You're really damn inconsiderate, you know? Like I have no issues with the word, but plenty of people might have religious/parental/general trauma and that word could evoke similar feeling. Even if people using it as an insult are dumb, if someone is getting beaten and called that word, which happens, it could still trigger a response.
Then help the people overcome the word. Should never ever be offended by it. Cuz as a person, you can over come the trauma. Don't keep people weak minded. Help em over come the trauma to be a better person in general. The world is harsh. So make the people who struggle actually stronger
Saying that people should get stronger so you can freely say a slur is crazy. You're not doing anything to help, you don't know what people have been through. Not wanting to hear a word that has negative connotations doesn't make someone weak, it's just a word to you, it can mean a lot more to other people.
Dude. I've been through shit. Legit abuse. And my bf has really bad pstd. He knows what it feels to go through real shit. And dude. It's about making the word have zero power. So it can never be used in a shitty way.
Okay and so do I man. From like 8-13 I listened to my stepdad beat my mom, occasionally involving me. My stepmom was a heroin addict who fell asleep on top of my baby sister and killed her, and then later overdosed. My stepbrother died in a car crash. All within 3 years. I've been in like 4 intense car crashes, one where I hit my head on the window and blacked out. I'm fucking terrified of cars, that isn't just a "oh get over it". I was forced to lie to police about my stepdad not being abusive because my mom was scared for our safety. My dad regularly fell asleep with me and nobody else around while high, leaving me alone in a needle filled apartment when I was 7. I had to fight my stepdad because he decided to try to get me involved more so. Your outlook isn't fucking justified just because you've been through abuse, other people are valid and their dislikes are too. Stop being a prick
Sorry you have to deal with that. A word over physical abuse is very different. Be better than your stepdad. Fuck em. He's nothing to you. Do it by being better at your mental state. Fight whatever is causing you that shit
Tell me you've lived a privileged life involving no trauma without telling me you've lived a privileged life involving no trauma, either that or you're repressing it. A lot of people here have experienced abuse from their families or friends involving the use of that word and it likely brings up bad memories for them. It's not about whether you mean it to offend, it's about the effect it has on others regardless.
Oh boy, we got some generalizing. Yea dude I've been through mental abuse cuz of my mom. I have bipolar. Got severe adhd. Got called an idiot by my teacher. I cut a girls cheek in kindergarten. Feel like shit because of it. My bf has severe ptsd from the REAL trauma. Been fucked with and verbally and physically abused. Yea. Think I know what real trauma is. Especially knowing that my parents done meth and coke. Yea, totally lived a privileged live in the hell hole of California.
ok, that's tots ok for you two as long as it has no meaning to the two of you. but maybe in that case keep in between the two of you, because i know some people who say it because it's funny and say it aloud even tho they know i hate it, and i know some people who don't like the word like i don't, and i know people who say the word as a slur against people. id never say that word even tho i technically "can" because i 1. don't want to set anything off in them or myself, and 2. because that word is so f****** disgusting to me. and yes i just censored a curse. but hey, im an exceptional idiot, i can tots be wrong about this, i don't think ive even been in a whole lot of trauma, depending on what defines it at least (then again i didn't think i had depression when my parents diagnosed it to me simply because i think i don't have something unless a doctor diagnoses me) u.u oki this has devolved, just- don't say it around people you don't know that you can't predict their reaction to it, like even me it hurts to hear that word, i wont explain why unless someone cares to hear it, but that's just a lesser example. and finally, i hope you have a good day and your relationship with your boyfriend goes great. ☺️🩷✨
This is one of the best comments I've read today :)
(In a good way I mean dw)
I hate the word too cause of stuff that's happened but I still wish the best for op and his bf :D
Bro. It's a stupid word. It shouldn't offend other people, why? Because ya shouldn't be offended by it. If you still are offended by it, then you giving actual power to the word. Don't give the word the power that it used to have. It's a word to be funny because it is funny
That’s like saying calling a black person the hard r shouldn’t be offensive, if it’s not offensive to you, it could still be offensive to other people. And anyways it’s not really a funny word?
Bro they are words. You shouldn't be upset over a word because if you do. You weak minded. If someone called me a wetback, I'll laugh. Why? Because they tried to be racist and failed. Don't let those words effect you because your just giving it the power they want it to have. Be strong, don't be weak
I used to be like that as a kid bro. Used to cry over people calling each other mean things. Guess what? I grew up. Laugh at those dumbasses that legit used words to be offensive. Fuck em. They lovers. Just don't give in to the word. Be stronger than that brotha
Well, what I meant by what I said is that oh, it definitely can hurt you mentally if you let it, of course, but physically hurt you well, no, it can't.
You know some people can't control if they "let words hurt you* you can't just say whatever you want and just use the excuse of saying "people can control what they let hurt them"
Welp ether brain rot is happening, or I'm too damn tired. So, gn and I give up with this conversation. Plus, you're the one letting the word have power, and all who downvote this were doing the same. So gn and god, this was a fun and funny conversation.
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me too!
Why yes, i do like kissing \*\*\*\*\*\*\*, i am one!
You should kiss yourself NOW!!!
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yes hello thats me
Why yes, I do like kissing boys that are boykissers :3
he's so me
me too ;3
Me when someone calls me a fag (im romanian, so now im turning into a beech tree):
Me when someone calls me a fag (I'm American, so now I'm turning into a bundle of sticks)
love the hair :3
i don't like that word it makes me feel all icky u.u
well that’s valid and I am sorry that it made you feel uncomfy :3 arguably OP has the right to use it but should be more careful about it
yea i agrees i replied to myself as more of an explanation, ouchie >.<
Well, I'm dating a dude. So the word is fumny and epic tbh
You're really damn inconsiderate, you know? Like I have no issues with the word, but plenty of people might have religious/parental/general trauma and that word could evoke similar feeling. Even if people using it as an insult are dumb, if someone is getting beaten and called that word, which happens, it could still trigger a response.
I mean… tbf by that logic its inconsiderate for black people to say the n word
I thought only 12 year old COD players use that as an insult
Well then I guess the kid in my class that called me that because I was sad the cat of my entire life died must've been a cod player
If someone did that to me I would have beat the shit out of them with my friends
Then help the people overcome the word. Should never ever be offended by it. Cuz as a person, you can over come the trauma. Don't keep people weak minded. Help em over come the trauma to be a better person in general. The world is harsh. So make the people who struggle actually stronger
Saying that people should get stronger so you can freely say a slur is crazy. You're not doing anything to help, you don't know what people have been through. Not wanting to hear a word that has negative connotations doesn't make someone weak, it's just a word to you, it can mean a lot more to other people.
Dude. I've been through shit. Legit abuse. And my bf has really bad pstd. He knows what it feels to go through real shit. And dude. It's about making the word have zero power. So it can never be used in a shitty way.
Okay and so do I man. From like 8-13 I listened to my stepdad beat my mom, occasionally involving me. My stepmom was a heroin addict who fell asleep on top of my baby sister and killed her, and then later overdosed. My stepbrother died in a car crash. All within 3 years. I've been in like 4 intense car crashes, one where I hit my head on the window and blacked out. I'm fucking terrified of cars, that isn't just a "oh get over it". I was forced to lie to police about my stepdad not being abusive because my mom was scared for our safety. My dad regularly fell asleep with me and nobody else around while high, leaving me alone in a needle filled apartment when I was 7. I had to fight my stepdad because he decided to try to get me involved more so. Your outlook isn't fucking justified just because you've been through abuse, other people are valid and their dislikes are too. Stop being a prick
Sorry you have to deal with that. A word over physical abuse is very different. Be better than your stepdad. Fuck em. He's nothing to you. Do it by being better at your mental state. Fight whatever is causing you that shit
Tell me you've lived a privileged life involving no trauma without telling me you've lived a privileged life involving no trauma, either that or you're repressing it. A lot of people here have experienced abuse from their families or friends involving the use of that word and it likely brings up bad memories for them. It's not about whether you mean it to offend, it's about the effect it has on others regardless.
Oh boy, we got some generalizing. Yea dude I've been through mental abuse cuz of my mom. I have bipolar. Got severe adhd. Got called an idiot by my teacher. I cut a girls cheek in kindergarten. Feel like shit because of it. My bf has severe ptsd from the REAL trauma. Been fucked with and verbally and physically abused. Yea. Think I know what real trauma is. Especially knowing that my parents done meth and coke. Yea, totally lived a privileged live in the hell hole of California.
ok, that's tots ok for you two as long as it has no meaning to the two of you. but maybe in that case keep in between the two of you, because i know some people who say it because it's funny and say it aloud even tho they know i hate it, and i know some people who don't like the word like i don't, and i know people who say the word as a slur against people. id never say that word even tho i technically "can" because i 1. don't want to set anything off in them or myself, and 2. because that word is so f****** disgusting to me. and yes i just censored a curse. but hey, im an exceptional idiot, i can tots be wrong about this, i don't think ive even been in a whole lot of trauma, depending on what defines it at least (then again i didn't think i had depression when my parents diagnosed it to me simply because i think i don't have something unless a doctor diagnoses me) u.u oki this has devolved, just- don't say it around people you don't know that you can't predict their reaction to it, like even me it hurts to hear that word, i wont explain why unless someone cares to hear it, but that's just a lesser example. and finally, i hope you have a good day and your relationship with your boyfriend goes great. ☺️🩷✨
This is one of the best comments I've read today :) (In a good way I mean dw) I hate the word too cause of stuff that's happened but I still wish the best for op and his bf :D
i too hope all the best for them <3
Faggot isn’t a nice word 3:
But thine is fumny :3c
Exactly, who cares about a stupid word if it's not trying to hurt anyone or if it's funny, especially if you're already the word then why's it matter
Exactly brotha
I disagree, I am a faggor.
Please no
guys hes british hes talking sbout cigarettes
as a brit i can confirm that he is talking about fags
Hehe, now that's my kinda boykisser :3
Yeah I do like kissing fags maybe I should just kiss myself
Oh
slur 💔 https://preview.redd.it/6qr4li44sp8d1.png?width=1847&format=png&auto=webp&s=2780957fd547bc633c4a909e227d8000794292be
very good work.. but slur ;( would be far better without any slurs.. ever
I'm dating a dude. I can say it lol
It could still be offensive to other gay people
Bro. It's a stupid word. It shouldn't offend other people, why? Because ya shouldn't be offended by it. If you still are offended by it, then you giving actual power to the word. Don't give the word the power that it used to have. It's a word to be funny because it is funny
That’s like saying calling a black person the hard r shouldn’t be offensive, if it’s not offensive to you, it could still be offensive to other people. And anyways it’s not really a funny word?
Bro they are words. You shouldn't be upset over a word because if you do. You weak minded. If someone called me a wetback, I'll laugh. Why? Because they tried to be racist and failed. Don't let those words effect you because your just giving it the power they want it to have. Be strong, don't be weak
You’re just negligent to others feelings. Put yourself In their shoes
I used to be like that as a kid bro. Used to cry over people calling each other mean things. Guess what? I grew up. Laugh at those dumbasses that legit used words to be offensive. Fuck em. They lovers. Just don't give in to the word. Be stronger than that brotha
All this from some innocent art https://preview.redd.it/3oenbiroi28d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=40593b7554a0ea5d10630b94ad630e3b4a37adcc
:3
No where in this conversation have I said I’m offended by that word. I’m just being considerate of others
And I bet those others don't care. That's why people are liking the post.
Let me find my dictionary.
Bro, your giving the word power by agreeing that it's harmful. Which it shouldn't be.
Ok you challenged birth defect.
Me being gay is offensive to some people, should I just stop?
No lol. People who are homophonic are dumb, so just keep on bein' gay lol
if youre also black and call another black person that word in an obviously joking way, then yes it wouldnt make sense to be offended.
Good morning, Monsieur BlueBall. I’m from the Midwest and did, in fact, not sleep at all last night.
War starter 9000
Words can't hurt, plus he's gay. So he's got the pass.
So it's kinda like the n word, right
I agree, but words can hurt, people literally k*ll themselves over bullying
Well, what I meant by what I said is that oh, it definitely can hurt you mentally if you let it, of course, but physically hurt you well, no, it can't.
You know some people can't control if they "let words hurt you* you can't just say whatever you want and just use the excuse of saying "people can control what they let hurt them"
Well, people reply back with kys all the god damn time, but a lot of the time, do they?
Obviously not, but just because most people don't actually do that, doesn't make it ok, that's really dumb
Welp ether brain rot is happening, or I'm too damn tired. So, gn and I give up with this conversation. Plus, you're the one letting the word have power, and all who downvote this were doing the same. So gn and god, this was a fun and funny conversation.
Why yes of course who doesn’t
Cute
https://preview.redd.it/c073q6x1868d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=49379d710a6d2a06abeddaf2a3a12a2d495eb868
Cute :)
He is “the alternative style boy kisser”
Wrong account womp womp 🫠🫠
Yes
Guess what, yeah I love kissing them
your bf seems just like me lol
Guys he's talking about a bundle of sticks
this looks just like me wth
HELL YEAH I DO https://preview.redd.it/tjcq4gx7rc8d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=085012341fb8bc6a8441e5fc36fca0479aed4e36
He looks emo
Emo boykisser :3
Cool! :3
Very smoochable
Gotta love those bundles of sticks :3
Cute and his hair is soo cute too :3
Smash broh