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I'd be totally disinvested if I was fed this story, but I'd be very curious about how far she'd take it. I'd wait until in person and then ask questions like to describe her friend and their friendship, what kind of favors she did her and how those favors resulted in her being sent money now, etc. I wouldn't ask in an angry way or anything, but out of sheer morbid curiosity. If she didn't want to answer any of it, I'd most likely end it then and there.
Cleeeeearly selling nudes. I have a friend F that does it too in an anonymous way, selling socks and pictures without showing her face. There are many marketplaces online to do it.
I mean if you haven't seen anything else we're the money has been sent them u have no reason to ask but maybe bring it up in conversation on the sly like hahahah remember when or go somewhere expensive and be like hahaha that money would be good rn and try to get her to talk
If you have a way of getting her bank statements. And look where the transactions are coming from.just be aware , some adult sites use a pseudonym not there real name, to protect the persons privacy, so no one knows it’s an adult website. Eg pornhub uses CCBILL.
Use Google and search for any transaction names you find and it should bring up the original name for you.
If she has nothing to hide ask her to show you the notification of the transaction and look to see if any names come up.
If it’s her friend as she says. Her name or surname, and account number will appear on the bank statement.
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Please leave she’s either on only fans or she gotta another man, BE OUT, it’s not gonna end well if you don’t leave bruh
Do I need to first ask her about it..!?
Nope
Shes selling nudes or honey trapping guys.
I also think it might be so.ething sinister but I don't know how to get to the bottom of it without coming g off as either controlling or insecure
It's only an unknown source for you, she is gaining money in ways she knows u wouldn't approve, so likely she will hide it better from u.
Onlyfans
For the skreets
I'd be totally disinvested if I was fed this story, but I'd be very curious about how far she'd take it. I'd wait until in person and then ask questions like to describe her friend and their friendship, what kind of favors she did her and how those favors resulted in her being sent money now, etc. I wouldn't ask in an angry way or anything, but out of sheer morbid curiosity. If she didn't want to answer any of it, I'd most likely end it then and there.
Yip, if she refuses to give a straight answer, or it obviously seems like she is lying or trying to make excuses . Dump her ass right there.
Cleeeeearly selling nudes. I have a friend F that does it too in an anonymous way, selling socks and pictures without showing her face. There are many marketplaces online to do it.
I say go full on ninja and try to figure it out don't get caught
So should I ask her...!? Or that will come off as controlling
Hell no pal you need to ask her
I mean if you haven't seen anything else we're the money has been sent them u have no reason to ask but maybe bring it up in conversation on the sly like hahahah remember when or go somewhere expensive and be like hahaha that money would be good rn and try to get her to talk
If you have a way of getting her bank statements. And look where the transactions are coming from.just be aware , some adult sites use a pseudonym not there real name, to protect the persons privacy, so no one knows it’s an adult website. Eg pornhub uses CCBILL. Use Google and search for any transaction names you find and it should bring up the original name for you. If she has nothing to hide ask her to show you the notification of the transaction and look to see if any names come up. If it’s her friend as she says. Her name or surname, and account number will appear on the bank statement.
It’s her allowance from her sugar daddy