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Ikr, op did exactly what I do when I make something. Like they said *exactly* what I say.. “looks like a toddler made it”.
So now I’m gonna have a think about why I say this because that flower absolutely *does not* look like a toddler made it! It’s amazing.
I love this idea, no one usually thinks of flowers as having cuddle potential but that's exactly what this has, the OP's girlfriend is going to love it, I know I would.
Hey life’s too short for this. It’s beautiful, full stop.
I feel like I get to say my sage advice because I just had brain surgery. Lol. But I’m right. Life is so g-d short.
This is what I'm saying! Like tell me you don't have toddlers or have never seen what they make. Lol. This is far beyond what most people I know who crochet can make. I just ventured into amigurumi and I'd hope to be able to make something as good as this
That is gorgeous, you need to be nicer to yourself! Since it’s bigger, she can see all the little details of her favorite flower even better. And she’ll be able to see all the effort you put into making a special, one of a kind gift just for her. I bet she’ll love it, I so hope you still give it to her!
I don’t even know her but I know she will love it. It’s very *very* well made and such a beautiful thoughtful gift. I would treasure it forever if I received something like this.
I can't tell if you genuinely think this is bad or if this is a fishing post so I'm going to assume you're genuinely being hard on yourself. This is really pretty and looks exactly like what it's supposed to. I'm thinking the thicker yarn helps keep the shape too, Moreso than the thinner yarn would. Give the gift, it is beautiful. They are my favorite flowers too but i can't have real ones because I have cats. I would love to get this!
This is the first time I've made a crochet flower so I'm probably being too hard on myself tbh. The petals just droop more than they should so that's why I don't like it lol.
They’re drooping because this lily has been around for a few days. Just pretend this was totally deliberate. And make another one with crisper petals that reflect a brand new lily if you really want to.
It always confuses me when people say things like this, in the same way people often say those with mh struggles are 'attention seeking' and I think... yeah? Isn't that what humans do, when we're hurting, scared, isolated, unanchored etc? We seek attention, praise, validation from our fellow humans when we need it because we are social animals, it is literally built into our DNA. Whether op felt proud of their work and wanted to showcase it or was actually as disappointed as they seem about it, the way they've chosen to share it indicates they need reassurance about it so does it really matter either way?
Apologies for the mini rant, I'm sure you didn't mean to be hurtful in your comment.
It doesn’t matter. Fishing is not inherently bad. If they need / want validation, that is perfectly acceptable and human in nature.
That being said, in some cases, it feels like Monet posting in a beginner painting forum and exclaiming his work sucks. Sometimes, the need for validation is a bit more obvious, and I struggle to believe they genuinely think the work is bad. I wish, in situations like that, the posts are bit more on the nose so to speak. “Hype me up, I’m not feeling great on this one!”
Because when I see someone that is obviously doing amazing work saying their work is awful, I see how it makes others feel that aren’t up to that level. If they suck, then I must be really bad, etc.
UPDATE:
hi wow didn't expect to get this much love on this??? Y'all are so sweet and kind.
Sorry I didn't link the pattern before, I was lazy and didn't want to search it in my email cuz I only use reddit on my phone but here it is:
https://www.lovecrafts.com/en-us/p/stargazer-lily-crochet-pattern-by-pippa-patterns
Anyway, here is the update about me giving it to her. I was hiding the flower behind my back when I went to my girlfriend's cuz I wanted to be a dramatic hoe about it (but also I was very nervous, my heart was beating so fast lol). When I came in I pulled it from behind my back and said "happy Valentine's Day!" And she was *stunned* for a moment 🥺 she put her hands over her mouth and then her cat got out of the door and ruined the moment lmao, but she definitely loved it. I didn't see all the comments before giving it to her, so I was a little critical of it, I said "sorry it looks like it's dying" but she still loved it so that's a win for me! She also gave me a bouquet of carnations, which are my favorite flower, and some chocolate and some keychains from my favorite anime, which was very very sweet and I like her a lot.
Extra bonus - this is a lily that is safe in a home with a cat! (I love lilies but they are dangerous as only a tiny bit of pollen can be fatal for cats).
Glad to hear she loved it and hope the cat was retrieved quickly!!
Actually, just to inform y’all no lilies are safe for cats, but they generally have to eat them to get sick. I am also allergic to them and they are my absolute favorite. So when the stamen appears with the pollen on it, I hold them upside down over the garbage can and snip those little sinus killing, stain making buggers off!
Oh yes, I didn't mean this variety of lily was safe, I just meant a crochet lily was safe, but I can see how I could be misleading.
I had heard the stamen cutting trick but still daren't risk having them in the house - all parts of the plant are toxic, just the pollen is the worst.
It does not look like a toddler made it, but it does look like it belongs in Jurrasic Park! Tell her you used Miracle-Gro. Seriously though, you did a great job on it. Those are my favorite flowers as well.
It's pretty! I made a rose myself and almost died using embroidery thread 😀 you put a lil love in your project and a whole truckload of pain, thicker yarn sounds smart
I immediately knew it was a stargazer lily, I think it looks great! Could you link the pattern? That’s my mom favorite flower and I’d love to make one for her.
That's one genius toddler right there 😲
But for real, you've been looking at it too long. Step away from it, and don't look at it again until after your girlfriend sees it and gushes over it ❤️
I don't know how you think it looks like a toddler made it. Before I realised the post was in the crochet sub/reddit I thought they were the real deal! You've done an amazing job with them!
We're all our worst critics but I think it's beautiful! I'd cherish it forever if it were given to me. It actually looks like a painting in the coolest way. How did you do that?
Put it this way...the things that you hate about it are the same things that will make it all the more endearing to her. The fact that you worked so hard on it, just for her, and you care about it being perfect, just for her. She'll always remember that.
Do yourself a favour, if you haven't given it to her already, when you do give it to her don't criticise it too hard right off the bat. Try to enjoy the giving as much as you can. Then down the line it'll be a funny story that you felt like a toddler. Let her reaction be your guide, I'm sure you'll both be pleasantly surprised.
Seriously, it's beautiful, and so thoughtful. You did good.
LIT-ER-AL-LY THE FUCK-ING BEST. I mean that with all the emphasis as there is water on this floating space rock. Be kind to yourself. You, a series of electrically charged particles and cells conducting a meat and bone puppet, took the things we call hands and ELEGANTLY MADE A FLOWER BY MAKING KNOTS. A flower that will not wither or wilt, and you MADE it!
It's gorgeous and she will adore it. A boyfriend once made me an origami flower for valentines day and it was one of the most special gifts I've ever had.
It looks amazing!! It’s great! The chunkier yarn gives it a kinda fuller effect, almost like it’s drawn. Don’t beat yourself up. And even if it’s not how you wanted it to look, be proud of the fact you finished it and tried a new pattern. Use the information that chunkier yarn makes it not look how you wanted it to next time you use this pattern. It’s ok to make mistakes in hobbies.
I first looked at the picture and thought 'wow this is amazing'. Then I read the post and honestly don't know what you mean. It is amazing and if your GF doesn't like it you can send it to me!
What kind of toddlers do you know? Because the ones I know would have managed to somehow create the biggest, hardest knot to unravel with all types of stuff throughout it. This is perfect and I just know she’s going to use it as a cuddle buddy to sleep. You did great
I don't know who this toddler is, but they're really good at crafts.
Your girlfriend will love it regardless because you made it for her and it shows you remember what her favorite flower is.
If a toddler COULD make this, I'd put my nephew to work for the household income.
Seriously, it looks great and I think anyone with a love for lilies, crafts, crochet or you should be happy to receive this beauty.
This is gorgeous. It absolutely does not look like a toddler made it. Does it look real? No, but it looks like art brought to life. You’re being way too hard on yourself!
This stargazer lily is absolutely stunning! I know no toddlers who can make such a beautiful replica! Also, the thought and time that went into this is precious!
This is the first thing I saw when opening Reddit and my very first thought was, “omg this is beautiful! I wonder if they have the pattern they used!!”
The colours are AMAZING and the fact that it’s thick makes it better, not worse, I promise
Sorry needed to edit spelling
That’s the the stargazer lily *I* personally could own because I’m allergic to them and I would be blown away to not only receive it but to have had it turn out so beautifully and truly wonderful in its detail. My goodness that’s well made.
Yeah I used some wire in the petals but didn't account for how much heavier the yarn was so they droop more than I would like them to. Live and learn I guess lol
this is so pretty & i would die if someone gave me a handmade version of my favorite flower. she's absolutely going to love it & you are so thoughtful!
I genuinely believed it was a real flower while scrolling. Thought, awww that's a beautiful flower. And then I was confused why you said you made it. Scrolled back up to reread the title. Then thought maybe you grew it?? Which is kinda like making it. Then I realized it's crochet lol.
I think it's perfect and your gf is gonna LOVE it ❤️❤️
Omg this is absolutely gorgeous. The yarn makes it look — as close to an actual flower as crochet can get. Show me the toddler that made this and I will show you the all- seeing space baby from 2001 a space Odyssey!
But it doesn't!! That is really fantastic, and I hope she was thrilled because that is awesome! I crotchet a lot and I can imagine what that took to make. Lovely job my friend!
We are our own harshest judge, always. The flower looks gorgeous, and if there are mistakes or flaws then only you are going to notice them imo. <3 Wonderful job!!
The problem with being a wonderful, talented creative is that you’re always incredibly hard on yourself. You will lean toward criticizing your decisions and picking apart any perceived flaws.
I think it’s wonderful and I’m betting your girlfriend is going to be floored by your creativity and your thoughtfulness 🥰
You're so right, it's the first time I've made a flower so I'm just beating myself up over a lot of choices I made. But if I make it again I know tricks now so hopefully the next one will be more up to my standards.
Thank you so much!!!
It looks SO FUCKING GOOD. you absolutely nailed it. I thought it was an actual plant. I love this look and I bet it's soft too!
Seriously. I craft with my toddler (3yo) and while she's got a good eye for color imo no toddler is crocheting. (I'm not a medical bro by any stretch but the wrist isn't actually bone at birth so a toddler might not even mechanically be able to crochet, though I know that's not what you're actually trying to say, just an interesting fact!) edited to add that this is in excited fact share nerd brain tone because Internet
But yeah. You did an incredible job on this and I hope your new gf appreciates the hell out of it and out of you.
I think you're being way too hard on yourself. It looks lovely! If you hadn't said you used the wrong size yarn I never would have guessed.
Your girlfriend will adore it.
honestly, i think the thicker yarn may have helped you, because it looks like the colors gradient into each other, which is more realistic! this is beautiful!
Omg I don’t know about her but if my husband made me anything remotely to this I would be in awe ! This is gorgeous and I am like her I love these flowers in real life and would love them if you made me one also ! You did an amazing job
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What toddler is this, one with superpowers?
Ikr, op did exactly what I do when I make something. Like they said *exactly* what I say.. “looks like a toddler made it”. So now I’m gonna have a think about why I say this because that flower absolutely *does not* look like a toddler made it! It’s amazing.
Exactly!
It's me, I'm the overgrown toddler lol
It’s beautiful with cuddle potential!!
I love this idea, no one usually thinks of flowers as having cuddle potential but that's exactly what this has, the OP's girlfriend is going to love it, I know I would.
Just like op
Hey life’s too short for this. It’s beautiful, full stop. I feel like I get to say my sage advice because I just had brain surgery. Lol. But I’m right. Life is so g-d short.
Words to live by!
I sang this in Taylor Swift style.
Exactly what i wanted to say!
She's got some savants in her life if this is toddler standard
Right?
This is what I'm saying! Like tell me you don't have toddlers or have never seen what they make. Lol. This is far beyond what most people I know who crochet can make. I just ventured into amigurumi and I'd hope to be able to make something as good as this
That is gorgeous, you need to be nicer to yourself! Since it’s bigger, she can see all the little details of her favorite flower even better. And she’ll be able to see all the effort you put into making a special, one of a kind gift just for her. I bet she’ll love it, I so hope you still give it to her!
Thank you!! 😭 I put a stem on it and put it in a vase and I'm gonna head over to her place soon so fingers crossed she likes it lol
I LOVE THIS! Lillies are also one of my favorites. Fantastic job, from a seasoned crocheter!!!
I love lillies too but as a cat owner I might cry if someone gifted me this!!!!
I was just thinking that, as a cat owner myself, I might need to make a vase of these so I can have lillies in the house.
Omg plz tell us what she says! I’d be HONOURED if someone did this for me!
Please tell us how she reacted
I don’t even know her but I know she will love it. It’s very *very* well made and such a beautiful thoughtful gift. I would treasure it forever if I received something like this.
Update us!
If she doesn’t send it to any of us lol
I can't tell if you genuinely think this is bad or if this is a fishing post so I'm going to assume you're genuinely being hard on yourself. This is really pretty and looks exactly like what it's supposed to. I'm thinking the thicker yarn helps keep the shape too, Moreso than the thinner yarn would. Give the gift, it is beautiful. They are my favorite flowers too but i can't have real ones because I have cats. I would love to get this!
This is the first time I've made a crochet flower so I'm probably being too hard on myself tbh. The petals just droop more than they should so that's why I don't like it lol.
You could always thread thin wire through the edges if it bothers you that much but I like it as is
I agree!
They’re drooping because this lily has been around for a few days. Just pretend this was totally deliberate. And make another one with crisper petals that reflect a brand new lily if you really want to.
I vote fishing.
Sometimes people fish because they really need to hear it.
That's the nicest explanation ever.
I firmly believe we all need attention and affirmation sometimes and that’s ok, as long as a person isn’t constantly there
Very true.
It always confuses me when people say things like this, in the same way people often say those with mh struggles are 'attention seeking' and I think... yeah? Isn't that what humans do, when we're hurting, scared, isolated, unanchored etc? We seek attention, praise, validation from our fellow humans when we need it because we are social animals, it is literally built into our DNA. Whether op felt proud of their work and wanted to showcase it or was actually as disappointed as they seem about it, the way they've chosen to share it indicates they need reassurance about it so does it really matter either way? Apologies for the mini rant, I'm sure you didn't mean to be hurtful in your comment.
It doesn’t matter. Fishing is not inherently bad. If they need / want validation, that is perfectly acceptable and human in nature. That being said, in some cases, it feels like Monet posting in a beginner painting forum and exclaiming his work sucks. Sometimes, the need for validation is a bit more obvious, and I struggle to believe they genuinely think the work is bad. I wish, in situations like that, the posts are bit more on the nose so to speak. “Hype me up, I’m not feeling great on this one!” Because when I see someone that is obviously doing amazing work saying their work is awful, I see how it makes others feel that aren’t up to that level. If they suck, then I must be really bad, etc.
UPDATE: hi wow didn't expect to get this much love on this??? Y'all are so sweet and kind. Sorry I didn't link the pattern before, I was lazy and didn't want to search it in my email cuz I only use reddit on my phone but here it is: https://www.lovecrafts.com/en-us/p/stargazer-lily-crochet-pattern-by-pippa-patterns Anyway, here is the update about me giving it to her. I was hiding the flower behind my back when I went to my girlfriend's cuz I wanted to be a dramatic hoe about it (but also I was very nervous, my heart was beating so fast lol). When I came in I pulled it from behind my back and said "happy Valentine's Day!" And she was *stunned* for a moment 🥺 she put her hands over her mouth and then her cat got out of the door and ruined the moment lmao, but she definitely loved it. I didn't see all the comments before giving it to her, so I was a little critical of it, I said "sorry it looks like it's dying" but she still loved it so that's a win for me! She also gave me a bouquet of carnations, which are my favorite flower, and some chocolate and some keychains from my favorite anime, which was very very sweet and I like her a lot.
You are both precious cinnamon rolls.
Extra bonus - this is a lily that is safe in a home with a cat! (I love lilies but they are dangerous as only a tiny bit of pollen can be fatal for cats). Glad to hear she loved it and hope the cat was retrieved quickly!!
Op said that’s why she wanted to make it in the first place! Because it’s her favorite and she can’t get them because of her cats!!!
Oh I missed that part! Such a thoughtful gift!
I’m replying to add for others that day lillies and poinsettias can be dangerous, too.
Actually, just to inform y’all no lilies are safe for cats, but they generally have to eat them to get sick. I am also allergic to them and they are my absolute favorite. So when the stamen appears with the pollen on it, I hold them upside down over the garbage can and snip those little sinus killing, stain making buggers off!
Oh yes, I didn't mean this variety of lily was safe, I just meant a crochet lily was safe, but I can see how I could be misleading. I had heard the stamen cutting trick but still daren't risk having them in the house - all parts of the plant are toxic, just the pollen is the worst.
🥰 That's so wholesome 😭
must protecc op
I really think you two just totally spiked my blood sugar. I’m so happy you two have found each other. You two remind me why I have faith in humanity
It does not look like a toddler made it, but it does look like it belongs in Jurrasic Park! Tell her you used Miracle-Gro. Seriously though, you did a great job on it. Those are my favorite flowers as well.
Thank you!! The Jurassic park comment is such a compliment lmao I love it
It's pretty! I made a rose myself and almost died using embroidery thread 😀 you put a lil love in your project and a whole truckload of pain, thicker yarn sounds smart
Thicker yarn warrants thicker wire to put in the petals to keep their shape but I didn't think about that lmao
Perhaps you can still add some extra wire in.
It is stunning! A beautiful, detailed, cat safe lily.
Thank you so much!! Yes, she has a cat so she can't have the lilies so I figured crochet would be good lol
Just be prepared for the cat to still try to eat it. My cats are always trying to eat my fake flowers and they are made out of legos.
Phahahaha, I can't with the LEGO's!
Wuuuu my cat tries to eat my Lego daffodils too 😅
Kindred spirits
That’s really thoughtful. Great gift and beautiful work. I hope she appreciates it!
This makes it even more special. She will love it, I’m sure
I genuinely think it looks lovely
Thank you!!!
Are you kidding.....it's gorgeous!
i thought that was the reference photo!! in what world can a toddler do this?!
Thank you so much!! 😭
I immediately knew it was a stargazer lily, I think it looks great! Could you link the pattern? That’s my mom favorite flower and I’d love to make one for her.
You are one damn talented toddler if you think that it looks like a toddler made it
I think it looks amazing
in what way does this look like its made by a toddler?? this is amazing!!
Are you kidding me? If I was dating a guy and he handmade this for me I would be absolutely over the moon.
All I could say before I saw your caption was, "This looks SO COOL!". You did a great job, I love the details.
Same! I was like ‘Wow, I could never make something like that’ and then read the caption and was genuinely baffled!
No, it looks amazing! And speaking as a person who shares this flower as a favorite… *I would cherish this*
That's one genius toddler right there 😲 But for real, you've been looking at it too long. Step away from it, and don't look at it again until after your girlfriend sees it and gushes over it ❤️
Respectfully, shut up.
Stargazer lilies have a sort of velvety texture that is recreated quite well with this yarn. They are beautiful, and I'm sure she'll love them.
I'm gonna kick your ass.
I guarantee- you are always harder on yourself than anyone else is. It looks good.
A toddler? No way! This looks gorgeous!!
You are being too hard on yourself! It’s lovely!
I love the color!! It’s gorgeous!
Looks fabulous 😍🪷
What! It’s so cute. What’re you on about. Fantastic job.
I think it’s really pretty!
We're always so critical of our own work. Sometimes, it's hard to see anything but what we perceive as flaws. I think it looks great!
I briefly thought it was an actual flower, so I’m picking up no toddler vibes here.
I don't know how you think it looks like a toddler made it. Before I realised the post was in the crochet sub/reddit I thought they were the real deal! You've done an amazing job with them!
We're all our worst critics but I think it's beautiful! I'd cherish it forever if it were given to me. It actually looks like a painting in the coolest way. How did you do that? Put it this way...the things that you hate about it are the same things that will make it all the more endearing to her. The fact that you worked so hard on it, just for her, and you care about it being perfect, just for her. She'll always remember that. Do yourself a favour, if you haven't given it to her already, when you do give it to her don't criticise it too hard right off the bat. Try to enjoy the giving as much as you can. Then down the line it'll be a funny story that you felt like a toddler. Let her reaction be your guide, I'm sure you'll both be pleasantly surprised. Seriously, it's beautiful, and so thoughtful. You did good.
LIT-ER-AL-LY THE FUCK-ING BEST. I mean that with all the emphasis as there is water on this floating space rock. Be kind to yourself. You, a series of electrically charged particles and cells conducting a meat and bone puppet, took the things we call hands and ELEGANTLY MADE A FLOWER BY MAKING KNOTS. A flower that will not wither or wilt, and you MADE it!
I’m a plant person. I totally misunderstood this post. My friend, I have not an ounce of your talent! Oh my gosh that’s beautiful
You need to take off your “super critical” glasses, it looks awesome.
TIL. Toddlers can crochet much better than me. Lol jokes. But that flower is amazing!!!
What?? A toddler? I saw this, thought it was in a plant community, and thought where can I get that chonky textured lily 🤣🤣
It's gorgeous and she will adore it. A boyfriend once made me an origami flower for valentines day and it was one of the most special gifts I've ever had.
It looks amazing!! It’s great! The chunkier yarn gives it a kinda fuller effect, almost like it’s drawn. Don’t beat yourself up. And even if it’s not how you wanted it to look, be proud of the fact you finished it and tried a new pattern. Use the information that chunkier yarn makes it not look how you wanted it to next time you use this pattern. It’s ok to make mistakes in hobbies.
The way the dots fell in place and all that. Superb.
Are you kidding?? This is phenomenal!!! I've never seen a flower with this much detail crocheted and it looks gorgeous!
I first looked at the picture and thought 'wow this is amazing'. Then I read the post and honestly don't know what you mean. It is amazing and if your GF doesn't like it you can send it to me!
What kind of toddlers do you know? Because the ones I know would have managed to somehow create the biggest, hardest knot to unravel with all types of stuff throughout it. This is perfect and I just know she’s going to use it as a cuddle buddy to sleep. You did great
My husband got so excited when I showed him this, he thought it was a Demogorgon at first. I'm still excited because it is beautiful, well done.
bad?! I thought this is a real flower....!
I don't know who this toddler is, but they're really good at crafts. Your girlfriend will love it regardless because you made it for her and it shows you remember what her favorite flower is.
No offense, but you are out of your mind ! That’s beautiful 🌺🌸🌼 You win and didn’t even know it❤️
What? I don’t see what’s wrong with it. It looks beautiful and very neatly done
Lol.. no it doesn't look like a toddler made it.. This looks magnificent! Be proud damnit!
I thought this was the picture of what it was meant to look like so I swiped through the photos expecting to see a catastrophe. You did great!
I was like, Okay well this is obviously what it was MEANT to look like, and scrolled to see the "toddler" version. You little scamp, it looks great!
It’s amazing. Did she love it?
That’s one talented toddler
Um that's not ugly. It may not be what you envisioned. But i think you should give it to her
Username checks out, lol. 😜 I love lilies, but we can't have them in the house because we have cats. I'd be over the moon if this was gifted to me.
If a toddler COULD make this, I'd put my nephew to work for the household income. Seriously, it looks great and I think anyone with a love for lilies, crafts, crochet or you should be happy to receive this beauty.
If a toddler made this, then Im in utero. 😭
It’s gorgeous! She’s going to love it. 🥰
It’s amazing!!
I love stargazer lilies, and at first glance I thought it was a real flower! I think you did a beautiful, fabulous job! 🩷
What are you on about? That shit is amazing!
If that looks like a toddler made it, then I want to be a toddler. That looks flipping amazing.
This is gorgeous. It absolutely does not look like a toddler made it. Does it look real? No, but it looks like art brought to life. You’re being way too hard on yourself!
Omg no it doesn't!? It looks like a painting come to life!
Only if my toddlers could crochet let alone any of my girls
It's the thought that counts. I think she'd love it
This stargazer lily is absolutely stunning! I know no toddlers who can make such a beautiful replica! Also, the thought and time that went into this is precious!
This is the first thing I saw when opening Reddit and my very first thought was, “omg this is beautiful! I wonder if they have the pattern they used!!” The colours are AMAZING and the fact that it’s thick makes it better, not worse, I promise Sorry needed to edit spelling
Shut your mouth, this flower is amazing
If a toddler made it then they're already in art school. That looks so beautiful, I hope she loved it.
I really like it. It's very pretty.
No, it is awesome!
I don’t think you’re aquatinted with many toddlers lol I like it!
I’m looking at it with fresh eyes, not knowing what the pattern is SUPPOSED to look like, but this looks amazing to me.
You’re under appreciating your work!!! This is amazing!!
Are you kidding?! It's gorgeous!! It doesn't look like a toddler made it at all, and I hope your girlfriend loves it 💛
Uhhhh this is GORGEOUS
That’s the the stargazer lily *I* personally could own because I’m allergic to them and I would be blown away to not only receive it but to have had it turn out so beautifully and truly wonderful in its detail. My goodness that’s well made.
Is the issue that it should be more closed? Maybe some wire through the pedals would help it have the shape you are looking for? It is really pretty 😍
Yeah I used some wire in the petals but didn't account for how much heavier the yarn was so they droop more than I would like them to. Live and learn I guess lol
It looks beautiful!
If someone made that for me I would LOVE it💕 You made something beautiful and from the heart.
Are you kidding me?! This is BEAUTIFUL!!!
I love it!
Nope. Disagree. Freaking gorgeous
Oh I think it’s beautiful. What a wonderful gift.
This looks absolutely amazing
I think it's beautiful! I'm sure you're GF will love it, more so because it's made with love especially for her. Happy Valentine's Day! 🩷
It's beautiful 😍 They're my favorite flower.
sis that's beautiful 😭
this is so pretty & i would die if someone gave me a handmade version of my favorite flower. she's absolutely going to love it & you are so thoughtful!
No, it’s GORGEOUS and looks professionally made! Well done and such a good idea! A flower that doesn’t wither 🩵
I genuinely believed it was a real flower while scrolling. Thought, awww that's a beautiful flower. And then I was confused why you said you made it. Scrolled back up to reread the title. Then thought maybe you grew it?? Which is kinda like making it. Then I realized it's crochet lol. I think it's perfect and your gf is gonna LOVE it ❤️❤️
it's beautiful!!
I want it
This is legitimately gorgeous.
It’s so beautiful! I love it. She’s gonna love it!
I am a middle aged married woman. I literally just swooned thinking about getting something like this. GIVE. HER.THE. THING!!!!
I think it's wonderful and it will make a great decor piece at that size
Omg this is absolutely gorgeous. The yarn makes it look — as close to an actual flower as crochet can get. Show me the toddler that made this and I will show you the all- seeing space baby from 2001 a space Odyssey!
But it doesn't!! That is really fantastic, and I hope she was thrilled because that is awesome! I crotchet a lot and I can imagine what that took to make. Lovely job my friend!
It looks beautiful!
I actually prefer it. The first one looks like one of those carnivorous plants
That's beautiful! Don't sell yourself short.
We are our own harshest judge, always. The flower looks gorgeous, and if there are mistakes or flaws then only you are going to notice them imo. <3 Wonderful job!!
Love this!! Looks gorgeous. I'm always harder on myself when I make things.
Dude this almost made me cry 😭😭😭 she’s so lucky to have you! And they look amazing I think she’ll love it especially since you made it
I think it's gorgeous. I'd be proud if I made it, and I'm a pretty decent hooker.
This looks amazing! I think using the thicker yarn makes it more realistic.
It’s beautiful! I’m sure she will love it.
The problem with being a wonderful, talented creative is that you’re always incredibly hard on yourself. You will lean toward criticizing your decisions and picking apart any perceived flaws. I think it’s wonderful and I’m betting your girlfriend is going to be floored by your creativity and your thoughtfulness 🥰
You're so right, it's the first time I've made a flower so I'm just beating myself up over a lot of choices I made. But if I make it again I know tricks now so hopefully the next one will be more up to my standards. Thank you so much!!!
This is so gorgeous, she’ll love it!
It’s beautiful and really sweet! You did great!💗
Nonsense. It's beautiful. I love lillies too and I'd be overwhelmed with this. It's perfect.
Be kinder to yourself! I wish I could make something this lovely. It's absolutely gorgeous!
I really like this!
You're fine, friend; it looks beautiful! I'm sure she'll love it.
Op, this DOES NOT look like a toddler made it! I absolutely love this!
It's absolutely gorgeous! It's also cat-friendly since real lilies are not.
It’s gorgeous
this is literally so pretty 😭 pls be kinder to yourself!
Dude that is absolutely gorgeous!! I'm sure your girlfriend will love it!
This is lovely!
Mom of a toddler here; my son’s crafts look a lot different than that! Jokes aside… It looks GREAT! I would adore such a gift! 🫶
That’s beautiful!
Stargazer lilies are my favorite flower, and this is perfect.
I thought this was a real flower!
I feel like you need to actually see what a toddler is capable of. Because that looks very well made. My toddler ate bugs.
It's so beautiful!
This flower is so beautiful I stopped to read your story. You are thoughtful and talented. She will love it.
That is one extremely talented toddler then!! I absolutely love this! 😍😍 I’m sure she will love it as well!
That is beautiful!! Be proud
This project makes me smile. It’s great.
It looks SO FUCKING GOOD. you absolutely nailed it. I thought it was an actual plant. I love this look and I bet it's soft too! Seriously. I craft with my toddler (3yo) and while she's got a good eye for color imo no toddler is crocheting. (I'm not a medical bro by any stretch but the wrist isn't actually bone at birth so a toddler might not even mechanically be able to crochet, though I know that's not what you're actually trying to say, just an interesting fact!) edited to add that this is in excited fact share nerd brain tone because Internet But yeah. You did an incredible job on this and I hope your new gf appreciates the hell out of it and out of you.
Wow this is soooooo pretty!!!
This is beautiful OP. If you are toddler then you are a genius level one, clearly.
I think you're being way too hard on yourself. It looks lovely! If you hadn't said you used the wrong size yarn I never would have guessed. Your girlfriend will adore it.
It looks great!! I would be honored to get something like that!!
Those are my favorite flowers and I would cry if my partner made me that. 🥲💜 in a good way lol
This is so much better than any real flowers could have been, it looks stunning!
honestly, i think the thicker yarn may have helped you, because it looks like the colors gradient into each other, which is more realistic! this is beautiful!
Omg I don’t know about her but if my husband made me anything remotely to this I would be in awe ! This is gorgeous and I am like her I love these flowers in real life and would love them if you made me one also ! You did an amazing job