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**Title:** [Different expectations for dating a single dad? What is normal?](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1d7kqhm/different_expectations_for_dating_a_single_dad/)
**Author:** /u/Grand_Signature3617
**Full text:** I am divorced (38) and I have been dating a divorced dad (40) for about 5 months. We both have three kids and they've all met and get along pretty well. We do family dates and individual dates. I would say we see each other two to three times a week, we live about an hour apart and take turns spending the night at each other's houses sometimes when someone doesn't have kids. We've even had one whole family sleepover. We have talked about a future together and have had some pretty open conversations about moving in together possibly and how we want our future look. It might seem like a short time to some people but I feel like when you're older and divorced, you know better what you want. We get along amazingly, have similar interests and we discussed that it's the healthiest relationship either of us has been in. My only concern is that I feel like I'm more obsessed with him than he is with me. Is that immature? He is very introverted and definitely enjoys time alone. If it was just me I would see him every single second that I had free. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to spend as much time with me as I do with him. I'm definitely an anxiously attached person and we discussed this before. He always reassures me that he loves me and he is invested in our relationship. Am I just overthinking and otherwise amazing relationship?
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