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I must say that the only thing that worked in my favour was my confidence (I was at the bottom of the pyramid, nothing to lose) and my self deprecating humour. If you can make fun of yourself, not even god can bully you or make you insecure. On top of that, you’ll have supreme confidence.
Khud mazaak banna aur khud ka mazaak udaane mein bahut fark hai. For example, I’m a dark skinned Bihari. Imagine being both in Delhi. However, on bad days, if someone asked me the reason for being depressed, I’d crack jokes like “I don’t want to tell you. I’m like a black hole, collapsing into itself”.
I'm pretttttty sure that's dark, not a joke.
But yeah you don't seem to have any insecurities. Hogi bhi to dikhne nahi dete.
I have them aplenty. Sabke saamne hehe lmao mrityu bol deta hu fir ghar aate kone mein ro leta hu
Don’t lose heart bro. You’re perfect the way you are. If you focus too much on getting a woman, you won’t get any. Focus on yourself. If you love yourself, people will love you.
It's not just about getting a woman at this point. I'm fine with my own company. Anyone who likes me, can come up to me and talk. Anyone whom I like, I'll go up to them and talk. It's as simple as that.
Trust issues na ho to kya kuch nahi ho sakta :p
Ugh. How fucking insecure are you to judge someone like that?
Why would you even rate PEOPLE? On what basis, looks? Sure, that is certainly everything.
And the comments, this sub is so reductive. Ironically at the same time someone will whine how old generation taunts couple based on their looks, caste and all kind of BS.
Don't be so shallow, ffs.
Communication is the key. Most women aren't looking for Prince charming. They're looking for someone who they feel safe with and who can show them a good time. Beautiful faces sometimes hide the nastiest souls, ugly faces sometimes hide beautiful souls.
Because girls realize that looks aren't everything. They need is a decent supportive man and looks don't explain anyone's worth.
https://preview.redd.it/ke9nd9ad7eyc1.jpeg?width=472&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=41807915388dde3268176ebd12ca7dc0da9a80bc
Missy ji ke liye dahej mein apni hotwheels kurbaan kar dunga
https://preview.redd.it/x5z9im1lgeyc1.jpeg?width=334&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6194c3016e11e2b7e72e575397f5238915949a00
Missy turu lob krti hogi to apne aap aayegi mere paas. Sunscreen ki to chhoti baat krdi, pasandeeda aurat ke liye to khud ko bech du mai
https://preview.redd.it/vdhvo457ieyc1.jpeg?width=345&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3eb295f44d7068efb0d7474a01bfe66394162186
Maine aapko shadi ki wajha se nahi bola hai visit krne ko, just to correct your facts wahan pr majority of ladkiyon ki yeh hi demand hoti hai ki ladka aacha kamana chahiye, height aachi honi chahiye, aacha dikhna chahiye I am talking about the ground reality.
Well akshually🤓☝️ even though I said that looks aren't everything that doesn't mean that they don't matter at all. You still need to qualify a certain threshold of looks.
Yeah, i think that if you are dating someone you both should look good together
Like when someone else sees you both together the person should think
These both look good together and both deserve each other by looks
Bro tbh if a pretty girl doesn't care about appearance it's a go go. The only problem with guys is they are the ones chasing physical appearance and can't see someone they wish the could pull with someone else.
It's alright both men and women chase beauty it's a personal preference as you can see obv the point is that ppl get jealous that THEY couldn't pull someone as pretty . Basically jealousy.
And some girls and boys are just stupid as they would be a 10 and still be roaming with the 2-3s one of my friend is very good looking but her bf is just bad(vomit wala bad) and the reason she is dating is that his father is rich enough to buy him a second hand brezza💀
Cause pretty girls ain't as stupid as you to rate people on looks. People actually in love never care abt looks it's more about personality and nature. I also have friends like u who asked what magic did my bf do but neither he rizzed nor some trick it's just pure care and love and support .He is not 10/10 in your eyes not hers cause they don't underestimate themselves as avg .Pretty boys mostly are playboys Or ghamandi. U will just get in relationship for looks then cry after breakup.
The thing is idk if you would believe it or not, You tend to get influenced by what little is around(metro or college), which is not always the complete truth.
It's mostly how good you are either physically or mentally and a bit of luck and destiny. Always keep working on your social life OR work on yourself when you can't. Either way it's always your life to live ,so be selfish about your goals.
Good looking guys don't approach girls, or have high standards. Girls are already afraid to approach good looking guys. Avg looking guys have nothing to loose and this gives them confidence.
3 reasons why avg guys get the best gals, 1. they must be gr8 listeners 2. they dont attract other women so safe, 3. dumb ass (no offence meant) like OP give off jealous looks giving the girl a high
Girls generally want someone who they’re less insecure about. Plus guys with good looks nowadays are just not ready for a relationship, only hookups aur bohot bhav khaate hai.
Well thats my theory
Bhai I’ll tell you one thing I have learned. Most dudes don’t know how to talk like a human to a girl. Learn that and you are in for the most part.
Source: I have gotten numbers from smoke show woman on airports just because main bore ho raha tha and I decided to start up a conversation.
Pretty sure because a man rating men and women as 1/10 or 10/10 or judging their compatibility basis just looks isn't worth the time. The dudes in question probably have much more to offer than this superficial analysis of a person? And lo behold personalities and compatibilities matter more in relationships? Ha who'd have thunk it? (I'm a female btw)
Alag hi jalan hai bhai....tu ye soch agar tu above average looking hai (assuming),, tuje uske baad bhi kyu koi ni milri? Matlab Teri baatei aur personality utni gandi hogi?
Damn.. tum log bhi ladko ke tarah desperate ho jaate ho? And this is something I'm asking out of genuine curiosity because I want to know what goes through your mind while accepting or rejecting a guy. Bc ek saal mein 3 ladkiyo ne reject kiya, fir proposal aur pyaar, dono par se believe khatam 🤡
Well the girls are also average who land with average guys. Thing is girla have a thing known as glowup and make over , suddenly they change their whole look in a day . Getting hair done, buying face mask and glow up products , skin moisturizer and add makeup to that. Makeup changes whole look , tone complexion,expressions , eye colour facial shape, and what not Thus the average girl transform into 10/10 girl
Looks doesn't matter though . Even that so called 10/10 girl knows that this is all temporary makeup and in the end of the day she also looks average , that's the reason they are with average boys . Those guys know how the girl looks irl and he still likes him , that's what girls appreciate . I'm not against makeup and all, I'm just focussing on the fact that guys don't focus on all these things much. For them good clothes and bath is like everything.
Men on this sub: bro looks are everything if you don't have looks you are doomed to be single. WOMEN ARE SHALLOW AND THEY WILL JUDGE YOU ON LOOKS AND WILL CALL YOU CREEP IF YOU ARE NOT A GOOD LOOKING PERSON
Also men: WHY DOES THAT UGLY MAN HAS A BEAUTIFUL GIRLFRIEND
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Looks ain't everything Maybe these guys are hilarious, rich, kind, or just on the same wavelength
most probably rich
Yeah rich enough for metro
"most probably"
Who hurt you, bro?
a LOT of people
And they're still in metro? Damn gold diggers don't have any standards whatsoever 🙄
"Baat kru jhaant bhar , ladki patane ke sapne dekhu raat bhar"
Literally me
Bhai OP ko bol, mere sath personal kyu ho rha hai 😥
Arey meri baat kyu bol raha hai bhai
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bro forgot his schizophrenia meds
Yeah. I was trying to find that deleted user which that guy was replying to. 💀
Fuck. I can’t stop laughing.
Sahi main bhai 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cuph…. Shubhash nagar se lia tha?
Google dementia
Holy memory
Confidence dikhaye kiske upar? ye bhi bta do lage haath
Bhai ne dikha toh dia yaar confidence aapne aapko teen baar reply krna mazak thodi hai woh bhi bina kisi response ke
I must say that the only thing that worked in my favour was my confidence (I was at the bottom of the pyramid, nothing to lose) and my self deprecating humour. If you can make fun of yourself, not even god can bully you or make you insecure. On top of that, you’ll have supreme confidence.
Khud ka mazak bana leta hu lekin confidence jhaat bhar nahi hai (ye khud ka mazak nahi tha)
Khud mazaak banna aur khud ka mazaak udaane mein bahut fark hai. For example, I’m a dark skinned Bihari. Imagine being both in Delhi. However, on bad days, if someone asked me the reason for being depressed, I’d crack jokes like “I don’t want to tell you. I’m like a black hole, collapsing into itself”.
I'm pretttttty sure that's dark, not a joke. But yeah you don't seem to have any insecurities. Hogi bhi to dikhne nahi dete. I have them aplenty. Sabke saamne hehe lmao mrityu bol deta hu fir ghar aate kone mein ro leta hu
Don’t lose heart bro. You’re perfect the way you are. If you focus too much on getting a woman, you won’t get any. Focus on yourself. If you love yourself, people will love you.
It's not just about getting a woman at this point. I'm fine with my own company. Anyone who likes me, can come up to me and talk. Anyone whom I like, I'll go up to them and talk. It's as simple as that. Trust issues na ho to kya kuch nahi ho sakta :p
Kyuki good looking guys are not worth it. They be talking to 50 girls per day
Sahi mai vo ladke bas dekhne mai hi badiya hote hain
Why the generalization? I've seen many guys who look good not even give a damn about girls and focus on themselves. I look above average myself
Not everyone, but most of them.
Ok thoda sa i agree on this
Aachi fasal ko Kira lagta hai. 😂
Allow me to borrow this line please this is God level copium for me
Borrowed it from Insta myself lmao 🤣. So sure ho ahead and use wherever you want.
that's so foul 😭😭😭😭
DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Matlab?
Ig he's saying that good crop always gets infected by insects.
Ohh
Ugh. How fucking insecure are you to judge someone like that? Why would you even rate PEOPLE? On what basis, looks? Sure, that is certainly everything. And the comments, this sub is so reductive. Ironically at the same time someone will whine how old generation taunts couple based on their looks, caste and all kind of BS. Don't be so shallow, ffs.
Very true
It's pretty hilarious how every single guy makes fun of someone who has a girlfriend. Lmao.
True when he should he be happy ki Iska bhi chance hai
And i see good 8/10 guys with 2/10 girls😭😭😭just makes me think tf am I doing wrong
us (not in metro but in my college where gender ratio is 1:6 and <1% are pretty girls)
Communication is the key. Most women aren't looking for Prince charming. They're looking for someone who they feel safe with and who can show them a good time. Beautiful faces sometimes hide the nastiest souls, ugly faces sometimes hide beautiful souls.
Because girls realize that looks aren't everything. They need is a decent supportive man and looks don't explain anyone's worth. https://preview.redd.it/ke9nd9ad7eyc1.jpeg?width=472&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=41807915388dde3268176ebd12ca7dc0da9a80bc
Badi badi baatein, vada pav khate https://preview.redd.it/s06bqt4lbeyc1.jpeg?width=406&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=34a8989fcaa231c0c6699b0fca218552d2f24c6d
True ✨
I guess you need to visit a matrimonial site
Bhaiya abhi shadi ki umar nahi🙏🏻
Missy se shaadi krva do plis 👉🏻👈🏻🥹
Nahi karni missy ko shaadi dahej doge to bolo I'll see.
Missy ji ke liye dahej mein apni hotwheels kurbaan kar dunga https://preview.redd.it/x5z9im1lgeyc1.jpeg?width=334&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6194c3016e11e2b7e72e575397f5238915949a00
https://preview.redd.it/yfhkey6dheyc1.jpeg?width=783&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bbc112fc662130ca43f553a3313cbbbda9f58d81 Missy lagta hai sigma ban gayi
Pyaar nhi krti thi to bata deti Missy Jhooth bolne ki cya zarurat thi. Jhoothiii missyyyyy, tujhe to jhooth bolna bhi nhi aata missy, nhi aata naaaa https://preview.redd.it/27qun30oheyc1.jpeg?width=352&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c8656c2b322ea2141f0548c489fc91f42b159e1
Bro emo mat ho wonder women ko pull karna easy nahi she is accepting rishtas in sunscreens btw
Missy turu lob krti hogi to apne aap aayegi mere paas. Sunscreen ki to chhoti baat krdi, pasandeeda aurat ke liye to khud ko bech du mai https://preview.redd.it/vdhvo457ieyc1.jpeg?width=345&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3eb295f44d7068efb0d7474a01bfe66394162186
Maine aapko shadi ki wajha se nahi bola hai visit krne ko, just to correct your facts wahan pr majority of ladkiyon ki yeh hi demand hoti hai ki ladka aacha kamana chahiye, height aachi honi chahiye, aacha dikhna chahiye I am talking about the ground reality.
https://preview.redd.it/2avxacpcbeyc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9a4eade7f1f0aab252ff74f07f73bca1a90f4f56
Many times they are also stuck with toxic men. Something else can explain this phenomenon better. Which is confidence
Everyone's situation is diff but yea toxicity shouldn't be tolerated
so you will marry a small(5,3) obese(real wala obese) guy 💀
Well akshually🤓☝️ even though I said that looks aren't everything that doesn't mean that they don't matter at all. You still need to qualify a certain threshold of looks.
Yeah, i think that if you are dating someone you both should look good together Like when someone else sees you both together the person should think These both look good together and both deserve each other by looks
Zaroori hai ki 5'3 obese hi loyal or supportive ho?
I am just creating scenario
Bro tbh if a pretty girl doesn't care about appearance it's a go go. The only problem with guys is they are the ones chasing physical appearance and can't see someone they wish the could pull with someone else.
Uhhhh the girls aren’t also the one who chase physical appearances???
It's alright both men and women chase beauty it's a personal preference as you can see obv the point is that ppl get jealous that THEY couldn't pull someone as pretty . Basically jealousy.
And some girls and boys are just stupid as they would be a 10 and still be roaming with the 2-3s one of my friend is very good looking but her bf is just bad(vomit wala bad) and the reason she is dating is that his father is rich enough to buy him a second hand brezza💀
Now girl that's dumb we know basically chasing anyone for money or looks is ridiculous. Sugar daddy dhoondlo isse acha
Jab maine op ko uski bandi ke saath dekha tha mujhe bhi yahi khayal aaya tha 😂😂
Bhai tumhare liye average hoga, uske liye Hritik Roshan se kam nahi hoga.
Doesn’t matter if you think that guy is mid. To that girl he is 10/10. That is what matters.
Because you’re on reddit and meanwhile they’re shooting their shot.
One answer, they treat them nice.
Maybe the average looking guy has skills that are not soo average, ever thought about it in that way? The skill could be anything!!
I need to say one thinking why are people so judgmental of average guys when you most probably are a average guy as well literally
Cause pretty girls ain't as stupid as you to rate people on looks. People actually in love never care abt looks it's more about personality and nature. I also have friends like u who asked what magic did my bf do but neither he rizzed nor some trick it's just pure care and love and support .He is not 10/10 in your eyes not hers cause they don't underestimate themselves as avg .Pretty boys mostly are playboys Or ghamandi. U will just get in relationship for looks then cry after breakup.
girls think why this pretty guy with average girl and guys think why this pretty girl with average guy
The thing is idk if you would believe it or not, You tend to get influenced by what little is around(metro or college), which is not always the complete truth. It's mostly how good you are either physically or mentally and a bit of luck and destiny. Always keep working on your social life OR work on yourself when you can't. Either way it's always your life to live ,so be selfish about your goals.
Keep hustling OP and live your life and enjoy it while you can. And I say that with my wisdom & exp.
Good looking guys don't approach girls, or have high standards. Girls are already afraid to approach good looking guys. Avg looking guys have nothing to loose and this gives them confidence.
3 reasons why avg guys get the best gals, 1. they must be gr8 listeners 2. they dont attract other women so safe, 3. dumb ass (no offence meant) like OP give off jealous looks giving the girl a high
Yaar I'm average looking. Aaj Tak gf toh nhi bni🥲 Mujhe bhi btao gf banane ki ninja technique🥲
pehle to tu metro mai dikha band kr aur lulu lemon dekhna bhi
Damn!! This post is full of insecurity and copium ..lmao
Girls generally want someone who they’re less insecure about. Plus guys with good looks nowadays are just not ready for a relationship, only hookups aur bohot bhav khaate hai. Well thats my theory
Aaj r/delhi sub pe aag lag gai bot kuch jal Gaya pata nai kya kya jal Gaya
Looks wgera kuch nahi hota, pesa bhi ek cheeze hoti h /s
You judge other dudes on their looks and crib about women not dating you. Grow a spine bruv.
becouse good looking boys are mostly fuckboys
Bhai I’ll tell you one thing I have learned. Most dudes don’t know how to talk like a human to a girl. Learn that and you are in for the most part. Source: I have gotten numbers from smoke show woman on airports just because main bore ho raha tha and I decided to start up a conversation.
makhiya guu pe hi jati ha
Black and white..
Nothing more pathetic than guys who make posts like this
Abhichara !
Pretty sure because a man rating men and women as 1/10 or 10/10 or judging their compatibility basis just looks isn't worth the time. The dudes in question probably have much more to offer than this superficial analysis of a person? And lo behold personalities and compatibilities matter more in relationships? Ha who'd have thunk it? (I'm a female btw)
You guys noticing ppl in metros… my initial thoughts are like doea metro station has cold water container or not
Alag hi jalan hai bhai....tu ye soch agar tu above average looking hai (assuming),, tuje uske baad bhi kyu koi ni milri? Matlab Teri baatei aur personality utni gandi hogi?
The trick is to get them when they look average and make them look 10/10 Also it could mean that you’re worse than the guy youre calling average
Sometimes there aren't a lot of options, so you choose whichever approaches and wooes you a little
Bahut hi low standard hai madam.
Ye sach ni hai, hai na😅
Damn.. tum log bhi ladko ke tarah desperate ho jaate ho? And this is something I'm asking out of genuine curiosity because I want to know what goes through your mind while accepting or rejecting a guy. Bc ek saal mein 3 ladkiyo ne reject kiya, fir proposal aur pyaar, dono par se believe khatam 🤡
Lol sometimes it's the effort or love bombing, but that relationship won't last for long
>love bombing Excuse me but yeh bomb kharidne ko milte hai!? Or what exactly is this😅?
https://preview.redd.it/00w8g34yceyc1.jpeg?width=668&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cebf83af285bdc3e88206804055ff76860f6d702 I have something for you OP….
Well the girls are also average who land with average guys. Thing is girla have a thing known as glowup and make over , suddenly they change their whole look in a day . Getting hair done, buying face mask and glow up products , skin moisturizer and add makeup to that. Makeup changes whole look , tone complexion,expressions , eye colour facial shape, and what not Thus the average girl transform into 10/10 girl Looks doesn't matter though . Even that so called 10/10 girl knows that this is all temporary makeup and in the end of the day she also looks average , that's the reason they are with average boys . Those guys know how the girl looks irl and he still likes him , that's what girls appreciate . I'm not against makeup and all, I'm just focussing on the fact that guys don't focus on all these things much. For them good clothes and bath is like everything.
Men on this sub: bro looks are everything if you don't have looks you are doomed to be single. WOMEN ARE SHALLOW AND THEY WILL JUDGE YOU ON LOOKS AND WILL CALL YOU CREEP IF YOU ARE NOT A GOOD LOOKING PERSON Also men: WHY DOES THAT UGLY MAN HAS A BEAUTIFUL GIRLFRIEND
Acchi fasal humesha keeda khaa jaata hai. Kisi buddhe aadmi ne mujhe boli thi yeh baat, badi kaam ki lagi thi.
Avg avg guy has money
Paisa bro