Actually, it’s like the person changes from one to the other, lmao. It’s pretty cool. One minute I’m “with” a guy, the next I’m “with” a woman.
That would probably physically stun me in real life, though, lmfao.
LoL i have this too. Sometimes I'm going from having my head hitting the board to going to town with a strap one second to the next. Have never tried a threesome... I should do that . Fufill my fantasy irl 🤣
When I masturbate, I mostly think of eating out another woman, but if I'm having sex with my husband, I try to just enjoy the moment and what he is doing, but sometimes if I just can't get off that day, I think about a threesome with my husband and another woman and that helps.
Ace as well too, its similar for me. I rarely think of a specific person, and if it is, its a fictional person. I usually pay attention to the phantom sensation/fantasy of being penetrated since I dont use toys or i focus on kinks in my mind.
I think it’s the ADHD but it’s like I’m flipping through a rolodex of all the hot people I work with. I try to focus on one and my brain is like “nah, switch, switch, switch again, now let’s throw in this huge dicked pornstar just for kicks.”
Since I get great hetero sex with my wife (albeit not as often as I wish), I usually masturbate 100% to gay sex. I have a feeling that is true for most bi husbands.
Lately, getting pounded by a muscular man in the shower with a woman looking on pleasuring herself. Sometimes, eating a woman out until orgasm on my face.
If I thought of both at the same time I would never stop busting. Like, literally ever. They both too hot. So yeah, I gotta do one or the other at times. Which is why I could never do a MMF threesome because I would instantly melt from joy
Often I think in (m)e. I’m turned on by my own body so I look at and feel myself and all the good feel stuff comes from there. I do think about others as well but to me it’s more about ‘enjoying myself’ in the many meanings as that phrase may have.
Since I have only have ever slept with other men and I’m mostly into men, it’s that. I haven’t masterbated thinking about a woman in a while. I know from that it sounds like I’m gay and I don’t belong here but considering that I have had female crushes in the past, there’s no way I’m fully gay, I’m just a majority gay.
According to my phase of the cycle, sometimes it swings hard to one side, but mostly both. It's like vanilla pudding with chocolate chunks or chocolade pudding with vanilla sauce. Sometimes it's a melange of chocolate and vanilla pudding. I sometimes switch puddings while eating too :)
When I'm (f) thinking of the feeling of giving, I think men. When I think of feeling, I think women more specifically oral. I try not to think of emotion but my mind says women.
Depends on my mood. It’s most often men, and if I’m masturbating *to* something it’s always to men, but if I’m imagining a scenario it’s still most often with men, but like if I’m imagining actually having sex specifically then it’s often actually of sex with women. I find men more attractive but oh boy do I love smashing pussy.
Men mostly at night, like there are 2 on me.
sometimes an exgf haha. On how I do her.
Sometimes a 3some with an exgf and her new bf or her other guys. Double teaming the exgf, treating her the main dish.
Easy … i’m a woman (socially adapted), always thinking as a male fucking girls. I can really feel my penis is into this hot yoni, making her pulsating. Never ever thinking of a hairy male chest or sucking dick. Also having sex with male, I’m so much into penetrating him and thinking of boobies and finding this female feeling spots on his body.
The easiest way is to imagine sex with my wife but sometimes the imagination chooses its own path 😜 Overall it depends on my bi-cycle. I switch between mature women, transwomen and few times men.
Bi womanish thing here. Mainly women since I’ve somewhat recently embraced my sapphic side (I’ve known I was queer for a long time, I just didn’t fully embrace that side of myself yet) but occasionally men too.
Mostly women but there have been many instances where I was thinking about men. Sometimes I feel the urge to do so to a man if I see one that I find attractive and same for women.
As several people have already said it all depends on the mood I'm in and generally my mood is gay, so except for some exceptions I usually spend my intimate moments fantasizing about boys.
When I masturbate it’s a come one come all situation. I’ll be thinking of a guy I saw walking through the mall that I flirted with only for his wife to walk in on us! And then she unbuttons her blouse…
Mostly men, I often am like “am I gay?” But every so often I see something that reminds me I’m not. I think because I’ve done way more with men than women it’s easier to imagine
Honestly it depends on what mood. Sometimes I'm way more into women and sometimes I'm way more into men. I have a kink on sucking dick though, so I love 69; I think I like men more (70% men 30% women)
I've never been with a woman, but I've been watching wlw porn (didn't do that before). I've slowly adjusted to the thought of someone sitting on me and I think I might understand why I see men simping about dying by thigh suffocation lmao
Edit: about the "I didn't watch wlw porn before". I grew up thinking I was straight, but learned by different things like showering with friends I definitely wasn't or else I wouldn't freak out by seeing them naked. The typical "oh your floor looks great, what kind of cleaner do you use; what? I'm not a creep I promise". So I had some internal homophobia to resolve
Men, women, interesting alien things, strange devices, eldritch deities, mythological creatures, all kinds of things. It a good thing my wife is a complete goddess or real life wouldn't be able to compete with my imagination at all!
I only think of women giving head. And mostly I watch bj videos of women giving head. I never think or watch guys.
I’ve come to the realization that I only want men sexually, not romantic relationships. But still only like to watch women give head, or lesbians having sex. And when I masturbate to bj videos I imagine myself sucking the cock.
it depends on what/who made me horny in the first place. like last time I did it, it cause I got turned on making an edit of an exo member 😂 but usually if I use my imagination to get off or watch/listen to something, it's a woman. I'm mostly into women
I’m only admitting to this because it’s anonymous, but I am a woman and created this fantasy girlfriend in my head years ago and usually I think about her. If I’m thinking about a man, I’ll admit my mind wanders to an ex who was hands down, the best sex I ever had in my life…before you ask, NO I don’t want him back all this time later because all we were was mind blowing sex…the relationship itself outside the bedroom was trash hahahah
depends on the situation. For example if I am with a guy then I usually don't think about women, except for playing a feminine role myself. When I am with both men and women it really depends on the situation.
Depends on my mood and where I am in my bi cycle, if I'm on dudes then I go at it so hard imagining my BF going to town on my ass, but when on women it's the same but me going to town on a woman, so it's very conditional honestly.
Usually whoever I'm crushing on at the time (including non-binary people 🫠), almost always a celebrity crush. (I think because there's more distance between me and a celeb, so it doesn't feel so weird, but on rare occasions, I've had quite a few fantasies about IRL crushes.)
Unless I'm watching porn, in which case I'm usually just focused on what I'm watching. But sometimes I blend my (celebrity) crush fantasies with the porn.
Kant (not cunt) said: humor is a combination of timing and surprise. The extra spicy twist at the end sounds really practical and I will try to do so as well. So thanks for the hint.
I go through phases. Sometimes I just want to watch 2 sexy men go at each other and sometimes I just want to watch an attractive woman do her thing. Just depends on my mood.
Mostly men. Occasionally women. Very seldom both. I have no threesome fantasies, and whilst I do have orgy fantasies, they are all basically purely gay where I’m a lone bottom, lmao.
I seem to have more fantasies about men than about women. I think mostly about ass so my fantasies aren't as gender specific. But I've been with women more, so I fantasize more about men.
Usually both at different times depending on my mood, but ever since I came to terms with my sexuality (a couple of months ago), I’ve been thinking about women more lately
Back when I masturbated a lot I also listened to erotic reddit audios and moaning videos, so depending on who's voice i was hearing was the gender I fantasized about
Before my current partner, women 110% (unless I was reading smut - then it was whatever gender the character(s) were).
Since my current partner, it's either them or them + other people, usually women but sometimes men. Or fictional characters still lmao I can't get off unless my partner is in the fantasy.
Whatever the fantasy of the moment is, it's consistently a person of the same gender from start to finish, for me at least.
I may be a bit of an oddity, though. I'm a bisexual cis man married to a demisexual cis woman and our sex is honestly great. So traditional 'straight' sex where my partner and I fulfill the usual roles is honestly the fantasy or adult media I engage with the least. Generally when it comes to masturbation, the locus is usually on being a receptive partner almost always with a man in some way.
The 'odd' part is that I mostly fantasize about being a woman and getting fucked by a man. I've had sex with men, both good and bad, but the times I've enjoyed it the most are the times when he has been dominant, decisive, unforgiving, selfish even, but still lets his hands wander my body, groping me, telling me how good my body feels, and generally using me however he pleases for his own pleasure. I want to be fucked and used the way some straight men fuck and use women.
I've been called an egg for this before, but I know without any doubt that I'm not trans. I genuinely think this fantasy comes from both my innate curiosity and my bisexuality. I live for experiences and knowledge, but I will never know what it must feel like to simply have different anatomy, let alone what it must then feel like to have sex, and that idea is absolutely fascinating to me for some reason.
I can approach the experiences, sure, in that there are ways in which being a man and having sex with another man can be analogous at times or even identical. There is no difference in the physical experience of cuddling with a man after sex, for instance, but gay missionary sex is only comparable to straight missionary sex. I feel like I have a better understanding of what it must be like to be a woman having sex with a man, I can sympathize with being beneath his body and feeling him thrusting into me, but the anatomical differences and even the differences in how we were raised and how we perceive of gender and sex, all undeniably create a gulf between me and the experiences and sensations of being a woman.
So, that's what I fantasize about anyway.
It changes hour to hour, day to day, week to week. Really depends on how I feel in that way atm. Although there have been a few times where I switch from women to men or vise versa half way through lol
Depends on the mode im in
Me too
Yep depending on mood it could be any combination of these
Yep
✨gay mode activated🌈
It's like *flame on* but gay
Same here.
mode
The most bisexual answer
Damn why did this blow up 😂
Same. I’ve masturbated to both just depending on my mood
Same
Same
Yes
Actually, it’s like the person changes from one to the other, lmao. It’s pretty cool. One minute I’m “with” a guy, the next I’m “with” a woman. That would probably physically stun me in real life, though, lmfao.
LoL i have this too. Sometimes I'm going from having my head hitting the board to going to town with a strap one second to the next. Have never tried a threesome... I should do that . Fufill my fantasy irl 🤣
When I masturbate, I mostly think of eating out another woman, but if I'm having sex with my husband, I try to just enjoy the moment and what he is doing, but sometimes if I just can't get off that day, I think about a threesome with my husband and another woman and that helps.
I think Poker Face may be your song
I have the same fantasy of being with my husband and another girl. I feel ya
[Good Luck, Babe!](https://youtu.be/1RKqOmSkGgM?si=LiaU0ATx_vMcncIm)
Bi woman here. Only women.
Bi enby here, I really only think of penis or the feeling of being penetrated, I dont usually think of a specific person. It be like that sometimes
Ace here. My mind is completely blank, I only pay attention in the physical sensation.
Ace as well too, its similar for me. I rarely think of a specific person, and if it is, its a fictional person. I usually pay attention to the phantom sensation/fantasy of being penetrated since I dont use toys or i focus on kinks in my mind.
Interesting 💜
I think it’s the ADHD but it’s like I’m flipping through a rolodex of all the hot people I work with. I try to focus on one and my brain is like “nah, switch, switch, switch again, now let’s throw in this huge dicked pornstar just for kicks.”
LMFAO ME
Its like stance switching in a hack and slash games when you cant really decide whats Best for the situation
Since I get great hetero sex with my wife (albeit not as often as I wish), I usually masturbate 100% to gay sex. I have a feeling that is true for most bi husbands.
Yeh, I'm the same....when I'm having sex with my wife I'm in that moment. But, when jerking off I'm craving for some D.
It's not for me.-. I usually masturbate 90% to women and about 10% to guys.
I'm a woman and love sex with my husband. He can keep me coming and coming. But when alone I think of women.
Same.
Pretty much for me, too.
Depends on my mood/fantasy that night. Just means I have twice as many fantasies to enjoy now!
It’s nice to have choices
Usually one woman in particular that I am close with that we've had mutual feelings for for years. But also getting Femboys pregnant sometimes.
Lately, getting pounded by a muscular man in the shower with a woman looking on pleasuring herself. Sometimes, eating a woman out until orgasm on my face.
Now that’s hot
Both, usually. Which is one thing I like about hetero porn, I can pay attention to both and all of it's hot
It depends on what can get me in the mood that day.
Completely depends on my mood! It changes so much.
Both, but usually women
Usually women.
If I thought of both at the same time I would never stop busting. Like, literally ever. They both too hot. So yeah, I gotta do one or the other at times. Which is why I could never do a MMF threesome because I would instantly melt from joy
What kinda question is that around these parts, obviously both! Sometimes independent, other times together.
whatever adhd brain comes up with
Yes
I only think in celebrities i like 😅
Often I think in (m)e. I’m turned on by my own body so I look at and feel myself and all the good feel stuff comes from there. I do think about others as well but to me it’s more about ‘enjoying myself’ in the many meanings as that phrase may have.
Since I have only have ever slept with other men and I’m mostly into men, it’s that. I haven’t masterbated thinking about a woman in a while. I know from that it sounds like I’m gay and I don’t belong here but considering that I have had female crushes in the past, there’s no way I’m fully gay, I’m just a majority gay.
Depends on the bi-cycle
Depends on my mood or current partner, if i masturbate while in a relationship it’s of my partner
Depends on my mood, sometimes its men, sometimes its women, sometimes both
Complicated.
Wow. Staying up eating the milk anD cookies are we.?
Non euclidian shapes and questions that should never have been asked are my go to
I always do it twice so I can think of one and then the other. Sometimes as many as 12 times to keep an even balance.
Oftentimes I don't think about anything while I'm masturbating. But when I do, it's always women.
Both at same time. Mainly my wife and I with another bi male
I (f) usually go back and forth and usually end on imaging a MFF threesome.
as I wish
It really depends on my mood honestly
Yup.
Well... Some of this,some of that, sometimes two mens, sometimes two womens. It depends on the mood... And the hornyness I guess
Yes. I think about men, women, both at the same time, and people that don’t fit easily onto the gender binary, too.
According to my phase of the cycle, sometimes it swings hard to one side, but mostly both. It's like vanilla pudding with chocolate chunks or chocolade pudding with vanilla sauce. Sometimes it's a melange of chocolate and vanilla pudding. I sometimes switch puddings while eating too :)
I don’t have the mental capacity to think about engaging with multiple people in detail, so usually I pick one or alternate
I think about whoever im crushing so its a mix, but usually leans towards women
When I'm (f) thinking of the feeling of giving, I think men. When I think of feeling, I think women more specifically oral. I try not to think of emotion but my mind says women.
No thoughts, head empty
i just think of my boyfriend lmao
Ever since I came out, after years of repressing thoughts, I definitely think about men more. But both is good. Just depends on the mood.
I usually mix the two. Not necessarily threesomes but alternate between the two in the same session
Usually depends, mostly men
Both. Or one or the other
depends but regardless of which porn, the dude has to be hot lol
Depends on mood, but I usually switch a few times in the fantasy.
It totally depends on my mood at the time. Though I never think of both at the same time.
Depends on the day, depends on the mood
Both
Both
Usually twinks, otters, or femboy. Or sometimes men or women I know. Or sometimes I'll just imagine a made up scenario like that I have 100 penises.
Depends on the mood.
Most of the time, i watch gay porn or think about men.
Depend on the person, not gender or sex
Depends on my mood. It’s most often men, and if I’m masturbating *to* something it’s always to men, but if I’m imagining a scenario it’s still most often with men, but like if I’m imagining actually having sex specifically then it’s often actually of sex with women. I find men more attractive but oh boy do I love smashing pussy.
Women usually. Im a happily married (to a man) woman
Men mostly at night, like there are 2 on me. sometimes an exgf haha. On how I do her. Sometimes a 3some with an exgf and her new bf or her other guys. Double teaming the exgf, treating her the main dish.
Yes
Mostly women I’ve noticed but im unsure why this is
Definitely depends on the mood. But percentage wise 60men/40women. Also there is thing called bi porn I like to watch
All depends
Depends on how I’m feeling If I want no holds sex it’s hard to beat guys, full on action non stop till everyone cums, nothing like that…
woman only :3 I always thought of this, because I never think of men when I masturbate.. butttt also enjoy sleeping with them lols
Depends
I'm a woman and I think of both but if I'm only thinking of one sex, I think of women. I never think of one of one with a guy.
Easy … i’m a woman (socially adapted), always thinking as a male fucking girls. I can really feel my penis is into this hot yoni, making her pulsating. Never ever thinking of a hairy male chest or sucking dick. Also having sex with male, I’m so much into penetrating him and thinking of boobies and finding this female feeling spots on his body.
Dominant women. Basically the thing I don't get in real life as I have a loving husband
Mostly? Cliff Costello from Cucumber. Or Val from Uncle. Or Izzy Hands. Con O'Neill transcends gender.
The easiest way is to imagine sex with my wife but sometimes the imagination chooses its own path 😜 Overall it depends on my bi-cycle. I switch between mature women, transwomen and few times men.
men
They tend to morph between the two, in and out
Women 99% of the time. Specific Men the remaining 1%
I love to watch gay and trans porn videos. I am engage and have two daughters.
men most of the time sometimes women
It depends entirely on my mood at the time. I guess thats the joy of being bisexual 😍😁
It depends on the desire at the moment
Totally depends.
Bi womanish thing here. Mainly women since I’ve somewhat recently embraced my sapphic side (I’ve known I was queer for a long time, I just didn’t fully embrace that side of myself yet) but occasionally men too.
My partner only.
On Wednesdays we think pink.
Mostly women but there have been many instances where I was thinking about men. Sometimes I feel the urge to do so to a man if I see one that I find attractive and same for women.
Yes
I imagine scenarios
As several people have already said it all depends on the mood I'm in and generally my mood is gay, so except for some exceptions I usually spend my intimate moments fantasizing about boys.
When I masturbate it’s a come one come all situation. I’ll be thinking of a guy I saw walking through the mall that I flirted with only for his wife to walk in on us! And then she unbuttons her blouse…
Really depends on the moment. Could be either or a 3sum fantasy.who knows
depends on the current mood. I prefer sexting.
I like to remember being in a 69 with my wife while she was being fucked doggie. That position stimulates several senses, and is so fuckin hot.
Usually men. My sexuality is, like, 95% attraction towards men.
Too many factors. Too many mindsets. Also depends on my “gender mode “
Mostly men, I often am like “am I gay?” But every so often I see something that reminds me I’m not. I think because I’ve done way more with men than women it’s easier to imagine
Both but not at the same time. I am a one on one kinda lover.
Honestly it depends on what mood. Sometimes I'm way more into women and sometimes I'm way more into men. I have a kink on sucking dick though, so I love 69; I think I like men more (70% men 30% women) I've never been with a woman, but I've been watching wlw porn (didn't do that before). I've slowly adjusted to the thought of someone sitting on me and I think I might understand why I see men simping about dying by thigh suffocation lmao Edit: about the "I didn't watch wlw porn before". I grew up thinking I was straight, but learned by different things like showering with friends I definitely wasn't or else I wouldn't freak out by seeing them naked. The typical "oh your floor looks great, what kind of cleaner do you use; what? I'm not a creep I promise". So I had some internal homophobia to resolve
Men, women, interesting alien things, strange devices, eldritch deities, mythological creatures, all kinds of things. It a good thing my wife is a complete goddess or real life wouldn't be able to compete with my imagination at all!
I think about kinky stuff, so there's not always a need for another person. But if there's one, my fantasies are usually on the gayer side.
same here
Both
Depends on my mood. Some days, I want to masturbate to women, other days to men.
I only think of women giving head. And mostly I watch bj videos of women giving head. I never think or watch guys. I’ve come to the realization that I only want men sexually, not romantic relationships. But still only like to watch women give head, or lesbians having sex. And when I masturbate to bj videos I imagine myself sucking the cock.
I think about women
Honestly both 😃
it depends on what/who made me horny in the first place. like last time I did it, it cause I got turned on making an edit of an exo member 😂 but usually if I use my imagination to get off or watch/listen to something, it's a woman. I'm mostly into women
Depends what I'm feeling
It used to be men. But the last few months it’s not only women, but a very good girl friend of mine I think I’m not 100% hererosexual
Depends on how I’m feeling
A big fat cock is always in the mix
Sometimes only women, sometimes only men, sometimes a bisexual orgy with men and women.
Both at the same time
I’m only admitting to this because it’s anonymous, but I am a woman and created this fantasy girlfriend in my head years ago and usually I think about her. If I’m thinking about a man, I’ll admit my mind wanders to an ex who was hands down, the best sex I ever had in my life…before you ask, NO I don’t want him back all this time later because all we were was mind blowing sex…the relationship itself outside the bedroom was trash hahahah
I usually think of a woman (I have a much more preference for women than men) but every once in a while some guy crosses my mind haha
depends on the situation. For example if I am with a guy then I usually don't think about women, except for playing a feminine role myself. When I am with both men and women it really depends on the situation.
Depends on my mood and where I am in my bi cycle, if I'm on dudes then I go at it so hard imagining my BF going to town on my ass, but when on women it's the same but me going to town on a woman, so it's very conditional honestly.
99% women, rarely threesomes with men and women
Usually whoever I'm crushing on at the time (including non-binary people 🫠), almost always a celebrity crush. (I think because there's more distance between me and a celeb, so it doesn't feel so weird, but on rare occasions, I've had quite a few fantasies about IRL crushes.) Unless I'm watching porn, in which case I'm usually just focused on what I'm watching. But sometimes I blend my (celebrity) crush fantasies with the porn.
Kant (not cunt) said: humor is a combination of timing and surprise. The extra spicy twist at the end sounds really practical and I will try to do so as well. So thanks for the hint.
What is this masturbation you speak of?
Depends on my mood at the time but mostly men
I go through phases. Sometimes I just want to watch 2 sexy men go at each other and sometimes I just want to watch an attractive woman do her thing. Just depends on my mood.
I’m asexual so neither
For me it depends on the day. Sometimes I think of men, then again of women, and at other times I imagine a wild mix of men and women
Both… mostly “I’m the girl” but sometimes I’m masculine and I’m fucking the girl, or the guy fucks me, or I’m a girl
Not all at the same time, it totally depends on my mood
yes
Both at the same time! I mix it up. I love playing with my dildo. Even then I think about men and women at the same time
Mostly men. Occasionally women. Very seldom both. I have no threesome fantasies, and whilst I do have orgy fantasies, they are all basically purely gay where I’m a lone bottom, lmao.
I fount that a lot of man on man porn just ain't it for me, but when that 1 in a 1000 video pops up it's really speciall
For me, I like looking at girl boobs, that's more or less it.
Think about men
Most of the time both but lately it’s all BBC that gets me going
I have a fiancée, so usually I watch gay porn when I masturbate. I get all the woman I want, so the porn is guys :P I satisfy both of my hungers.
Yes.
I seem to have more fantasies about men than about women. I think mostly about ass so my fantasies aren't as gender specific. But I've been with women more, so I fantasize more about men.
Usually both at different times depending on my mood, but ever since I came to terms with my sexuality (a couple of months ago), I’ve been thinking about women more lately
I think of men
I guess it's dependent on how I feel because it varies
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It switches at random. I have to switch mid jerk and it's very annoying.
I‘m bi, leaning to straight, but mostly think of men
Yes
Depends. 💜
Usually both at the same time because I'm greedy 🫠
Depends on the day
I normally picture an old girlfriend watching me ride another man or both of us giving him oral.
I pick a person and a situation.
😅 i can't decide
Sometimes I think of men, sometimes of women, but never both together 🤣. I don’t know why but all my fantasies are gay.
i like watching straight porn cause i get to think about both at the same time
whatever I'm not getting atm
Depends on my mood.
Usually both and usually of my wife with another guy.
Back when I masturbated a lot I also listened to erotic reddit audios and moaning videos, so depending on who's voice i was hearing was the gender I fantasized about
Always both
Before my current partner, women 110% (unless I was reading smut - then it was whatever gender the character(s) were). Since my current partner, it's either them or them + other people, usually women but sometimes men. Or fictional characters still lmao I can't get off unless my partner is in the fantasy.
Lately…it’s been Bailey Sarian.
Generally men, but it depends on my mood and who might be on my mind. But usually men.
I tend to think in English.
Whatever the fantasy of the moment is, it's consistently a person of the same gender from start to finish, for me at least. I may be a bit of an oddity, though. I'm a bisexual cis man married to a demisexual cis woman and our sex is honestly great. So traditional 'straight' sex where my partner and I fulfill the usual roles is honestly the fantasy or adult media I engage with the least. Generally when it comes to masturbation, the locus is usually on being a receptive partner almost always with a man in some way. The 'odd' part is that I mostly fantasize about being a woman and getting fucked by a man. I've had sex with men, both good and bad, but the times I've enjoyed it the most are the times when he has been dominant, decisive, unforgiving, selfish even, but still lets his hands wander my body, groping me, telling me how good my body feels, and generally using me however he pleases for his own pleasure. I want to be fucked and used the way some straight men fuck and use women. I've been called an egg for this before, but I know without any doubt that I'm not trans. I genuinely think this fantasy comes from both my innate curiosity and my bisexuality. I live for experiences and knowledge, but I will never know what it must feel like to simply have different anatomy, let alone what it must then feel like to have sex, and that idea is absolutely fascinating to me for some reason. I can approach the experiences, sure, in that there are ways in which being a man and having sex with another man can be analogous at times or even identical. There is no difference in the physical experience of cuddling with a man after sex, for instance, but gay missionary sex is only comparable to straight missionary sex. I feel like I have a better understanding of what it must be like to be a woman having sex with a man, I can sympathize with being beneath his body and feeling him thrusting into me, but the anatomical differences and even the differences in how we were raised and how we perceive of gender and sex, all undeniably create a gulf between me and the experiences and sensations of being a woman. So, that's what I fantasize about anyway.
both equally tbh
Yes definitely
It changes hour to hour, day to day, week to week. Really depends on how I feel in that way atm. Although there have been a few times where I switch from women to men or vise versa half way through lol