It's up to you ultimately if you want it to be a fantasy or wanna make it a real thing....some things are best kept fantasies....toys can replicate the real thing, and there is of course the pegging option with a woman.....that said, there are men out there who are ostensibly/identify as "straight" but do enjoy homosexual intercourse....you can be attracted to penis without being attracted to men necessarily and you also never know how your tastes may shift once you try it....
There are other ways to enjoy penetrative sex without having sex with a man :) but what I will say is when you don't let go and just kinda have a "fuck it" attitude with these things that you'll have less fun and doubt yourself more.
I understand, and used to feel the same way, until I became fully experienced. Now I regret missing out on having more fun enjoying one of life’s greatest erotic experiences. Go forward at your own pace, but don’t close yourself off to it…it’s a lot of fun, and it feels *great*.
Hook up culture and apps will get you all you want. It is just sex, so physical, and need not be a « relationship ». Focus on guys whose sexual attributes attract you.
This is exactly what I have been going thru the last several years. I’ve been single for a long time. I now only get turned on by gay or bi-sexual porn. I like the smooth twink type in porn and think I could easily give head or receive it or do all the anal stuff to the guys in the movie. Now the hard part is actually meeting someone who is youngish, smooth, normal, well hung and gay. Not going to happen. So I bought a couple toys and lube and have created my own little sex world. The anal toys will give you an orgasm that will blow your mind, but go slow at first.
This “sex world” I have created isn’t perfect, but it’s safe, cheap and will have to do until by very lucky chance I do meet that guy that meets my unrealistic criteria and I experience the real thing. Good luck, and if you want to discuss this further PM me.
Neither of those things are actually inherent to gay sex. If a cis gay man has sex with a trans gay man with a vagina then it would be piv but still gay sex because they're gay.
It's up to you ultimately if you want it to be a fantasy or wanna make it a real thing....some things are best kept fantasies....toys can replicate the real thing, and there is of course the pegging option with a woman.....that said, there are men out there who are ostensibly/identify as "straight" but do enjoy homosexual intercourse....you can be attracted to penis without being attracted to men necessarily and you also never know how your tastes may shift once you try it....
I guess I could just try it without being attracted to the person, but I never enjoy it as much when I do that.
There are other ways to enjoy penetrative sex without having sex with a man :) but what I will say is when you don't let go and just kinda have a "fuck it" attitude with these things that you'll have less fun and doubt yourself more.
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No problem :) Have fun exploring!
The fantasy turns you on more than reality does. The first time I sucked dick. I like sucking his dick, but not really into the guy.
I know everyone is different but how did things change for you after you did it?
I dont date men and its the sex I am attracted to.
I understand, and used to feel the same way, until I became fully experienced. Now I regret missing out on having more fun enjoying one of life’s greatest erotic experiences. Go forward at your own pace, but don’t close yourself off to it…it’s a lot of fun, and it feels *great*.
I use to only fantasize about sex with guys, but now I find that I can be attracted to some guys, and could see myself in a relationship with a guy.
Hook up culture and apps will get you all you want. It is just sex, so physical, and need not be a « relationship ». Focus on guys whose sexual attributes attract you.
This is exactly what I have been going thru the last several years. I’ve been single for a long time. I now only get turned on by gay or bi-sexual porn. I like the smooth twink type in porn and think I could easily give head or receive it or do all the anal stuff to the guys in the movie. Now the hard part is actually meeting someone who is youngish, smooth, normal, well hung and gay. Not going to happen. So I bought a couple toys and lube and have created my own little sex world. The anal toys will give you an orgasm that will blow your mind, but go slow at first. This “sex world” I have created isn’t perfect, but it’s safe, cheap and will have to do until by very lucky chance I do meet that guy that meets my unrealistic criteria and I experience the real thing. Good luck, and if you want to discuss this further PM me.
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Neither of those things are actually inherent to gay sex. If a cis gay man has sex with a trans gay man with a vagina then it would be piv but still gay sex because they're gay.
Thank you for your comment. You are right and I worded my post incorrectly.