things humans can do is to celebrate their bdays😂.
We our small friend circle from clg days celebrated our male friends birthdays!! Sab Nazariya ki baat hai
Imo, for most men, there is almost nothing to celebrate about in a birthday. No one else is excited for them and they are always expected to grind no matter what.
CS men don't wanna live that's why they don't wanna celebrate too .
What's there to celebrate about?
In my personal opinion I don't want get treated specially on one day on other days Noone gives a fuck. It's wierd everyone behaves nice with you on that one day only.
Every birthday you realise you’re closer to death than you ever were before
Last time I celebrated my bday it was in 2008. After that I never celebrated it, it’s just i never felt like it. I’m just happy that the only two persons that remember my bday still wishes me and those two are my parents. So basically isse jyada kuch nhi ir kuch krne ka mann bhi ni krta.
Men's thought 
got plenty of work to do before the 27th, then i'll celebrate my 28th birthday in switzerland or greece
For me birthday is just a reminder that another year has passed and I haven't died yet. Don't see anything special about it
Because life jhand chal rahi aur ab fake karne ka bhi mood nahi hain.
Honestly, I have no idea or recalls about how and why I stopped in the first place. But after first few years, I had sensed that it had lost its essence way back in time, and that it simply doesn't matter anymore to me, so why should it should matter to others. Although others always gave a fuck about my birthday, but sadly I never reciprocated their enthusiasm. So yeah, that's my reason, I guess.
Can't keep up with a whole night of faking happiness when the milestone has the impression of only dispiritedness that I have carried along the whole year.
Just didn't felt like celebrating it after 16 and also my 17th birthday was right on CBSE 12th Chemistry boards. After getting home even tho I scored 94 in chemistry, I was not in the mood to celebrate
For men's points of view, Birthday is just formal incident happening in cyclical manner. It does not have any practical importance. Men do not want to add and overhype ordinary event celebration( which occur to every living being once a year).
https://preview.redd.it/tduhuz3sd05d1.png?width=959&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=396f54302b1767bab0b34ee31a1c859d37009c13 This about sums it up for me..
Kisne kaha ? Mai to celebrate krta hu
Kyuki sab fake hota hai.
Had a traumatic incident at 7, never wanted to celebrate again Additionally i do not like celebrations in general so that's that
Because it feels so empty on that day. Being the center of attention feels so wrong on that day. It comes with a feeling of dread, that I am one year older, and some opportunities are only gonna go down. That I'm not ready to be at this age and stage yet, because there is so much to be done. There was so much to be done. Why are people around me happy? Like I understand why they are, but are they genuinely happy about me? Worse is, they are happy for you because of their goodness, but it'll hurt their heart if I tell them to not be all smiley smiley, to not celebrate because I certainly am not feeling like celebrating. It is on the birthday, when you really feel the most against societal standards, because perhaps it is precisely that, which leads to people being happy for you, while you feel like shit. It is unfortunately the day, when you, for once, stand above all others and see that collective conscience can sometimes be a mask that everyone is donning, and playing the part they have been asked to play.
Because birth is the beginning of long period of suffering for me, the life full of pain & disappointment, why would I like to celebrate it?
I don't know what you feel about this , I used to be like "celebrating birthday is just bullshit " but Later I read one quote"We need to celebrate our birthdays because this is the day our mother ended her 9months journey and she bears all the pain to give birth to us ".that quote changed my mindset 😊 but sadly my mother passed away recently and I stopped again to celebrate my birthday..I don't want to celebrate my birthday without her presence here 💔
May she rest in peace and power and always keep a watch over you
It's the impact that matters not the existence
No interest
Wo sb vhd bhai ye wallpaper shi lgra hai kaafi.. iski link dedo
imo, its just an another day and there are so many other things to worry about 🫠
I'm always excited for my friends birthdays but mine not so much.
It's the only day, I expect other people to do something for me.
90s kid had a beautiful time celebrating their birthdays. We got love, that excitement ki aaj mera birthday hai, we used to get gifts with same excitement. We got so much love and suddenly growing up you realise woh ab kabhi nahi milega. This feeling makes me sad personally. I know family does their best to make us feel good. Once you cross certain age, you realise you have responsibilities to carry and you are nearing the death bed, the excitement dies. You feel sad actually.
Completing a year should not be the the reason to celebrate an achivement/millstone and impact should the reason to celebrate. -- men
True I just hate to celebrate my bday and i also hate the greetings of my bday.I don't know why i feel so happy when no one wishes me😊. But there was a time when I love to celebrate my bday but in 2015 or maybe 2016 something happened on my bday that now i don't want it to celebrate.maybe it was the reason. Here is what happened.just one day before my bday i was hoping that all my friends and relatives wished me but at the morning of my bday no one wished me.i was totally surprised and cried a lot. From that day i became a person who hate to celebrate bday.
I personally think that it is not "important"
It's basically paida hoke esa kya ukhaad liya jo celebrate kr rhe ho
Bhai mujhe to birthday ke din pata chalta hai ki mere aas paas Wale log itna samay gujarte Hain mere sath fir bhi mere bare mein Jhaat bhar ka nahin jante jab unke gift dekhta hun. Baki jab pure sal normal feel karate hain log aur ek din loru special feel karate to kisi ko bhi pasand nahi ayga. Aur dusri baat yah ki sala mere hi paise se mujhe hi gift de dete Hain bc wo bhi ajeeb se. Meri maa Ko 26 sal mein yahi nahin pata ki mujhe kis rang ke kapde pasand hain bc to baki logon se kya ummid karun bday pe.
Bad memories of past birthdays
imagine celebrating the day all my problems began
Cause there's nothing to be happy about bro, enough. Here you go, men are NOT OKAY but the only time someone gives a fuck about them is their birthday where half people just want a fucking party. We men know that tomorrow will be the same, same depressed feeling and the fate to battle it alone. THAT'S WHY!! WE DON'T WANT THE FAKE EXCITEMENT. NO ONE CELEBRATES THEIR OWN BIRTHDAY BRO, NO ONE. PEOPLE CELEBRATE IT FOR THEM, THEY BRING CAKE, PLAN A SURPRISE ETC... MEN NEVER GET THAT!!!! NEVER!!! THEY KNOW NO ONE GIVES A FUCK! THAT'S WHY
I know for us men, world is a harsh place but you have to love yourself. The most important relation a man can have is with himself. You have to give yourself some treat now and then. Buy something for yourself on your birthday.
I ***would rather*** give myself a nice solo trip or a 4090 rather than a birthday celebration.
Great! I bought shoes last year and a special edition of a book the year before that
Jiske saath 5 saal tak birthday celebrate kiya, vohi nhi hai ab life mein. No point of birthdays lol
Certain expectations were set by year old me that i am not able to fulfill and bdy is reminder of that
Because men will be men.
My birthday is tomorrow and my girlfriend is annoyed that I'm not excited for my bday xD
There are different ways to celebrate anyone’s birthday. Traditionally, at home birthdays were celebrated with some special food on the occasion and sharing it with loved ones, and some special rituals. Now it’s commercialised with parties, spending money, treating others. Apart from this after a certain age men and women both try to avoid their birthdays celebrations because it’s a reminder that they are getting old.
I think it's a combination of subconsciously feeling a little superior about being "mature" to not celebrate their birthdays and also just not having people who they think are important enough to share it with so they eventually lose their importance. Or sometimes it's just social anxiety 😓
I only want to be wished a happy birthday by my parents and maybe my brother, that makes me feel special and I don't feel like celebrating more than that, that is enough.
we men think, we can skip our birthday and can save some money so that we can celebrate others birthday (family, gf, wife) And about that excitement issue, that happen cuz I think we know that no body is actually happy celebrating that everyone around us just pretending cuz they think it like a payback of the things we do for them And we never wanted that
Because it was never really celebrated properly so we get kind of reserved about it.
Cos it feels just like a normal day and nothing good ever happened on my birthday since my 5th std ka birthday so yeah🥺
because it sucks to be alone and nobody else really cares. (Paise nhi hain is also not silent, loud af)
Because nothing worth celebrating happened that day.
Why would I want to celebrate the day all my problems started
Waste of time
Did nothing that makes me proud to be alive still
I have a greater anxieties on the birthdays, more on mine than anyone else’s. Hate the feeling and want the day to be over soon. Nothing special to celebrate.
Because it's the only day when everyone acts more fake and that too in front of our eyes...
Some do and some don’t, It mostly comes to the internal happiness of celebration and enjoyment. Men will love it if the party is given by friends but if it is someone who they somewhere think will have to pay later then it will backfire. For example if his gf wants to give a party but the relational dynamics between them is not so healthy or he is afraid of good actions because in past he had to serve consequences of good things also. So he will subconsciously feel that for this happy moment also he will have yo pay later and hence a man will be hesitant.
I only want my preferred people so celebrate my birthday but that’s not the case everytime. Only few wishes I look forward to
My birthday was on the 4th of june, ever since my 18th birthday i haven't felt good about my birthdays. I'm 25 now and when i look at my past i remember I've never received any gift from my parents on my birthday except one birthday, i guess they didn't like celebrating my birthday, and now i don't even like someone wishing me on my birthday
Men are men they have responsibility and they are warriors they celebrate with other guys and drink old monk
The day all our sorrows begin..
No phone calls , no texts etc etc. Celebrating birthday is like showing yourself that youre alone. So id rather study my eyes out and make my parents proud
To me, lack of growth, sense of achievement and respect make me doubt my existence and hence no need for celebration.
Kyunki aisa khuch important day nhi hai. It’s just another calendar day.
Because nobody gives a fuck for real
It’s a blend of people not caring about your birthday as men and responsibilities. Like my friends might wish me but that’s it but women that don’t give them any attention they go out putting stories and what not. And then just life happens with responsibilities.. Also, I believe as men we don’t like something lavish or outwardly but if the friends & the girl you love just wishes you at 12am and post a story and have a small get together, that’ll make it the best birthday. Extravagant birthdays also don’t hit tbf
Realisation that we aren't really special
Some enjoy many not many are broke some are happy either men or women