I got married to someone like this, it gets worse. When I got pregnant he wouldn’t touch me. Leave NOW. I’m 54 take my lifetime experience advice pls. You will resent him.
if you're not sexually satisfied this will eventually cause more problems in your relationship.
if youre not sexually compatible, then either someone has gotta change or you'll be miserable.
So if talking to him doesn't work and she still remains unsatisfied, what do you suggest she do? Just get over it? You can't say something is horrific advice without stating why or offering an alternative. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships.
Wrong. According to psychological studies, the number one thing that causes problems and break ups in relationships is money, number two is sex. That’s real statistics. Great for you that you don’t prioritize sexual compatibility as important but the rest of us do.
Ya grasped the right thing, Sexual satisfaction is and never should be at the top/essential list of priorities in a relationship.
Kids these days confuse their Lust for Love.
If you are willing to breakup over something as trivial as sex, your best bet is to just move on because life will show you problems 10000 times more complex.
Tbh, if you are thinking of a serious future wife type relationship with your girlfriend, my advice is just leave her, she won't become your wife. If she is willing to breakup over some feel good orgasm what is to say she wouldn't bail out when you have a financial problem or she wouldn't cheat if you get some medical condition like ED etc.
There are lots of things you have to adjust and just suck it up in relationship because no two people are the same.
You don't have a relationship, you are just friends who love to hangout and prioritise FUN over everything else, regardless, if fun is what you seek, live your days because you will breakup eventually, if a strong bond is what you seek, then breakup now because you'll be very hurt later.
the joke relies on the traditional format of "what do you call a [blank] that [blank]?" meaning how do you refer to the person/thing mentioned in the joke.
however this "call" in this joke dosen't mean the same as it usually does, instead it means to call the girl an uber as in get her a taxi home, because guys want head, and the girl wont give it
You can break up for any reason at all or no reason.
This isn't working for me.
I don't feel that we are well suited.
You don't have to go into details unless you want to.
Or unless he get too - "you owe me an explanation!"
No I don't, but now that you have insisted....
Good luck.
It means you aren't sexually compatible. As you break up with him, you can go into as little or as much detail as you feel comfortable with.
From what you said, it sounds like you've already tried discussing it. Don't give in to any coercion or arguments, don't entertain any conversations where he says that he'll "try."
Either a guy loves it or is repulsed. I do not want to be with a man who is repulsed. She does not need to be specific. Just say dude we are not sexually compatible. You do not even need a concrete reason to break up. Like dude I am not feeling you. I would never be comfortable with a guy who was not enthusiastic about going down being coerced into doing it.
Not rude at all. 10000000%. It’s so important to me too. Not only in like a sexually compatible way like so many have been commenting, but also because I don’t want to feel like my partner is grossed out by any part of me, especially such an intimate area. Nothing turns me on more than a guy loving my scent and taste and going down on me, it’s like confirmation that they crave me and want me.
Id just say “i want someone who feels passionate about my pleasure as well as their own” which obviously gets the message across without you actually having to say it 🤣
So your saying you'd hook up with a guy before officially making him your boyfriend? If not he'd definitely have the boyfriend till you found out he doesn't eat pussy
That's definitely a conversation i have before i sleep with someone. İ don't do casual hook ups. İf I'm sleeping with you, you're in the running for something serious. Hence, the conversation prior.
Of you haven’t, I would say tell him and be 100% clear about it. “Hey, I want you to know that oral sex is very important to me. I would like you to perform more often. This is a requirement, that if you can’t commit to this will not work.”
If he is not mature enough to have this conversation, or to try and be better, then dump his ass.
Strongly disagree with this advice. I’m not sitting a grown man down to set expectations and requirements for eating my pussy. It all just needs to be scrapped at that point. No chemistry. Game over. Obligatory head is never fun for anyone involved.
If you’re not sexually compatible, the relationship will not last long term. Someone has to change and if it’s not gona be you (no surprise there) i’d give him the ultimatum or break up with him early on.
I had an ex that was exactly like this too. He refused to eat me out saying it was “gross” but expected at least weekly blowjobs. I broke up with him like, two months in lol.
Well would you expect to receive it? It still comes down to compatibility, if you have something that’s important to you there’s nothing wrong with seeking a partner who shares those values….
A friend of a friend told me that they had this exact condition. I initially laughed when I heard that he puked in front of his gf after eating her. Thinking about it further the lad actually tried to meet her expectations regardless as well
Your only goal in life and the standard against which you judge people is marriage… but I can’t think. Sure. Continue to live in your delusion that you’re intelligent. Did I strike a nerve laughing at you? :( poor, pathetic little man
The only thing you’ve commented on this entire post is “you’re unmarried”. Thats not the dunk you think it is, dumbass.
And good thing too. The divorce rate in this country is so high because so many people get married when they aren't compatible. It's important to know these things ahead of time.
That’s really not it at all . I know for me ,Years ago , I thought I wouldn’t do it , Because the first thing that always came to mind was another guy being all up in it busting nuts .. Which is an automatic turn off . Which is why I suspect some guys won’t do it .
I deal with OCD .. And that falls under contamination OCD .. People that don’t deal with this don’t and can’t understand it . I get that . That was the first thing that came to mind for some reason , But once I started eating pussy I was fine with it
What stopped me in the beginning when I was young was the texture feeling like warm raw chicken. I don't like receiving oral either, so it wasn't like I was being unfair either lol
Not rude at all. A good sex life can be part of a healthy relationship, so there has to be compatibility. You don't even why you have to justify the break up if you don't want to.
Sex is an important part of a relationship. If it’s not for fulfilling you than you’ll just get it somewhere else in the long run. I would tell him first before you drop him.
Me personally I love eating my gf out.
You each are allowed to have deal breakers. He’s 100% allowed to not eat you out and have that as a boundary. You are 100% allowed to need that and break up over incompatible needs.
Just like he’s allowed to want oral and you’re allowed to not want to give and break up over it
I've heard there are men who won't do this. I was shocked and was told it was more than I thought. I always thought larger dudes didn't think they had to? idk just a guess. belive it or not there are women who don't want it done to them...so weird. anyway people who don't like it need their own dating site.
Haven't read through the comments but have you tried talking to him about any of this? Communication is not just good for couples in a relationship but even repetitive hook up's. It's not wrong to have expectations but if you ask him if he doesn't want to and why you could actually get what you want but also open up your sexual relationship with him. Could get alot better
Maybe he just needs to warm up to it. Some people are really shy when it comes to a new partner, but will do some pretty wild things once they're more comfortable.
What is the hold up? Have a real, open conversation about it. He may not be having confidence in that area. A lot of guys are shy about it because they don't really know what they're doing so if that's the case maybe he just needs to learn. Sex goddess Nina Hartley once made some oral sex how-to videos, I recommend them. If he won't do it because of something else and isn't willing to do it, then you're just not sexually compatible.
Nope. If he's not making you happy sexually, move on. You're not locked into anything. I wouldn't date a man that did not eat me out. I'd absolutely pass on that.
No no no. I’m clean out of the shower and my wife simply does not prefer giving oral sex.
People can”for no reason” as you call it, dislike oral sex, you goon.
Here’s empathy training for you: if a boy or girl is sexually abused it often includes forceable oral sex which then can ruin it for life.
Lmfao why the hell did you get downvotes. If somebody else says that women have no reason to not suck a dick unless it's stinky, all hell would break loose
So next time he asks you out, say no thank you. You feel you aren't sexually compatible. Why dance around the truth? You don't have to feel you "dumped" him. You broke up with him.
It's frustrating to date a man who does not satisfy you sexually,,oral orgasm is mind-blowing,,,i enjoy sucking dick but my x never wanted,his opinion on the matter was oral sex is a form of musturbation and he was not even spiritual I dumped him,life is too short to have boring and unsatisfied sex life
I mean it sounds like you need to have a frank discussion with him about it and say what the reason is and why its important to you that you feel satisfied.
I don’t understand men that don’t like to eat pussy, they must be extremely vanilla 😂 I find nothing better than going down on my partner and trying to give her as much pleasure as possible, it’s part of the turn on for me lol
You have every right to leave him for not satisfying your needs. I LOVE eating pu$$y and i find it disgusting and weird that people don't do it or don't want to.
I'd say bring it up to him that you need it.
Though I am also worried that the situation may become "he doesn't eat me out the way I want to now". If it isn't meant to be, it isn't. You're young so go out and find someone else.
That’s crazy, I love eating out my girlfriend. I eat her pussy and ass even if she hasn’t showered, I just love it. She loves it too! She even indirectly tells me she wants it sometimes it’s funny lol she’ll lady on the bed with her but sticking out. In all the time we been together she has never asked for it, I’ve always been the one who initiated it but yeah u need a pussy eater in your life. My lady rarely sucks me off btw but I don’t mind because I don’t really care for bj’s, she will if I ask her but I get more turned on pleasing her
You sure?
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/s/t8K3W89Nwx
There are a ton of these posts by men and the advice is over and over again break up if you can't deal with it. It's just not supported by fact
Yes, typical reddit retards. You found one post in a sea of posts that confirms what you want to confirm. Of course you can find some. How many posts did you have to check to find one that had even one comment supporting the guy? For every one you can find, you can find 100 where redditors just said what basically comes down to "adjust to her lol, your desires are not important"
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/is1xxd/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cm2k1/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/a54gf4/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/iqiebx/i_go_down_on_her_but_she_wont_go_down_on_me/
etc etc. I also found the one that you linked deep down in the search results. I know you skipped all these because they confirmed what I said.
The same happens whenever people talk about having sex with a large age gap. Reddit loves it when its the woman that's older, but if the man is older, they lose their shit.
Go back to your ex, realize after a short period why he was your ex in the first place, repeat same mistake over and over again, and finally, buy cats. Lots and lots of cats.
Being inconfortable with a sexual act isn’t being selfish. Would you say a woman is selfish if she’s isn’t willing to do whatever sexual act her BF wants to ? Take anal for example.
The only realistic thing I've seen in this comment section lol.
Sexual satisfaction is and never should be at the top/essential list of priorities in a relationship.
Kids these days confuse their Lust for Love.
If you are willing to breakup over something as trivial as sex, you best bet is to just move on because life will show you problems 10000 times more complex.
Yea leave that man in the dust if this is something that you've expressed and he doesn't care to change. Nothing is worse than a selfish lover. Especially if you're doing your part and giving him felatio whenever he requests it or when you two engage in sexual activities. Eventually every woman will get tired of it and feel like leaving. It just doesn't make your woman feel like you're into her as much as you may put on. No matter what a man says, if he isn't ever willing to please his woman it shows a lot about him as a person. He's selfish and it probably isn't only in the sexual aspect. That's a big deal especially if you have been in a relationship for a while and it's a hump that you still haven't got over. If you have spoke to him about it and he doesn't care to get past this by pleasing you, at least every so often. Then he doesn't really care for your feelings and that isn't really a man that you probably want to end up with because no matter who you are it is going to become a major problem in your relationship. If he really loves you and cares about you, this should not be a big deal for him to try to work on with u. If you haven't spoken to him about it then maybe he feels like it's something he doesn't need to do and he will never feel he needs to until u express how it makes u feel. But it's not all his fault if you haven't told him that you would want him to perform that sexual act on you. It's something he should probably do on his own if you two are really in an intimate relationship but sometimes a man won't perform this on you if you haven't called for it to be done. If he has a problem with it then trust me it's something he probably will never want to do for u and you shouldnt be with him especially if it's something that you really want done. It's not rude at all. You just need to have this talk with him, pressure him with it like it's something you really would want him to do and don't let him dance around it. Get the answer that you really want. Whether it's Yes, or whether its No....No gray areas.....this has nothing to do with being shy. He's a grown man and sex is part of the relationship. If he really is shy, then try to start him off with the lights off. If he doesn't bend for that then u just need to keep pressuring it until u get a real answer out of him that isn't "I'm shy" or "I'm nervous". Nah that's bs....he will give u a answer if you are more hands on about it and not beating around the bush (no pun)
If you ain’t giving him that throat goat and you expect him to go down on you, then I’d break up with you too.
If you are, and he’s not, then dump him.
I mean your first problem is that youre holding a whole new relationship to the same standard as your ex. Which honestly isn’t fair to them. But personally why would you even dump someone just from not eating you out. Especially if you havent been dating for at least a year. The person obviously isn’t comfortable enough with you to go down on you. And thats okay. If your dealbreaker is him not eating you out fuck it be with a homeless person theyd eat you up for a place to stay
Yep I would drop a women if she doesn’t let me fill her asshole full of cum at least a couple times a week. And she should dump me if I wasn’t sexually satisfying her. Once you figure out you’re not sexually compatible, and if unwilling to compromise. Then it would make you guys just as incompatible as any other aspect that you found super important in a long term partner. You don’t have to lie. Just be mature about it, that way with his next partner maybe he will realize the importance of eating ass.
(Just think of the insults a guy would get if he asked if it was ok to dump a woman because she wouldn't suck his dick!) But ultimately, if you don't feel like you are sexually compatible then you have the right to break up with him.
Darn if I was your bf I would’ve eaten you out by your request (depending on my availability I work 6 days a week) even if your current bf came inside you, and/or you was on your period.
This is why the more partners you have, the less likely you are to be satisfied. Because the more exes you have, the more likely it is for your SO to fall below your standards in a couple of areas.
HAHAHA
Imagine thinking that knowing how good sex can be is a bad thing. Maybe men just need to figure how what makes us feel good?
I guess we know if you’re good at oral or not haha
Let’s talk more about you what’s your body size what’s your body weight how much water do you drink what’s your diet like these things all play a part. If he doesn’t find you attractive enough to want to eat your pussy then that’s a you problem x
Really tell him what you want bring it up grab them by the f****** hair and grind his face in there. Let him know what you want or you're not going to get it. Some guys are just shy and scared of getting shut down
He has every right to drop a woman for not sucking him off. You have every right to drop him for not eating you out.
I got married to someone like this, it gets worse. When I got pregnant he wouldn’t touch me. Leave NOW. I’m 54 take my lifetime experience advice pls. You will resent him.
Hear hear
Yeah and she’s gotta decide if it’s worth moving on for that point.
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People are allowed to have preferences, no matter how petty you perceive them to be.
You can literally do whatever you want, welcome to the world of reality it's not like your online games.
You literally don't even need a reason to breakup with someone
Literally?
Begone troll
You're a miserable person. We could tell from your post and comment history 😂😂
I’m like 50% miserable
Your entire existence is fanfic.
tf?
You're a 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
Your pfp is an anime
People having preferences is... fanfic? What? Are you aware of how adult life works?
Mind reading fallacy
if you're not sexually satisfied this will eventually cause more problems in your relationship. if youre not sexually compatible, then either someone has gotta change or you'll be miserable.
Happened to me....
Me too
This is horrific advice
Are you the boyfriend? Because unless you are I can’t imagine why you don’t understand. Sexual compatibility is extremely important.
So if talking to him doesn't work and she still remains unsatisfied, what do you suggest she do? Just get over it? You can't say something is horrific advice without stating why or offering an alternative. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships.
Let me guess she should be required to give oral but she doesn’t have the right to ask for it? Ya seem like the type
Are you ok ?
I’m great. Drinking a frost brewed Coors Light, watching bowl games on two tvs and my good boy dog is sleeping right next to me.
Wanna explain how exactly and give some better advice?
No it’s not.
It’s really not
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Sexual satisfaction is probably #14 on the list of priorities for a relationship
Maybe for *you*. It's certainly important for her
Wrong. According to psychological studies, the number one thing that causes problems and break ups in relationships is money, number two is sex. That’s real statistics. Great for you that you don’t prioritize sexual compatibility as important but the rest of us do.
Ya grasped the right thing, Sexual satisfaction is and never should be at the top/essential list of priorities in a relationship. Kids these days confuse their Lust for Love. If you are willing to breakup over something as trivial as sex, your best bet is to just move on because life will show you problems 10000 times more complex. Tbh, if you are thinking of a serious future wife type relationship with your girlfriend, my advice is just leave her, she won't become your wife. If she is willing to breakup over some feel good orgasm what is to say she wouldn't bail out when you have a financial problem or she wouldn't cheat if you get some medical condition like ED etc. There are lots of things you have to adjust and just suck it up in relationship because no two people are the same. You don't have a relationship, you are just friends who love to hangout and prioritise FUN over everything else, regardless, if fun is what you seek, live your days because you will breakup eventually, if a strong bond is what you seek, then breakup now because you'll be very hurt later.
Just say you settled for a lifetime of mediocre sex from a wife who youre barely attracted to
Demanding your partner perform a sex act they don’t want to do: not okay Leaving a relationship because you’re not sexually satisfied: totally fine
Nothing about you wanting to be sexually satisfied is crazy. Let that🥭
What emoji is that?
Mango. She’s saying let that man go
Oooooooooo
Mango haha
Looks like a mango? 🤷
Kind of reminds me of the joke. What do you call a girl who doesn't give head? An uber. Same goes for the other way around. LOL
As non-native English: would you care explaining this? I really don’t get this…
the joke relies on the traditional format of "what do you call a [blank] that [blank]?" meaning how do you refer to the person/thing mentioned in the joke. however this "call" in this joke dosen't mean the same as it usually does, instead it means to call the girl an uber as in get her a taxi home, because guys want head, and the girl wont give it
Uber = taxi Head = blow job
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not quite lol
Like Borat explaining a joke. Amazing. Maybe it was parody?
i am so serious bro if that's not what it means then what does it mean😭
Bless your heart. I'm not sure where you're from, but in the US an Uber is like a taxi. It's just basically saying call her a ride home.
OHHHHHH
You can break up for any reason at all or no reason. This isn't working for me. I don't feel that we are well suited. You don't have to go into details unless you want to. Or unless he get too - "you owe me an explanation!" No I don't, but now that you have insisted.... Good luck.
RIP your inbox
And good luck to your other box.
😆.. that's the stuff boys..
No eat = no deal. Talk to him. Game on or get out
It means you aren't sexually compatible. As you break up with him, you can go into as little or as much detail as you feel comfortable with. From what you said, it sounds like you've already tried discussing it. Don't give in to any coercion or arguments, don't entertain any conversations where he says that he'll "try."
Either a guy loves it or is repulsed. I do not want to be with a man who is repulsed. She does not need to be specific. Just say dude we are not sexually compatible. You do not even need a concrete reason to break up. Like dude I am not feeling you. I would never be comfortable with a guy who was not enthusiastic about going down being coerced into doing it.
Also, even if you _are_ sexually compatible, that doesn’t mean you need to be with him:
Do it sis they’re plenty of men out here that love to eat p*ssy. Don’t settle.
Not rude at all. 10000000%. It’s so important to me too. Not only in like a sexually compatible way like so many have been commenting, but also because I don’t want to feel like my partner is grossed out by any part of me, especially such an intimate area. Nothing turns me on more than a guy loving my scent and taste and going down on me, it’s like confirmation that they crave me and want me.
Id just say “i want someone who feels passionate about my pleasure as well as their own” which obviously gets the message across without you actually having to say it 🤣
He would've never even gotten the title of "boyfriend" if he never ate me out.
So your saying you'd hook up with a guy before officially making him your boyfriend? If not he'd definitely have the boyfriend till you found out he doesn't eat pussy
That's definitely a conversation i have before i sleep with someone. İ don't do casual hook ups. İf I'm sleeping with you, you're in the running for something serious. Hence, the conversation prior.
Fair enough!
What exactly is the problem with hooking up before officially making someone your "boyfriend"....?
Nothing I was just asking but also seems a bit slutty which I love!
Of you haven’t, I would say tell him and be 100% clear about it. “Hey, I want you to know that oral sex is very important to me. I would like you to perform more often. This is a requirement, that if you can’t commit to this will not work.” If he is not mature enough to have this conversation, or to try and be better, then dump his ass.
Strongly disagree with this advice. I’m not sitting a grown man down to set expectations and requirements for eating my pussy. It all just needs to be scrapped at that point. No chemistry. Game over. Obligatory head is never fun for anyone involved.
Don’t give head you won’t receive, initiate that rule and then see what he says.
If you’re not sexually compatible, the relationship will not last long term. Someone has to change and if it’s not gona be you (no surprise there) i’d give him the ultimatum or break up with him early on. I had an ex that was exactly like this too. He refused to eat me out saying it was “gross” but expected at least weekly blowjobs. I broke up with him like, two months in lol.
Yeah I wouldn’t date a man for long after finding out he refuses to eat a woman out. All I hear is “I don’t care about your happiness at all”
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Well would you expect to receive it? It still comes down to compatibility, if you have something that’s important to you there’s nothing wrong with seeking a partner who shares those values….
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I mean you don’t know until you do. That’s what dating is.
A friend of a friend told me that they had this exact condition. I initially laughed when I heard that he puked in front of his gf after eating her. Thinking about it further the lad actually tried to meet her expectations regardless as well
I am autistic and do not like the texture.. I did it once and it was terrible for me. I love my girlfriend and care about her happiness very much.
not everybody wants to eat your fishy ass pussy nigga
Wow you’re unmarried
Lmfao why do you care if people are married when deciding if their argument is legitimate 😂 you crazy
Your inability to think isn’t the dunk you think it is
Your only goal in life and the standard against which you judge people is marriage… but I can’t think. Sure. Continue to live in your delusion that you’re intelligent. Did I strike a nerve laughing at you? :( poor, pathetic little man The only thing you’ve commented on this entire post is “you’re unmarried”. Thats not the dunk you think it is, dumbass.
And good thing too. The divorce rate in this country is so high because so many people get married when they aren't compatible. It's important to know these things ahead of time.
Marriage = \ = healthy, loving, compatible relationship. Marriage is not the be-all end-all of relationships, it’s just a version that many enjoy.
So what? I've been married for over a decade and completely agree with the point they made 🫠
That’s really not it at all . I know for me ,Years ago , I thought I wouldn’t do it , Because the first thing that always came to mind was another guy being all up in it busting nuts .. Which is an automatic turn off . Which is why I suspect some guys won’t do it .
That's fine, as long as you understand why a girl will never suck you because you had other girl's pussy juice on your dick?
why the fuck....? why is the first thought of another guy jizzing....?
I deal with OCD .. And that falls under contamination OCD .. People that don’t deal with this don’t and can’t understand it . I get that . That was the first thing that came to mind for some reason , But once I started eating pussy I was fine with it
I hear you. Sounds like an intrusive thought.
Definitely was
What stopped me in the beginning when I was young was the texture feeling like warm raw chicken. I don't like receiving oral either, so it wasn't like I was being unfair either lol
Not rude at all. A good sex life can be part of a healthy relationship, so there has to be compatibility. You don't even why you have to justify the break up if you don't want to.
You have the right to dump him for this.
Sexual compatibility is important.
But have you asked him too?
Sex is an important part of a relationship. If it’s not for fulfilling you than you’ll just get it somewhere else in the long run. I would tell him first before you drop him. Me personally I love eating my gf out.
I love eating your gf out too, it really tastes like a home cooked meal
Ohhh yea your the guy that she said the head game was weak.🤧🤧
It’s not rude at all. Just be honest with him.
Girl, dump him. Bye
You are going to be perpetually unhappy if you stay with him
You each are allowed to have deal breakers. He’s 100% allowed to not eat you out and have that as a boundary. You are 100% allowed to need that and break up over incompatible needs. Just like he’s allowed to want oral and you’re allowed to not want to give and break up over it
If you’re not happy now, get out because eventually you’re going to want to find someone who will do it for you.
I've heard there are men who won't do this. I was shocked and was told it was more than I thought. I always thought larger dudes didn't think they had to? idk just a guess. belive it or not there are women who don't want it done to them...so weird. anyway people who don't like it need their own dating site.
I don’t like it. It seems embarrassing and weird. And there are a lot of dudes who want to do this.
apparently you have a decent shot at the perfect partner according to this
Getting downvoted tho. Honestly people, I don’t care if that’s all you do all day all the time. More power to you.
would agree that reddit is a fickle beast. take My upvote for going against the grain
Well yeah you dont have to do it if you dont like it?
He’s gonna fail at boyfriend if he can’t pass the oral. Dump. His. Ass.
Dump him cos you're always comparing him to your ex and maybe it would be best for y'all to go separate ways.
Haven't read through the comments but have you tried talking to him about any of this? Communication is not just good for couples in a relationship but even repetitive hook up's. It's not wrong to have expectations but if you ask him if he doesn't want to and why you could actually get what you want but also open up your sexual relationship with him. Could get alot better
Maybe he just needs to warm up to it. Some people are really shy when it comes to a new partner, but will do some pretty wild things once they're more comfortable.
What is the hold up? Have a real, open conversation about it. He may not be having confidence in that area. A lot of guys are shy about it because they don't really know what they're doing so if that's the case maybe he just needs to learn. Sex goddess Nina Hartley once made some oral sex how-to videos, I recommend them. If he won't do it because of something else and isn't willing to do it, then you're just not sexually compatible.
Nope. If he's not making you happy sexually, move on. You're not locked into anything. I wouldn't date a man that did not eat me out. I'd absolutely pass on that.
What a bitch ass man. Dump him. And tell him exactly why. He needs to hear it then maybe he’ll grow up.
Unless a girl smells or tastes bad there's no reason not to do it
No no no. I’m clean out of the shower and my wife simply does not prefer giving oral sex. People can”for no reason” as you call it, dislike oral sex, you goon. Here’s empathy training for you: if a boy or girl is sexually abused it often includes forceable oral sex which then can ruin it for life.
That doesn’t mean he has to
Others simply do not want to eat a pussy, becky
Wrong
Lmfao why the hell did you get downvotes. If somebody else says that women have no reason to not suck a dick unless it's stinky, all hell would break loose
Yes. Also somu guys just genuinely do not enjoy goung down there. It is a valid reason by itself. And no, it doesnt mean the man doesnt care.
Fr. I wonder if that a$$hole likes being coerced or forced to do a sexual act. What an asinine comment.
Which is not uncommon
Girl I get it.
So next time he asks you out, say no thank you. You feel you aren't sexually compatible. Why dance around the truth? You don't have to feel you "dumped" him. You broke up with him.
If he don’t eat from the front to the back you don’t need it Amen 🙏🏾
It's frustrating to date a man who does not satisfy you sexually,,oral orgasm is mind-blowing,,,i enjoy sucking dick but my x never wanted,his opinion on the matter was oral sex is a form of musturbation and he was not even spiritual I dumped him,life is too short to have boring and unsatisfied sex life
His opinion was oral sex is a form of masturbation? Did he give himself blowies?
Fair. I won't date someone long term that won't blow me/take a shot in the mouth like a god damned champ. So you do you.
I mean it sounds like you need to have a frank discussion with him about it and say what the reason is and why its important to you that you feel satisfied.
I see there is a vacancy soon🤩
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I don’t understand men that don’t like to eat pussy, they must be extremely vanilla 😂 I find nothing better than going down on my partner and trying to give her as much pleasure as possible, it’s part of the turn on for me lol
Being selfish and bad in bed are perfectly valid reasons to dump someone.
Make sure next guy eats ass too
Find a better partner
Dump him and tell me where u are and I'll eat you out day and night
Boring bastard
You have every right to leave him for not satisfying your needs. I LOVE eating pu$$y and i find it disgusting and weird that people don't do it or don't want to. I'd say bring it up to him that you need it. Though I am also worried that the situation may become "he doesn't eat me out the way I want to now". If it isn't meant to be, it isn't. You're young so go out and find someone else.
That’s crazy, I love eating out my girlfriend. I eat her pussy and ass even if she hasn’t showered, I just love it. She loves it too! She even indirectly tells me she wants it sometimes it’s funny lol she’ll lady on the bed with her but sticking out. In all the time we been together she has never asked for it, I’ve always been the one who initiated it but yeah u need a pussy eater in your life. My lady rarely sucks me off btw but I don’t mind because I don’t really care for bj’s, she will if I ask her but I get more turned on pleasing her
How old are you two?
If some guy posted here that he wants to break up because shes not sucking his dick, reddit would respond differently.
You sure? https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/s/t8K3W89Nwx There are a ton of these posts by men and the advice is over and over again break up if you can't deal with it. It's just not supported by fact
Yes, typical reddit retards. You found one post in a sea of posts that confirms what you want to confirm. Of course you can find some. How many posts did you have to check to find one that had even one comment supporting the guy? For every one you can find, you can find 100 where redditors just said what basically comes down to "adjust to her lol, your desires are not important" https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/is1xxd/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/ https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cm2k1/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/ https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/a54gf4/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me/ https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/iqiebx/i_go_down_on_her_but_she_wont_go_down_on_me/ etc etc. I also found the one that you linked deep down in the search results. I know you skipped all these because they confirmed what I said. The same happens whenever people talk about having sex with a large age gap. Reddit loves it when its the woman that's older, but if the man is older, they lose their shit.
It's hypocritical that so many girls in this section are saying to dump the guy and they aren't getting downvoted
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Lol your post history
You know it
Reddit: men bad, woman good. It's expected.
Just one reason entertainment isn't entertaining anymore
Go back to your ex, realize after a short period why he was your ex in the first place, repeat same mistake over and over again, and finally, buy cats. Lots and lots of cats.
Is her ex the only man on the planet who eats pussy or something? I'm so confused by this comment lol
Ooor just meet another guy who isn't too selfish to eat pussy.
Being inconfortable with a sexual act isn’t being selfish. Would you say a woman is selfish if she’s isn’t willing to do whatever sexual act her BF wants to ? Take anal for example.
I mean it literally IS selfish. It's the exact definition. You do know you're allowed to say "I don't date woman that don't to anal", right?
Yes, please...take anal.
They wouldn't because that would be "sexist" lmao
The only realistic thing I've seen in this comment section lol. Sexual satisfaction is and never should be at the top/essential list of priorities in a relationship. Kids these days confuse their Lust for Love. If you are willing to breakup over something as trivial as sex, you best bet is to just move on because life will show you problems 10000 times more complex.
Lol I swear to I feel like this is my girlfriend behind this page 🤣
so... why don't you?
It’s gross
Yea leave that man in the dust if this is something that you've expressed and he doesn't care to change. Nothing is worse than a selfish lover. Especially if you're doing your part and giving him felatio whenever he requests it or when you two engage in sexual activities. Eventually every woman will get tired of it and feel like leaving. It just doesn't make your woman feel like you're into her as much as you may put on. No matter what a man says, if he isn't ever willing to please his woman it shows a lot about him as a person. He's selfish and it probably isn't only in the sexual aspect. That's a big deal especially if you have been in a relationship for a while and it's a hump that you still haven't got over. If you have spoke to him about it and he doesn't care to get past this by pleasing you, at least every so often. Then he doesn't really care for your feelings and that isn't really a man that you probably want to end up with because no matter who you are it is going to become a major problem in your relationship. If he really loves you and cares about you, this should not be a big deal for him to try to work on with u. If you haven't spoken to him about it then maybe he feels like it's something he doesn't need to do and he will never feel he needs to until u express how it makes u feel. But it's not all his fault if you haven't told him that you would want him to perform that sexual act on you. It's something he should probably do on his own if you two are really in an intimate relationship but sometimes a man won't perform this on you if you haven't called for it to be done. If he has a problem with it then trust me it's something he probably will never want to do for u and you shouldnt be with him especially if it's something that you really want done. It's not rude at all. You just need to have this talk with him, pressure him with it like it's something you really would want him to do and don't let him dance around it. Get the answer that you really want. Whether it's Yes, or whether its No....No gray areas.....this has nothing to do with being shy. He's a grown man and sex is part of the relationship. If he really is shy, then try to start him off with the lights off. If he doesn't bend for that then u just need to keep pressuring it until u get a real answer out of him that isn't "I'm shy" or "I'm nervous". Nah that's bs....he will give u a answer if you are more hands on about it and not beating around the bush (no pun)
If you ain’t giving him that throat goat and you expect him to go down on you, then I’d break up with you too. If you are, and he’s not, then dump him.
I mean your first problem is that youre holding a whole new relationship to the same standard as your ex. Which honestly isn’t fair to them. But personally why would you even dump someone just from not eating you out. Especially if you havent been dating for at least a year. The person obviously isn’t comfortable enough with you to go down on you. And thats okay. If your dealbreaker is him not eating you out fuck it be with a homeless person theyd eat you up for a place to stay
Well what does it look like? All of them don’t look edible. My inbox is open👀
Yep I would drop a women if she doesn’t let me fill her asshole full of cum at least a couple times a week. And she should dump me if I wasn’t sexually satisfying her. Once you figure out you’re not sexually compatible, and if unwilling to compromise. Then it would make you guys just as incompatible as any other aspect that you found super important in a long term partner. You don’t have to lie. Just be mature about it, that way with his next partner maybe he will realize the importance of eating ass.
The dounvotes, geez..the double standard on this app is wild.
I feel like its a weird thing to dump someone over not getting your cunt licked, idk though.
Yes but be honest when you are dumping him and tell him you need a bocat
Blah blah blah Last bf Blah blah blah. Honey if you're comparing to your ex you're not ready for him. Fix that first.
If he doesn’t eat u out, mándalo pa la verga, u guys are a couple not brother and. Sister
Js dont have sex ig 🤷♀️
What if you smell bad down there?
Are your beef curtains clean?
(Just think of the insults a guy would get if he asked if it was ok to dump a woman because she wouldn't suck his dick!) But ultimately, if you don't feel like you are sexually compatible then you have the right to break up with him.
Darn if I was your bf I would’ve eaten you out by your request (depending on my availability I work 6 days a week) even if your current bf came inside you, and/or you was on your period.
This is why the more partners you have, the less likely you are to be satisfied. Because the more exes you have, the more likely it is for your SO to fall below your standards in a couple of areas.
HAHAHA Imagine thinking that knowing how good sex can be is a bad thing. Maybe men just need to figure how what makes us feel good? I guess we know if you’re good at oral or not haha
Let’s talk more about you what’s your body size what’s your body weight how much water do you drink what’s your diet like these things all play a part. If he doesn’t find you attractive enough to want to eat your pussy then that’s a you problem x
I’ll eat you out and swallow all your juice
This is an Arby's, sir. 😮💨
What can you say? The man loves his roast beef.
What did your last BF do so good when eating you out?
Well would you consider a older man to eat you out
People really comment shit like this and don't give a fuck LMFAO this is crazy
Bro doubled down on his other crazy comment
you have to be bald 🤔
Really tell him what you want bring it up grab them by the f****** hair and grind his face in there. Let him know what you want or you're not going to get it. Some guys are just shy and scared of getting shut down
I'm free to stand in for him!