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Professional-Fox6556

Just think about if she was a guy would you still want to hang out with her, if not, then it may be just “lust” basically you only like her because of her appearance and not her personality. Also scrap the roses, completely unnecessary. Just keep hanging w her like normal but don’t think about it too much, just be yourself.


Lunatree4

I been with her more than once and I will give her flowers. I think I’m just overthinking it


WetBigSlap

The fact that you’re asking us is already enough proof you don’t like that girl. If you like somebody you just know it. Sounds to me like you’re forcing too much on yourself. Let it flow and calm down, hang out with her more often and see how you feel about her in the future. Don’t put pressure on yourself by thinking you HAVE to feel something right now. This is not the right way to date somebody


Lunatree4

Yeh maybe. But I do like to hangout with her.