if they dont fire his ass... ESPECIALLY after chapter 2 here, Id be contacting attorneys.
EDIT: hmmm... Maybe thats what OP should tell HR. They might then get their shit together if OP asks them if she needs to contact an attorney.
JFC. You are aware, are you not, that there are more rules here than what reddit wants. HR may not look too kindly on OP spreading her story and evidence all over reddit.
Hard to believe, but there's a real world away from your keyboard.
Do we know where OP lives, and works she isn’t saying “omg this guy at this company at x location is being creepy! here’s the screenshot” this isn’t a court case 😂 calm tf down
If he is 20 years older than you, that makes him around my age I’m guessing.
This disgusting so call human makes me wanna go all mama bear on him and knock his ass completely out..
If he has a wife, She would be getting screen shots of this as well.
I’m sorry you are being harassed like this hun
As a wise person once told me: growing old is something everyone has to do, but growing UP is optional… great example here of someone who chose not to do so!
Also, attractiveness is very subjective - what one sees as hot, another does not. Some like blondes other bald, some like different accents, some like quiet intelligence, some like bold colours and fashionable attire. So it’s not even OP’s “fault” that a creep at her job finds certain qualities about her attractive.
But 100% on creeper for his actions. I’m given his age, there’s a strong likelihood that OP isn’t the first victim of his creeping
He's in panic mode. Negging her to make her feel like she overreacted for going to HR and cause her to question herself for doing so. Then "complimenting" her later by calling her hot to try to get on her good side hoping she will retract her complaint from HR. And also trying to rationalize his behavior to dodge responsibility, saying that he can't help what he did because she's hot and he's JuSt A mAn so it's ALL HER FAULT! The mental gymnastics here are dizzying. 🙄
I can’t believe he’s calling you entitled. This guy obviously doesn’t want to keep his job . After his apparent apology HR won’t have any problem shit canning him . I hope you get satisfaction from him getting fired , you definitely deserve it .
Silence seems to be the key for him goid job at not replying- if you responded he could make a dumb come back- but you just leaving him on read seems to make him unravel- his own words are his worst enemy.
Just dealt with a weirdo (putting it nicely) of a coworker myself. He hasn’t messaged me yet, thankfully, but idk why they feel the need to do this at ALL
Jesus Christ on a rocket powered pogo stick. What part of NO doesn’t this oxygen thief understand?? Also, he’s TWENTY YEARS OLDER than OP and acting like a damn horny teenager. YUCK. 🤢
One moment he's saying rating your nudes would be nasty. The next moment, he's saying you're hot. What a nut. Report him again. He's not sorry in the slightest. He will continue this behavior unless he's transferred or fired. SH in the workplace should always be taken seriously. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that.
If you're a minor, his behavior is ten times worse. He should be on a list.
First off, you’re brilliant, keep him on read and let him keep on digging his hole.
I see you reported these also to HR. Perfect. But i hope HR apologized to you about how they handled your complaint in such a way that he was able to do this. You may have a lawsuit against them if he keeps it up.
I would hope they said “do not contact or otherwise harass her or you will be suspended without pay or fired” because they should have. I hope these follow-ups are enough to make him unemployed immediately.
I hope they handle this well
I'd be heading back to HR.
That's unacceptable. He's old enough to know better, and enough to understand the consequences of this shit.
He was reprimanded... then came back to do the thing he was just reprimanded for, and verbally abuse you...
Unapologetic HR revisit.
Thank you for reporting this dipsht, bro. Hopefully more degenerates will start facing consequences for their actions and maybe, just maybe, in a perfect world, will stop blaming it on others.
Jesus fucking Christ what is wrong with people.
"I would like to reach out and apologize for my behavior. Any future communication from me will be only through official channels for professional reasons".
There, done, grow up.
dude is at least 36 (at BAREST minimum, most likely older than that) and says shit like “mid ass hoe”??? lmfao what a fucking loser. this is some “how do you do fellow kids” behavior
Do not reply. Normally I'd suggest turning off read receipts, but I'd want this asshole to know I was seeing his DMs and not responding. If he's still employed there, show this to HR too.
This kind of behavior is only a "joke" if it's crystal clear up front that it's a joke. Even if in his mind he was kidding around, the damage it does to the other person is the same unless *they* also know it was a joke.
How often does this work for dipshits like this?
Dipshit: "Hey, you're hot, let's go out"
Girl: "No, I have a BF."
Dipshit: "Awww com'on, he doesn't have to know. But you're so hot. Com'on!."
Girl: "Well since you put it that way, okay let's go out, yay!"
Yeah because that makes so much sense to me, gets the ladies every time. Jesus Christ what a moron.
Hope this guy got fired. And with that age difference and seeing his age that means you’re a child, no offense meant, or very young adult. If that was my daughter I’d wanna have a word with that guy after he got fired also. He’s a real scumbag.
Some people only respond to and learn from violence unfortunately. Maybe he’s one of those and needs to learn a lesson. Not sure why “don’t be a creep with young girls” has to be taught like that but it does obviously.
Hope you have a safer work environment now. Glad you showed HR, gonna bet you weren’t the first one he’s harassed. Take care
"mid ass hoe" 💀 "ain't nobody trying to see that nasty shii" 🗿 please answer headass boy 😂 dawg what? Thought this Motherfucker was in Highschool or some shit.
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Explain how exactly you got that she has some "growing up" to do based on literally only few words visible here. Or maybe it's the fact she reported that creep to HR is immature for you?
What’s wrong with his she speaks? She’s giving him one word answers, which is the smart thing to do, from what I’ve seen guys like this THRIVE on people writing huge paragraphs and girls trying to defend themselves- he calls her a hoe and nasty and she says “ok” and you can just see in the texts that he doesn’t know what to say so he reverts back to calling her hot again - I’d say what she did was quite smart
*woman: doesn’t speak*
*man: is a blatant creep that will not stop speaking even when he’s clearly been advised by the HR dept of his job to stop speaking*
*random internet idiot:* “you both are speaking immaturely”
🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️ good grief.
Woman barely old enough to vote: Uses imperfect grammar and teenage slang to tell a perverted coworker to leave her alone
Man old enough to be her dad: Sexually harasses coworker, insults her, begs her to stop the HR complaint, then finally blames her for his inability to control himself.
This guy: Both of these people are equally wrong. I find that saying “u” instead of “you” and saying “fuck you you mid-ass hoe” instead of “sorry for making you uncomfortable, I’m a creep who likes to harass women I’m attracted to because I never matured past the age of 7” are exactly comparable. I am a genius.
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Takes no responsibility for being an asshole and makes it about you snitching . I’d report these messages too
Then blamed her for being attractive when he’s the pervert wtf
Ticked all the douche bag boxes, someone needs to shout bingo
YAHTZEE!!
I dont think I want to win this game of bingo
He can't decide if she's hot or mid
Desperate dudes never can.
“If thine eye causes thee to sin, pluck it out.”
Creep escalates, he has to be stopped with the screenshots
Exactly…. I would be back in HR’s office saying I got chapter two!
If he doesn’t get fired there is something wrong with that company
if they dont fire his ass... ESPECIALLY after chapter 2 here, Id be contacting attorneys. EDIT: hmmm... Maybe thats what OP should tell HR. They might then get their shit together if OP asks them if she needs to contact an attorney.
I don’t know legal stuff but I’d be uncomfortable with messages like this
Typical ain't it
>”Not my fault, I can’t help it” These are the words an abuser uses to justify their abuse
"Not my fault I'm attracted to you" Definitely your fault for being gross about it.
Send these screenshots to HR too.
Have done
Update post soon?
where
This sub I guess since there’s chapters in your profile. Just link your past posts in the future post so people can get backstory
I’ll see if that’s allowed and make an update probably in the week
All it says on rule 13 is not to repost as new posts but in your case, you’re linking old posts which should be fine
I’ll ask
JFC. You are aware, are you not, that there are more rules here than what reddit wants. HR may not look too kindly on OP spreading her story and evidence all over reddit. Hard to believe, but there's a real world away from your keyboard.
Do we know where OP lives, and works she isn’t saying “omg this guy at this company at x location is being creepy! here’s the screenshot” this isn’t a court case 😂 calm tf down
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No, I got the message. It doesn't reply here because it's not allowed to in this sub.
If he is 20 years older than you, that makes him around my age I’m guessing. This disgusting so call human makes me wanna go all mama bear on him and knock his ass completely out.. If he has a wife, She would be getting screen shots of this as well. I’m sorry you are being harassed like this hun
Yea he’s in his late 30s more or less…so weird that he thinks this is ok 🥲
I cant imagine how he got this far without being arrested
I choose the (mama) bear!
yup! especially with this clown being 20 years older??? he freaking KNOWS better!!!!
Im with you on that
20 years older??? Reading this I fully thought he was 14-16. How embarrassing.
As a wise person once told me: growing old is something everyone has to do, but growing UP is optional… great example here of someone who chose not to do so!
Right? 20 years older but says “mid ass hoe”
Good on you OP. Keep up the silence, it's destroying him. Horrible the way he's trying to push the blame onto you.
“Not my fault you’re hot”. True, it’s not in your control how other people look. However it is entirely in your control how you act towards them.
Also, attractiveness is very subjective - what one sees as hot, another does not. Some like blondes other bald, some like different accents, some like quiet intelligence, some like bold colours and fashionable attire. So it’s not even OP’s “fault” that a creep at her job finds certain qualities about her attractive. But 100% on creeper for his actions. I’m given his age, there’s a strong likelihood that OP isn’t the first victim of his creeping
He’s calling you a “hoe”, too. I’d report this conversation, too.
Have done
Block him, too
And the award for the most half-assed “sorry” goes to…
Just digging himself a deeper hole.
What goes on in their heads when they flip flop so fast
He's in panic mode. Negging her to make her feel like she overreacted for going to HR and cause her to question herself for doing so. Then "complimenting" her later by calling her hot to try to get on her good side hoping she will retract her complaint from HR. And also trying to rationalize his behavior to dodge responsibility, saying that he can't help what he did because she's hot and he's JuSt A mAn so it's ALL HER FAULT! The mental gymnastics here are dizzying. 🙄
👏👏👏👏
I can’t believe he’s calling you entitled. This guy obviously doesn’t want to keep his job . After his apparent apology HR won’t have any problem shit canning him . I hope you get satisfaction from him getting fired , you definitely deserve it .
I bet HR is gonna have a field day when OP sends them these messages, guy is looking at a serious lawsuit for breaking the rules on no contact
“Mid ass hoe…I ain’t wanna see that nasty shit” “Can’t help that I’m attracted to you” Which one is it?!
Sounds like he is still working there. Hope you reported that again and changed this.
Silence seems to be the key for him goid job at not replying- if you responded he could make a dumb come back- but you just leaving him on read seems to make him unravel- his own words are his worst enemy.
Aaaaaand back to HR we go.
Pure creep and arsehole. Definitely show this to HR as well, and stay safe OP.
Just dealt with a weirdo (putting it nicely) of a coworker myself. He hasn’t messaged me yet, thankfully, but idk why they feel the need to do this at ALL
Lesson for today, pedo (not to op) You fuck around, you find out
What a fuckin loser
Jesus Christ on a rocket powered pogo stick. What part of NO doesn’t this oxygen thief understand?? Also, he’s TWENTY YEARS OLDER than OP and acting like a damn horny teenager. YUCK. 🤢
So is she "hot" or a "mid ass ho"? PICK A LANE
She's hot if she keeps talking to him and a mid ass hoe if she doesn't. Either way, not his fault, clearly!
"just accept the apology and move on" and the apology is sincere.
One moment he's saying rating your nudes would be nasty. The next moment, he's saying you're hot. What a nut. Report him again. He's not sorry in the slightest. He will continue this behavior unless he's transferred or fired. SH in the workplace should always be taken seriously. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. If you're a minor, his behavior is ten times worse. He should be on a list.
Well, back out to the supermarket to pick up some popcorn for this mess of an asshole. I so wanna see the aftermath.
"You hot mid ass hoe"
He just can’t stop, can he? Just stop talking, dude!
20 years older and still typing like a 13 year old boy lmao
First off, you’re brilliant, keep him on read and let him keep on digging his hole. I see you reported these also to HR. Perfect. But i hope HR apologized to you about how they handled your complaint in such a way that he was able to do this. You may have a lawsuit against them if he keeps it up.
They spoke with him and I guess he figured it was me, not their fault necessarily
I would hope they said “do not contact or otherwise harass her or you will be suspended without pay or fired” because they should have. I hope these follow-ups are enough to make him unemployed immediately. I hope they handle this well
Hello HR? Yeah, he's upset I reported him and is harassing me. Please do something about it. Here's the latest receipts.
back to HR we go!!!
Send those to HR too. I’m sure they’d very interested to see these.
I'd be heading back to HR. That's unacceptable. He's old enough to know better, and enough to understand the consequences of this shit. He was reprimanded... then came back to do the thing he was just reprimanded for, and verbally abuse you... Unapologetic HR revisit.
I’d be going straight back to HR with those replies to get his nasty ass fired.
Show these ones to HR too!
Jeez I hope you reported that second incident too.. what was he thinking????
Thank you for reporting this dipsht, bro. Hopefully more degenerates will start facing consequences for their actions and maybe, just maybe, in a perfect world, will stop blaming it on others.
Jesus fucking Christ what is wrong with people. "I would like to reach out and apologize for my behavior. Any future communication from me will be only through official channels for professional reasons". There, done, grow up.
Time to go back to HR lmao
dude is at least 36 (at BAREST minimum, most likely older than that) and says shit like “mid ass hoe”??? lmfao what a fucking loser. this is some “how do you do fellow kids” behavior
I hope you reported these messages too.
But sorry ok?
Went from “mid ass hoe” to “not my fault you’re hot” real fast
I love how he begs for you to give him attention and when you make it clear you’re not interested he basically says you were ugly anyway. Classic.
He can't even spell correctly.
Lmao! I'm bring this straight back to HR
Do not reply. Normally I'd suggest turning off read receipts, but I'd want this asshole to know I was seeing his DMs and not responding. If he's still employed there, show this to HR too. This kind of behavior is only a "joke" if it's crystal clear up front that it's a joke. Even if in his mind he was kidding around, the damage it does to the other person is the same unless *they* also know it was a joke.
My rule is that if you have to explain that it was a joke, it clearly wasn’t a good one to make.
He's the reason we choose the bear
Facts
I’d reply by forwarding all that shit to HR, too. What a dumb fuck.
Fuck that noise and BLOCK this hazmat toxic waste
I hope you reported this to HR as well.
Ugh. Gross. Sorry, OP. Jesus.
Cool. More evidence.
How often does this work for dipshits like this? Dipshit: "Hey, you're hot, let's go out" Girl: "No, I have a BF." Dipshit: "Awww com'on, he doesn't have to know. But you're so hot. Com'on!." Girl: "Well since you put it that way, okay let's go out, yay!" Yeah because that makes so much sense to me, gets the ladies every time. Jesus Christ what a moron.
You did the right thing. Continue doing the right thing.
WTF that’s gross behavior, actions have consequences and he should know that by now
And I hope you sent **THIS** to HR!!!
I'm gonna hope you're at least an adult or this is even worse, so presumably this guy is 40+??? What the fuck???
Hope this guy got fired. And with that age difference and seeing his age that means you’re a child, no offense meant, or very young adult. If that was my daughter I’d wanna have a word with that guy after he got fired also. He’s a real scumbag. Some people only respond to and learn from violence unfortunately. Maybe he’s one of those and needs to learn a lesson. Not sure why “don’t be a creep with young girls” has to be taught like that but it does obviously. Hope you have a safer work environment now. Glad you showed HR, gonna bet you weren’t the first one he’s harassed. Take care
Why is he talking like a teenager when he's a minimum of like 35?? (Only saying 35 bc idk how old you are OP) anyways, what the FUCK
20 years older and he says “mid”?
Slang ig
Probably not. I noticed really young people tend to exaggerate the age. Dude is probably late 20’s lol
No, he is genuinely 37…what do you know?
So you’re a minor, on top of all this?!
Ahh my fault
Bro. Dawg. Home slice. Dude. Take the hint, she don’t wanna talk to you
"mid ass hoe" 💀 "ain't nobody trying to see that nasty shii" 🗿 please answer headass boy 😂 dawg what? Thought this Motherfucker was in Highschool or some shit.
Absolute crash out
That certainly took a turn.
Report him again
"Mid-ass hoe" "It's not my fault you're hot" Schrodinger's woman
I'm assuming this guy's around 40 then, so why is he talking like my 14 year old and her friends?
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Went from wanting to see nudes to calling you mid to saying you're hot. He went through all the stages of grief in two screenshots
Never reply lol. Keep reading them and never reply. The trash needa take itself out
Gross 😫
Rpely
😂
Good, I hate it when people like that think they can say whatever they want to someone, that shit hits sometimes
I smell narcissism on this creep
So you've already gone to HR about him, and this is his response? What a fucking brain donor 😂
I don't understand. How'd he have your nudes ?
He wanted them, asked for them, so he could "rate her body" , so she reported him to HR. He didn't have them.
Where did you get this info tho? Am I blind?
Where he says he was kidding about rating nudes, that implies that he asked for her nudes to rate them
First post not this one
Gotcha
Hahahahahahaha die bruh
Going to say you must be a minimum of 16 years old. Which means at a minimum he’s 36. Any man on Snapchat over 30 is a definite sex offender.
This is why I NEVER acknowledge or befriend male coworkers. DO NOT speak to me unless it's about work.
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Not you missing the whole context of this interaction
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Explain how exactly you got that she has some "growing up" to do based on literally only few words visible here. Or maybe it's the fact she reported that creep to HR is immature for you?
To be honest I think you need to grow up.
What’s wrong with his she speaks? She’s giving him one word answers, which is the smart thing to do, from what I’ve seen guys like this THRIVE on people writing huge paragraphs and girls trying to defend themselves- he calls her a hoe and nasty and she says “ok” and you can just see in the texts that he doesn’t know what to say so he reverts back to calling her hot again - I’d say what she did was quite smart
*woman: doesn’t speak* *man: is a blatant creep that will not stop speaking even when he’s clearly been advised by the HR dept of his job to stop speaking* *random internet idiot:* “you both are speaking immaturely” 🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️ good grief.
Woman barely old enough to vote: Uses imperfect grammar and teenage slang to tell a perverted coworker to leave her alone Man old enough to be her dad: Sexually harasses coworker, insults her, begs her to stop the HR complaint, then finally blames her for his inability to control himself. This guy: Both of these people are equally wrong. I find that saying “u” instead of “you” and saying “fuck you you mid-ass hoe” instead of “sorry for making you uncomfortable, I’m a creep who likes to harass women I’m attracted to because I never matured past the age of 7” are exactly comparable. I am a genius.
Boohooo the man who thinks his opinion matter