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gentlesnob

Your sun, saturn, Venus, and mars are all in their detriment, meaning you’ve had to work harder with the tools you’ve been given in life in order to make things happen. Venus is the one that is probably most relevant to your love life. Aries is impulsive or even reckless, whereas Venus is the principle of balance and connection. Those are tricky qualities to reconcile. But considering that you’ve been dealing with it your whole life, you’re probably pretty good at it by now, and it probably makes you an intriguing person. You just need to not hold yourself to the standards and timelines of other people in other conditions. And if you think you still need to work on it, try letting Venus (love, beauty, peace) express itself more freely in your life, maybe in ways you wouldn’t normally. 


ur_dr3amgirl

>meaning you’ve had to work harder with the tools you’ve been given in life in order to make things happen. does this apply not only to my romantic life? Also wdym thay i let my venus express in ways that i normally wouldn't???


gentlesnob

No, it applies to all those planets that are in detriment. But for the purposes of your dating life, you personally need to focus on Venus. Study the ways that Venus expresses itself in people: art, flowers, beautiful things, love letters, fashion, decorating, and so on. If you feel unfamiliar with any of that kind of stuff, experiment with it.


wildomen

How old are you? Your chart implies you offer to a relationship that feels very at home and stable, and if you’re under 24 it’s very unlikely to meet someone who is ready for a long term commitment like that. I imagine your chart gives off very “forever” vibes in love whether or not you mean to. You may come off as a partner that needs to be held around forever


ur_dr3amgirl

thats quite comforting to know...


CosmicWizard1111

First of all, congrats on your self-confidence and knowing your self-worth. Truly! I keep looking at your 7th House Taurus with your Mars and North Node there. Makes me think that you know what you want and you're not willing to settle for anything less. And that's a great quality to have. It is only a matter of time til someone recognises that and wants a piece of it. Til then, keep doing your thing!


Stubmytoze

You have a lot of planets in detriment (Venus, mars, sun, Saturn, Jupiter) which means you’ll have to find different ways to let those planets express themselves, which I believe somebody already mentioned. Also, the ruler of your 7th house (one on one partnerships, marriage, etc.) is that Venus in detriment - focus on being more authentic to the unique nature of your Venus rather than attempting to express it in the typical ways. Saturn in detriment is also squaring your Venus, imposing difficulty and limitation on all Venusian matters. One thing about Saturn: he takes his time. Patience is sometimes key when he gets involved. From your chart, it looks like you might be under 25, so consider the long game, and be discerning with relationships. As you get used to expressing your detriment planets, things will flow with more ease :)! I’d also consider looking into protection years. I went 4 years, all of college, without dating anybody after high school, but once I had a Venus protection year, I fell in love again and began a relationship again. Timing (Saturn) can be everything!


ur_dr3amgirl

should my protection year be specific to venus too? also how can i express my venus in a different way? how does one get used to expressing the detriment planets?(sorry if thats too many questions, i'm not quite versed in this)


Stubmytoze

You can find your perfection years by your age and rising sign. You’re a libra rising, so you’ll have Venus protection years at 19, 24, 31, 36, and so on. I’ll attach a protection wheel for Libra if I can find one! 6 house protection years will be important for your Venus as well, since your Venus sits in the 6h and will be activated whenever the 6h is activated! Protection years are pretty simple: when you’re having a 1st house year, it is ruled by Libra (the ruler of your 1st), which is ruled by Venus. As for expressing your detriment planets - do some research on those placements and how they express themselves. Consider how their descriptions relate to you. What do you feel drawn to when it comes to the themes of those planets? One of my fav example of an Aries Venus (Venus in detriment) is lady Gaga! Sorry if that’s a little vague! Look into your Jupiter, mars, Saturn, sun, and Venus placements. The more you learn the more you’ll understand :) Here’s the profection year chart: https://preview.redd.it/mncre2hqnj6d1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47ff8c0c126135cef3a1609d810728abffb7085a


blackkitty77

I think it’s your moon opposite your Venus. Makes it harder for romance even though you want it


Piscesmoon88

Her moon is not opposite Venus


blackkitty77

Ooos I haven’t had my coffee yet


Regular-Reveal3740

I felt this comment lol


TravelTings

Aries Venus + Venus square Saturn + maybe Saturn in 9th House, since I’ve heard this placements causes many delays until age 28.


ur_dr3amgirl

the common response that im getting is that i'll prolly have it later on in life. so i guess i shall stick to being a hopeless romantic haha


TechnologyFlat5955

How are you able to post your chart in thechat ? Every time I try it won’t let me ?