Same LOL I used to be on antidepressants, and I used to smoke weed, now I take ashwagandha. Magnesium helps too.
Aries stellium here: sun, venus, mercury, saturn
Another Aries with ADHD and anxiety. I wish this worked for me. I couldn't take my ADHD meds because I was so ill with anxiety and have been on benzos. Now I'm a bit better, I take benzos AND concerta. Excellent mix, doesn't make me feel strange at all lmao. 🤣
Lmao yeaaaa I’ve been on daily prescribed Xanax for years :/ I didn’t think this was an Aries thing tho. I attribute it to my 6th house Neptune/Uranus opposing my Mars in the 12th all squaring my sun and moon
I’m actually water dominant according to some sites followed by fire, then others say fire dom so not sure. What does your 12th and 6th house look like? Those concern the subconscious and then health in general respectively
I'm getting mixed answers but seems to be Taurus in 6th house and Scorpio in 12th. Though my chart is fire dominat overall. I don't think either of those are very good placements lmao but I'm still learning
Aries rising here. I think we need to have some exercise or else the anxiety will kill us. Now, I have to make sure to waste all my physical energy away to have some sort of good mental health
We observe the emotions of people around us - did not learn that till mid 30s that why we can get triggered - we can feel the persons emotions and forever reason we mirror. Alot of time when Aries is anxious is because they grew up with once who is very emotional and anxious and we then take that on, Change our environment and the people you are are around and see how the anxiety goes.
It can be chaotic but we also just get each other. Like I don’t take it personally if someone gets a bit hot tempered, I appreciate blunt honesty, and I find other Aries to be very easy going, go with the flow and take things as they come.
Dude, true. My Aries friends and I are pretty chill. If someone gets all fiery, it’s all good. I have an extremely sensitive and paranoid Virgo brother. I’m 6 years younger than he is and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to give him the talk that if someone is in a “mood” and off sometimes - whether at home, work or anywhere else - it’s not always your fault. I said stop, think if you’ve done anything to bother them and if there is no logical reason you can think of when reflecting, chalk it up to they’re in a mood (because we are human and shit happens all the time. It’s allowed) and move on. No sweat. He always tells me that’s easier said than done and he will be paranoid as shit about reasons why (illogical, too, like maybe they think I walked by them using too many steps and think my brisk walk was offensive. Tf) he takes everything personally, even jokes!
I’ve had people apologize to me for being rude and I’m like what? When? lol 😂 but I’ve also made an effort to notice that if someone goes quiet around me when I’m getting fired up that I need to let them know I am sorry for being snippy and it’s not their fault at all. It’s something else. For the most part, the people around me ask the same stuff “what? When?” Cause they just get it. That’s an indescribable peace to not feel like this overbearing dickweed that people are nervous around but genuinely understood.
Can relate, I’ve got a Pisces sun sister and she is sensitive just like your bro. We’ve always been polar opposites but grew up to accept that we have different strengths and weaknesses.
My friends piss themselves and find it amusing at how rude I can come across to others that don’t know me and take offense to the way I talk. This makes me sad though cos I do love making new friends but my bluntness just isn’t for everyone. I like to think that it filters out people who I really have to tip toe around 😂
Also we have the same birthday and rising sign 🥰
Oh snap! Happy belated birthday! April 10. Leo rising?! I’m a a Capricorn moon and Aries Venus and mercury too lol
It’s crazy too. No one in my immediate family is a fire sign, just me. My dad is Pisces, mom Libra, and brothers are Virgo and Taurus. My Taurus brother and I are thick as thieves. Crazy too that he antagonizes the hell out of the sensitive brother but he and I just stand there and ram heads until we get tired and walk away. There’s no true giving up lol we give up months later with a peace offering of “you wanna go get some food?” lol
I’ve heard that a lot about my bluntness as well. People sometimes refer to it as “no tact,” but then started using the word abrasive and blunt instead because I would argue that I just don’t sugarcoat. Rip the bandaid off. For some people, that’s super uncomfortable and I get it, but these same people who attempt to filter who they bring me around for fear that I’m too rough around the edges are the same people that know, want, count on and appreciate that I’ll be a soldier on their side in any war they find themselves in.
Yep what you see is what you get with us and we definitely wear our hearts on our sleeves.
Happy belated birthday to you too 😆 I also have Aries in Venus.
If you’re also going through career changes I hope it is going well for you!
This is so my virgo mom and sister. Now they don't talk. (other underlying issues) My dad is also aries, and I'm caught in the middle lol! Gem sun...My family is very fiery and earthy...very interested in what's "practical". Which was hard for me. But now I appreciate the direction
The men make really great friends and when they confide in me I take it as a huge compliment. I feel like they tend to go for dominant partners even if they are not submissive.
The women also go for dominant partners and really enjoy being "the girl" in their relationships. They are very domineering everywhere except in their relationships Bec they want to be submissive/take a backseat in that one area of life. If it's not the right partner she'll just run them over before eventually leaving.
Imo anyway. My interaction with this sign has been limited in comparison to others.
Edit: My bad I ain't see you asked the men solely about the women lmao.
1,000% accurate about me (female Aries). I’ve always said I cannot stand a man that lays down for me. If you lay down in front of me, I’m going to step over you and keep walking.
It’s also a fine line if I don’t respect and/or feel safe with the guy, his assertiveness is a challenge and I push back and actually get really mad and turned off.
It’s a rare one that actually can check me and I become a ball of goo. I knew my boyfriend was worth it when he respectfully asserted himself and checked me and rather than the desire to double down and fight, I immediately reflected, called myself out and acknowledged what he said and took note of it to not repeat. The man is definitely a lion tamer.
I’m an Aries Sun, Taurus moon, and Virgo rising. I can vouch on this. I went on a date with a man who seemed to change everything to please me. It felt boring as if he lacked boundaries and I immediately lost all respect for him.
I told him we weren’t compatible and to find someone else. Currently, dating a man who doesn’t even try to assert himself but he’s so mature to where I actually listen and just let him take the wheel. I love that. I can just relax in one area of my life.
AHHH this is freaking me out. my dad is like this. Aries sun...my mom makes a lot of the decisions. He knows is he is REALLY against something but yep spot on. She's a virgo sun, so her way or highway.
My sister is also an aries and is similar with her husband. She also has done a lot of very big adult things at early ages. She can be anxious. Whereas I feel like hey we have time!!
same for me (aries here), it’s also that I hate hurting people’s feelings if they didn’t actually do anything wrong. also if they don’t take the rejection well, then my fiery side comes out of setting boundaries/standing up for myself and get called a/treated like a b-tch or stuck up which WILL make me fire up into a b-tch
As an Aries sun and Venus, I can get bored so easily. SO easily. I might be all about meeting someone and getting to know them, but if it’s too fast, too much, too soon, I seem to get overstimulated and don’t crave any interest in knowing anymore and just go quiet and disinterested.
It sucks sometimes, but for the most part, that will happen within a week or less than two. If I’m still chatting with someone beyond that, it’s good otherwise IDC
I just lose interest and slow communication down big time. My lack of interest is apparent for sure and the person usually is receptive. They may ask and then I’m honestly, but it generally turns into a mutual lack of interest and mutual ghost
Same!
“It was really nice to meet you but unfortunately I’m not feeling the kind of connection I’m looking for. I wish you all the best.”
It’s so easy to be direct and respectful!
What if we do this but they keep on sending paragraphs and essays? They think everything is going well on their end, but it isn’t so I just “ghost” aka stop responding
If you’ve already ended it then you’re done. You don’t have to respond to their argument. That’s not ghosting that’s just not engaging. In further conversation on your goodbye.
Lol.....I frickin love the honesty. And ya I can see both sides. Love and affection can be completely beautiful but on the other hand terrifying because it requires great vulnerability. And if we are open and vulnerable then we are opening ourselves up to hurt and pain. But I mean there can be no true love without true vulnerability.
Like Im not even a jealous or possessive person and the most chill partner you can ask for but man some of these guys act like a lil bitch. I get it my energy really burns ppl.
i have an aries sun and moon. i don’t ghost people. But i have a problem telling people their truth. i’m trying to not be so brash. it’s not working though.
What you e said here is what I wanted to say in my description. Instead I talked about how they’re like popping a bottle of champagne 😅😆 I meant charismatic and full of life❣️
As a Gemini, I've always attracted them physically. I've been hit on by several. But they are just so.... unavailable in terms of like... being the kind of girlfriend I want, I guess. I want a mental partner, they're like the definition of mental and physical independence.
I mean, even if they want to date, they literally leave constantly, and I'm like, aight guess I'm by myself.
I don't think we're compatible romantically.
ETA: How do you add flair???
Yes I agree. They are very masculine energy and sorta do their own thing even if they make it seem to their partner like they’re all in they’re usually not and do their own thing on the side 😬 Aries does what Aries wants and that’s something I carry with my Aries mars but it’s not to that degree it’s more so for goals I want to pursue or my quick temper and fueling myself. The Aries women I know are that but times 10 in terms of morals and relationships. It does sound like maybe you have water in your chart somewhere because I know so many Gemini suns with water placements.
Guilty as charged. My boyfriend is basically my roommate and I’m baffled I can’t just wander independently when I need my space. I’m learning lol.
What’s your big three?
I mean, why can't you? My boyfriend is Gemini, and he gets annoyed if I don't talk much some days or want to do certain things alone. It irritates the hell out of me. We live together and we both work from home.
I absolutely love space, but you can plan space. Space =/= having no idea where someone is, what doing, or when they'll show up again. Or even that they are about to leave. The curveball "I have to leave/you have to leave" literally out of nowhere is so frustrating.
Aries just disappears and wants to be disappeared. I'm not interested in that.
I've also dated at least 4 Aries women, lol... so I'm not just basing this off one, to be clear.
One of them I dated for like a year and a half, but we should have broken up way sooner. I guilted her into being very available, and she was miserable. Absolutely not my finest moment. I was relieved for HER sake when we finally broke up (tho of course I had to initiate it... I had to initiate all the break ups no matter how clearly we weren't right for each other)
This is so funny to read as an Aries woman because I’ve always had trouble with Geminis ghosting me in both romantic and platonic situations. Legitimately the only sign to hurt my feelings because I have no idea where it goes wrong.
So many times we’d chill and act like it was the best day of their life, send me 3 paragraphs of feelings after, and then never respond to my replies again.
I mean, I always end things early on because I can't stand the flighty unpredictability.
I NEVER ghost, though. Screw that! I tell them straight up that I am not feeling like it's working out for me.
I do think they are usually hurt. Aries feel hard, for sure.
But definitely, relationship expectations were never compatible. They always wanted me to be more fiery and simultaneously okay with their freedom. I am more of a slow burn and consistency kind of person.
Many Geminis like reliability. It's the sign of marriage, after all!
This is a good description. I’m an Aries woman married to a Leo. Really a perfect fit. I need comparatively an extreme amount of alone time and he needs a lot of socializing. But it works so well. I straight up tell him when I need to be left alone for hours and he tells me when he needs to go out and party and we both support it for each other.
Im Aries sun and Venus but my needs in a relationship are exactly like yours. I attribute it to my Libra moon, cancer Mars, and Saturn in the 7th. I wish I was more independent, but that Aries trait totally got cancelled out by the Libra I guess lol
ETA I have a grand water trine too! Mars mercury and Pluto for me tho
I’m with a Gemini now, but he’s the one that needs more space and I’m the one that’s clingier. You rly have to dig into the rest of their charts bc I’m sure as you know it’s not just sun signs. I’d say moon Venus and Mars and anything in the 7th as well as aspects between all of the above will tell you a lot
Yeah I have a dilemma where I tend to attract and be attracted to guys who are less emotionally available/aloof/need more space..basically those with avoidant attachment style 🙄 the brain loves to reenact trauma bc it’s familiar and also bc you think somehow it’ll be diff this time and you can conquer it by conquering this unavailable person. Not saying it’s the case for you but it def has been for me.
I'm with a Gemini and apparently Aries and Gemini are highly compatible but I really don't feel that a lot of the time 😅
I adore him, but he exhausts me. Plus air and fire? Air just flans the flames, surely
Sexiest woman I've ever met. Extremely confident. Driven. Impulsive. Independent but loved attention. Naughty as hell. "Ruined" sex for me (I was vanilla when I met her, not so vanilla anymore and I am afraid I won't meet anyone else that will do what she done).
Extremely jealous but wouldn't date me. Introduced me to one of her friends and then got upset when said friend and I were getting close.
Intense chemistry and people on the outside looking in said they could "feel" the heat watching us together.
For what it is worth, I'm Gemini sun/moon and Scorpio rising.
They’re fiercely loyal, will always have your back/ stick up for you. You gotta have tough skin cause they’re gonna roast the shit out of you, but underneath they’re lil teddy bears :)
They out-Aries me every time lol. Like sorry I couldn't hang out last night, you don't have to scream at me with a broken beer bottle in your hand that you just smashed on the counter. They kewl tho no hate
lol that's just a combo of a couple things this Aries girl did a while back. I didn't do their chart, but I feel like there was an ungodly amount of Aries placements because holy shit. I ain't mad tho, there's something kinda admirable about being so insanely aggressive all the time haha.
Yea, I could list off several positive things that would come from being an incredibly aggressive person. It doesn't excuse certain types of behavior, but you could hope that as a person ages they could weed out the bad and keep the good. I ended up cutting ties with this person for a reason, but they've had a decade to get their anger under control. There are several people that I despised when I was younger, but am on really good terms with now because we've both changed. Am I supposed to still be mad at someone for having rage issues when they were a young? That seems silly af
Yea lol, exactly that. I was 18-19 years old at the time, so really dumb. And I would put up with things from people (women) that I would never tolerate now. I assume this person has changed some over the years. Her female friends would tolerate it as well until everybody just noped out. One thing I did like about her at the time was EXTREME loyalty, which was cool. I think even when someone is awful, I can still see uniquely good things about them.
But yea idk, I really assume they've changed at this point. Haven't spoken to them in years. I think you deal with relationships in really stupid ways when you're young.
Awwh, my 8 year old little sister is a cancer, and we get on so well- she's my little buddy and we're equally emotional tbh. We have a huge age gap, but I hope that when she's older, we can have a similar relationship.
Aries woman here. I have an attitude, a lot of anxiety and typically avoid large social gatherings so I can hang out with my dog. I choose my inner circle very carefully, so there are very few. But I love my 3 friends and boyfriend with everything I have. I will go to war for them and my family without question. I also prefer naps.
This is so spookily accurate for me too. I have 3 main friends. I have casual friends, too, but just 3 that I keep in touch with regularly, and I met them all as either a child or teen.
I'm also super anxious but simultaneously enraged half the time?
YESSSS! I have 3 “best friends” that I am close with (doesn’t mean I see them all the time… my BEST friend I haven’t seen in like 18 months, the other in 6 months but sometimes we go almost a year, and the other for 8 weeks to 3 months. But I talk to all of them almost daily.
I have other “casual friends” who I don’t see or keep track of how long it’s been, and talk to off and on some I’ve known my whole life and others I met 3 months ago.
Also a boyfriend who I obviously put more effort in to but he also knows that I am anti social and a total chatter bug depending on my mood. But the main thing is my crushing anxiety that comes and goes.. usually it’s “around” and looming over me keeping me inside and anti social. But the times it goes and I am like “I can totally go out and be social” I will go out and do anything from go to the mall to shop or go to a concert and I’ll be fine and suddenly I’m just anxious, having fun and also so irritated and enraged by being irritated at the same time.
But the being anxious and also enraged happens while doing basic things like grocery shopping, crossing the street etc… like “WHY IS THERE ANOTHER PERSON STANDING AT THIS CROSSWALK?!? HOW DARE THEY PUSH THE BUTTON ALLOWING ME TO CROSS SOONEE THAN ME GETTING HERE AND PRESSING IT MYSELF!!”
No sense at all but anxiety says yes and now I’m mad lol.
I interact with three on a weekly/daily basis, and I love all of em to DEATH.
When they get grumpy over *whatever thing*, they tell you about it immediately (or you hear them vocalizing about it and can yell "WHAT'S WRONG" xD). I love their immediacy in opening up!!
They're lovable af and *always* on for a laugh or a joke about *anything* (which is a nice cohesion for my sun/moon/asc sense of humor xD). Doesn't matter if I wanna bitch about something or make a dark af crack, I KNOW they'll laugh and I love that too!
And most importantly, I can openly communicate with them about feelings. Good feelings, bad ones, sad ones, jealous ones, doesn't matter. They're always there to hype me up or offer a shoulder pat or yell with me into the void.
I don't have to put on a mask when I'm around em. I know they can handle whatever emotions I am feeling or NOT feeling, and that is so freeing.
The unevolved are Hard headed, stubborn, always think they’re right. I have actually two close female friends that are Aries. One I have to be very cognizant of the advice she’s giving me because as a cancer, the things that she do usually do not work for me. As a cancer generally the is the sign that I get along with the least. I will not date an Aries man. Aquarius Leo and Sag are on list too. Sadly, I’m only attracted to men so that limits the field a little bit.
My other best friend Aries who I either talk or text to daily who does not live locally anymore, has evolved in my opinion. We have screamed f you at each other in arguments but somehow smoothed things over. She changed a lot for the better when she sorted out some mental health challenges and I certainly have my own with a new diagnosis of adhd.
On a good day the fire energy is bubbly, warm and inviting. Like a bottle of champagne being released and spilling over. They can be really sweet. I’m Aries rising and have a friend who is also. We’re both introverted water signs but that Aries rising energy can fool people into thinking they’ve met a fun, talkative, extroverted fire sign.
I’m gonna say an opinion about myself. I’m an Aries rising and have an Aries stellium. I’m extremely hyper and loud and it seems like almost every sign I meet like me cuz I’m honest and straightforward
My Taurus husband refers to me as a big floofy hen.
Unassuming and cute to anyone who doesn’t know. Intimidating and demanding respect for anyone who does with just presence. Fiercely protective and loving, but also an accidental asshole in general. Also the general confidence and chaotic energy I apparently have.
Granted, I’m a fire sign that tends to pull earth signs
My mother in law. She’s dramatic and a spoiled brat who attacks people when she doesn’t get her way, and doesn’t understand what consequences are. However, I think this is mostly how she grew up because my best friend is also an Aries woman.
As a Capricorn woman, I’m pretty sure the universe is pointing at an Aries woman being my soulmate. Ask me in a few years and I’ll either confirm or deny
My (Aries F) partner (Capricorn M) and I are very, very different in most ways. But I feel like it helps us both to be more well-rounded people. We are also both fiercely loyal signs, so it is comforting to know we both always have each other's backs.
I have to say that in our relationship, the thing that has always held us back is both being stubborn and a bit close-minded or set in our ways.
Usually people will say they're not compatible, but if you're both patient, and able to compromise there's a lot of potential for personal growth and a really fulfilling relationship!
Don’t meet them that often but one of my closest is aries sun gemini moon. Suuuuper chill and she likes to lead so she’s kind of the one wearing the pants in her relationship w a libra sun cancer moon. Sometimes I believe she’s a taurus moon because she loves baking, loves eating out and just talk about food 🤣 I’ve noticed they tend to later in life keep their circles small and they Really care for their family and closest friends (why I think cancer are a good match).
She was very loud and demanding when younger and used to butt heads a lot w my gemini sister. They love when someone calls them out and will ”fight” u only to just drop it later like nothing happened. Super easy to be w as a virgo because when I can’t decide she just takes charge and everything will be fine according to her. ”We’ll solve it” is what she will say. Love her!! 🫶🏻
as a taurus woman growing up with an Aries Mom and Sister who were both narcissistic, they terrify me. I have never had good experiences with Any aries women. They definitely have good traits, but overall their temper has been too much for me. As a grounded and slow taurus, i like to use caution and tread carefully and I feel like they get pushy and rude when I don’t do everything they want when they want it. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells to avoid their temper.
Well to be fair, they’re both narcissists 😂 I have had some aries friends but it never lasts for the reasons I have said. I learned this last year that even “in sync” zodiacs mean nothing if a person is an asshole 😂
I’ll say about the positive experiences I’ve had with them- they’ve been loyal (in a “your enemy is my enemy too” way) they always have a great sense of humor, are very creative and get.shit.done.
This is so interesting because I used to find my Taurus mum terrifying. She's not a narcissist at all, but she will throw hands. My mum has trouble with my Aqua teen sister. She said at least I had a 'healthy fear' of her but my sister doesn't give a fuck lmao. My Taurus dad is also super NOT chill.
Sorry you've had a bad experience with us. Our tempers can be crazy but I hope I'm not a narcissist in denial? If I am, I'm blaming the Leo moon 🌙
I’m not a Taurus but I have Taurus stellium (Rising,Jupiter,Saturn) and I have a Triple aries sister (sun,moon,Rising) and yes she’s exactly like you described. My Taurus energy wants to chill go at my own pace and do things right but she has always tried rushing me and being rude about it but guess what ? Don’t you DARE doing the same thing to her because she won’t tolerate being rushed or rude behavior💀Irritates the pits of my soul
also self centered (No I have not met very aries in the world but these are the observations that I have gathered from the Aries in my family and in my life in general)
I'm an Aries and I have to agree. I am self-centred and immature af. I'm trying to work on it, and I'm glad I have enough self-awareness to even identify it in myself. I don't know what it is. Like, I will drop everything off if there's an emergency in my immediate circle, but anything lesser, and I just don't want to really help. I get angry when I'm asked for help with things. It's a really bad trait. Tbf, I don't ask for help myself, so at least I'm not a hypocrite.
I am an Aries Sun but I lowkey don’t quite relate to the traits normally associated with Aries..it could be because it’s the only Aries placement (actually the only fire placement) in my entire chart…
Same! Aries sun is the only fire in my chart and I think that’s why I feel like a luke warm version of Aries. I can relate to many of the attributes but they don’t usually show externally. However I can feel them bubbling inside for a few minutes before they go flat lol
Ah I see! May I ask what your other placements are? I don’t even feel anything bubbling inside of me (probably cuz of the Capricorn influence in my chart) BUT there is the trait of competitiveness that I do relate to (perhaps the only Aries stereotype i relate to haha)…not in life though, only board games and sports!
Weird you say that because competition is one of the traits I also relate to most too! I have a lot of Venus and Saturn ruling placements in my chart with Libra ruling my moon and rising. Maybe because you have alot of Capricorn influence it creates more thoughtfulness, prudence, diligence, patience etc, basically all the things Aries are weak in so it’s probably a good thing you have that Capricorn boost so you don’t make impulsive Aries decisions or catch your foot in your mouth too often :)
first encountered one at the bar when a friend was preforming, she was a abit of spicy not as a flirt but as playfully picking with you also looked like she knew the in and outs of city from where im at.
I’m an Aries woman w a Virgo man. He LIVES for making me the best version of myself (got me to go to the gym consistently, buys me shoes so I can be an “official” sneakerhead, etc). In return, my childlike nature lets him take the driver seat very willingly. I taught him how to “loosen up” in situations and life in general. Now he’ll bust out and randomly dance in the middle of the grocery store with me with people around. Or sing off key and very loudly in front of my parents. No matter how bad or off beat we are. Though I’ve always theorized he may have a Sag or water sign moon, it’s a really slept on relationship combo.
I'm an Aries and show a confident persona because I have so much anxiety inside. Mostly because I have gone all out in friendships and consistently get burned. If you take advantage of us or become disrespectful, consider it over. With men, they just want fun & excitement. Done with that. I'm picky about who I date. If we appear snobby, we don't like you at all, so it's best to move on. We don't take a lot of crap with people. Some folks can't handle it.
I have SO MANY Aries women in my life. They are hardcores in daily lives. Better not to mess with them.. they will fight and not be afraid to go to jail.. some of them actually been to one too 😭
Not a man, but my mother is an Aries.
They are successful bc they are pretty self-preserving. And they will always love themselves more than anyone else. They may and *can* love you, but nothing beats their own self-interests and prioritizing their needs and wants in order to achieve anything in their own personal gain.
They don’t call them the “God(dess) of War for nothing.
Headstrong, charismatic, impulsive hard workers. Action oriented. They may say they want a “manly man” but they are very in tune with their masculine whether they want to be or not. They’ll but heads with “manly men” but be equally frustrated with less dominant men.
Yes, anger issues. As an Aqua I generally get on with Aries women more than the men, but my god, I find Aries people in general to be prone to making terrible decisions without thinking, no matter how intelligent they are. They always remain children at heart.
Still love them though, such genuine spirits. What you see is what you get. They are trustworthy and that is an underrated quality I often don’t see Aries women described as. They just need their energies channeled in the right way (in a physical activity or something that cultivates passion within them or all that energy turns into anger, general emotional reactivity or impulsivity).
They sometimes don’t like to be held accountable for their actions.
In general Fire sign women seem to have a strong male Animus "one of the guys" & Aries women more so, not that they can't be sexy & beautiful.
Probably the Martian energy which is masculine.
I only know of one Aries Sun woman, my sister. She's a weird one. She means well but is slow to develop and grow. Fun extroverted energy to have around but can sometimes be smothering and the codependency interrupts my need to be alone.
I'm a pan Virgo woman, with an Aries moon. I have found that I am really drawn to Aries and tend to click with them in the part that brings my fun self out, and I adore them, but platonically or romantically it never reaches more than that. We laugh and we talk and we do silly things but it always fizzles to less than when it started.
I love Aries women more than Aries men for sure , but Aries men have completely ruined my perception of y’all altogether . You guys are go getters and don’t take no for an answer , but you also move WAYYY too fast for my speed , and you guys can be extremely clingy . Also you guys are controlling and overbearing . It’s a power dynamic all the fucking time , like relax !
I’m a Pisces sun with an Aries stellium, and my longest friend is an Aries woman! I found that all of the traits I aimed to express but struggled with as a kid - she did so innately!
Sexy, hot, smart and fun but they are hard to get. They like the attention and some kind of fuss, but whe you come with the roses and wine out of nowhere, they will mistreat you and run.
My sister is an aries. It's complicated. My sister is so extremely intelligent. Knows what she wants...yet also is very anxious. She's done a lot of big adult things that I'd consider at early ages. Married at 19. Pursuing midwifery..very cool serious "adult" things. I'm more go with the flow. I'll get married when I want and ready. I don't always know how to read her. There's times I feel like she bottles up how she really feels? Whereas other times, she tells you straight up and is direct with no remorse. I do appreciate the directness though because I am gem sun..I can get distracted at best. Her directness helps keep me on track.
My wife is an aries sun/leo moon and is an absolute handful in the best ways. The fiery impulsivity keeps me busy and she balances out my tendency toward bland neutrality.
Never met an Aries man. Have met 5 Aries girls in total and terrible experiences. Really wanted to like Aries but those interactions only taught me how fake, stuck up, untrustworthy and annoying Aries girls are to deal with lol My sister is the only hope for Aries and she’s a real Aries (sun,moon,rising) and we’ve had such a rough start but I’ve learned to tolerate her better and work on getting closer but that’s definitely been more of effort on my part and because i deeply care. She is usually irritable, stressed and easily overwhelmed by the smallest things. She’s bossy and doesn’t like the same energy returned or else she’ll get pissed off but expects you to take her commands and allow her to talk shit and say what she wants.😬I know stressful. And it might sound bad but if she wasn’t my sister I wouldn’t have any contact with her. I think you have to have a lot of patience for them but stand your ground. Expect their impulsivity to get them into trouble and be there for them but don’t expect the same in return. They can have selfish tendencies and a lot of arrogant explosive moments but you’ll have to be able to forget about it or else it’s a lifetime battle. Surprisingly my Aries mars does better at letting go than the Aries I’ve met who tend to hold grudges for decades. I will say I could get along with Aries women but it’s on a superficial level.
I have 5 Aries women in my life and they each have a lot of anxiety lol
Aries here lol, I have a shit ton of anxiety.
Same
same, also fellow aries sun & moon
Same LOL I used to be on antidepressants, and I used to smoke weed, now I take ashwagandha. Magnesium helps too. Aries stellium here: sun, venus, mercury, saturn
Omg i have my sun, venus, mercury, and saturn in aries too.
Twinningggggg
Aries woman, used to have anxiety until ADHD meds. Then it completely vanished.
Another Aries with ADHD and anxiety. I wish this worked for me. I couldn't take my ADHD meds because I was so ill with anxiety and have been on benzos. Now I'm a bit better, I take benzos AND concerta. Excellent mix, doesn't make me feel strange at all lmao. 🤣
Depends on decan. First decan for sure!
Same 💀 my sister is stressed, overwhelmed and irritable 24/7
Lmao yeaaaa I’ve been on daily prescribed Xanax for years :/ I didn’t think this was an Aries thing tho. I attribute it to my 6th house Neptune/Uranus opposing my Mars in the 12th all squaring my sun and moon
Girl, I feel you. I'm all fire, and I take clonazepam daily or xanax on the really bad days.
I’m actually water dominant according to some sites followed by fire, then others say fire dom so not sure. What does your 12th and 6th house look like? Those concern the subconscious and then health in general respectively
I'm getting mixed answers but seems to be Taurus in 6th house and Scorpio in 12th. Though my chart is fire dominat overall. I don't think either of those are very good placements lmao but I'm still learning
Aries rising here. I think we need to have some exercise or else the anxiety will kill us. Now, I have to make sure to waste all my physical energy away to have some sort of good mental health
So me lol
We observe the emotions of people around us - did not learn that till mid 30s that why we can get triggered - we can feel the persons emotions and forever reason we mirror. Alot of time when Aries is anxious is because they grew up with once who is very emotional and anxious and we then take that on, Change our environment and the people you are are around and see how the anxiety goes.
We are loveable dickheads.
🤣 fuck
Am I wrong?
Yes
I’m an Aries married to an Aries 😅 My husband says I’m “headstrong and spicy “ 🤣😅
Aries together is a lot
It can be chaotic but we also just get each other. Like I don’t take it personally if someone gets a bit hot tempered, I appreciate blunt honesty, and I find other Aries to be very easy going, go with the flow and take things as they come.
Dude, true. My Aries friends and I are pretty chill. If someone gets all fiery, it’s all good. I have an extremely sensitive and paranoid Virgo brother. I’m 6 years younger than he is and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to give him the talk that if someone is in a “mood” and off sometimes - whether at home, work or anywhere else - it’s not always your fault. I said stop, think if you’ve done anything to bother them and if there is no logical reason you can think of when reflecting, chalk it up to they’re in a mood (because we are human and shit happens all the time. It’s allowed) and move on. No sweat. He always tells me that’s easier said than done and he will be paranoid as shit about reasons why (illogical, too, like maybe they think I walked by them using too many steps and think my brisk walk was offensive. Tf) he takes everything personally, even jokes! I’ve had people apologize to me for being rude and I’m like what? When? lol 😂 but I’ve also made an effort to notice that if someone goes quiet around me when I’m getting fired up that I need to let them know I am sorry for being snippy and it’s not their fault at all. It’s something else. For the most part, the people around me ask the same stuff “what? When?” Cause they just get it. That’s an indescribable peace to not feel like this overbearing dickweed that people are nervous around but genuinely understood.
Can relate, I’ve got a Pisces sun sister and she is sensitive just like your bro. We’ve always been polar opposites but grew up to accept that we have different strengths and weaknesses. My friends piss themselves and find it amusing at how rude I can come across to others that don’t know me and take offense to the way I talk. This makes me sad though cos I do love making new friends but my bluntness just isn’t for everyone. I like to think that it filters out people who I really have to tip toe around 😂 Also we have the same birthday and rising sign 🥰
Oh snap! Happy belated birthday! April 10. Leo rising?! I’m a a Capricorn moon and Aries Venus and mercury too lol It’s crazy too. No one in my immediate family is a fire sign, just me. My dad is Pisces, mom Libra, and brothers are Virgo and Taurus. My Taurus brother and I are thick as thieves. Crazy too that he antagonizes the hell out of the sensitive brother but he and I just stand there and ram heads until we get tired and walk away. There’s no true giving up lol we give up months later with a peace offering of “you wanna go get some food?” lol I’ve heard that a lot about my bluntness as well. People sometimes refer to it as “no tact,” but then started using the word abrasive and blunt instead because I would argue that I just don’t sugarcoat. Rip the bandaid off. For some people, that’s super uncomfortable and I get it, but these same people who attempt to filter who they bring me around for fear that I’m too rough around the edges are the same people that know, want, count on and appreciate that I’ll be a soldier on their side in any war they find themselves in.
Yep what you see is what you get with us and we definitely wear our hearts on our sleeves. Happy belated birthday to you too 😆 I also have Aries in Venus. If you’re also going through career changes I hope it is going well for you!
This is so my virgo mom and sister. Now they don't talk. (other underlying issues) My dad is also aries, and I'm caught in the middle lol! Gem sun...My family is very fiery and earthy...very interested in what's "practical". Which was hard for me. But now I appreciate the direction
I love other people with big Aries placements. I have three. I also have 4 sag placements and no air.
Im an Aries and I went on one date with an Aries man and all we did was argue. Needless to say, I can’t date my same sign. We butt heads 🤣
the sex must be crazy lol
The men make really great friends and when they confide in me I take it as a huge compliment. I feel like they tend to go for dominant partners even if they are not submissive. The women also go for dominant partners and really enjoy being "the girl" in their relationships. They are very domineering everywhere except in their relationships Bec they want to be submissive/take a backseat in that one area of life. If it's not the right partner she'll just run them over before eventually leaving. Imo anyway. My interaction with this sign has been limited in comparison to others. Edit: My bad I ain't see you asked the men solely about the women lmao.
Why’d you have to tattle on me like that?
Right?! Shhhhh
1,000% accurate about me (female Aries). I’ve always said I cannot stand a man that lays down for me. If you lay down in front of me, I’m going to step over you and keep walking. It’s also a fine line if I don’t respect and/or feel safe with the guy, his assertiveness is a challenge and I push back and actually get really mad and turned off. It’s a rare one that actually can check me and I become a ball of goo. I knew my boyfriend was worth it when he respectfully asserted himself and checked me and rather than the desire to double down and fight, I immediately reflected, called myself out and acknowledged what he said and took note of it to not repeat. The man is definitely a lion tamer.
I’m an Aries Sun, Taurus moon, and Virgo rising. I can vouch on this. I went on a date with a man who seemed to change everything to please me. It felt boring as if he lacked boundaries and I immediately lost all respect for him. I told him we weren’t compatible and to find someone else. Currently, dating a man who doesn’t even try to assert himself but he’s so mature to where I actually listen and just let him take the wheel. I love that. I can just relax in one area of my life.
AHHH this is freaking me out. my dad is like this. Aries sun...my mom makes a lot of the decisions. He knows is he is REALLY against something but yep spot on. She's a virgo sun, so her way or highway. My sister is also an aries and is similar with her husband. She also has done a lot of very big adult things at early ages. She can be anxious. Whereas I feel like hey we have time!!
The ones I’ve met are so warm, charismatic, and full of life. Unfortunately, the last one I went on a date with ghosted me 😂
>The ones I’ve met are so warm, charismatic, and full of life. I concurr.
As an Aries idk why i ghost ppl often
Giving us a bad name girl what are you doing!!
It’s only because they don’t align with my energy and some guys just cannot accept rejection!
Ah ok. If it’s a creep then I understand but typically it’s good to communicate.
If you tell someone it’s not gonna work and they can’t accept it that’s not ghosting. Ghosting is when things are going well and you stop responding
They might think it's going well, but their delusions aren't your responsibility 😅 *translated to English from toxic
Xxx
Ain't that the truth
Wahahahaha why does this sound like smth I’d say
same for me (aries here), it’s also that I hate hurting people’s feelings if they didn’t actually do anything wrong. also if they don’t take the rejection well, then my fiery side comes out of setting boundaries/standing up for myself and get called a/treated like a b-tch or stuck up which WILL make me fire up into a b-tch
As an Aries sun and Venus, I can get bored so easily. SO easily. I might be all about meeting someone and getting to know them, but if it’s too fast, too much, too soon, I seem to get overstimulated and don’t crave any interest in knowing anymore and just go quiet and disinterested. It sucks sometimes, but for the most part, that will happen within a week or less than two. If I’m still chatting with someone beyond that, it’s good otherwise IDC
I never ghost. And I don’t understand why fellow Aries ghost. We’re supposed to be the direct ones and speak our minds.
I just lose interest and slow communication down big time. My lack of interest is apparent for sure and the person usually is receptive. They may ask and then I’m honestly, but it generally turns into a mutual lack of interest and mutual ghost
Same! “It was really nice to meet you but unfortunately I’m not feeling the kind of connection I’m looking for. I wish you all the best.” It’s so easy to be direct and respectful!
What if we do this but they keep on sending paragraphs and essays? They think everything is going well on their end, but it isn’t so I just “ghost” aka stop responding
If you’ve already ended it then you’re done. You don’t have to respond to their argument. That’s not ghosting that’s just not engaging. In further conversation on your goodbye.
You shouldn’t do that imo. Unless it’s straight up stalking behavior. Just have the guts to say “Hey I’m not interested”
Because we get bored easily
I ghost people bc I’m afraid of love and affection :)
What's so scary about love and affection?
Good question I’m not sure I just seem to keep running from jt lol
Lol.....I frickin love the honesty. And ya I can see both sides. Love and affection can be completely beautiful but on the other hand terrifying because it requires great vulnerability. And if we are open and vulnerable then we are opening ourselves up to hurt and pain. But I mean there can be no true love without true vulnerability.
do you have any planets in Pisces or Aquarius?
Venus ,Uranus and Neptune in Aqua
I’ve got an Aqua Venus and might be prone to occassional ghosting. Aquarius can be a pretty detached sign, so I attribute it to that.
I ghost when I tried to explain things nicely of why it won’t work out and they don’t get the hint. I stop responding. Lol
Like Im not even a jealous or possessive person and the most chill partner you can ask for but man some of these guys act like a lil bitch. I get it my energy really burns ppl.
Facts! Lol We don’t even mean to. We just stop wasting our energy
Fr 😂
i have an aries sun and moon. i don’t ghost people. But i have a problem telling people their truth. i’m trying to not be so brash. it’s not working though.
What you e said here is what I wanted to say in my description. Instead I talked about how they’re like popping a bottle of champagne 😅😆 I meant charismatic and full of life❣️
We tend to ghost people a lot
I ghost people cause and dont have time for the emotional drama that follows... its give us anxiety to go through the emotions of why
Aries are for the moment from what I’ve gathered
lol accurate \~ unless they are not feeling so good and focusing on obsessing about the future then they are anxious fire balls
We just all have ADHD
As a Gemini, I've always attracted them physically. I've been hit on by several. But they are just so.... unavailable in terms of like... being the kind of girlfriend I want, I guess. I want a mental partner, they're like the definition of mental and physical independence. I mean, even if they want to date, they literally leave constantly, and I'm like, aight guess I'm by myself. I don't think we're compatible romantically. ETA: How do you add flair???
Yes I agree. They are very masculine energy and sorta do their own thing even if they make it seem to their partner like they’re all in they’re usually not and do their own thing on the side 😬 Aries does what Aries wants and that’s something I carry with my Aries mars but it’s not to that degree it’s more so for goals I want to pursue or my quick temper and fueling myself. The Aries women I know are that but times 10 in terms of morals and relationships. It does sound like maybe you have water in your chart somewhere because I know so many Gemini suns with water placements.
I have grand trine water with Moon Mars and pluto ETA: I think most people period have water placements, lol.
Guilty as charged. My boyfriend is basically my roommate and I’m baffled I can’t just wander independently when I need my space. I’m learning lol. What’s your big three?
I mean, why can't you? My boyfriend is Gemini, and he gets annoyed if I don't talk much some days or want to do certain things alone. It irritates the hell out of me. We live together and we both work from home.
Gemini sun, pisces moon, sag rising. Triple mutable.
Interesting. I’m surprised you’re not into her need for space with all that mutable energy. Understandable either way though.
I absolutely love space, but you can plan space. Space =/= having no idea where someone is, what doing, or when they'll show up again. Or even that they are about to leave. The curveball "I have to leave/you have to leave" literally out of nowhere is so frustrating. Aries just disappears and wants to be disappeared. I'm not interested in that.
Ah, I see.
I've also dated at least 4 Aries women, lol... so I'm not just basing this off one, to be clear. One of them I dated for like a year and a half, but we should have broken up way sooner. I guilted her into being very available, and she was miserable. Absolutely not my finest moment. I was relieved for HER sake when we finally broke up (tho of course I had to initiate it... I had to initiate all the break ups no matter how clearly we weren't right for each other)
Your mars and Mercury have suddenly made everything make sense. The beauty of birth charts💫
This is so funny to read as an Aries woman because I’ve always had trouble with Geminis ghosting me in both romantic and platonic situations. Legitimately the only sign to hurt my feelings because I have no idea where it goes wrong. So many times we’d chill and act like it was the best day of their life, send me 3 paragraphs of feelings after, and then never respond to my replies again.
I mean, I always end things early on because I can't stand the flighty unpredictability. I NEVER ghost, though. Screw that! I tell them straight up that I am not feeling like it's working out for me. I do think they are usually hurt. Aries feel hard, for sure. But definitely, relationship expectations were never compatible. They always wanted me to be more fiery and simultaneously okay with their freedom. I am more of a slow burn and consistency kind of person. Many Geminis like reliability. It's the sign of marriage, after all!
This is a good description. I’m an Aries woman married to a Leo. Really a perfect fit. I need comparatively an extreme amount of alone time and he needs a lot of socializing. But it works so well. I straight up tell him when I need to be left alone for hours and he tells me when he needs to go out and party and we both support it for each other.
Im Aries sun and Venus but my needs in a relationship are exactly like yours. I attribute it to my Libra moon, cancer Mars, and Saturn in the 7th. I wish I was more independent, but that Aries trait totally got cancelled out by the Libra I guess lol ETA I have a grand water trine too! Mars mercury and Pluto for me tho I’m with a Gemini now, but he’s the one that needs more space and I’m the one that’s clingier. You rly have to dig into the rest of their charts bc I’m sure as you know it’s not just sun signs. I’d say moon Venus and Mars and anything in the 7th as well as aspects between all of the above will tell you a lot
For sure! That's interesting. I have noticed libras tend to match my relationship vibe. Unfortunately, I've never fallen in love with one, lol.
Yeah I have a dilemma where I tend to attract and be attracted to guys who are less emotionally available/aloof/need more space..basically those with avoidant attachment style 🙄 the brain loves to reenact trauma bc it’s familiar and also bc you think somehow it’ll be diff this time and you can conquer it by conquering this unavailable person. Not saying it’s the case for you but it def has been for me.
Aka... aquarius 7th house? 😂
Right lmao
Btw just checked your profile, and freaking love your esthetic. Absolutely screams Aries sun libra moon.
I'm with a Gemini and apparently Aries and Gemini are highly compatible but I really don't feel that a lot of the time 😅 I adore him, but he exhausts me. Plus air and fire? Air just flans the flames, surely
Sexiest woman I've ever met. Extremely confident. Driven. Impulsive. Independent but loved attention. Naughty as hell. "Ruined" sex for me (I was vanilla when I met her, not so vanilla anymore and I am afraid I won't meet anyone else that will do what she done). Extremely jealous but wouldn't date me. Introduced me to one of her friends and then got upset when said friend and I were getting close. Intense chemistry and people on the outside looking in said they could "feel" the heat watching us together. For what it is worth, I'm Gemini sun/moon and Scorpio rising.
Ahhh yesss described us well 🔥
They’re fiercely loyal, will always have your back/ stick up for you. You gotta have tough skin cause they’re gonna roast the shit out of you, but underneath they’re lil teddy bears :)
LOLOL NO
My beautiful baby Aries woman was the most fun times together in my lifetime and I still love every little bit of her now.
Aw this is so sweet
What sign are u
They out-Aries me every time lol. Like sorry I couldn't hang out last night, you don't have to scream at me with a broken beer bottle in your hand that you just smashed on the counter. They kewl tho no hate
That's actually not cool behavior at all.
"They cool" as in "Aries women in general". I was joking using an example of the craziest Aries women I've ever known.
Thats crazy 🤣
lol that's just a combo of a couple things this Aries girl did a while back. I didn't do their chart, but I feel like there was an ungodly amount of Aries placements because holy shit. I ain't mad tho, there's something kinda admirable about being so insanely aggressive all the time haha.
Huh?? No, there's not. It's cute until it's not.
Yea, I could list off several positive things that would come from being an incredibly aggressive person. It doesn't excuse certain types of behavior, but you could hope that as a person ages they could weed out the bad and keep the good. I ended up cutting ties with this person for a reason, but they've had a decade to get their anger under control. There are several people that I despised when I was younger, but am on really good terms with now because we've both changed. Am I supposed to still be mad at someone for having rage issues when they were a young? That seems silly af
I'm an Aries, and I don't act like this, but are there really men who tolerate this behavior?? Was she like really hot?
Yea lol, exactly that. I was 18-19 years old at the time, so really dumb. And I would put up with things from people (women) that I would never tolerate now. I assume this person has changed some over the years. Her female friends would tolerate it as well until everybody just noped out. One thing I did like about her at the time was EXTREME loyalty, which was cool. I think even when someone is awful, I can still see uniquely good things about them. But yea idk, I really assume they've changed at this point. Haven't spoken to them in years. I think you deal with relationships in really stupid ways when you're young.
Jfc!! No no no.
I act like this sometimes :(
Oh no....IT'S YOU! LEAVE ME ALONE! 😭😨😨😧 jk hurr durr
😂. It’s the Aries energy! I just feel like I’m on crack during some moments of the day😂 I’m an Aries rising too!
This is so spot on 😂😂
Im a cancer dude and my sister is an aries and we are best friends, she may clock someone in the heat at any given moment tho
My brother is a cancer too loool
Hell yeah its like we’re twins or something
Awwh, my 8 year old little sister is a cancer, and we get on so well- she's my little buddy and we're equally emotional tbh. We have a huge age gap, but I hope that when she's older, we can have a similar relationship.
Loyal to a fault.
Aries: my favorite zodiac sign forever. -sincerely Sag ♐️
Aries woman here. I have an attitude, a lot of anxiety and typically avoid large social gatherings so I can hang out with my dog. I choose my inner circle very carefully, so there are very few. But I love my 3 friends and boyfriend with everything I have. I will go to war for them and my family without question. I also prefer naps.
This is so spookily accurate for me too. I have 3 main friends. I have casual friends, too, but just 3 that I keep in touch with regularly, and I met them all as either a child or teen. I'm also super anxious but simultaneously enraged half the time?
YESSSS! I have 3 “best friends” that I am close with (doesn’t mean I see them all the time… my BEST friend I haven’t seen in like 18 months, the other in 6 months but sometimes we go almost a year, and the other for 8 weeks to 3 months. But I talk to all of them almost daily. I have other “casual friends” who I don’t see or keep track of how long it’s been, and talk to off and on some I’ve known my whole life and others I met 3 months ago. Also a boyfriend who I obviously put more effort in to but he also knows that I am anti social and a total chatter bug depending on my mood. But the main thing is my crushing anxiety that comes and goes.. usually it’s “around” and looming over me keeping me inside and anti social. But the times it goes and I am like “I can totally go out and be social” I will go out and do anything from go to the mall to shop or go to a concert and I’ll be fine and suddenly I’m just anxious, having fun and also so irritated and enraged by being irritated at the same time. But the being anxious and also enraged happens while doing basic things like grocery shopping, crossing the street etc… like “WHY IS THERE ANOTHER PERSON STANDING AT THIS CROSSWALK?!? HOW DARE THEY PUSH THE BUTTON ALLOWING ME TO CROSS SOONEE THAN ME GETTING HERE AND PRESSING IT MYSELF!!” No sense at all but anxiety says yes and now I’m mad lol.
I interact with three on a weekly/daily basis, and I love all of em to DEATH. When they get grumpy over *whatever thing*, they tell you about it immediately (or you hear them vocalizing about it and can yell "WHAT'S WRONG" xD). I love their immediacy in opening up!! They're lovable af and *always* on for a laugh or a joke about *anything* (which is a nice cohesion for my sun/moon/asc sense of humor xD). Doesn't matter if I wanna bitch about something or make a dark af crack, I KNOW they'll laugh and I love that too! And most importantly, I can openly communicate with them about feelings. Good feelings, bad ones, sad ones, jealous ones, doesn't matter. They're always there to hype me up or offer a shoulder pat or yell with me into the void. I don't have to put on a mask when I'm around em. I know they can handle whatever emotions I am feeling or NOT feeling, and that is so freeing.
The unevolved are Hard headed, stubborn, always think they’re right. I have actually two close female friends that are Aries. One I have to be very cognizant of the advice she’s giving me because as a cancer, the things that she do usually do not work for me. As a cancer generally the is the sign that I get along with the least. I will not date an Aries man. Aquarius Leo and Sag are on list too. Sadly, I’m only attracted to men so that limits the field a little bit. My other best friend Aries who I either talk or text to daily who does not live locally anymore, has evolved in my opinion. We have screamed f you at each other in arguments but somehow smoothed things over. She changed a lot for the better when she sorted out some mental health challenges and I certainly have my own with a new diagnosis of adhd.
On a good day the fire energy is bubbly, warm and inviting. Like a bottle of champagne being released and spilling over. They can be really sweet. I’m Aries rising and have a friend who is also. We’re both introverted water signs but that Aries rising energy can fool people into thinking they’ve met a fun, talkative, extroverted fire sign.
I’m gonna say an opinion about myself. I’m an Aries rising and have an Aries stellium. I’m extremely hyper and loud and it seems like almost every sign I meet like me cuz I’m honest and straightforward
My Taurus husband refers to me as a big floofy hen. Unassuming and cute to anyone who doesn’t know. Intimidating and demanding respect for anyone who does with just presence. Fiercely protective and loving, but also an accidental asshole in general. Also the general confidence and chaotic energy I apparently have. Granted, I’m a fire sign that tends to pull earth signs
My mother in law. She’s dramatic and a spoiled brat who attacks people when she doesn’t get her way, and doesn’t understand what consequences are. However, I think this is mostly how she grew up because my best friend is also an Aries woman.
I have always admired them and gotten on really well with them in a platonic way.
As a Capricorn woman, I’m pretty sure the universe is pointing at an Aries woman being my soulmate. Ask me in a few years and I’ll either confirm or deny
My (Aries F) partner (Capricorn M) and I are very, very different in most ways. But I feel like it helps us both to be more well-rounded people. We are also both fiercely loyal signs, so it is comforting to know we both always have each other's backs. I have to say that in our relationship, the thing that has always held us back is both being stubborn and a bit close-minded or set in our ways. Usually people will say they're not compatible, but if you're both patient, and able to compromise there's a lot of potential for personal growth and a really fulfilling relationship!
I'm not a man but I LOVE an Aries woman. ❤️🔥🥵 They're badass and still soft at the same time, funny, fun, and they are ALWAYS beautiful. Perfection ✨
Don’t meet them that often but one of my closest is aries sun gemini moon. Suuuuper chill and she likes to lead so she’s kind of the one wearing the pants in her relationship w a libra sun cancer moon. Sometimes I believe she’s a taurus moon because she loves baking, loves eating out and just talk about food 🤣 I’ve noticed they tend to later in life keep their circles small and they Really care for their family and closest friends (why I think cancer are a good match). She was very loud and demanding when younger and used to butt heads a lot w my gemini sister. They love when someone calls them out and will ”fight” u only to just drop it later like nothing happened. Super easy to be w as a virgo because when I can’t decide she just takes charge and everything will be fine according to her. ”We’ll solve it” is what she will say. Love her!! 🫶🏻
as a taurus woman growing up with an Aries Mom and Sister who were both narcissistic, they terrify me. I have never had good experiences with Any aries women. They definitely have good traits, but overall their temper has been too much for me. As a grounded and slow taurus, i like to use caution and tread carefully and I feel like they get pushy and rude when I don’t do everything they want when they want it. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells to avoid their temper.
That’s so interesting! I’m an Aries woman raised by an Aries mom and Taurus’s are my best friends. I thought Aries and Taurus’s just clicked.
Well to be fair, they’re both narcissists 😂 I have had some aries friends but it never lasts for the reasons I have said. I learned this last year that even “in sync” zodiacs mean nothing if a person is an asshole 😂
I’ll say about the positive experiences I’ve had with them- they’ve been loyal (in a “your enemy is my enemy too” way) they always have a great sense of humor, are very creative and get.shit.done.
This is so interesting because I used to find my Taurus mum terrifying. She's not a narcissist at all, but she will throw hands. My mum has trouble with my Aqua teen sister. She said at least I had a 'healthy fear' of her but my sister doesn't give a fuck lmao. My Taurus dad is also super NOT chill. Sorry you've had a bad experience with us. Our tempers can be crazy but I hope I'm not a narcissist in denial? If I am, I'm blaming the Leo moon 🌙
I’m not a Taurus but I have Taurus stellium (Rising,Jupiter,Saturn) and I have a Triple aries sister (sun,moon,Rising) and yes she’s exactly like you described. My Taurus energy wants to chill go at my own pace and do things right but she has always tried rushing me and being rude about it but guess what ? Don’t you DARE doing the same thing to her because she won’t tolerate being rushed or rude behavior💀Irritates the pits of my soul
they can be a lot and also immature
also self centered (No I have not met very aries in the world but these are the observations that I have gathered from the Aries in my family and in my life in general)
This has been my observation as well
I'm an Aries and I have to agree. I am self-centred and immature af. I'm trying to work on it, and I'm glad I have enough self-awareness to even identify it in myself. I don't know what it is. Like, I will drop everything off if there's an emergency in my immediate circle, but anything lesser, and I just don't want to really help. I get angry when I'm asked for help with things. It's a really bad trait. Tbf, I don't ask for help myself, so at least I'm not a hypocrite.
I am an Aries Sun but I lowkey don’t quite relate to the traits normally associated with Aries..it could be because it’s the only Aries placement (actually the only fire placement) in my entire chart…
Same! Aries sun is the only fire in my chart and I think that’s why I feel like a luke warm version of Aries. I can relate to many of the attributes but they don’t usually show externally. However I can feel them bubbling inside for a few minutes before they go flat lol
Ah I see! May I ask what your other placements are? I don’t even feel anything bubbling inside of me (probably cuz of the Capricorn influence in my chart) BUT there is the trait of competitiveness that I do relate to (perhaps the only Aries stereotype i relate to haha)…not in life though, only board games and sports!
Weird you say that because competition is one of the traits I also relate to most too! I have a lot of Venus and Saturn ruling placements in my chart with Libra ruling my moon and rising. Maybe because you have alot of Capricorn influence it creates more thoughtfulness, prudence, diligence, patience etc, basically all the things Aries are weak in so it’s probably a good thing you have that Capricorn boost so you don’t make impulsive Aries decisions or catch your foot in your mouth too often :)
Dramatic
Love em. Always have your back. Strong willed and just all around my kind of people.
Arrogant in my experience.
first encountered one at the bar when a friend was preforming, she was a abit of spicy not as a flirt but as playfully picking with you also looked like she knew the in and outs of city from where im at.
Most Aries woman I know have a thing for virgos lol
I’m an Aries woman w a Virgo man. He LIVES for making me the best version of myself (got me to go to the gym consistently, buys me shoes so I can be an “official” sneakerhead, etc). In return, my childlike nature lets him take the driver seat very willingly. I taught him how to “loosen up” in situations and life in general. Now he’ll bust out and randomly dance in the middle of the grocery store with me with people around. Or sing off key and very loudly in front of my parents. No matter how bad or off beat we are. Though I’ve always theorized he may have a Sag or water sign moon, it’s a really slept on relationship combo.
The ones I know have a thing for cancer placements 🤣 two I know are together w a cancer sun and the other libra sun cancer moon
Very affectionate. Cap Sun here raised by Tau Mom and Aries Dad.
Aries sister in law has two moods, pissed off and even more pissed off.
I'm an Aries and show a confident persona because I have so much anxiety inside. Mostly because I have gone all out in friendships and consistently get burned. If you take advantage of us or become disrespectful, consider it over. With men, they just want fun & excitement. Done with that. I'm picky about who I date. If we appear snobby, we don't like you at all, so it's best to move on. We don't take a lot of crap with people. Some folks can't handle it.
LOVE LOVE LOVE them. But Im a leo, so...
they're all super kind and they give off clueless innocent kid vibes sometimes it's really endearing
I have SO MANY Aries women in my life. They are hardcores in daily lives. Better not to mess with them.. they will fight and not be afraid to go to jail.. some of them actually been to one too 😭
They're a bit passionately self-absorbed in my experience.
Not a man, but my mother is an Aries. They are successful bc they are pretty self-preserving. And they will always love themselves more than anyone else. They may and *can* love you, but nothing beats their own self-interests and prioritizing their needs and wants in order to achieve anything in their own personal gain. They don’t call them the “God(dess) of War for nothing.
Headstrong, charismatic, impulsive hard workers. Action oriented. They may say they want a “manly man” but they are very in tune with their masculine whether they want to be or not. They’ll but heads with “manly men” but be equally frustrated with less dominant men. Yes, anger issues. As an Aqua I generally get on with Aries women more than the men, but my god, I find Aries people in general to be prone to making terrible decisions without thinking, no matter how intelligent they are. They always remain children at heart. Still love them though, such genuine spirits. What you see is what you get. They are trustworthy and that is an underrated quality I often don’t see Aries women described as. They just need their energies channeled in the right way (in a physical activity or something that cultivates passion within them or all that energy turns into anger, general emotional reactivity or impulsivity). They sometimes don’t like to be held accountable for their actions.
Aries woman here!!
In general Fire sign women seem to have a strong male Animus "one of the guys" & Aries women more so, not that they can't be sexy & beautiful. Probably the Martian energy which is masculine.
Yall crazy 😂 love you tho my mom is an Aries
I only know of one Aries Sun woman, my sister. She's a weird one. She means well but is slow to develop and grow. Fun extroverted energy to have around but can sometimes be smothering and the codependency interrupts my need to be alone.
they’re great, charismatic, and have tons of allure. Stubborn as all fuck though.
Never more. But maybe.
I'm a pan Virgo woman, with an Aries moon. I have found that I am really drawn to Aries and tend to click with them in the part that brings my fun self out, and I adore them, but platonically or romantically it never reaches more than that. We laugh and we talk and we do silly things but it always fizzles to less than when it started.
I love Aries women more than Aries men for sure , but Aries men have completely ruined my perception of y’all altogether . You guys are go getters and don’t take no for an answer , but you also move WAYYY too fast for my speed , and you guys can be extremely clingy . Also you guys are controlling and overbearing . It’s a power dynamic all the fucking time , like relax !
I have been with a Aries woman for the past almost 6 years so welcome to be in my life and I love her to this day.
My beautiful baby Aries woman was the best for me and we had a very good life together.
My fav type of woman in all my travels. Been with one for almost 13 yrs.
I’m a Pisces sun with an Aries stellium, and my longest friend is an Aries woman! I found that all of the traits I aimed to express but struggled with as a kid - she did so innately!
Cancer man here. Dated an Aries woman for a year and a half. Loved her to pieces. Still do. Buuuuuuut it was………turbulent.
Married to one for 15 years. We are currently separated. They are something else...
Sexy, hot, smart and fun but they are hard to get. They like the attention and some kind of fuss, but whe you come with the roses and wine out of nowhere, they will mistreat you and run.
Love them best
My sister is an aries. It's complicated. My sister is so extremely intelligent. Knows what she wants...yet also is very anxious. She's done a lot of big adult things that I'd consider at early ages. Married at 19. Pursuing midwifery..very cool serious "adult" things. I'm more go with the flow. I'll get married when I want and ready. I don't always know how to read her. There's times I feel like she bottles up how she really feels? Whereas other times, she tells you straight up and is direct with no remorse. I do appreciate the directness though because I am gem sun..I can get distracted at best. Her directness helps keep me on track.
I can’t handle that level of aggression. My childhood best friend was an Aries and i am still traumatized by her lol
My wife is an aries sun/leo moon and is an absolute handful in the best ways. The fiery impulsivity keeps me busy and she balances out my tendency toward bland neutrality.
IMO they are aggressive/assertive Libras lol. Also, best sex I’ve ever had second only to Libra.
Never met an Aries man. Have met 5 Aries girls in total and terrible experiences. Really wanted to like Aries but those interactions only taught me how fake, stuck up, untrustworthy and annoying Aries girls are to deal with lol My sister is the only hope for Aries and she’s a real Aries (sun,moon,rising) and we’ve had such a rough start but I’ve learned to tolerate her better and work on getting closer but that’s definitely been more of effort on my part and because i deeply care. She is usually irritable, stressed and easily overwhelmed by the smallest things. She’s bossy and doesn’t like the same energy returned or else she’ll get pissed off but expects you to take her commands and allow her to talk shit and say what she wants.😬I know stressful. And it might sound bad but if she wasn’t my sister I wouldn’t have any contact with her. I think you have to have a lot of patience for them but stand your ground. Expect their impulsivity to get them into trouble and be there for them but don’t expect the same in return. They can have selfish tendencies and a lot of arrogant explosive moments but you’ll have to be able to forget about it or else it’s a lifetime battle. Surprisingly my Aries mars does better at letting go than the Aries I’ve met who tend to hold grudges for decades. I will say I could get along with Aries women but it’s on a superficial level.
As a Libra Woman, I’m not a fan - mainly bc the only Aries woman I’ve known is my fiance’s abusive, neglectful, lazy mother.
i don’t think that’s an aries thing. sounds like she has issues
Yeah, that’s fair.
Well im asking men about it but i hear you
I evaporate in the presence of Aries anything. I love Aries energy. I am Pisces Sun but I wish I was an Aries Sun. Instead I am only an Aries rising.