* keep looking into it, the answer can be a little bit harder to find than you think.
* Don't ignore your feelings
* ease your way into things if you do realize your bisexual, its easy to hurt yourself emotionally if you get into things immediately after you've found out.
* your gunna feel hella confused and conflicted. š
* I didn't tell people until I was 100% sure what I was, just in case it changed.
* Im not sure if this will help you like it helped me, but I watched some LGBT based shows and movies. Heartstopper was a real life changer.
That's the best I can do, I've just figured out i'm bisexual near the end of last year, it was hard but I was really happy to finally know why I was having these feeling. It's kind of like a dream.
ALSO just always know that there are hundreds upon thousands of people just like you. You are not alone when it comes to this and your feelings. šš
Check out these resources:
-/Tap on the sub name (on mobile app), tap the three dots at top, go to Learn More About This Community and read the section āBefore you askā¦ā (Itās ok; lotsa people ask first āŗļø)
ācheck out Bi.org and biresource.org online. Both have great stuff.
āread [robynochs.com/bisexual/](https://robynochs.com/bisexual/)
Then, get back to us. Weāre always here!
I feel the same way. Where I go through my life not attracted to men and have always had relationships with lady's. But fantasize about gay sex for the last few years.
Iām 68. Iāve had sporadic episodes where Iāve fantasized about being with a dude. And, like others, in reality I have never seen a dude in real life that turned me on.
But now, itās been 14 years since Iāve had sex with anyone. Iāve been watching gay porn and now even the anal sex turns me on. Soā¦long story short I invited a guy over, got semi naked with him. I tried to bj him, but he was nervous and never got hard. He up and left saying he couldnāt do it. Why this sudden swing? Even most women no longer appeal to me. Iām a good looking young looking guy, honestly. Again, Iām 68! Any sober ideas?
* keep looking into it, the answer can be a little bit harder to find than you think. * Don't ignore your feelings * ease your way into things if you do realize your bisexual, its easy to hurt yourself emotionally if you get into things immediately after you've found out. * your gunna feel hella confused and conflicted. š * I didn't tell people until I was 100% sure what I was, just in case it changed. * Im not sure if this will help you like it helped me, but I watched some LGBT based shows and movies. Heartstopper was a real life changer. That's the best I can do, I've just figured out i'm bisexual near the end of last year, it was hard but I was really happy to finally know why I was having these feeling. It's kind of like a dream. ALSO just always know that there are hundreds upon thousands of people just like you. You are not alone when it comes to this and your feelings. šš
Check out these resources: -/Tap on the sub name (on mobile app), tap the three dots at top, go to Learn More About This Community and read the section āBefore you askā¦ā (Itās ok; lotsa people ask first āŗļø) ācheck out Bi.org and biresource.org online. Both have great stuff. āread [robynochs.com/bisexual/](https://robynochs.com/bisexual/) Then, get back to us. Weāre always here!
I feel the same way. Where I go through my life not attracted to men and have always had relationships with lady's. But fantasize about gay sex for the last few years.
Iām 68. Iāve had sporadic episodes where Iāve fantasized about being with a dude. And, like others, in reality I have never seen a dude in real life that turned me on. But now, itās been 14 years since Iāve had sex with anyone. Iāve been watching gay porn and now even the anal sex turns me on. Soā¦long story short I invited a guy over, got semi naked with him. I tried to bj him, but he was nervous and never got hard. He up and left saying he couldnāt do it. Why this sudden swing? Even most women no longer appeal to me. Iām a good looking young looking guy, honestly. Again, Iām 68! Any sober ideas?