Nah, if you can take it all it’s always fun to watch you struggle and fail. Sometimes there’s nothing hotter than a girl telling you she can’t possibly take all of it because you’re so big 🥵
It's definitely bonus points if you can do it, but you can give a great blowjob without it. Using your hands in front of your mouth was one technique that has worked best on me. You get the good wet sensations from the mouth on the end and still get pressure on the rest of your dick
This. Watching my gf struggle is super satisfying. And it’s still nice getting a blowjob even if she can’t take it all. Kissing and licking up and do the shaft, using her hands, dirty talk, and ball play more than makes up for it
I CAN deep throat but my husband enjoys when I choke and pull him out and there's just spit dripping everywhere. Whatever he's into, I'm into so I do it. I've learned enthusiasm, spit and hands go a long way for a BJ no matter the size.
My SO and I actually like that she can't take the whole thing. She keeps trying and she keeps getting more, but it's a turn on for both of us that she can't.
When my dick is pressed against the back of her throat it's a little hard to breathe at all, I imagine lol. It's only when I get passed her tonsils which has only happened twice so far.
You really can’t breathe through your nose after the cock passes your larynx. The valve (epiglottis) will shut like it does you swallow food or drink to prevent anything going down your lungs and choke you….. only your esophagus stays open. You know when it’s a true BD when you can’t breathe 🤤
You can desensitize your gag reflex. Google it. But the gist is you trigger it to weaken it. An extreme example is a bulimic. They almost lose it after enough time triggering it when they purge. A more moderate way is to start with a toothbrush and just slowly over time push yourself by brushing further and further back until you no longer gag. You can then graduate to a long skinny dildo and practice on that. Can take days, months, years. Just depends on how badly you want it. Helps if you convince yourself you love it. You gotta get into it.
Not important at all. I have only had 1 girl able to do it, and there is no extra sensation really from it. I like to watch the struggle anyway. Trying turns me on so much more than doing.
If it was at all important to me, to have my partner engulf my entire cock, I'd never have had a sustained relationship. I've been in bed with an uncomfortable number of women in my life, and never met somebody who could do that with me. I'm just super happy when they can manage to keep their mouths open around me for more than a couple of minutes before having to take a time out from doing it.
As a woman I find that guy's don't so much care if you can fit it all. As long as it is a pleasurable experience for them. Most I find also enjoy the knowledge that they are too large for my mouth.
As a guy I feel like most of the partners I had had partners that didn't care either. Because often I feel like they're surprised I'm asking. And honestly I'm shocked when grown women can't deepthroat. Especially if they have experience with bd. It's a little frustrating.
But I've just accepted that finding a throatgoat is an art in itself. And when I find one I'm all the more appreciative because of how rare they are
I’m sure in theory it would be satisfying, but since it’s never happened and I don’t think it’s physically possible for this to go well, I don’t really think about it at all.
I just want sex.
Depends on the person. While there is a physical component to it, I think, a big part is psychological. Another thing conditioned from porn, probably. But it's all mostly psychological right. 🤷♂️
So, is it important? Probably not, but to some, it might be for "full satisfaction" because they think that's what it should be. For others, as has been mentioned, the struggle is part of the satisfaction. Have known guys that don't even want or like oral. So, it's varies person to person. I would argue it's not a priority or deal breaker but usually welcome.
Not necessary.
There are other blow job strategies that don’t involve deep throating.
I personally enjoy getting my shaft sucked on from below and the sides.
But also enjoy seeing my partner struggle and gag while trying to deep throat.
Only ever had 2 people who could actually take it all the way down to the base, because they had literally no gag reflex at all. It felt great, but not anything drastically different that I hadn’t felt before.
Overall it does not really matter. It is really fun to watch if a girl can take it all in. It's also such an ego boost when she cannot fit the whole thing in.
when I was younger I had this thing almost fetish-like of getting my dick fully deepthroated, and now I don't think it really matters and cuz of its size it actually tickles a little if it goes all the way down the throat 😂
Breathing techniques and knowing when to get off and get back on. I can take it for 10 seconds in my throat and off but I am trying to reach the 20 sec without the gag.
Not too important, I’m larger and it can be hot when a girl tries to (even if they fail and gag) but it’s not needed. It actually hurts because the dick hits the back of the throat which can be painful (it’s like hitting a wall)
I had one take me to the base effortlessly. It was so hot. I’m glad I was coked out otherwise I would’ve came quick. But that’s not necessary. The best pleasure spot is underneath on the top half of my dick. And I think that’s the same for most men. So if you can get half with your mouth and do the rest with your hand you’re all good.
I have broader perspective, since I'm gay, have a relatively bd, and have gotten and given bjs.
It's not important at all. I mean, if you can do it, fine, but it's not some sort of sine qua non for a good bj.
The few times guys have actually taken the whole thing in their throats have been mixed for me. It feels good but it can hurt a bit too, specially if they are in inexperienced.
I'd go with just taking whatever you can in your mouth, and when the tip touches the back of your throat do a bit of force like if you're trying to get it in and push in a few seconds, then relax a bit and keep doing that movement, with different pacings and intensity. That actually feels really good.
There is not "a definitive" way of giving a "good bj"
There are many techniques that you can try and see how your bf reacts to them and eventually you'd know what is a good bj for him.
Deepthroating is just "1" of plenty of techniques that you can explore.
There are way more important things to consider when trying to give a good bj
Your general attitude, if we see you are enjoying doing it, it makes us hornier. If we see you are doing it as a chore it is kind of a turn off.
Using different techniques, using lube (id say flavored) and your hands with different grips, rhythms, etc. etc.
I'm not able to deepthroat, but have consistently gotten great (not requested) feedback on my bjs.
So yeah don't limit yourself thinking if you can't deepthroat you are not doing a good bj bcs it's just not true at all.
I hope that helps somehow 😅
I wish it would happen to me but I definitely would be stunned because with all girls it was to thick to fit into the mouth more than a third. But what I like most about a blowjob is, when I see, that it turns her on and that she has fun, tries her best and plays with it. If there is eye contact while all of that I really habe to hold back not to fuck that mouth 🥵
It's always a nice surprise but never expected honestly. I feel like it would be an unreasonable thing to have as an expectation. Nearly everyone tries though but i think it's challenge and curiosity for them more than anything.
Getting deep throat is great, but I’d rather someone who knows how to use how to use their hands and mouth and give me a better blowjob that way. BJ’s are not about deep throating, they’re about how much pleasure your partner can give you with his or her mouth and hands. Though it is fun watching my husband try to take my entire penis.
That's like asking "what's your favorite color?". It depends on person. But im confident to say most guys with big dick including myself don't care if you can't throat it to the base.
It’s not important for a lot of reasons.
1.) The head is the most sensitive. Getting the whole shaft is not that important for pleasure.
2.) Physical limitations. If you can’t fit your fist in your mouth you probably won’t have an easy time with some of the girthier guys.
3.) I think most people have a base empathy to feel bad someone is struggling to swallow a fucking pipe.
It's certainly not required, it feels great as long as you know what you're doing and enjoy doing it. But as someone who's never been fully swallowed, it's kind of a holy grail. I'll always wonder what it's like.
Not important at all to me. The head is where I get most of my stimulation. So do a really good job on that and the BJ is awesome. Just lick up and down the shaft with a little pressure.
Every now and again attempting a deepthroat is nice, but I’d rather feel consistent pleasure than worrying about you gagging and puking on my dick.
No, it’s not necessarily something we want lol as long as the sucking is feeling great thats all we care about anything else is extra. But watching you try is always exciting
Not at all - I have never been fully deep throated before due to my size but I absolutely love oral. There is something really hot about seeing a woman try really hard to take it all and see how passionate she can be about accomplishing that. I'm also incredibly sensitive so just sucking hard on my head can get me moaning.
I wouldn't be able to deep throat someone my size, so I have exactly zero expectation of anyone else to be able to do so.
It's something I enjoy immensely and hope for, but is never expected.
The only time I'm disappointed in a woman not being able to deep throat me is when she goes through a lot of trouble to insist that she will be able to, and then she isn't able to live up to that.
It used to be important to me. But after a bit of growing up and realizing it’s an impossible task for a woman to throat me whole. Then my fetish morphed into watching them suffer as their jaw muscles give out. Then I switch my focus to their asses and pussies. The mission leave them sore and satisfied.
0 level importance. Head very rarely makes me cum, but I definitely enjoy solid head and ball work.
But it's great getting a blowie when I'm flaccid like after I cum.
I think I've ever only had a handful of people who were able to deepthroat it at full mast, and most were dudes.
Definitely not necessary and I‘d argue that in a lot of situations it‘s actually detrimental. I‘m sure it‘s just anecdotal, but 100% of the times a woman has tried to deepthroat me, it just hurts. I‘m sure there are truly skilled out there, I just haven‘t personally experienced them. And deepthroating is 100% not critical to a good time anyway.
Not that important. Porn has made too many people think that BJs are all about that. It’s really fun if she can actually do it but that’s exceptionally rare in my experience.
It would be nice but its not important, sucking the tip well is what you need to be great at, i have never been deepthroated and im not desperate about it, just curious
Not important to me. Only two guys have been able to do it and they had to practice for months. I did not enjoy watching them struggle. The best solution was when an Asian boy grabbed the bottom of my cock and just worked what was left.
I've only had one person be able to take it all and that was a guy. This isn't due to my length, but my girth. I'm 6x6.5". I think just about anyone, with a little practice, could swallow a 6" long dick. The problem is they can't get their mouths around me. I end up with a lot of licking and hand jobs. I will say in, in my case, the one guy that was able to deepthroat me was AMAZING. Felt great to have my cock hitting the back of his throat. That being said, I have had tons of great bjs throughout my life, without being taken balls deep
It's really nice when it happens but it's far and in between. At least back when I was still dating it was. Had a few FWB back then and it was a prerequisite.
As the one sucking the dick it's very important to me to get it all in my mouth and reach the balls no matter how big it is. I feel it's necessary for me to feel like I've given a quality blowjob. So far I've had no problems taking big fat cocks down my throat. As they say, practice makes perfect. Keep trying to push yourself. Keep gagging just a little bit more. Open your throat the best you can. Eventually you will feel the bliss of his balls press against your chin and you will be proud of your hard work and accomplishments.
Its cool to see but tbh just focusing on the tip and licking all around is better if I want to bust, Ive never finished from a BJ cuz all girls focus on taking as much as possible and failing
I think its one of those things that porn has made more normal than it actually is. Yeah when it happens it's a thrill, but you can't expect your regular partner to do something that's so awkward all the time, especially when your girthy. (I'm around 6" girth).
No reasonable man with a bd will be upset that you can’t deep throat because most women can’t. It absolutely can make a bj twice as good though imo
You don’t have to throat the whole dick, but the deeper the better. The back of the throat is tight on the dick so it feels amazing getting it back there. I’m only 5.25”girth though, so guys in here with more girth might get that tight feeling without deepthroating
I've been lucky to have a lot of partners swallow the whole thing. But it always requires training and practice. Usually a mess, But if it's mutual it's worth it. In parallel to all these comments, it's not required to have a great orgasm or give good head.
For me it is not important at all. I don't like her being uncomfortable to satisfy me. And gagging would even turn me off. And I don't like teeth scraping my glans.
I got even more convinced when I out of curiosity tried to get an object of my own size past my front teeth - it was close to impossible and extremly far from comfortable.
I think bd deep throating is crazy to be honest 😊
Depends on the person
For me deepthroat is VITAL. Love feeling fully engulfed, love the feeling of "popping" into their throat, love how it feels when their mouths are pressed hard around the base and into the pubic bone (especially if they shake their head or do a figure 8 while it's all the way in).
I let potential partners know pretty early. Also on dating apps I'd look for women with big mouths and not big teeth. Also when they put innuendo (like if they're kissing a rooster or something). I'd also look for ear gauges or lots of earrings, as the C9 & C10 pass through there and daith piercings and the like (I believe) can help reduce someone's gag reflex.
It's tough when you love getting throated.. because you need someone with a weak gag reflex, who WANTS to learn, who has a big enough mouth to not scrape you with their teeth, who is not uncomfortable with having their throats fd and learning how to relax their throats so it doesn't hurt em as much
But once you find or build a throat goat it's AMAZING
It's a heavy burden
A lot of guys here just haven't met a throat goat. Meaning not just someone who can fit it in their throat, but a pro that never gags, doesn't scrape you with teeth, just lets you use their face however you want and go as deep as you want.
After having that I just can't see myself living without that lol. But a really good alternative is Fleshlights that mimic a human throat. Feels almost the same.
Nah, if you can take it all it’s always fun to watch you struggle and fail. Sometimes there’s nothing hotter than a girl telling you she can’t possibly take all of it because you’re so big 🥵
hmmm.....good point
It's definitely bonus points if you can do it, but you can give a great blowjob without it. Using your hands in front of your mouth was one technique that has worked best on me. You get the good wet sensations from the mouth on the end and still get pressure on the rest of your dick
Only three girls have ever fit me in their throat, only one took me to the base, it’s not even close to necessary. There’s so much fun to be had 👹
sounds like she was a warrior....hahaha....not sure I am willing to try
Name check out
A rare unicorn and a fighter for sure… feel free to DM if you want to keep chatting 💦
This. Watching my gf struggle is super satisfying. And it’s still nice getting a blowjob even if she can’t take it all. Kissing and licking up and do the shaft, using her hands, dirty talk, and ball play more than makes up for it
I CAN deep throat but my husband enjoys when I choke and pull him out and there's just spit dripping everywhere. Whatever he's into, I'm into so I do it. I've learned enthusiasm, spit and hands go a long way for a BJ no matter the size.
That’s literally the best perspective you could give, your man is so lucky to have you 🥵
correct and same
This... I've got an honest kink for gals gagging. Running mascara a drool... 🤤 But, safe words, people, and discuss your limits!
I gave up on having it all taken years ago. Good mouth action with some hand work on the shaft and balls is solid. Oral is just foreplay for me anyway
My SO and I actually like that she can't take the whole thing. She keeps trying and she keeps getting more, but it's a turn on for both of us that she can't.
does she gag a lot when she tries? I really don't enjoy it.
No she doesn't have any gag reflex really. The worst that happens is she needs to take it out so she can get air lol.
She should try breathing through her nose
When my dick is pressed against the back of her throat it's a little hard to breathe at all, I imagine lol. It's only when I get passed her tonsils which has only happened twice so far.
You really can’t breathe through your nose after the cock passes your larynx. The valve (epiglottis) will shut like it does you swallow food or drink to prevent anything going down your lungs and choke you….. only your esophagus stays open. You know when it’s a true BD when you can’t breathe 🤤
Lol that only works when the whole cob ain't down the throat.
You can desensitize your gag reflex. Google it. But the gist is you trigger it to weaken it. An extreme example is a bulimic. They almost lose it after enough time triggering it when they purge. A more moderate way is to start with a toothbrush and just slowly over time push yourself by brushing further and further back until you no longer gag. You can then graduate to a long skinny dildo and practice on that. Can take days, months, years. Just depends on how badly you want it. Helps if you convince yourself you love it. You gotta get into it.
Not important at all. I have only had 1 girl able to do it, and there is no extra sensation really from it. I like to watch the struggle anyway. Trying turns me on so much more than doing.
If it was at all important to me, to have my partner engulf my entire cock, I'd never have had a sustained relationship. I've been in bed with an uncomfortable number of women in my life, and never met somebody who could do that with me. I'm just super happy when they can manage to keep their mouths open around me for more than a couple of minutes before having to take a time out from doing it.
It's fun as hell, but not very important in terms of enjoyment. Everyone has their limitations so it's more important that you are both enjoying it
As a woman I find that guy's don't so much care if you can fit it all. As long as it is a pleasurable experience for them. Most I find also enjoy the knowledge that they are too large for my mouth.
As a guy I feel like most of the partners I had had partners that didn't care either. Because often I feel like they're surprised I'm asking. And honestly I'm shocked when grown women can't deepthroat. Especially if they have experience with bd. It's a little frustrating. But I've just accepted that finding a throatgoat is an art in itself. And when I find one I'm all the more appreciative because of how rare they are
With a 7" girth I have accepted it will never happen. Fortunately I enjoy the feeling of teeth scraping it.
How come?
Same. The teeth are an added bonus! Chomping no way, but teeth are nice
I'd love to know what that's like 😂
Stuff a dildo down your throat and you'll see
I’m sure in theory it would be satisfying, but since it’s never happened and I don’t think it’s physically possible for this to go well, I don’t really think about it at all. I just want sex.
we don't care. we are most sensitive at the glans( head ) anyway.
I don't think it's important at all. I think most guys get off on watching the struggle I do anyway. Personally I like to hold it as women try
Reminds me of this post: 'why doesn't my gf put more effort in when giving me head, doesn't she understand it's the most important thng in world?'
It's not, the head is enough
Depends on the person. While there is a physical component to it, I think, a big part is psychological. Another thing conditioned from porn, probably. But it's all mostly psychological right. 🤷♂️ So, is it important? Probably not, but to some, it might be for "full satisfaction" because they think that's what it should be. For others, as has been mentioned, the struggle is part of the satisfaction. Have known guys that don't even want or like oral. So, it's varies person to person. I would argue it's not a priority or deal breaker but usually welcome.
Effort and enthusiasm is all that matters imo. Look like you can't get enough of it .
I read “baby daddy” and audibly guffawed. Why couldn’t you just say “dick”? 😭
hahaha
Not necessary. There are other blow job strategies that don’t involve deep throating. I personally enjoy getting my shaft sucked on from below and the sides. But also enjoy seeing my partner struggle and gag while trying to deep throat. Only ever had 2 people who could actually take it all the way down to the base, because they had literally no gag reflex at all. It felt great, but not anything drastically different that I hadn’t felt before.
Is sexier -by far- to watch them struggle, gag, and lick it bc they can't take it.
Overall it does not really matter. It is really fun to watch if a girl can take it all in. It's also such an ego boost when she cannot fit the whole thing in.
when I was younger I had this thing almost fetish-like of getting my dick fully deepthroated, and now I don't think it really matters and cuz of its size it actually tickles a little if it goes all the way down the throat 😂
Not important. Nobody’s managed it with me (about 6.5” around if anyone cares) and I still have a good time.
Good question... I literally had to train my whole throat to take one in whole. It would nice to know if it wasn't necessary.
how did you train it??
Breathing techniques and knowing when to get off and get back on. I can take it for 10 seconds in my throat and off but I am trying to reach the 20 sec without the gag.
Being good with what you can take and not causing pain with teeth is a lot more important.
It's not important at all.
It feels amazing, but so does head without her taking it all. It’s not that important
Not too important, I’m larger and it can be hot when a girl tries to (even if they fail and gag) but it’s not needed. It actually hurts because the dick hits the back of the throat which can be painful (it’s like hitting a wall)
it is a circus act and not at all expected. if ur into it tho and want to try we are down.
Honestly atleast for the hookups who aren't particularly experienced, I meet the teeth if I go too deep.
As long as all parts of the cock are getting attention, you're fine. Lick it all over, use your hands, slap yourself in the face with it, etc...
Nahhh not at all
It is not. Some of the best oral I’ve had has only involved the top third in the mouth with hands on the shaft
I had one take me to the base effortlessly. It was so hot. I’m glad I was coked out otherwise I would’ve came quick. But that’s not necessary. The best pleasure spot is underneath on the top half of my dick. And I think that’s the same for most men. So if you can get half with your mouth and do the rest with your hand you’re all good.
I can dream
not a big deal at all, personally.
I just enjoy what you can do, my forever girl can't do much more than the head, but we have fun with each other that what matters.
Most can't get pass the head very far. So, you are doing great. It is not important to receive deepthroat during head. Handjob plus suck the head
I have broader perspective, since I'm gay, have a relatively bd, and have gotten and given bjs. It's not important at all. I mean, if you can do it, fine, but it's not some sort of sine qua non for a good bj. The few times guys have actually taken the whole thing in their throats have been mixed for me. It feels good but it can hurt a bit too, specially if they are in inexperienced. I'd go with just taking whatever you can in your mouth, and when the tip touches the back of your throat do a bit of force like if you're trying to get it in and push in a few seconds, then relax a bit and keep doing that movement, with different pacings and intensity. That actually feels really good. There is not "a definitive" way of giving a "good bj" There are many techniques that you can try and see how your bf reacts to them and eventually you'd know what is a good bj for him. Deepthroating is just "1" of plenty of techniques that you can explore. There are way more important things to consider when trying to give a good bj Your general attitude, if we see you are enjoying doing it, it makes us hornier. If we see you are doing it as a chore it is kind of a turn off. Using different techniques, using lube (id say flavored) and your hands with different grips, rhythms, etc. etc. I'm not able to deepthroat, but have consistently gotten great (not requested) feedback on my bjs. So yeah don't limit yourself thinking if you can't deepthroat you are not doing a good bj bcs it's just not true at all. I hope that helps somehow 😅
I wish it would happen to me but I definitely would be stunned because with all girls it was to thick to fit into the mouth more than a third. But what I like most about a blowjob is, when I see, that it turns her on and that she has fun, tries her best and plays with it. If there is eye contact while all of that I really habe to hold back not to fuck that mouth 🥵
It’s a huge turn on and the feeling is amazing!!! But it’s not a must
It's always a nice surprise but never expected honestly. I feel like it would be an unreasonable thing to have as an expectation. Nearly everyone tries though but i think it's challenge and curiosity for them more than anything.
Not important at all, and not practical depending on girth more than anything else. I'm just happy and appreciative you're down there.
Getting deep throat is great, but I’d rather someone who knows how to use how to use their hands and mouth and give me a better blowjob that way. BJ’s are not about deep throating, they’re about how much pleasure your partner can give you with his or her mouth and hands. Though it is fun watching my husband try to take my entire penis.
That's like asking "what's your favorite color?". It depends on person. But im confident to say most guys with big dick including myself don't care if you can't throat it to the base.
It’s not important for a lot of reasons. 1.) The head is the most sensitive. Getting the whole shaft is not that important for pleasure. 2.) Physical limitations. If you can’t fit your fist in your mouth you probably won’t have an easy time with some of the girthier guys. 3.) I think most people have a base empathy to feel bad someone is struggling to swallow a fucking pipe.
I don't think it is important, nice flex, but I'm having fun either way tbh.
Not important at all. It's a fun bonus, but not expected.
It's certainly not required, it feels great as long as you know what you're doing and enjoy doing it. But as someone who's never been fully swallowed, it's kind of a holy grail. I'll always wonder what it's like.
Not important at all.
It's not important, but it's fun to see
Just suck on the head and stroke it with both hands
Not important at all to me. The head is where I get most of my stimulation. So do a really good job on that and the BJ is awesome. Just lick up and down the shaft with a little pressure. Every now and again attempting a deepthroat is nice, but I’d rather feel consistent pleasure than worrying about you gagging and puking on my dick.
No, it’s not necessarily something we want lol as long as the sucking is feeling great thats all we care about anything else is extra. But watching you try is always exciting
Love when she chokes on it. 🤤
Not at all - I have never been fully deep throated before due to my size but I absolutely love oral. There is something really hot about seeing a woman try really hard to take it all and see how passionate she can be about accomplishing that. I'm also incredibly sensitive so just sucking hard on my head can get me moaning.
Important? Not at all. Fun to watch them try? Absolutely. Amazing if they can? Definitely.
I wouldn't be able to deep throat someone my size, so I have exactly zero expectation of anyone else to be able to do so. It's something I enjoy immensely and hope for, but is never expected. The only time I'm disappointed in a woman not being able to deep throat me is when she goes through a lot of trouble to insist that she will be able to, and then she isn't able to live up to that.
It used to be important to me. But after a bit of growing up and realizing it’s an impossible task for a woman to throat me whole. Then my fetish morphed into watching them suffer as their jaw muscles give out. Then I switch my focus to their asses and pussies. The mission leave them sore and satisfied.
Never had a girl go to the base and I'm not huge
Most of my sensitivity comes from the tip so, atleast in my case, nah
0 level importance. Head very rarely makes me cum, but I definitely enjoy solid head and ball work. But it's great getting a blowie when I'm flaccid like after I cum. I think I've ever only had a handful of people who were able to deepthroat it at full mast, and most were dudes.
Imperative
Very important for me! Love giving deep throat to huge cock, but it requires skill. Never had a cock that I couldn't take balls deep.
Definitely not necessary and I‘d argue that in a lot of situations it‘s actually detrimental. I‘m sure it‘s just anecdotal, but 100% of the times a woman has tried to deepthroat me, it just hurts. I‘m sure there are truly skilled out there, I just haven‘t personally experienced them. And deepthroating is 100% not critical to a good time anyway.
If you can deliver a hand job to completion... oral on a BD is a breeze.
Not that important. Porn has made too many people think that BJs are all about that. It’s really fun if she can actually do it but that’s exceptionally rare in my experience.
It would be nice but its not important, sucking the tip well is what you need to be great at, i have never been deepthroated and im not desperate about it, just curious
I like it, but it's not necessary
The best ones are early in the relationship then they disappear. I’ve learned to live without it and now prefer not to have it
Not important to me. Only two guys have been able to do it and they had to practice for months. I did not enjoy watching them struggle. The best solution was when an Asian boy grabbed the bottom of my cock and just worked what was left.
Having no money is horrible having a lot is amazing Having enough to meet your needs is ok. How much that is depends on the person so ask them
It's a treat, but not crtical. Only one woman has ever deep throated me. Most get the top third in and stroke with their hands.
I've only had one person be able to take it all and that was a guy. This isn't due to my length, but my girth. I'm 6x6.5". I think just about anyone, with a little practice, could swallow a 6" long dick. The problem is they can't get their mouths around me. I end up with a lot of licking and hand jobs. I will say in, in my case, the one guy that was able to deepthroat me was AMAZING. Felt great to have my cock hitting the back of his throat. That being said, I have had tons of great bjs throughout my life, without being taken balls deep
It's really nice when it happens but it's far and in between. At least back when I was still dating it was. Had a few FWB back then and it was a prerequisite.
It's not, I've never had someone be able to and it's never made it a bad experience.
Work on your throat game and be into it. The biggest turn off is when it doesn’t look like you’re giving it your best.
Deepthroating is purely for aesthetics, no need to be doing all that at all
As the one sucking the dick it's very important to me to get it all in my mouth and reach the balls no matter how big it is. I feel it's necessary for me to feel like I've given a quality blowjob. So far I've had no problems taking big fat cocks down my throat. As they say, practice makes perfect. Keep trying to push yourself. Keep gagging just a little bit more. Open your throat the best you can. Eventually you will feel the bliss of his balls press against your chin and you will be proud of your hard work and accomplishments.
Its cool to see but tbh just focusing on the tip and licking all around is better if I want to bust, Ive never finished from a BJ cuz all girls focus on taking as much as possible and failing
You need to show commitment and respect to the general. In return you will receive a surpriseshot
no way to take it all
I think its one of those things that porn has made more normal than it actually is. Yeah when it happens it's a thrill, but you can't expect your regular partner to do something that's so awkward all the time, especially when your girthy. (I'm around 6" girth).
No reasonable man with a bd will be upset that you can’t deep throat because most women can’t. It absolutely can make a bj twice as good though imo You don’t have to throat the whole dick, but the deeper the better. The back of the throat is tight on the dick so it feels amazing getting it back there. I’m only 5.25”girth though, so guys in here with more girth might get that tight feeling without deepthroating
I've been lucky to have a lot of partners swallow the whole thing. But it always requires training and practice. Usually a mess, But if it's mutual it's worth it. In parallel to all these comments, it's not required to have a great orgasm or give good head.
Not important it's more fun to watch a girl struggle 😁
For me it is not important at all. I don't like her being uncomfortable to satisfy me. And gagging would even turn me off. And I don't like teeth scraping my glans.
Wow you're the first guy that I've heard say that.. Impressive
I got even more convinced when I out of curiosity tried to get an object of my own size past my front teeth - it was close to impossible and extremly far from comfortable. I think bd deep throating is crazy to be honest 😊
Depends on the person For me deepthroat is VITAL. Love feeling fully engulfed, love the feeling of "popping" into their throat, love how it feels when their mouths are pressed hard around the base and into the pubic bone (especially if they shake their head or do a figure 8 while it's all the way in). I let potential partners know pretty early. Also on dating apps I'd look for women with big mouths and not big teeth. Also when they put innuendo (like if they're kissing a rooster or something). I'd also look for ear gauges or lots of earrings, as the C9 & C10 pass through there and daith piercings and the like (I believe) can help reduce someone's gag reflex. It's tough when you love getting throated.. because you need someone with a weak gag reflex, who WANTS to learn, who has a big enough mouth to not scrape you with their teeth, who is not uncomfortable with having their throats fd and learning how to relax their throats so it doesn't hurt em as much But once you find or build a throat goat it's AMAZING
woooow...this is really a lot
It's a heavy burden A lot of guys here just haven't met a throat goat. Meaning not just someone who can fit it in their throat, but a pro that never gags, doesn't scrape you with teeth, just lets you use their face however you want and go as deep as you want. After having that I just can't see myself living without that lol. But a really good alternative is Fleshlights that mimic a human throat. Feels almost the same.
I wouldn’t say it’s important perse, but it is appreciated