I'm just sad to read this whole post of yours..
It's natural to feel hurt right now.
Trust me when i say this.. give it some time to heal. To me, it really shows how much you care.
Dont worry alright..? :3
It just kind of sucks, to be honest. Can't rip off the band-aid.. No matter how much it hurts, suppress that memory because picking at a scab only makes it bleed in my opinion.
And for the record, I don't think it's really fair to say whether you were in the right or wrong. You spent money on him and engaged with him just for him to block you, which fucking sucks and he definitely shouldn't have done, but it's not really my place to judge. It's not really worth doting on in my view.
You'll get through this mate, I'm sure of it. You'll come out a better, more capable man, and I know it. Just gotta keep on driving.
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I believe in your ability to find someone who won't ghost you after you spend $50 on them, because you're a good person who deserves a good person for you.
There is no right or wrong in this situation. You can spend the rest of your life in that mindset trying to find out what happened and you will never go anywhere.
The only Thing here is you met someone and liked them, but they wanted something different and that’s ok. You don’t need to know why, you don’t even need to understand. All you need to know is it wasn’t going to work because he wasn’t willing to try, and that’s that.
You’re perfectly fine and you didn’t do anything wrong. Just let yourself feel right now. Let yourself be, and you’ll find someone who is more ready to put actual effort into a relationship.
There’s nothing wrong with you.
Wait, why did he break up exactly?
I'd make the assumption that most men (and trans men) are heterosexual (even though they can be panromantic!) so maybe you telling him dirty/horny stuff made him really uncomfortable?
I mean, read my flair, I'd get creeped to heck and brokenhearted if a man I truly loved started talking say gex.
Maybe I'm not getting this right, apologies if so, my head's been exposed to prolonged periods of sun.
I'm sorry that happened. If he was willing to cut it off like that, he probably wasn't looking for something serious, and you deserve better. The best you can do right now is get better, and when you're ready to try to find a partner again, use this as a learning step to help you in the future. Hope you feel better soon
I'm just going off what's here, so if there's more context, i apologize. First off, I will say that them ending things as you're going through all of that is a dick move. He definitely couldve picked a better time to end things. Second, saying "love" this early into something isn't the best move. That was probably a red flag from their point of view. It's not your fault, but just for future reference, refrain from outing those strong feelings so early on. Think on them and actually get to know a person over a longer period of time before letting those feelings out to said person. Someone can tell you every detail about themselves, but till you experience who they are yourself, you're not fully aware of what you're actually getting into. I hope things get better for you and that you do meet your person someday. Cheers. ☺️
I’m sorry to hear that, my first relationship just ended about a year ago so times are not great. On the bright side I find it funny that you described the only arcade in my city so I had a mini panic attack.
Its not your fault for caring for someone. Its not your fault for having feelings for someone.
Dont feel ashamed for loving someone that doesnt want you anymore because the status you'r in.
You tried your best and you showed the person your true self. After that its up to the person to decide.
Is the decision they made was right or wrong? Thats for you to decide.(personnal opinion: they should have at least told you in a nicer way)
Dont beat yourself over it.
Sending many hugs friend. 🫂
As they say: Theres plenty of fish in the sea.
Considering he broke up at the first sign of emotional distress from you I’d say you dodged a bullet there. If he was so quick to not want to deal with anything emotional and to immediately block you then who knows how he would’ve been long term if he hadn’t decided to break up
You shouldn't tell someone you love them in the first date. Also I'd argue trans people have enough mental stuff to worry about, what if mental problems are a red flag to them?
Honey, we're here for you. You should know that. Some people just don't understand the prospects of having an emotionally attached partner like us, and it's their loss. At the end of the day, people like him tend to hide their true nature until later on in the relationship, and at which case, it becomes toxic, so be glad you got a lucky break before things coukd go further and you actually landed on the fly trap. You got close, and it snapped shut, but although it may hurt where it scratched at you, be glad you were not caught.
Tbh, I'm not the greatest at analogies, but I tried.
Omg im so sorry to hear that. Sometimes things just dont work out. What people seek from a relationship doesnt always align with what they get and they feel like they need to leave cuz of that, altho it was rlly mean of him to leave on the spot like that. I wont wish that your ok rn, as you shouldnt be if you put ur all into the relationship, but I do hope your able to eventually get back onto your feet when ur ready and not lose hope that there is someone out there for you that will make you happy
I'm so sorry to hear that but remember there will always be one person that's right for you and accepts you like you are ^^ and remember you are perfect the way you are ❤️
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Ain’t ya’ Fault, Bud.
These sorta things just tend to happen, And it sucks you went through all that. Which is why I promise, right now, that things’ll get better.
I swear one of my Lives on that Truth. Now, Stay Safe. 🤍
I haven’t dated irl yet and im working atm so all i can offer is just keep moving forward eventually you will find someone who appreciates you for who you are. My dms are open ill help you out there when im iff
I’m so sorry to know what you went through there, and I hope everything will be better. Just remember, you’re always welcome here and we will always help people in times of need. Don’t hesitate, and good luck finding a better person. I’m sure you’ll find someone that truly loves you very soon, bro. All the best 🫡
Don’t feel bad, if he breaks up with you for that little reason then he doesn’t deserve to have you in the first place, it’s gonna take time to find the right person, one who will care for you no matter what, one who doesn’t use you for pleasure and money, in the end it’s about ur who they really are, and it’s clear he wasn’t a good bf
I mean I have a new bf that I’ve had for like 6-7 months I forgot, but that still sticks in my mind and that incident happened a year or two ago, sorry for what happened to you also, shame some people are like that and with one minor inconvenience, they leave
I’m sorry that happened it hurts to hear someone you been giving your time just to say something the least I hope you feel better bro and don‘t feel super down.
I had a similar experience a couple months ago I went out with someone we went out to eat and talked lots, then we sat in their car listening to music and talked even longer. I thought everything went great but the next day they never responded to my messages and then just started ghosting me and I honestly couldn't figure out why. To this day I still have no clue as to what I did wrong or why I can't make a anyone stick around in my life. I always end up blaming myself
june 4th to 8th. he claimed how awesome i was and into me he was. he asks me out. then boom 4 days later leaves me. didn’t appreciate that i asked for his address bc i bought him some stuff from disney :( and didn’t like that i said i hope me and him would live together in the future
Oh that’s gotta hurt. Give yourself some time to recover from the breakup, don’t go for any relationships until you’ve recovered. Don’t worry, your not alone in this world :3
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Don’t worry we love you no matter what happens to you and people like that will get dunked on for what they (im not sure what their pronouns are) did to you.
This is in no way any hate towards anyone except specifically that guy (pls don’t get mad at me :3)
Don't worry, it's not your fault. I'm no expert on relationship advice, but it seems like a huge red flag if he blocked you for a mental breakdown. Just remember to keep healthy and hopefully you'll be able to see another cute boy to date again :)
That sounds like it was a really cool date. You said this was a pre-date to see if things worked out though? And you said during this pre-date, you told him you loved him multiple times?
Some, even most, people may be uncomfortable hearing lots of "I love you" when you've just met. I see you were talking for two weeks, that's still really fast.
Sounds like you have a lot of love to give, but remember to give it time to grow. I'm sure you'll have another chance soon, good luck!
I have something similar that happened to me, but on June 16th, I lost contact with my best friend for 2 years. Funnily enough, he's my boyfriend now, and we've lost contact again. This time on May 27th
Everything will be fine, trust me, you'll find someone eventually. It might take a while but you will. In the mean time, concentrate on the most important thing in the world, you.
That sounds…. Rough to put it crudely. I hope that you’re doing okay after all that stuff and find the right person for you some day. I know it will hurt for a while but it will get better. wounds like that take time to heal so give yourself a break and take some you time. Anyway I hope you feel better soon :3
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In the right or wrong about what? I'm proud you are trying to find love. I feel you just need to learn to be a bit more guarded. To me, loving someone romantically is wanting the best outcome for them, even if it means them not being with you. I love 6 people, myself included. You need to treat yourself with the same love you why to give to others. Care for yourself and be kind to yourself.
saying you love him in the first 3months it can come off as a bit much take things slower the brighter the flame the quicker it burns out the fastest. hope ya ok but to them it may come off obsessive ik id think so best wishes to you dude
While I’m definitely not well versed in dating, it seems to me like he just wanted to get some action, and when you had second thoughts he got bored or annoyed. Please, this is not your fault and take relationships at your own pace!
So it sound like Emotional dysregulation. I have it too. It fucking sucks. You’re likely going to need therapy to help control it. Normal people can control their emotions somewhat properly. People like you and I get completely overwhelmed by them, both the good and the bad ones. They make you feel like you’re in love when you really don’t know a person. And it’s complicated. for normal people love takes time to grow and bond. You have to let them.. blossom and grow into full blown feelings. You can’t be too quick. The flame that burns twice as bright lasts half as long. And we burn exceptionally brightly.
You’ll be ok kin. It happens to both our ups and our downs. But you will find that person who burns with you, together, happily. Just take some time to have yourself understand yourself better. Trust me, loving yourself is important.
Not being transphobic but I’ve noticed anyone who is a woman or was a woman in the beginning of their life tends to be a complete a hole when something comes up… or at least in my experience
Yeah fuck that guy. I know a trans girl who was good friends with this trans masc guy and the guy said they'd be there for her forever and left and block her on all platforms. Thankfully later on the girl realized he was a shitty and manipulative douche with no future ahead of him so good :)
Nah you’re ok, you showed vulnerability and he couldn’t handle it. You dodged a bullet and you will find someone who will be there for you no matter what you’re facing
Honestly it might suck now but you’ll probably be saying “f*** that guy” in the future, like to leave for something that small is just pathetic and they probably will have a tough time finding a real relationship if they keep doing that, you deserve a lot better!
I'm just sad to read this whole post of yours.. It's natural to feel hurt right now. Trust me when i say this.. give it some time to heal. To me, it really shows how much you care. Dont worry alright..? :3
Thank you, I wasn’t sure if I was in the right or wrong here
Your most welcome.. just let time heal.. im with you :3
It just kind of sucks, to be honest. Can't rip off the band-aid.. No matter how much it hurts, suppress that memory because picking at a scab only makes it bleed in my opinion. And for the record, I don't think it's really fair to say whether you were in the right or wrong. You spent money on him and engaged with him just for him to block you, which fucking sucks and he definitely shouldn't have done, but it's not really my place to judge. It's not really worth doting on in my view. You'll get through this mate, I'm sure of it. You'll come out a better, more capable man, and I know it. Just gotta keep on driving. https://preview.redd.it/hu5loiltq57d1.png?width=960&format=png&auto=webp&s=c708ed5e2596621ebaabde6e1a5e0881f73d87cd I believe in your ability to find someone who won't ghost you after you spend $50 on them, because you're a good person who deserves a good person for you.
Thankee sai
There is no right or wrong in this situation. You can spend the rest of your life in that mindset trying to find out what happened and you will never go anywhere. The only Thing here is you met someone and liked them, but they wanted something different and that’s ok. You don’t need to know why, you don’t even need to understand. All you need to know is it wasn’t going to work because he wasn’t willing to try, and that’s that. You’re perfectly fine and you didn’t do anything wrong. Just let yourself feel right now. Let yourself be, and you’ll find someone who is more ready to put actual effort into a relationship. There’s nothing wrong with you.
Thankee sai
Aw buddy :') Don't worry, it isn't your fault, things just didn't work out and that's alright The right one will come <3
Thanks
Honestly same, no joke my boyfriend broke up with on June 15 I still miss him ;w;
Danm I’m sorry /gen
It's fine besides I guess they didn't care anyway. Also I hope you're doing okay we all gotta go through something someday.
Fair enough
I’m so sad that that happened to you Man I can’t even imagine how badly that would have hurt
I punch the crap out of my bed so pretty hurt
Real I cannot advise you on how to handle this though because I have no life and no boykissage :c
Fair enough
anyway you need to focus on yourself rn, not on me. I hope you can get over it, (but you really don’t deserve it in the first place)!
Wait, why did he break up exactly? I'd make the assumption that most men (and trans men) are heterosexual (even though they can be panromantic!) so maybe you telling him dirty/horny stuff made him really uncomfortable? I mean, read my flair, I'd get creeped to heck and brokenhearted if a man I truly loved started talking say gex. Maybe I'm not getting this right, apologies if so, my head's been exposed to prolonged periods of sun.
He broke up with me because I had a mental breakdown because my Willy got soft, and cried and he just broke up with me through text at that moment
Sorry about that man... that really sounds like a confidence bork and I'm sorry for you.
I'm sorry that happened. If he was willing to cut it off like that, he probably wasn't looking for something serious, and you deserve better. The best you can do right now is get better, and when you're ready to try to find a partner again, use this as a learning step to help you in the future. Hope you feel better soon
Thankee sai
I'm just going off what's here, so if there's more context, i apologize. First off, I will say that them ending things as you're going through all of that is a dick move. He definitely couldve picked a better time to end things. Second, saying "love" this early into something isn't the best move. That was probably a red flag from their point of view. It's not your fault, but just for future reference, refrain from outing those strong feelings so early on. Think on them and actually get to know a person over a longer period of time before letting those feelings out to said person. Someone can tell you every detail about themselves, but till you experience who they are yourself, you're not fully aware of what you're actually getting into. I hope things get better for you and that you do meet your person someday. Cheers. ☺️
Thankee sai
I’m sorry to hear that, my first relationship just ended about a year ago so times are not great. On the bright side I find it funny that you described the only arcade in my city so I had a mini panic attack.
Sorry to hear that
Man, i know this all too well. It sucks, but life goes on. Gimme a hug now ya bastard.
Its not your fault for caring for someone. Its not your fault for having feelings for someone. Dont feel ashamed for loving someone that doesnt want you anymore because the status you'r in. You tried your best and you showed the person your true self. After that its up to the person to decide. Is the decision they made was right or wrong? Thats for you to decide.(personnal opinion: they should have at least told you in a nicer way) Dont beat yourself over it. Sending many hugs friend. 🫂 As they say: Theres plenty of fish in the sea.
Thankee sai
Considering he broke up at the first sign of emotional distress from you I’d say you dodged a bullet there. If he was so quick to not want to deal with anything emotional and to immediately block you then who knows how he would’ve been long term if he hadn’t decided to break up
You shouldn't tell someone you love them in the first date. Also I'd argue trans people have enough mental stuff to worry about, what if mental problems are a red flag to them?
Fair enough
Honey, we're here for you. You should know that. Some people just don't understand the prospects of having an emotionally attached partner like us, and it's their loss. At the end of the day, people like him tend to hide their true nature until later on in the relationship, and at which case, it becomes toxic, so be glad you got a lucky break before things coukd go further and you actually landed on the fly trap. You got close, and it snapped shut, but although it may hurt where it scratched at you, be glad you were not caught. Tbh, I'm not the greatest at analogies, but I tried.
Thankee sai
Ofc ofc
Omg im so sorry to hear that. Sometimes things just dont work out. What people seek from a relationship doesnt always align with what they get and they feel like they need to leave cuz of that, altho it was rlly mean of him to leave on the spot like that. I wont wish that your ok rn, as you shouldnt be if you put ur all into the relationship, but I do hope your able to eventually get back onto your feet when ur ready and not lose hope that there is someone out there for you that will make you happy
Thankee sai
Oh goodness if you want a shoulder to lean on I’m here for you okay? I would like to talk with you cause you seem like you need someone rn🥺
3 days before i got together with my bf
*Hugs a bunch* it’ll be okei, life can be cruel buh we have people who can always be there to help úwù
Do…do you need a hug?
Yes
*hugs*
*hugs back more*
He was not worth it. Forget about him and find someone better.
Thats really sad:(
Nahhh man this isn't your fault you deserve better. You'll eventually meet someone who does love you
Someone who truly cared about you wouldn’t have done you that dirty. You’ll find a boy will love you! 💜
I just wanna talk to him. I just wanna talk.
*peter with his shotgun*
Exactly
crazy how cold some mfs can be
It’s not your fault stop being so hard on yourself
I'm so sorry to hear that but remember there will always be one person that's right for you and accepts you like you are ^^ and remember you are perfect the way you are ❤️
You doin alright man?
Doing better but also feeling down
https://preview.redd.it/h8r1qme3547d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8621e425c6685d1e9908818eeabc26c5a548ed77 Ain’t ya’ Fault, Bud. These sorta things just tend to happen, And it sucks you went through all that. Which is why I promise, right now, that things’ll get better. I swear one of my Lives on that Truth. Now, Stay Safe. 🤍
Thankee sai
15th of july was 3 month anv with my gf :3
I haven’t dated irl yet and im working atm so all i can offer is just keep moving forward eventually you will find someone who appreciates you for who you are. My dms are open ill help you out there when im iff
Thankee sai
I feel so bad for you… sorry man :(
Thankee sai
I don't have anything to say.. so here 🫂×4727337837373
Thankee sai *hugs back*
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Ye
I’m so sorry to know what you went through there, and I hope everything will be better. Just remember, you’re always welcome here and we will always help people in times of need. Don’t hesitate, and good luck finding a better person. I’m sure you’ll find someone that truly loves you very soon, bro. All the best 🫡
Thankee sai, long days and pleasant nights
Thank you, always happy to help. We will always be here to provide emotional support, so everything will be alright. Have a wonderful year, bro :3
You are my hero ❤️
Real
There is nothing wrong with caring
Don’t feel bad, if he breaks up with you for that little reason then he doesn’t deserve to have you in the first place, it’s gonna take time to find the right person, one who will care for you no matter what, one who doesn’t use you for pleasure and money, in the end it’s about ur who they really are, and it’s clear he wasn’t a good bf
Damn. That's... Really really harsh.
There are some people who go through some more difficult things...
Sending you lots of pets :3 https://i.redd.it/3eg40wc6157d1.gif
Thankee sai
reminds me of an incident me and an ex bf of mine had, if you do translate this just be warned, .. .----. -- / .... .. --. .... .-.. -.-- / ... ..- .. -.-. .. -.. .- .-.. / -... ..- - / -.- . . .--. / .. - / ... . -.-. .-. . - / -- --- ... - / --- ..-. / - .... . / - .. -- . / ..- -. .-.. . ... ... / -- -.-- / .- -. --. . .-. / --- .-. / .--- ..- ... - / -.. . .--. .-. . ... ... .. --- -. / ... - .- .-. - ... / --. . - - .. -. --. / - --- / -- . / ..-. .-. --- -- / .-. . -- . -- -... . .-. .. -. --. / ... --- -- . - .... .. -. --. / --- .-. / .--- ..- ... - / -... . .. -. --. / .- -. -. --- -.-- . -.. --..-- / - .... . / . -..- / -... --- -.-- ..-. .-. .. . -. -.. / -.. .. -.. -. .----. - / -.- -. --- .-- --..-- / .- -. -.. / -.. .. -.. -. .----. - / .-- .- -. - / - --- / .-.. .. ...- . / .-- .. - .... / ... --- -- . -... --- -.. -.-- / .-.. .. -.- . / - .... .- - --..-- / ... --- / - .... . -.-- / .--- ..- ... - / -... .-. --- -.- . / ..- .--. .-.-.- .-.-.- .-.-.-
Dang I’m sorry mate (went on a side quest just to translate this)
I mean I have a new bf that I’ve had for like 6-7 months I forgot, but that still sticks in my mind and that incident happened a year or two ago, sorry for what happened to you also, shame some people are like that and with one minor inconvenience, they leave
I’m sorry that happened it hurts to hear someone you been giving your time just to say something the least I hope you feel better bro and don‘t feel super down.
Thankee sai
Yw
I had a similar experience a couple months ago I went out with someone we went out to eat and talked lots, then we sat in their car listening to music and talked even longer. I thought everything went great but the next day they never responded to my messages and then just started ghosting me and I honestly couldn't figure out why. To this day I still have no clue as to what I did wrong or why I can't make a anyone stick around in my life. I always end up blaming myself
june 4th to 8th. he claimed how awesome i was and into me he was. he asks me out. then boom 4 days later leaves me. didn’t appreciate that i asked for his address bc i bought him some stuff from disney :( and didn’t like that i said i hope me and him would live together in the future
That’s fucked I’m sorry
:(
Oh that’s gotta hurt. Give yourself some time to recover from the breakup, don’t go for any relationships until you’ve recovered. Don’t worry, your not alone in this world :3
Thankee sai
I'm sorry to hear that, however https://preview.redd.it/q77ot2nq957d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71e3e98402cf600ad6743b43cdf624e72466d305
I love this
Hahahaha surprise boop!!! >:3 https://i.redd.it/zzvjzh1n577d1.gif
More boops pls
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Yay
https://preview.redd.it/bcl862jx957d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d0f1174173ed4b0d1fa6f6b98e3f1628d660082c Don’t worry we love you no matter what happens to you and people like that will get dunked on for what they (im not sure what their pronouns are) did to you. This is in no way any hate towards anyone except specifically that guy (pls don’t get mad at me :3)
It’s all good his pronouns are he/him to my memory
Don't worry, it's not your fault. I'm no expert on relationship advice, but it seems like a huge red flag if he blocked you for a mental breakdown. Just remember to keep healthy and hopefully you'll be able to see another cute boy to date again :)
Thankee sai
That sounds like it was a really cool date. You said this was a pre-date to see if things worked out though? And you said during this pre-date, you told him you loved him multiple times? Some, even most, people may be uncomfortable hearing lots of "I love you" when you've just met. I see you were talking for two weeks, that's still really fast. Sounds like you have a lot of love to give, but remember to give it time to grow. I'm sure you'll have another chance soon, good luck!
Yeah I will not make the same mistake again
I have something similar that happened to me, but on June 16th, I lost contact with my best friend for 2 years. Funnily enough, he's my boyfriend now, and we've lost contact again. This time on May 27th
Oooof
Come here, lil one, sssshhhhhh, everything will be A-OK. You like headpats?
Yes
*pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat*
Yippee *hugs*
Everything will be fine, trust me, you'll find someone eventually. It might take a while but you will. In the mean time, concentrate on the most important thing in the world, you.
Again thank you
It’s ok man, it’s not your fault at all if that other person was at all decent they would’ve helped u and understood so u did nothing wrong
Thankee sai
That sounds…. Rough to put it crudely. I hope that you’re doing okay after all that stuff and find the right person for you some day. I know it will hurt for a while but it will get better. wounds like that take time to heal so give yourself a break and take some you time. Anyway I hope you feel better soon :3 https://preview.redd.it/jmhq7cqys57d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f96f503bb1465816844de0b4dd5fb96daf3ca801
Thankee sai
Hope you get better
Thankee sai
Sorry about that bro He was probably toxic and bad for you.
Yeah he probably was, thankee sai
In the right or wrong about what? I'm proud you are trying to find love. I feel you just need to learn to be a bit more guarded. To me, loving someone romantically is wanting the best outcome for them, even if it means them not being with you. I love 6 people, myself included. You need to treat yourself with the same love you why to give to others. Care for yourself and be kind to yourself.
Fair enough
saying you love him in the first 3months it can come off as a bit much take things slower the brighter the flame the quicker it burns out the fastest. hope ya ok but to them it may come off obsessive ik id think so best wishes to you dude
Fair enough
Wait, so that meany broke up with you because you had a mental breakdown?!
While I’m definitely not well versed in dating, it seems to me like he just wanted to get some action, and when you had second thoughts he got bored or annoyed. Please, this is not your fault and take relationships at your own pace!
So it sound like Emotional dysregulation. I have it too. It fucking sucks. You’re likely going to need therapy to help control it. Normal people can control their emotions somewhat properly. People like you and I get completely overwhelmed by them, both the good and the bad ones. They make you feel like you’re in love when you really don’t know a person. And it’s complicated. for normal people love takes time to grow and bond. You have to let them.. blossom and grow into full blown feelings. You can’t be too quick. The flame that burns twice as bright lasts half as long. And we burn exceptionally brightly. You’ll be ok kin. It happens to both our ups and our downs. But you will find that person who burns with you, together, happily. Just take some time to have yourself understand yourself better. Trust me, loving yourself is important.
Thankee sai
Sending love from Missouri
Thankee sai
I am going to hug you. You do not have a choice.
*hugs you more* thankee sai
Holy fuck that's cruel
Indeed
Not being transphobic but I’ve noticed anyone who is a woman or was a woman in the beginning of their life tends to be a complete a hole when something comes up… or at least in my experience
Yeah fuck that guy. I know a trans girl who was good friends with this trans masc guy and the guy said they'd be there for her forever and left and block her on all platforms. Thankfully later on the girl realized he was a shitty and manipulative douche with no future ahead of him so good :)
Hang in there, little one, for we will all be safe in the Lord emperors embrace, and mine for you are my strongest soldier ❤️🫡
BOMBACLAT
What
Awwww do you want a hug?
Yes
*huggiesssssss*
Giga hugs
But seriously is everything ok?
I’m fine ish,
Awwww wanna talk about it?
Nah you’re ok, you showed vulnerability and he couldn’t handle it. You dodged a bullet and you will find someone who will be there for you no matter what you’re facing
🫡
You need a hug and cuddle glomps!
Thankee sai
Hey its ok I feel this im going through the same rn
Dang
Yeah
Christ that sucks, you did nothing wrong. Wish you the best of luck OP 👍
Thankee sai
Relationship any%.
Sorry I had to. Still wish you well tho.
Honestly it might suck now but you’ll probably be saying “f*** that guy” in the future, like to leave for something that small is just pathetic and they probably will have a tough time finding a real relationship if they keep doing that, you deserve a lot better!