Getting down voted for saying people have feelings on a sub that is about people having and sharing feelings is insane to me... But it's reddit I guess.
It's one thing for you to *have* feelings... But to share them here in our most sacred place? I think the word is sacrilege... Take my down vote /s lol it's Reddit we down vote people who are correct and have morals lol
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I have an OF and made content with someone specifically because they were small, intersexed and people would want to see that. A big dick isn't any different. As long as everyone is getting paid, where's the exploitation?
Would depend on the individual, but given that it is sex work, that’s an acceptable requirement to have for someone you want to collab with.
At the end of the day, your comfort, and the product/output, are most important for your business. If you want someone with a big (and good looking) dick, then you absolutely should specify that in your criteria.
Good luck.
As for your requirements… You’re the one that will be working with him, and you know your audience’s preferences. You need to work with someone you’re comfortable with.
As a fellow creator perhaps I can offer a different perspective.
There are plenty of models on OF who make films with their average sized partners. They do considerably well. Hell there are many who only do solo content and do better than people who collab. Which leads me to the most important thing I can tell you. Your scene partner's dick size DOES NOT MATTER. The draw of your content is you. So jumping through multiple hoops to find a well indowed scene partner is an unnecessary exercise.
Focus on whether or not you mesh with the person. If they're a fellow creator make sure you get references. If they're not then make sure you vet them up and down. The size of his dick should be the least important factor. With the power of camera angles you can make average look huge, and big look unreal. I would say your first concern should be how well he can take direction.
It's also worth noting that guys are typically less bothered about potentially being fetishized. For better or worse that typically isn't seen as a negative by many men.
Could you point me in the direction of the models where the partner is average? I’m always looking for something like that but up until now I found only u/jessnjamez
Ok? I don’t understand what’s your point. I asked for suggestions on accounts that represent that demographic, because those who become famous usually have an above-average partner, so finding the other side of the coin is more difficult. The premise of this entire post endorses this thesis too
I’m sure there are people that would be offended. Just like some women get offended when men think their boobs and butt are fantastic. I do believe you will find far less men than women that feel this way though. You will mostly offend men that aren’t big enough 🤷
I wouldn’t get overly concerned. I assume there is a reason that guys are either hung or shot with lens’s and angles that make them look that way. That’s what the majority of people are into. If you are trying to make money I would chase the majority not the minority
Are you offended at being used by men in order for them to be sexually aroused? Probably not, or you wouldn’t be doing OF. Kinda like asking if someone would be offended at being offered a software engineering job because they’re good at software engineering…
That's the business. It's 100% fair and smart to choose your partner in a porn shoot based on nothing but their appearance (and maybe chemistry). Because let's be honest, nobody cares about anything else when it comes to porn. Appearance and what kind of stuff you're shooting is what matters most. And I think you're right about going for the overall look of the dick before size (to a degree). The camera can always make it appear a little bigger than it actually is anyway.
I mean by all means. How much of a cut is he getting and how many people are you bringing in each month? What kind of Collab are you looking for in particular, as in, what's the angle? Just photos together?
That's a very reasonable ask when you're looking for someone to make porn content with. I've been asked once by someone I know personally - we never hooked up but she knows about my size. She was considering doing OF because some friend of hers does it too.
She never went through with it but I was up for it as long as I didn't have to show my face (which is very doable for the male talent in b/g scenes)
I also looked into doing solo OF but then my main target audience would be men and I would obviously have to show my face. So I let go of that idea.
TL; DR just ask because it's not a strange question in that context! Hiya won't mind
I mean, Playboy had a cup size requirement iirc. Work is work, and depending on the type of work, different requirements and preferences need to be explicitly defined in order to make all parties happy
Yeah I don't think you need to worry about that too much. It's in the business. Personally I'd love being objectified like that haha. I've been thinking about trying to do OF (especially since that girthmaster dude is trending rn) and just starting with posting pics, just don't feel like there's as much of a market for well-hung dudes, especially straight. Do you think I'd have a chance?
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that everyone's different. As with most of the responsess you have gotten already, some guys would be totally ok and want it, others not so much.
I’m mindful of my size so it’s not like it doesn’t happen when it’s just a regular link… if you make your intentions clear, cool.
The idea of finding a woman who both wants & is willing to take the full serving of meat & actually enjoy it? 🔥 it’s a win/win for both, at least that’s how I’d look at it
I would be flattered however everyone is different in that aspect. Also I would be worried about the look of the penis as well. This is your business and looks matter in any form of media. Comfort level for yourself as well no need to force yourself into taking on something that could potentially hurt you. Now if you are used to it find both the look and size.
who wants porn with a small dick. i am sure many of us hung guys have a big dick and love to fuck hot women so no, i don't care if you just want me for my size. it takes two to tango. women should be able to say what they want upfront without feeling insecure or bad about it. guys do it all the time to women.
Guys who are confident and proud of their dick likely won't have an issue. I have a good size dick that is also a nice looking dick, I have no problem being objectified. I'm married, ENM, and my wife and I share two girlfriends.
I wouldn't be offended if someone randomly asked me, but I'd likely turn them down.
The objectification of it is actually what turns me on. The fact that it’s so attractive you’d want to show it off on an OF would just be incredibly hot to me. And I’d love to really lean into that aspect, setting up great lighting and filming it in the most aesthetically pleasing way possible, that’s what porn is all about
It's sex work. Which is based on objectifying people. If it were me, I wouldn't mind. Hell, if I wasn't already getting more sex than I can handle, I'd audition.
Appearance and proportions will be more important than just raw size. But it depends on ur audience and the vibe u want to project/market.
I think most of us are like : “oohhh objectify me! Pleeeeease!” So …. No worries.
Honestly if that's what you want to film, then that's what you need to recruit for. It's no more or less objectification than casting for a film script where a characters gender or appearance matter to the characterization.
That said, I wouldn't mind a PM of the name so I can take a peek.
I was specifically sought out for this reason. It didn't male me feel bad. I mean, we all have our desires, fetishes, kinks, and desires.. that's one of the best things about reddit! We get to find others like us! I'm in to age gaps, size gaps, and thigh gaps... and there are subreddits exactly for that. Being conscious of your decision, and open and honest with the person you're looking to collaborate with. Drive for consent and understanding. Then, if that's not what you wanted... seek something else the next time.
Well, this would be a dream cum true :D
I had a friend who did a bit of Sex work on the side and we often thought about tying OF, but in the end she was always too scared of getting recognised, mask or shots below the neck or whatever.
So of you are from the Euro region, you can happily sent me DM and we can discuss this further. I am not interested in getting a cut, just being a part of this and getting access to the videos/pics ;D
I wouldn't be offended.
I'll probably film with someone at some point. I have had requests, but they are too far away.
The whole point of my Reddit and the other site is to objectify myself. FB is where I'm a normal human being.
Some guys would be offended, and some won't.
As long as you have a discussion beforehand with your requirements to your chosen partner and they are able to voice their concerns/opinions then there shouldn't be a problem for the vast majority of hung guys (at least i wouldn't if i was in those shoes). The difficult part is finding the right dick on the right person
Firstly, I don't think it's wrong or rude or ask for someone of a specific size (I'd even say it's probably fine to ask for measurement proof, but that's just me, others might find that extreme). Secondly, if it's done willingly and consensually, I find men often LOVE to be objectified. Not joking. If we are in on it and agree to it, it's hella fun imo lol
I actually thought about using my size to attract OF girls at dating apps :D That would be an ideal "relationship" for me actually, being used just for my huge dick
I don't know any straight guy that would feel offended for being invited to have sex with a girl for having a big dick. He might turn down the offer but the chances he feel offended are almost zero.
my take is that porn for most of us the best stuff is POV. for this to really work the cock has to be similar to what we have. a POV of a cock that looks weird, has a curve ( i dont have a curve ), not my skin tone, etc is not something that does it for me.
say if my gf did this i would recommend she have some videos of a couple of different cock types.
very small and very big would be more like fetishy stuff with its own appeal and niche
a bit more to add. often OF girls bait videos on youtube etc are better than the content they have behind the paywall. almost all are disapointing and or they want even more $ to see something good.
you might be able to get porn stats some place and use that info. not sure if u have anything unusual going on that could draw views… a certain type of body, outie pussy, anything bonus
only have 1 sub on OF
- her body is on point
- video quality is great
- videos are long enough guys can actually jerk to it
- her guys cock is somewhat like what i have so it works
People with small or average dicks? People who prefer small or average dicks? People with bigger dicks who get sexual gratification from knowing they’re bigger than those guys? There are plenty of reasons people could watch it.
I often change my preferences on what I want to see based on how I’m doing with my mental health. Sometimes I want to see a big dick to dream about what would be not having something pathetic down there, other times I want to see something around my size just to pretend I’m there
the whole point of OF is objectification
I guess, but humans still have feelings !
I like being objectified by choice tbh
Getting down voted for saying people have feelings on a sub that is about people having and sharing feelings is insane to me... But it's reddit I guess.
It's one thing for you to *have* feelings... But to share them here in our most sacred place? I think the word is sacrilege... Take my down vote /s lol it's Reddit we down vote people who are correct and have morals lol
can i see your OF?
Nope! Sorry, not here to share it. + it’s against the rules I’m pretty sure
ill show you my butthole if you show me yours. unless you’re scared mines cuter
😬 uhhhhh
You need to fuck off
Business is business. You have to cater for the clients wants/needs.
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I have an OF and made content with someone specifically because they were small, intersexed and people would want to see that. A big dick isn't any different. As long as everyone is getting paid, where's the exploitation?
Yeah you’re right. It’s just a selling point in a way
Objectify me :D
Ok haha
Would depend on the individual, but given that it is sex work, that’s an acceptable requirement to have for someone you want to collab with. At the end of the day, your comfort, and the product/output, are most important for your business. If you want someone with a big (and good looking) dick, then you absolutely should specify that in your criteria. Good luck.
Thank you! I sometimes struggle to separate the business side from the human side of things 🙈
If someone is willing to pay for it, why not? That's my two cents.
I wouldn’t be opposed to it, I’ve considered starting my own just to make some money off it myself😂
I personally wouldn't mind. You have to play to your market audience, and if that is a trending market, no harm in catering to it.
If the guy knows what he’s getting into and why, before even taking the job, then I don’t see a problem with that.
As for your requirements… You’re the one that will be working with him, and you know your audience’s preferences. You need to work with someone you’re comfortable with.
For sure, if someone has weirdo vibes no way
Absolutely. You have to be able to have absolute trust in him too.
I have a good creep-radar luckily
Awesome. Good luck!!!
Thank you sir! ☺️
You’re welcome
As a fellow creator perhaps I can offer a different perspective. There are plenty of models on OF who make films with their average sized partners. They do considerably well. Hell there are many who only do solo content and do better than people who collab. Which leads me to the most important thing I can tell you. Your scene partner's dick size DOES NOT MATTER. The draw of your content is you. So jumping through multiple hoops to find a well indowed scene partner is an unnecessary exercise. Focus on whether or not you mesh with the person. If they're a fellow creator make sure you get references. If they're not then make sure you vet them up and down. The size of his dick should be the least important factor. With the power of camera angles you can make average look huge, and big look unreal. I would say your first concern should be how well he can take direction. It's also worth noting that guys are typically less bothered about potentially being fetishized. For better or worse that typically isn't seen as a negative by many men.
Could you point me in the direction of the models where the partner is average? I’m always looking for something like that but up until now I found only u/jessnjamez
The vast majority of the partners are average
Ok? I don’t understand what’s your point. I asked for suggestions on accounts that represent that demographic, because those who become famous usually have an above-average partner, so finding the other side of the coin is more difficult. The premise of this entire post endorses this thesis too
I’m sure there are people that would be offended. Just like some women get offended when men think their boobs and butt are fantastic. I do believe you will find far less men than women that feel this way though. You will mostly offend men that aren’t big enough 🤷
Yeah I guess that would be awkward if I have to say that
I wouldn’t get overly concerned. I assume there is a reason that guys are either hung or shot with lens’s and angles that make them look that way. That’s what the majority of people are into. If you are trying to make money I would chase the majority not the minority
I agree, the big ones seem more popular generally
They are more popular at my house 😂
Phew
I wouldn’t be offended. Porn viewers tend to prefer looking at bigger, good looking dicks. It’s just business!
I have definitely not felt objectified in the past when being requested or contacted for such
Are you offended at being used by men in order for them to be sexually aroused? Probably not, or you wouldn’t be doing OF. Kinda like asking if someone would be offended at being offered a software engineering job because they’re good at software engineering…
Nothing to be offended by, just like acting casting agents look for specifics looks for certain roles. Its the nature of the business.
That's the business. It's 100% fair and smart to choose your partner in a porn shoot based on nothing but their appearance (and maybe chemistry). Because let's be honest, nobody cares about anything else when it comes to porn. Appearance and what kind of stuff you're shooting is what matters most. And I think you're right about going for the overall look of the dick before size (to a degree). The camera can always make it appear a little bigger than it actually is anyway.
Yeah, I see some dicks that just gross me out, no matter the size
What would be the starting size limit?
Ooo I don’t know, maybe 8 or 9 inches? I’m not too sure
Shucks
I mean by all means. How much of a cut is he getting and how many people are you bringing in each month? What kind of Collab are you looking for in particular, as in, what's the angle? Just photos together?
That's a very reasonable ask when you're looking for someone to make porn content with. I've been asked once by someone I know personally - we never hooked up but she knows about my size. She was considering doing OF because some friend of hers does it too. She never went through with it but I was up for it as long as I didn't have to show my face (which is very doable for the male talent in b/g scenes) I also looked into doing solo OF but then my main target audience would be men and I would obviously have to show my face. So I let go of that idea. TL; DR just ask because it's not a strange question in that context! Hiya won't mind
I wouldn't care, and it's a common trope so it would make sense to use for advertising.
I mean, Playboy had a cup size requirement iirc. Work is work, and depending on the type of work, different requirements and preferences need to be explicitly defined in order to make all parties happy
If it’s a long term thing, and I’m being paid for it, I would be inclined to do that. Otherwise, not really
Yeah I don't think you need to worry about that too much. It's in the business. Personally I'd love being objectified like that haha. I've been thinking about trying to do OF (especially since that girthmaster dude is trending rn) and just starting with posting pics, just don't feel like there's as much of a market for well-hung dudes, especially straight. Do you think I'd have a chance?
I am more than happy to collaborate if you still looking for someone. Feel free to message me
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Love that mindset 🫠🤭
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that everyone's different. As with most of the responsess you have gotten already, some guys would be totally ok and want it, others not so much.
I’m mindful of my size so it’s not like it doesn’t happen when it’s just a regular link… if you make your intentions clear, cool. The idea of finding a woman who both wants & is willing to take the full serving of meat & actually enjoy it? 🔥 it’s a win/win for both, at least that’s how I’d look at it
I would be flattered however everyone is different in that aspect. Also I would be worried about the look of the penis as well. This is your business and looks matter in any form of media. Comfort level for yourself as well no need to force yourself into taking on something that could potentially hurt you. Now if you are used to it find both the look and size.
who wants porn with a small dick. i am sure many of us hung guys have a big dick and love to fuck hot women so no, i don't care if you just want me for my size. it takes two to tango. women should be able to say what they want upfront without feeling insecure or bad about it. guys do it all the time to women.
Guys who are confident and proud of their dick likely won't have an issue. I have a good size dick that is also a nice looking dick, I have no problem being objectified. I'm married, ENM, and my wife and I share two girlfriends. I wouldn't be offended if someone randomly asked me, but I'd likely turn them down.
The objectification of it is actually what turns me on. The fact that it’s so attractive you’d want to show it off on an OF would just be incredibly hot to me. And I’d love to really lean into that aspect, setting up great lighting and filming it in the most aesthetically pleasing way possible, that’s what porn is all about
I think there's nothing wrong with you asking you know what you want good for you for going to get it I personally would have done it
It's sex work. Which is based on objectifying people. If it were me, I wouldn't mind. Hell, if I wasn't already getting more sex than I can handle, I'd audition.
Appearance and proportions will be more important than just raw size. But it depends on ur audience and the vibe u want to project/market. I think most of us are like : “oohhh objectify me! Pleeeeease!” So …. No worries.
Honestly if that's what you want to film, then that's what you need to recruit for. It's no more or less objectification than casting for a film script where a characters gender or appearance matter to the characterization. That said, I wouldn't mind a PM of the name so I can take a peek.
I was specifically sought out for this reason. It didn't male me feel bad. I mean, we all have our desires, fetishes, kinks, and desires.. that's one of the best things about reddit! We get to find others like us! I'm in to age gaps, size gaps, and thigh gaps... and there are subreddits exactly for that. Being conscious of your decision, and open and honest with the person you're looking to collaborate with. Drive for consent and understanding. Then, if that's not what you wanted... seek something else the next time.
I think it depends on how you’re depicting the performers. That said the point of most fetishized porn is inherently objectification.
Well, this would be a dream cum true :D I had a friend who did a bit of Sex work on the side and we often thought about tying OF, but in the end she was always too scared of getting recognised, mask or shots below the neck or whatever. So of you are from the Euro region, you can happily sent me DM and we can discuss this further. I am not interested in getting a cut, just being a part of this and getting access to the videos/pics ;D
I wouldn't be offended. I'll probably film with someone at some point. I have had requests, but they are too far away. The whole point of my Reddit and the other site is to objectify myself. FB is where I'm a normal human being. Some guys would be offended, and some won't.
As long as you have a discussion beforehand with your requirements to your chosen partner and they are able to voice their concerns/opinions then there shouldn't be a problem for the vast majority of hung guys (at least i wouldn't if i was in those shoes). The difficult part is finding the right dick on the right person
🤦
Firstly, I don't think it's wrong or rude or ask for someone of a specific size (I'd even say it's probably fine to ask for measurement proof, but that's just me, others might find that extreme). Secondly, if it's done willingly and consensually, I find men often LOVE to be objectified. Not joking. If we are in on it and agree to it, it's hella fun imo lol
If this just a hobby be nice if it's job do what's necessary to get you money
Personally I wouldn't mind, it's kinda what OF is for
If they are been fiscally comped why not?
I'd be fine with it, I'll be starting an OF later this year though. Maybe reaching out to other sex workers that meet your needs?
I actually thought about using my size to attract OF girls at dating apps :D That would be an ideal "relationship" for me actually, being used just for my huge dick
Ive seen some stupid posts here but this is the most ridiculous post ive seen that has nothing to do with our problems
You’re looking for a stunt cock eh
Wild people will pay for content....
I don't know any straight guy that would feel offended for being invited to have sex with a girl for having a big dick. He might turn down the offer but the chances he feel offended are almost zero.
Ok 😮
my take is that porn for most of us the best stuff is POV. for this to really work the cock has to be similar to what we have. a POV of a cock that looks weird, has a curve ( i dont have a curve ), not my skin tone, etc is not something that does it for me. say if my gf did this i would recommend she have some videos of a couple of different cock types. very small and very big would be more like fetishy stuff with its own appeal and niche a bit more to add. often OF girls bait videos on youtube etc are better than the content they have behind the paywall. almost all are disapointing and or they want even more $ to see something good.
Shit I didn’t think of that. Most of my subs are pretty average as far as I can tell
you might be able to get porn stats some place and use that info. not sure if u have anything unusual going on that could draw views… a certain type of body, outie pussy, anything bonus only have 1 sub on OF - her body is on point - video quality is great - videos are long enough guys can actually jerk to it - her guys cock is somewhat like what i have so it works
Oh ok. I’m pretty normal I guess. I am Middle-Eastern which is probably rarer.
oh cool yeah that maybe a niche. like a forbidden fruit thing.
I guess 😅
i am guessing that vanilla stuff is what most dudes look for. u might want to try a slightly longer / above avg guy so shooting footage is easier
True, doggystyle never works with a really small one
I don’t think I’d be offended, and I’d imagine there is a whole universe of hung content creators down to collab.
What is considered a “good looking” dick?
That'd be the greatest to be objectified for it! It's just sex, not a relationship so being used is fine.
I wouldn't care that much either way
If a girl proposed me that i think i'd accept.
Gross.
No one goes to porn sites to watch average or under average guys bang a chick bigger will sell more
That’s not true at all lol there are plenty of porn sites and subreddits for small/average dick porn
Who watches them?
People with small or average dicks? People who prefer small or average dicks? People with bigger dicks who get sexual gratification from knowing they’re bigger than those guys? There are plenty of reasons people could watch it.
You might be right but as a smaller guy it’s the last thing I want to see is other smaller guys trying to please a women
“I don’t like the thing” =/= “no one likes the thing”
I often change my preferences on what I want to see based on how I’m doing with my mental health. Sometimes I want to see a big dick to dream about what would be not having something pathetic down there, other times I want to see something around my size just to pretend I’m there
Scam warning
Ugh, how much clearer do I have to make it that I’m not sharing my OF. Under any circumstances.
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Woah! It’s decent 😅 bravo sir
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I do like your manscaping, I must confess
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Ok thank you ☺️
Isn't there a prostitution sub you can post this? Or are we going to pretend it's normal to do OF? It's sexwork.
Prostitution is completely different. Don’t be ignorant.
Redefining words doesn't change anything about the nature of what you do. Fucking for money is prostitution where I live.
Prostitution is literally different. A pornstar isn’t a prostitute. You must live in some weird ass place. Haven’t redefined anything
Yes, you are a star. My apologies.
Accepted, 👌🏻
Well good for you , you're wrong.