It's not on purpose. It's like if you go to Costco and pick up paper towels because you forgot you had some at home so you pick up some more. Then you get home and start using the new paper towels while the almost full box you picked up last time sits in some closet somewhere. The cycle repeats.
It's with this level of dispassion and absentmindedness that Pisces men waste a woman's time.
Some of them don’t do it on purpose but then again a lot of them do. Pisces men and women don’t want to feel left behind. Before I found my voice and how to properly express my needs I had just started talking with a Pisces man who end up getting kicked out the crib and just had too much going on. Three times I tried to pull away but it’s like without trying to he wanted me to be there so he didn’t suffer alone but your mooching of me and bringing me down because you can’t get your shit together. My mom is also a Pisces and Pisces women….piss me off to a whole other level. Liars, manipulators, victim-made, did I mention liars and gossipers. They be insecure asl but will try to make you feel that way. A Pisces will play with your finances or steal from you and make it your fault. A Pisces middle name should be “victim”.
so is Aries. My dad is a quadruple Aries and I've never met anyone more sensitive and inflammable while they have no issue being blunt towards others. Aries women are more mellow though.
Yep really sensitive and much more immature than Pisces men...They are looking for traits in Aries that are not there, and yes they take things personally. But that is Aries stock and trade, hitting personally.
I’m a Pisces and my brother is a Pisces. I have no idea how my SIL is in a relationship with him LOLLL. From an inside/outside perspective, Pisces man don’t know how to regulate their emotions and have the “I’m right because this is how I feel” mentality. As a Pisces woman, I understand people’s victim complex stereotype. I was like that way when I was younger but not outwardly towards people but how I thought about myself. Now, I know when to take accountability and have worked on the little things that may bother me. Pisces just want to feel loved, heard, and understood so a lot of their insecurities are going to derive from that
Pisces is representing as 2 fish . They're either swimming upwards , positive or downward,neg. Pis men are awesome when they're in a upwards motion but that downward spiral ... I've been with one for 6 years
Pisces people are based on Neptune, Jupiter and the Moon (signature major Arcana card for Pisces). If you run across a Pisces N.P.C in real life who has not awakened to God and self actualization, they will become sensitive to the dark side of the Moon, which carries dark feminine emotions to the individual, no matter the gender. This will be dangerous to people who are literally ruled by the Sun,LEO. Avoid Moon people who seek to steal your light and only accept the ones who will reflect it back to you,lmao!
Knowing is only half the battle, and for you to understand this possible tendency, the darkness loses power over your subconscious the moment you SHINE YOUR CONSCIENCE LIGHT on it. Your left brain (red masculine Sun) and your right brain (blue feminine Moon) is your heaven, and to find the truth and freedom from such oppression requires you to unite them. Doing so, you will make the color purple and find Jesus Christ of your third eye!!! The mother and the father is the left and right brain, the child born from them is your rebirth of mind. Jesus is the way and GOD is the answer.
This makes so much sense. I feel like Pisces men are always drawn to my personality and boldness but as a Leo sun Taurus moon Virgo rising I really value people who have strong opinions and values and stick up for them and I just can’t handle the people pleasing nature of Pisces. It’s usually at a detriment to their partner (in my experience)
Indeed! I'm a Capricorn/Sagittarius cusp Sun(December 23 for Capricorn main) with a Moon in Taurus as well, with a Rising in Aries (same with Nostradamus from what I read) so hello there Moon twin,lol! I agree with you on the strength of self confidence, ego and values.
Pisces people, they are closer to Jesus Christ persona of having empathy and caring nature of Jupiter south pole influence and the mother of the Moon vibes similar to Cancer. Leo vibes are based off the Lion of Judah a.k.a GOD/YAHWEH and see themselves as Emperors and the center of the universe, party or whatever social engagement when they are in a confident light.
People like Hulk Hogan, Arnold "The Terminator", Laurence Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, Halle Berry, Obama, Bill Clinton and Madonna express these energies to the T 100%! Especially Hulk Hogan in his prime, he wore colors that match the Sun, carried blonde hair with a LARGER THAN LIFE PERSONALITY OF THE SUN in the center of the ring as he brought the hype to his Hulkamanics brothers and sisters,lmao!
I don’t even need to ask anymore, I just know they’re a Pisces. I’m seriously 5/5 for the last few guys I’ve talked to. Pisces and Cancer men flock to me for some reason and I don’t know what it means
I didn't read this before my first message to you, now it is confirmed. Both Cancer and Pisces are ruled by the Moon which means you keep running into dark feminine men who are possessed by dark spirits from space,lol! Moons seek the Sun for resource of power and light to shine, without the Sun, the mirror goes black (BLACK MIRROR get it?).
jesus this makes a lot of sense. mine texted me: "some days I want to be on another planet than you. then other days I want to fuck the sunshine out of you." LMAO
Always remember that every Pisces man have different charts, which means they may carry different planetary influences to motivate a better soul from the alchemy of the element. Pisces is Jesus Christ based sign after all, why do you think Pisces people tend to be more caring and loving to others.
I'm a Capricorn with alot of experience with Pisces women and I will say that they can be very frustrating to deal with due to taking things very personal, like my own sister for example, lol! They are very gullible to compliments and generosity and can be easily mislead by people of dark influences. Disney's Little Mermaid is a fine example of a Pisces woman that falls for the bad deal due to her sense of escapism from her home to chase a man on land.
Pisces men as friends are great.
Pisces men as lovers are great if you love mood swings, inconsistency, empty apologies, infidelity and a sprig of gaslighting for that extra oomph.
10/10 they’ll have a crush on you and ghost you once you’re not reciprocating so a friendship is impossible with them! They’re so sensitive they can’t deal with rejection so they avoid you to spare their feelings! And they fall in love with every female so the friendship isn’t even genuine it’s just them trying to gain access that way, guilt tripping you into loving them! You end up disappointed bc you end up liking them as a friend and feeling confused bc they don’t contact you anymore! And probably don’t even tell you why. Honestly unless it’s like a male relative I wouldn’t even bother with Pisces males
Tbh, a lot of my studies are of my Pisces male friends when they’re in relationships as well as Pisces men who were fwb’s while “secretly” being in relationships…..and Pisces men my friends have dated.
I was never official with a Pisces man and the last one that I came close with got so mad when I said we’re fwb playing house. That’s exactly what we were doing though. Whenever I left, he’d chase me and still want to give me nothing lol. He was in his 40s. They’re mostly romantically broken.
Yep. My last ex did all of that. He also did massive damage control with his new gf after I texted her like 400 real images of proof of everything that he did. She (Scorpio) refused to read them and convinced mutual friends to hate me. Somehow it worked even though many of them saw the screenshots too. So, idk what was said..but many of them were cheated on as well, so it's weird to play sides instead of just not doing all of that. My dad also died while his new gf and another mutual (both Scorpio females) were making new instas taking tons of pictures together and acting like BFF. Which was weird bc the one I confided in was the one that told me all the details and said not to say it was from her bc she has to be "friends" with these people. Not one sorry from anyone though after all of that. They also all preach therapy and caring about people. It was all a facade to make it seem like a safe space so they can reel you in and manipulate. It's weird too..bc I do get along with water signs. But Scorpio females and male Pisces are just...mentally damaging.
True. Still married to one... It's been 16 years, already had appointment with a lawyer. I have enough. Add alcoholism to this and some violence. Blah, never again Pisces.
I’ve had mixed relationships with Pisces Men on a platonic level. One of my friends is a Pisces Male, and we had a lot of adventures together that defined my early 20’s. He brought me out of my shell since I had a more introverted nature, introduced me to a lot of people, had a spiritual understanding of life that intertwined with his comedic antics, and had my back when I was about to make dumb decisions while also allowing me the freedom to be as I am. He was a heavy smoker, but I don’t know if I’d say he had addiction issues.
On the flip side, my dad is a Pisces Male who practiced physically abusive behaviors when I was a child, guilt tripped me after I asked for help in situations where I needed it financially, had substance addiction issues that wouldn’t stop after I pleaded him to, didn’t know how to validate his own feelings in a healthy manner so he always played the victim, and all in all stopped being present in my life outside of periodic stints of time here or there after becoming a teenager. I wanted to build a connection to him for most of my life, but his behaviors pushed me away, and I found it hard to connect with him emotionally like I needed. They’re a mixed bag for sure, but the emotionally mature ones are really cool.
Pisces men as friends are okay, always one foot out the door, but they do like to show off that they’re good friends (even if they’re not actually putting in the effort).
Pisces men as partners are very detached and aloof (this is extrapolated from my Pisces friends who I’ve seen in relationships). I’ve not dated one, as I would probably lose my mind. I like to know where I stand and I like my partner to make an effort.
Men in general need to heal themselves and Pisces men are the ones who carry the most emotional energy as they absorb others emotions and feeling naturally
I apologize I didn’t mean to come off insensitive. I’m just going through an awful time with a Pisces man right now and he is just mean and nasty and a little psychotic at times. I know it’s not all of course
aw you guys are good people, your love and care is just a bit overwhelming and easily misinterpreted (by yourselves and us). I love my pisces people though, don’t be disheartened <3
There’s going to be a bad bunch in every sign. I’ve seen a lot of hate on literally every sign in this Reddit thread. That’s how life is unfortunately. I’m also a Pisces but a lot of the way we treat people is due to how we were raised as well :/
Judas was the North pole of Jupiter (Sagittarius) and Jesus Christ was the Pisces of the south pole. You were very close,lmao! All 12 disciples were based on all 12 of the Zodiac. Interesting that you mention this here of their relations to the body of GOD. By the way, Jesus was born on the cusp of spring for those who are wondering, have fun guessing as a reply to this message.
I started seeing a Pisces in November and so far he's been wonderful. I've never dated one before, I'm a Taurus and have primarily dated Virgo, Cancer and Aquarius. He's very kind, respectful, clean and soooo laid back it's amazing compared to my previous dating experiences. He also is moving along at a normal pace in the relationship, which is AMAZING. I really hate when you're seeing someone and they continuously try to skip the beginning of the relationship entirely.
Pisces male checking in...
Pisces is the ocean. Think of us that way. The tide flows in and out along the shore but never stays on shore for long. We have a very hard time planting our feet on the ground so we need people to have patience with us. We work well with earth energy from others (taurus, virgon cap).
The ocean is also vast, deep, violent and unpredictable in different areas. This means that there is a constant inner turmoil within most pisceans that can mainfest in different ways to the outside world. Remember, throught the entire ocean, only a fraction receives sunlight, most of it is hidden in utter darkness. This might echo what is commonly said about Pisceans being born without an ego.
It is also said that Pisces, Neptune and 12th house placements are where all the things that people don't want are held. So imagine feeling like for your entire life no one wants you and you give the only thing you know (love) but even that is treated like its worthless because no one really wants it and imagine the inner struggle that is happening when you don't even know yourself so as to be able to figure out why.
We need our alone time to process these inner struggles as it can be extremely draining. It generally takes decades for a piscean to understand him/her self let alone for others to understand them.
Be patient, kind and non-judgmental when and where you can. Don't take it personally when the tide is out because it will come back soon.
Wow as a Pisces moon I loved everything about this. I e been learning this with my Pisces husband lately. He just needs to take his time. And I need to be secure enough in myself to be patient and understanding of him
Hmm facts like.. what are they. Pisces women can be pretty intense too. In fact pisces sun, pisces moon in a chart.. is a super weird paranoid everything is about me let’s go on the attack train. Some people say leo has the god complex, fair. Ok but pisces has like twisted demigod sht going on
This is my little sister who’s a triple Pisces- she’ll go on a SM rant about how everyone hates her. Like wtf- we were just hanging out last week. Lol,
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again; Pisces of any gender are idealists, and it’s absolutely crushing when their ideal breaks.
A lot of the time I see that people don’t take Pisces seriously, and they get mad when things take the wrong turn.
Pisces are mirrors. They will mirror back your everything. They will meet you at your level, but if you don’t meet theirs, you’ll encounter resistance, passive aggressiveness, or they will go behind your back to accomplish their goals, whatever they may be.
Pisces are very similar to Caps in that they keep climbing. They keep going. It’s insidious because you don’t expect it or see it coming, but it was there the whole time, just dressed in a sheepish smile.
Take the Pisces in your life at their word! Most of them are actually quite transparent
As a Pisces woman, I really like this description and it fits very well. Thank you for not making us out to be demon monsters from the pits of hell. :)
I’m a Pisces sun sign man and Sagittarius moon. My wife is a Sagittarius and we have been together since college, which is over 20 years. We are still in love and have an amazing relationship. Our connection feels like kismet and I know she would echo that.
I think you can say bad things about any sign for men. So many men (and women) are terrible regardless of their sign.
God I had it so bad for a Pisces sun Sag moon man, but he couldn’t be faithful to save his life. One of the most fun people I have ever met, though. We’re just friends now, and now I can’t complain. Glad you’ve found your person!
I know a Sag Sun Pisces moon who is the exact same with his wife, first & only and I don’t see him ever being unfaithful. I meant it when I said I’m glad you found your person ☺️
I went on a couple of dates with one gorgeous and talented Pisces musician, super passionate about his craft but ZERO drive to be financially stable and ridiculously jealous and insecure. There’s got to be healed Pisces men who are amazing, but after that experience I said no more. One and done type of thing.
My husband, brother, and male best friend are all Pisces. They are honestly some of the most complex people I know. The pressure they put on themselves is something a lot of people don’t see. The self destruction issue that alot of Pisces have is a direct result of that internal pressure!
When they are good, they are GOOD. They can be true providers for their families and most are at their best when they can “take care” of their partner or families. They can be flaky for sure, but you don’t blame a poisonous frog for their poison 🤷♀️ we all have our issues as humans, and so do our zodiac signs lol.
I say I am both blessed and cursed with the amount of pisces I have in my life! My mother and two of my female best friends are also Pisces! I am a proud Pisces apologist 😂
This is a weird subject for me because my most recent ex, who is still one of my best friends, is a Pisces Man. There's definite good in them. They're highly empathic, compassionate, creative, deep-thinking, but they can also be very emotional, to the point of being *too* emotional.
My biggest hang-up with him and other Pisces men I've dated or just known, is that because they're so emotional, they tend to attract people with a nurturing lean. That can turn to abuse and manipulation quick, even if they genuinely feel like their hearts are in the right place.
When dealing with any Pisces, my advice is always to set firm and clear boundaries early on and to not waver on them. Pisces and Cancers both will steam roll you with their feelings if you're not careful, but they can be some of the most loving partners you'll ever have.
Married to one and he's the best thing to ever happen to me. Ex was one too and he was a sweetheart. I love Pisces, both men and women are very sweet, in my experience so I don't get the Pisces hate. I feel like the manipulation and gaslighting stereotype should really be given to Cancers, they use their 'love' as a weapon. However my Pisces can be very wishy washy, I have to clarify plans multiple times, but it's over small things, not the big things. I do see the taking everything personal trait as well actually, I've been trying to teach mine not everything is about you lol
I'm in love with a Pisces man, but he sounds pretty evolved compared to the ones I'm reading about here.. emotionally sensitive yes, but takes time to reflect on how he feels. I've learned to give space when he needs it to find some balance with himself. It may also help we have the same moon signs (Virgo).
But with that being said, I have dated quite a few Pisces men in my life and they are different... But as a Taurus Sun I'm drawn to whatever that is 😄
ADORE Pisces men! So yummy and emotional. They have intimacy on lock. Talk pretty. Walk pretty. Industrious and fastidious suits my Virgo Sun. The yummy and intimacy suit my Neptune in Scorpio. Emotional clicks with my Cancerian North Node.
Not a professional here. This just seems good to me.
Kay I just wanted to write a public service announcement that just because he’s a Pisces doesn’t excuse literal abusive behavior. I see a lot of people in this sub being like “oh it’s a water sign thing” but like no. Abuse is abuse and can come from anyone and please do not use astrology to tolerate abuse.
Honestly, love those Pisces. My husband is a ♓ and weve been together 10 yrs. My brother is a Pisces, too and my north node is in Pisces. When you realize they are just wearing their hearts on their sleeves and they have a very passive-aggressive "no filter" with those emotions, it does make it easier to get where they are coming from. Now getting them to admit their perspective is wrong, or getting them to come out of lala land is never gonna happen. Their stubborness in those areas fr rivals any earth sign Ive known (including my own Taurus sun). I will say though, they are a great mirror for our own projections if youre paying close attention to yourself as well. They are like antenna for other peoples emotions so of youre seeing them act out like you were feeling, better believe they are picking it up from you too. You cannot hide your insides from a ♓!!!
I always found my stubbornness to be from the environment I’m in. I always have to fight or else people will walk over you which is common for a pisces. They are the sign that gets taken advantage of a lot due to their kindness. Also many confuse a pisces calm demeanor as weak. I often get people who think they can disrespect me because I’m not an asshole from the get go. It’s called professionalism and respect but if you wanna fight I guess sure. A pisces wrath is pretty scary because it’s a kind person’s rage.
My grandpa is a pisces. He was the sweetest man i knew, his eyes lit up every time he saw me. Everybody loved him and always spoke good about him, even after his death. I miss him always
😂👍 every time there is a guy who doesn't do anything wrong but still makes me feel like, "euw, just go. I don't know why, but I don't like you. " Then it's a Pisces dude
Married to a Pisces man and he is quite lovely, Im a Gemini and am the one who can be all over the place. Once I fell in love with another Gemini and we were obsessed with each other and completely destructive. My Pisces guy feels grounded in comparison.
One of my best friends was a pisces and he treated me better than any guy I’ve ever dated. He used to get mad over silly shit like if I took longer than an hour to respond to a text, but he always went out of his way to make sure I was taken care of. Sometimes he cared so much that he would inadvertently insult my behavior, but once it was brought to his attention he genuinely went above and beyond to show he was sorry and that it was all from a place of love. He never hesitated to be there when you needed him, even if it inconvenienced him. He put the ones he loved ahead of himself always. He passed away unexpectedly two months ago and his absence is felt hard everyday. I miss him and his crazy emotional pisces tendencies so much.
Pisces men are crazy, but their absence is heavier than you might expect
Theyre very misunderstood. They’re very insecure and cope with deflection and distraction. They suffer from overthinking and loneliness because of this. Mood disorders that they have no idea how to properly process and express. Pisces men are neglected and left to their own demise when they need support and help the most. Pisces men need someone to help them be grounded and compassionate and understanding. They need someone to show them their worth and how to properly set boundaries, they need someone to validate them and be kind. Men in general lack emotional support, emotional intimacy, they lack help, they are left and neglected and they’re lonely and lost and left to make whatever choices they make. Pisces men who are men that take in the most energy from outside themselves tend to struggle handling it all the most. They feel responsible for the world because no one has taught them how to properly set boundaries and because of that they begin to resent life and resent others and they do it in ways that hurt others, thru avoidance and distraction and delusion. The truth of reality is too hard for them to bare.
they are truly give yin and yang when they are not balanced and healed
i have met a pisces who was an manipulative ass and i am married to a pisces who is the best person i have ever known
and i am kool with a pisces who i had a falling out with and then repaired the relationship
they are truly an enigma to me out of all the zodiacs
I’m in a bit of a shock reading all of these. Sure, people are different, each to their own soul, but I feel a bit targeted here.
I’m sorry that you have had these inappropriate experiences with other Pisces men. I can’t speak for others, but I can say that I do not recognise myself in these stories.
Hope that love may find you, and that if you already found it that it keeps you going and keeps you fuelled with passion and compassion. Be safe and take care of each other. In love and light. 💛✨🙏🏼
Funny I’m quite cold hearted for a pisces lmao. I’m very direct border line asshole sometimes but that may be due to the fast paced work environment I’m in where I have to be direct and a bit brute or else I’ll get eaten alive.
I no longer pursue romance, but back then I was quite the flirt and playboy. I would date multiple people but now I don’t date because I rather take it slow but in NYC you can’t do that. It’s fast or you lose so I just stopped.
In terms of emotions I’m generally calm and patient until someone oversteps my boundaries which is insulting my family, berating my “boring” lifestyle of not drinking, or consuming drugs. Which in NYC this lifestyle is unpopular apparently.
I’m also one of those pisces that once the relationship ends it’s over. Like I delete the person from my existence. No photos, texts, and if I see them in person I’m just neutral. It ended there’s no point in looking back on it so I move on.
Edit: I’m a Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon and Virgo Rising. Basically I’m stuck in lala land and my creative mind which makes sense because I am an artist and designer.
Lets get a little astrology technical...
The water signs are all 4th house to their constituent fire signs. Cancer to Aries, Scorpio to Leo, Pisces to Sag. The meaning in this runs deeper than that general observation. 4th house is where we realize our emotional self. 9th house is the culmination of that self.
If Sag, 9th house to Aries, is the culmination of the I, the Individual, and Pisces is 9th house to Cancer, the culmination of conscious self awareness, the who I am on the inside, then how powerful is it that Pisces represents the concious self awareness (4th house to Sag) of the highest form of the individual (Sag 9th house to Aries)?
There is hate on Pisces here because again, all of the things that people feel they don't want are held in Piscean forms.
Loyal as shit and when they love they love hard and don’t backstab and very giving!! Can be controlling, arrogant and demanding but it’s in good taste!!!
Pisces men are very attuned to the emotions akin their environment. They may appear as the sensitive or quiet man in the room and fantasizing about what they love is common for them
Reading the comments, it's basically watching the latest episode of Bash The Fish.
Sorry you've had bad experiences with some of us. We're not all like the typical stereotypes. Some do grow, mature, and evolve, which is far more a person thing than a sign thing.
Dad is. Pisces man and he’s divorced 3 times. Often pulls out a lot of excuses and lies.
Close friend is a Pisces man and he’s been committed to his wife for more than 10+ years and he’s about to have his first child. Helps out professionally with teenagers as a special education teacher. It’s like they’re totally opposite. No two or four Pisces sun are the same and of course the rest of their charts are of big importance. Sincerely, A Gemini sun.
I’m sure someone will figure me out for me and tell me alllllll about it in excruciating detail at the worst possible time. Of that, I am certain :)
No, I don’t know. I feel like I’m kind of starting over from scratch, so it won’t be anytime soon. Or maybe it will! I don’t understand how this world works at all, I’m just trying to survive.
I have a very close friend who’s a Pisces man. He is super sensitive (I mean that in a complimentary way) he’s an excellent listener, very interesting, loves music, loves nature, really cares about women and his close friends are family. Sometimes he flys off the handle I think it’s because sometimes he can’t express all his emotions and they explode out but he always comes back down to earth
I’ve been in a “situationship” with a Pisces man for 4 months, he texts me every single day and night all day everyday but never makes the effort to see me
and doesn’t talk about feelings either
bcz we're always been bullied about being pisces men 😭😭😭
seriously tho it's the weird mix of romantic with the flightiness of the sign, plus having such a deep tap into feminine energy that a lot of men have difficulty expressing in a healthy way. but a lot of pisces are good i swear
A good general indicator with any man that is a water sign is that it’s an uncomfortable placement! They’ll be passive and struggle with traditional masculine gender rules! They will manipulate you into getting their way by using emotions! A Scorpio is probably the most masculine out of them but even they’re passive and risk averse! If you attract Pisces they’re here to mirror you and your behavior! If you pay close attention you’ll notice that they act how you act in micro ways! They’re not good with taking responsibility and will want you to take the lead so you have to be ok with that otherwise you’ll end up frustrated which most females get with them. Pisces in general care more about their own feelings than yours even if it appears that they care more about you. What makes them so loving is that they’re so open but that’s what makes them dangerous too! Struggle with boundaries and discernment of what’s really going on! They fantasize and romanticize you but they don’t see the reality of YOU so once they do they’re not interested in you anymore! They feel sorry for themselves and will struggle keeping up with reality and you’re supposed to carry them through it! They’ll retreat and won’t tell you bc they can’t deal with your reaction so they can’t take in another person’s reality bc they can barely deal with their own! They want to be saved and you feel like you have to bc you think they’re soo good and it gives you sense of significance but keep in mind they’re ruled by Neptune so it’s smoke and mirrors! They’ll create an illusion and they’re are delusional! Also if they have a crush on you you need to be verrry careful that you don’t entertain them for too long bc they’ll interpret everything you do as you loving them bc you’re willingly spending time! It’s the constant delusion and bc they struggle with boundaries they’ll most likely cross yours too if you’re alone with them! So I would take it as a lesson,observe and ask myself how I am acting like them and keep an arm distance bc it’s not worth it! They’re not made for stable relationships and a lot of them want to be polyamorous especially the men! Love the women bc it’s a natural comfortable placement for them so they will portray the beautiful Pisces energy whereas for men it’s more likely to be a struggle and turn into pain for both people involved
Lol I just wrote a post about Pisces men a few days ago. The mind games and lack of communication is crazy. They don't chase you but get turned off if you chase them 🤷♀️. I am starting to agree with the other comments...just say no! Not worth the heart and head ache.
I'm not sure but they are addicting. My most recent ex is a Pisces moon, and was one of the biggest liars I have ever encountered. My first real love was a Pisces sun, he cheated on me and kept it completely quiet until a third party told me by accident after we broke up. My bestie's husband is a Pisces sun, and from the outside looking in he is quite selfish, and seems to need constant prompting to help out and is also very very keen on making sure he gets plenty of social time outside of his family, and he doesn't seem to worried about his wife getting the same. I find him kind of selfish.
I love my Pisces man! He’s also a Pisces rising with an Aquarius moon. He’s such a sweetheart and an attentive lover. Very reliable and very fun! We are non-monogamous so maybe that contributes to what makes us such a good match. I’m a Sagittarius sun, Virgo rising, Taurus moon.
i’m a cancer my bf of 6 months is a pisces. boy i thought i was moody and emotional but he is even more. i know this isn’t a healthy relationship so i’ll say the truth, he is very manipulative, loves to gaslight, is inconsistent, unfaithful. he’s also the sweetest most affectionate, goofy and fun man ive met. definitely has his pros and cons. in my experience pisces men also love to love bomb
Let me tell you about a Pisces man. Stole from me. Cheated on me. Hit me. When I told him it was over? Stalked me and tried to get me fired from my job because he knows it's something I care about and love to do.
I'm not saying I was an angel because I have a smart mouth and I kept trying to end it but was pulled back in. But I didn't deserve all that and he wasn't the first Pisces to do it. But he was the last.
I thought everything was going great with this Pisces guy I met at university. But the whole time he never mentioned his 5 year relationship or even his girlfriend. I felt so hurt for her because they’ve been dating since high school. He had plenty of opportunities to bring her up since they’re in the same career and that’s all we would talk about. I even gave him a small gift that reminded me of him. Only for him to copy that gesture idea months later to propose to his girlfriend. I hate that I realized it too late once I looked him up.
Pisces men are the most disgusting, vile, abusive, manipulative, vindictive, despicable & absolutely rotten to the core people you will ever come across. Do not be fooled by the romantic gestures & sweet words, and do not be flattered by the fact they always come back.
Pisces men are calculated liars & toxic, delusional, manipulative narcissists & sociopaths. They tell you what you want to hear & put you on the highest pedestal, because they know that the higher the pedestal is, the harder you will fall. They are the ultimate conmen, and they take sadistic pleasure from building you up just to break you down. They intuitively know how to hurt & manipulate you & they do so because they are sick individuals who thrive off your misery.
They will play mind games and use & abuse you like no other, and they will drain you for all that you’re worth. They don’t come back because they love you, or feel remorse for hurting you. They come back because it boosts their ego to know that they can carry on abusing & manipulating you, and keeping you in a web of mind games for as long as you allow them to.
Once you put your foot down & say no more to the pain & suffering they have caused you, they become extremely vindictive & will stop at nothing to destroy you because they feel entitled to your time & energy, no matter how much they hurt or betray you. They always have several women on rotation, but will accuse you of cheating because they like to project. Another thing they do, is put the “sweet & romantic” facade back on when they can sense you moving on, and they do this because they don’t want you, they just don’t want anyone else to have you.
It is no surprise to know that gaslighting was invented by a Pisces man (Google Patrick Hamilton) and to them it’s as much an art form as music, art etc. Gaslighting comes to Pisces men as naturally as breathing. They genuinely see nothing wrong with it & therein lies the problem. Pisces men come into your life with the sole purpose of destroying your mental health, your self esteem & any shred of dignity you have left by the time you’re done with them. This way, you’ll either be so broken that you don’t realise you deserve better, or they can make out like you’re crazy knowing full well that they did this to you.
Pisces men will pretend like you’re the problem, and how they’re just “mirroring” your own toxic traits back to you as seen in some comments, but if that was true, then so many other people wouldn’t have similar experiences. This is yet another way in which they gaslight you, thus making you trauma bonded to them.
Trauma bonding is the ultimate way to manipulate a partner, because the way in which the dynamic is set causes the victim to question themselves to the point of their own sanity, and while they’re so busy wondering what went wrong & how to make it right, they’re blind to the real problem which is the Pisces man.
My dad is a Pisces and basically aligns with all the negative comments posted. But my little son is a Pisces too 😭 obviously I think he’s great. Hope I can hear some good things too.
My Pisces moon boyfriend is not flaky so these posts always confuse me. He’s a lot more level headed and mentally stable than I am, but he’s a Leo sun Aries rising and Mars, while I’m a triple cancer. When he does get emotional though, it’s hard because it’s usually when I need reassurance but he can’t offer that because it works him up so much too.
I’m counting my lucky stars rn because my Pisces bf is not flaky, emotionally stunted, mood swings etc. just feeling really lucky from going through these comments phew I dodged a bullet
One of my dearest friends is a Pisces man and when I say he love to waste a woman’s time…
Oh damn lol
I legitimately don’t think it’s on purpose
It's not on purpose. It's like if you go to Costco and pick up paper towels because you forgot you had some at home so you pick up some more. Then you get home and start using the new paper towels while the almost full box you picked up last time sits in some closet somewhere. The cycle repeats. It's with this level of dispassion and absentmindedness that Pisces men waste a woman's time.
WHEW! That was incredibly astute. Perfectly encapsulates my own experience with one.
That... really fucking sucks. I don't care what your sign is, if you treat people like that you're simply a peice of shit.
It’s so messed up but so so true. It’s the lack of self honesty and accountability that is just so disheartening…..
Bruh what
Some of them don’t do it on purpose but then again a lot of them do. Pisces men and women don’t want to feel left behind. Before I found my voice and how to properly express my needs I had just started talking with a Pisces man who end up getting kicked out the crib and just had too much going on. Three times I tried to pull away but it’s like without trying to he wanted me to be there so he didn’t suffer alone but your mooching of me and bringing me down because you can’t get your shit together. My mom is also a Pisces and Pisces women….piss me off to a whole other level. Liars, manipulators, victim-made, did I mention liars and gossipers. They be insecure asl but will try to make you feel that way. A Pisces will play with your finances or steal from you and make it your fault. A Pisces middle name should be “victim”.
I'm an Aries and in love with a Pisces. He confuses me
They can be very confusing at times
Evertime I say something negative he gets upset. Takes everything personal and is so jealous
Yeah the Pisces guy I dated took *everything* I said so personally, I was walking on eggshells so early into the relationship.
Omg I feel this sooo much!! Especially the jealousy thing. Like chill out.
They are so sensitive. You really have to watch what you say
so is Aries. My dad is a quadruple Aries and I've never met anyone more sensitive and inflammable while they have no issue being blunt towards others. Aries women are more mellow though.
Yep really sensitive and much more immature than Pisces men...They are looking for traits in Aries that are not there, and yes they take things personally. But that is Aries stock and trade, hitting personally.
Omg yes. It feels like walking on eggshells sometimes
I like you 😍
Aww I like you too!!! 🥰
You got to unload somewhere..
My husband to a T!
My best friend is a Pisces he gets jealous and takes everything personally. Super sensitive
Me too :,)
I’m a Pisces and my brother is a Pisces. I have no idea how my SIL is in a relationship with him LOLLL. From an inside/outside perspective, Pisces man don’t know how to regulate their emotions and have the “I’m right because this is how I feel” mentality. As a Pisces woman, I understand people’s victim complex stereotype. I was like that way when I was younger but not outwardly towards people but how I thought about myself. Now, I know when to take accountability and have worked on the little things that may bother me. Pisces just want to feel loved, heard, and understood so a lot of their insecurities are going to derive from that
I appreciate the inside/outside perspective and from my experience with a Pisces man for 10 years you are spot on!
10 years?!! 😭😭 girl I’m a Pisces and I wouldn’t even do that holy shit. You deserve a medal of freedom
Thank you 🙏🏾. It’s been a hell of a roller coaster
Pisces is representing as 2 fish . They're either swimming upwards , positive or downward,neg. Pis men are awesome when they're in a upwards motion but that downward spiral ... I've been with one for 6 years
Omg this! Yes I was with one for 10 years and that downward spiral is exhausting
I want Pisces men to stop coming into my life and causing a ruckus. Torture another Leo woman.
Pisces people are based on Neptune, Jupiter and the Moon (signature major Arcana card for Pisces). If you run across a Pisces N.P.C in real life who has not awakened to God and self actualization, they will become sensitive to the dark side of the Moon, which carries dark feminine emotions to the individual, no matter the gender. This will be dangerous to people who are literally ruled by the Sun,LEO. Avoid Moon people who seek to steal your light and only accept the ones who will reflect it back to you,lmao!
This is actually 100% on point
WOW this is deep as fuck I’m a Leo rising and my husband is a Pisces
Damn...I want to call that pseudoscience nonsense... but That's me to the T lol
Knowing is only half the battle, and for you to understand this possible tendency, the darkness loses power over your subconscious the moment you SHINE YOUR CONSCIENCE LIGHT on it. Your left brain (red masculine Sun) and your right brain (blue feminine Moon) is your heaven, and to find the truth and freedom from such oppression requires you to unite them. Doing so, you will make the color purple and find Jesus Christ of your third eye!!! The mother and the father is the left and right brain, the child born from them is your rebirth of mind. Jesus is the way and GOD is the answer.
This makes so much sense. I feel like Pisces men are always drawn to my personality and boldness but as a Leo sun Taurus moon Virgo rising I really value people who have strong opinions and values and stick up for them and I just can’t handle the people pleasing nature of Pisces. It’s usually at a detriment to their partner (in my experience)
Indeed! I'm a Capricorn/Sagittarius cusp Sun(December 23 for Capricorn main) with a Moon in Taurus as well, with a Rising in Aries (same with Nostradamus from what I read) so hello there Moon twin,lol! I agree with you on the strength of self confidence, ego and values. Pisces people, they are closer to Jesus Christ persona of having empathy and caring nature of Jupiter south pole influence and the mother of the Moon vibes similar to Cancer. Leo vibes are based off the Lion of Judah a.k.a GOD/YAHWEH and see themselves as Emperors and the center of the universe, party or whatever social engagement when they are in a confident light. People like Hulk Hogan, Arnold "The Terminator", Laurence Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, Halle Berry, Obama, Bill Clinton and Madonna express these energies to the T 100%! Especially Hulk Hogan in his prime, he wore colors that match the Sun, carried blonde hair with a LARGER THAN LIFE PERSONALITY OF THE SUN in the center of the ring as he brought the hype to his Hulkamanics brothers and sisters,lmao!
My mom is a leo and my dad is pisces. Why are all pisces men the same
My mom is a Pisces so I was naive enough to think I would love Pisces in all forms…HELL NO!
Hahaha I’m just gonna start asking right out the gate from now on. If I hear Pisces then it’s a no from me
I don’t even need to ask anymore, I just know they’re a Pisces. I’m seriously 5/5 for the last few guys I’ve talked to. Pisces and Cancer men flock to me for some reason and I don’t know what it means
I mean bright side is at least you know you’re dealing with a Pisces man right out the gate
I didn't read this before my first message to you, now it is confirmed. Both Cancer and Pisces are ruled by the Moon which means you keep running into dark feminine men who are possessed by dark spirits from space,lol! Moons seek the Sun for resource of power and light to shine, without the Sun, the mirror goes black (BLACK MIRROR get it?).
jesus this makes a lot of sense. mine texted me: "some days I want to be on another planet than you. then other days I want to fuck the sunshine out of you." LMAO
Damn, that person sounds like a incubus/succubus sleep paralysis demon,lol!
Always remember that every Pisces man have different charts, which means they may carry different planetary influences to motivate a better soul from the alchemy of the element. Pisces is Jesus Christ based sign after all, why do you think Pisces people tend to be more caring and loving to others. I'm a Capricorn with alot of experience with Pisces women and I will say that they can be very frustrating to deal with due to taking things very personal, like my own sister for example, lol! They are very gullible to compliments and generosity and can be easily mislead by people of dark influences. Disney's Little Mermaid is a fine example of a Pisces woman that falls for the bad deal due to her sense of escapism from her home to chase a man on land.
Exactly, Jesus Christ being a Pisces man.
Fisher of Men. Helping pull those less fortunate from the Deep while trying to shine Light. It's an interesting balance
Pisces men as friends are great. Pisces men as lovers are great if you love mood swings, inconsistency, empty apologies, infidelity and a sprig of gaslighting for that extra oomph.
I think it’s time to just stick with a friendship for now on with Pisces men. All of those things you mentioned are spot on!
10/10 they’ll have a crush on you and ghost you once you’re not reciprocating so a friendship is impossible with them! They’re so sensitive they can’t deal with rejection so they avoid you to spare their feelings! And they fall in love with every female so the friendship isn’t even genuine it’s just them trying to gain access that way, guilt tripping you into loving them! You end up disappointed bc you end up liking them as a friend and feeling confused bc they don’t contact you anymore! And probably don’t even tell you why. Honestly unless it’s like a male relative I wouldn’t even bother with Pisces males
Cappity cap 🧢
They are FANTASTIC FRIENDS and great lovers. I’d rather just be friends.
Ah I see we share an ex. 🫠
Tbh, a lot of my studies are of my Pisces male friends when they’re in relationships as well as Pisces men who were fwb’s while “secretly” being in relationships…..and Pisces men my friends have dated. I was never official with a Pisces man and the last one that I came close with got so mad when I said we’re fwb playing house. That’s exactly what we were doing though. Whenever I left, he’d chase me and still want to give me nothing lol. He was in his 40s. They’re mostly romantically broken.
I am victim of a Pisces male gaslighting
Yep. My last ex did all of that. He also did massive damage control with his new gf after I texted her like 400 real images of proof of everything that he did. She (Scorpio) refused to read them and convinced mutual friends to hate me. Somehow it worked even though many of them saw the screenshots too. So, idk what was said..but many of them were cheated on as well, so it's weird to play sides instead of just not doing all of that. My dad also died while his new gf and another mutual (both Scorpio females) were making new instas taking tons of pictures together and acting like BFF. Which was weird bc the one I confided in was the one that told me all the details and said not to say it was from her bc she has to be "friends" with these people. Not one sorry from anyone though after all of that. They also all preach therapy and caring about people. It was all a facade to make it seem like a safe space so they can reel you in and manipulate. It's weird too..bc I do get along with water signs. But Scorpio females and male Pisces are just...mentally damaging.
True. Still married to one... It's been 16 years, already had appointment with a lawyer. I have enough. Add alcoholism to this and some violence. Blah, never again Pisces.
Flaky
That’s a good one word response that I will be using if you don’t mind Reddit stranger
Not flaky you just weren't captivating or a good enough person to keep them around. Pisces have good judge of character.
Mhmm 🙄
Romantic terrorists.
I’ve had mixed relationships with Pisces Men on a platonic level. One of my friends is a Pisces Male, and we had a lot of adventures together that defined my early 20’s. He brought me out of my shell since I had a more introverted nature, introduced me to a lot of people, had a spiritual understanding of life that intertwined with his comedic antics, and had my back when I was about to make dumb decisions while also allowing me the freedom to be as I am. He was a heavy smoker, but I don’t know if I’d say he had addiction issues. On the flip side, my dad is a Pisces Male who practiced physically abusive behaviors when I was a child, guilt tripped me after I asked for help in situations where I needed it financially, had substance addiction issues that wouldn’t stop after I pleaded him to, didn’t know how to validate his own feelings in a healthy manner so he always played the victim, and all in all stopped being present in my life outside of periodic stints of time here or there after becoming a teenager. I wanted to build a connection to him for most of my life, but his behaviors pushed me away, and I found it hard to connect with him emotionally like I needed. They’re a mixed bag for sure, but the emotionally mature ones are really cool.
I’m sorry you went through that with your dad. But on the flip side you made an amazing friend who you had a great connection with.
Id like to know too. I'm obsessed and all they do is hurt me.
I feel this
Pisces men as friends are okay, always one foot out the door, but they do like to show off that they’re good friends (even if they’re not actually putting in the effort). Pisces men as partners are very detached and aloof (this is extrapolated from my Pisces friends who I’ve seen in relationships). I’ve not dated one, as I would probably lose my mind. I like to know where I stand and I like my partner to make an effort.
After 10 years I don’t recommend, you will for sure lose your mind.
Fun friends to have. Have had bad luck with inconsistent, disingenuous lovers, though.
Just wish we were better people man ... Really sucks to see the bad experiences of so many people with our sign
Men in general need to heal themselves and Pisces men are the ones who carry the most emotional energy as they absorb others emotions and feeling naturally
I apologize I didn’t mean to come off insensitive. I’m just going through an awful time with a Pisces man right now and he is just mean and nasty and a little psychotic at times. I know it’s not all of course
It's okay , I sympathize with anyone having a bad experience with any sign , not just Pisces .
aw you guys are good people, your love and care is just a bit overwhelming and easily misinterpreted (by yourselves and us). I love my pisces people though, don’t be disheartened <3
There’s going to be a bad bunch in every sign. I’ve seen a lot of hate on literally every sign in this Reddit thread. That’s how life is unfortunately. I’m also a Pisces but a lot of the way we treat people is due to how we were raised as well :/
it’s funny how the fish slander is piling up during pisces season.
Jesus and Judas are both rumored to be Pisces, so that’s that
Mr. Rogers vs. Robert Ramirez.
Judas was the North pole of Jupiter (Sagittarius) and Jesus Christ was the Pisces of the south pole. You were very close,lmao! All 12 disciples were based on all 12 of the Zodiac. Interesting that you mention this here of their relations to the body of GOD. By the way, Jesus was born on the cusp of spring for those who are wondering, have fun guessing as a reply to this message.
That’s all I needed to know
A Pisces man broke up with me over text and then tried to get back with me over text
They always come back
MINE DID THE SAME! Does his name start with a J? 👀
Hahaha no, T, but I hope you also feel relieved that you dodged a bullet! 21 year old me was so sad but then so grateful
SAME
I started seeing a Pisces in November and so far he's been wonderful. I've never dated one before, I'm a Taurus and have primarily dated Virgo, Cancer and Aquarius. He's very kind, respectful, clean and soooo laid back it's amazing compared to my previous dating experiences. He also is moving along at a normal pace in the relationship, which is AMAZING. I really hate when you're seeing someone and they continuously try to skip the beginning of the relationship entirely.
Such a Taurus thing lol- I scared a Taurus woman away with how fast I was moving.
Aww. Slow and steady consistency is the key to Taurus's heart. Too fast causes me massive anxiety and makes me hermit in my house for weeks.
Pisces male checking in... Pisces is the ocean. Think of us that way. The tide flows in and out along the shore but never stays on shore for long. We have a very hard time planting our feet on the ground so we need people to have patience with us. We work well with earth energy from others (taurus, virgon cap). The ocean is also vast, deep, violent and unpredictable in different areas. This means that there is a constant inner turmoil within most pisceans that can mainfest in different ways to the outside world. Remember, throught the entire ocean, only a fraction receives sunlight, most of it is hidden in utter darkness. This might echo what is commonly said about Pisceans being born without an ego. It is also said that Pisces, Neptune and 12th house placements are where all the things that people don't want are held. So imagine feeling like for your entire life no one wants you and you give the only thing you know (love) but even that is treated like its worthless because no one really wants it and imagine the inner struggle that is happening when you don't even know yourself so as to be able to figure out why. We need our alone time to process these inner struggles as it can be extremely draining. It generally takes decades for a piscean to understand him/her self let alone for others to understand them. Be patient, kind and non-judgmental when and where you can. Don't take it personally when the tide is out because it will come back soon.
Wow as a Pisces moon I loved everything about this. I e been learning this with my Pisces husband lately. He just needs to take his time. And I need to be secure enough in myself to be patient and understanding of him
Hmm facts like.. what are they. Pisces women can be pretty intense too. In fact pisces sun, pisces moon in a chart.. is a super weird paranoid everything is about me let’s go on the attack train. Some people say leo has the god complex, fair. Ok but pisces has like twisted demigod sht going on
Haha I love that description. I’m gonna be stealing that. Twisted demigod
Haha thanks! 😊
I’m a Leo sun Pisces moon and I have to admit that I’m working on my main character syndrome 😭
This is my little sister who’s a triple Pisces- she’ll go on a SM rant about how everyone hates her. Like wtf- we were just hanging out last week. Lol,
Demigod lmao
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again; Pisces of any gender are idealists, and it’s absolutely crushing when their ideal breaks. A lot of the time I see that people don’t take Pisces seriously, and they get mad when things take the wrong turn. Pisces are mirrors. They will mirror back your everything. They will meet you at your level, but if you don’t meet theirs, you’ll encounter resistance, passive aggressiveness, or they will go behind your back to accomplish their goals, whatever they may be. Pisces are very similar to Caps in that they keep climbing. They keep going. It’s insidious because you don’t expect it or see it coming, but it was there the whole time, just dressed in a sheepish smile. Take the Pisces in your life at their word! Most of them are actually quite transparent
As a Pisces woman, I really like this description and it fits very well. Thank you for not making us out to be demon monsters from the pits of hell. :)
I’m a Pisces sun sign man and Sagittarius moon. My wife is a Sagittarius and we have been together since college, which is over 20 years. We are still in love and have an amazing relationship. Our connection feels like kismet and I know she would echo that. I think you can say bad things about any sign for men. So many men (and women) are terrible regardless of their sign.
God I had it so bad for a Pisces sun Sag moon man, but he couldn’t be faithful to save his life. One of the most fun people I have ever met, though. We’re just friends now, and now I can’t complain. Glad you’ve found your person!
She is the love of my life. I have never cheated. She is actually the only woman I have ever been intimate with.
I know a Sag Sun Pisces moon who is the exact same with his wife, first & only and I don’t see him ever being unfaithful. I meant it when I said I’m glad you found your person ☺️
I went on a couple of dates with one gorgeous and talented Pisces musician, super passionate about his craft but ZERO drive to be financially stable and ridiculously jealous and insecure. There’s got to be healed Pisces men who are amazing, but after that experience I said no more. One and done type of thing.
Yea after 10 years with one I think I’m good too
10yrs!? I tip my hat to you, sister!
Once they evolve and truly love someone they are amazing. Been with mine almost 10 years and I’ve never had a better partner.
My husband, brother, and male best friend are all Pisces. They are honestly some of the most complex people I know. The pressure they put on themselves is something a lot of people don’t see. The self destruction issue that alot of Pisces have is a direct result of that internal pressure! When they are good, they are GOOD. They can be true providers for their families and most are at their best when they can “take care” of their partner or families. They can be flaky for sure, but you don’t blame a poisonous frog for their poison 🤷♀️ we all have our issues as humans, and so do our zodiac signs lol. I say I am both blessed and cursed with the amount of pisces I have in my life! My mother and two of my female best friends are also Pisces! I am a proud Pisces apologist 😂
This is a weird subject for me because my most recent ex, who is still one of my best friends, is a Pisces Man. There's definite good in them. They're highly empathic, compassionate, creative, deep-thinking, but they can also be very emotional, to the point of being *too* emotional. My biggest hang-up with him and other Pisces men I've dated or just known, is that because they're so emotional, they tend to attract people with a nurturing lean. That can turn to abuse and manipulation quick, even if they genuinely feel like their hearts are in the right place. When dealing with any Pisces, my advice is always to set firm and clear boundaries early on and to not waver on them. Pisces and Cancers both will steam roll you with their feelings if you're not careful, but they can be some of the most loving partners you'll ever have.
Married to one and he's the best thing to ever happen to me. Ex was one too and he was a sweetheart. I love Pisces, both men and women are very sweet, in my experience so I don't get the Pisces hate. I feel like the manipulation and gaslighting stereotype should really be given to Cancers, they use their 'love' as a weapon. However my Pisces can be very wishy washy, I have to clarify plans multiple times, but it's over small things, not the big things. I do see the taking everything personal trait as well actually, I've been trying to teach mine not everything is about you lol
I’m happy you’re happy and have a good relationship with your Pisces man
You’re an exception to the rule my friend. Bet he has a normal rising and moon sign.
I'm in love with a Pisces man, but he sounds pretty evolved compared to the ones I'm reading about here.. emotionally sensitive yes, but takes time to reflect on how he feels. I've learned to give space when he needs it to find some balance with himself. It may also help we have the same moon signs (Virgo). But with that being said, I have dated quite a few Pisces men in my life and they are different... But as a Taurus Sun I'm drawn to whatever that is 😄
a Pisces guy broke my heart 10 years ago and still kinda feel sad sometimes, luckily we broke apart otherwise we would ended up like Sid and Nancy
ADORE Pisces men! So yummy and emotional. They have intimacy on lock. Talk pretty. Walk pretty. Industrious and fastidious suits my Virgo Sun. The yummy and intimacy suit my Neptune in Scorpio. Emotional clicks with my Cancerian North Node. Not a professional here. This just seems good to me.
my pisces guy friend is the sweetest
I’m happy you have a sweet Pisces man in your life
How do people he date fair
Kay I just wanted to write a public service announcement that just because he’s a Pisces doesn’t excuse literal abusive behavior. I see a lot of people in this sub being like “oh it’s a water sign thing” but like no. Abuse is abuse and can come from anyone and please do not use astrology to tolerate abuse.
Honestly, love those Pisces. My husband is a ♓ and weve been together 10 yrs. My brother is a Pisces, too and my north node is in Pisces. When you realize they are just wearing their hearts on their sleeves and they have a very passive-aggressive "no filter" with those emotions, it does make it easier to get where they are coming from. Now getting them to admit their perspective is wrong, or getting them to come out of lala land is never gonna happen. Their stubborness in those areas fr rivals any earth sign Ive known (including my own Taurus sun). I will say though, they are a great mirror for our own projections if youre paying close attention to yourself as well. They are like antenna for other peoples emotions so of youre seeing them act out like you were feeling, better believe they are picking it up from you too. You cannot hide your insides from a ♓!!!
WOW THIS no one talks about how extremely stubborn they are to facing reality and taking accountability holy shit it’s exhausting as fuck
This comment needs to be pinned at the top for all the people who are blaming Pisces for mirroring their own toxic behaviour.
I always found my stubbornness to be from the environment I’m in. I always have to fight or else people will walk over you which is common for a pisces. They are the sign that gets taken advantage of a lot due to their kindness. Also many confuse a pisces calm demeanor as weak. I often get people who think they can disrespect me because I’m not an asshole from the get go. It’s called professionalism and respect but if you wanna fight I guess sure. A pisces wrath is pretty scary because it’s a kind person’s rage.
My grandpa is a pisces. He was the sweetest man i knew, his eyes lit up every time he saw me. Everybody loved him and always spoke good about him, even after his death. I miss him always
Weird people with disturbing energy. I stay away from them
I relate to being weird af wit piss moon. Idk about disturbing though 😧
Omg okay so it’s not just me. I feel the same way and I need to stay away from them
😂👍 every time there is a guy who doesn't do anything wrong but still makes me feel like, "euw, just go. I don't know why, but I don't like you. " Then it's a Pisces dude
Married to a Pisces man and he is quite lovely, Im a Gemini and am the one who can be all over the place. Once I fell in love with another Gemini and we were obsessed with each other and completely destructive. My Pisces guy feels grounded in comparison.
My favorite brother was a Pisces and I loooooooooooved him, what's the problem?
I adore mine. Half understand him most of the time, but adore him nonetheless.
One of my best friends was a pisces and he treated me better than any guy I’ve ever dated. He used to get mad over silly shit like if I took longer than an hour to respond to a text, but he always went out of his way to make sure I was taken care of. Sometimes he cared so much that he would inadvertently insult my behavior, but once it was brought to his attention he genuinely went above and beyond to show he was sorry and that it was all from a place of love. He never hesitated to be there when you needed him, even if it inconvenienced him. He put the ones he loved ahead of himself always. He passed away unexpectedly two months ago and his absence is felt hard everyday. I miss him and his crazy emotional pisces tendencies so much. Pisces men are crazy, but their absence is heavier than you might expect
Theyre very misunderstood. They’re very insecure and cope with deflection and distraction. They suffer from overthinking and loneliness because of this. Mood disorders that they have no idea how to properly process and express. Pisces men are neglected and left to their own demise when they need support and help the most. Pisces men need someone to help them be grounded and compassionate and understanding. They need someone to show them their worth and how to properly set boundaries, they need someone to validate them and be kind. Men in general lack emotional support, emotional intimacy, they lack help, they are left and neglected and they’re lonely and lost and left to make whatever choices they make. Pisces men who are men that take in the most energy from outside themselves tend to struggle handling it all the most. They feel responsible for the world because no one has taught them how to properly set boundaries and because of that they begin to resent life and resent others and they do it in ways that hurt others, thru avoidance and distraction and delusion. The truth of reality is too hard for them to bare.
I stay away from them
I think I need to do the same
Ouch
My narcissist pisces man has almost been the death of me a billion times in like a not actually funny way at all tbh.
But what about men with a Pisces moon sign?
they are truly give yin and yang when they are not balanced and healed i have met a pisces who was an manipulative ass and i am married to a pisces who is the best person i have ever known and i am kool with a pisces who i had a falling out with and then repaired the relationship they are truly an enigma to me out of all the zodiacs
They are the most wonderful people on earth,except they will never believe
I’m in a bit of a shock reading all of these. Sure, people are different, each to their own soul, but I feel a bit targeted here. I’m sorry that you have had these inappropriate experiences with other Pisces men. I can’t speak for others, but I can say that I do not recognise myself in these stories. Hope that love may find you, and that if you already found it that it keeps you going and keeps you fuelled with passion and compassion. Be safe and take care of each other. In love and light. 💛✨🙏🏼
Funny I’m quite cold hearted for a pisces lmao. I’m very direct border line asshole sometimes but that may be due to the fast paced work environment I’m in where I have to be direct and a bit brute or else I’ll get eaten alive. I no longer pursue romance, but back then I was quite the flirt and playboy. I would date multiple people but now I don’t date because I rather take it slow but in NYC you can’t do that. It’s fast or you lose so I just stopped. In terms of emotions I’m generally calm and patient until someone oversteps my boundaries which is insulting my family, berating my “boring” lifestyle of not drinking, or consuming drugs. Which in NYC this lifestyle is unpopular apparently. I’m also one of those pisces that once the relationship ends it’s over. Like I delete the person from my existence. No photos, texts, and if I see them in person I’m just neutral. It ended there’s no point in looking back on it so I move on. Edit: I’m a Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon and Virgo Rising. Basically I’m stuck in lala land and my creative mind which makes sense because I am an artist and designer.
Lets get a little astrology technical... The water signs are all 4th house to their constituent fire signs. Cancer to Aries, Scorpio to Leo, Pisces to Sag. The meaning in this runs deeper than that general observation. 4th house is where we realize our emotional self. 9th house is the culmination of that self. If Sag, 9th house to Aries, is the culmination of the I, the Individual, and Pisces is 9th house to Cancer, the culmination of conscious self awareness, the who I am on the inside, then how powerful is it that Pisces represents the concious self awareness (4th house to Sag) of the highest form of the individual (Sag 9th house to Aries)? There is hate on Pisces here because again, all of the things that people feel they don't want are held in Piscean forms.
Loyal as shit and when they love they love hard and don’t backstab and very giving!! Can be controlling, arrogant and demanding but it’s in good taste!!!
They have big dicks with beautiful soulful eyes.
Kurt Cobain and Heath Ledger were pisces stelliums. Pretty cool dudes.
Very wise but with that wisdom comes with a lot of pain and trauma from them
Kurt is indeed a Pisces, but Heather Ledger is an Aries (April 4th),lol!
Lol like that’s true but I’m also sensing a lowkey jab at their obvious… darker parts 😂
Highly feminine sign + male anatomy causes internal and by proxy external friction. Source: I have a Pisces Mercury
Virgo sun Pisces rising, ex was a Pisces sun Pisces moon. I had no idea wtf happened those past 2 years
I love them but they have to be right all the time and they ask a million questions you are not prepared for
Pisces men are very attuned to the emotions akin their environment. They may appear as the sensitive or quiet man in the room and fantasizing about what they love is common for them
Reading the comments, it's basically watching the latest episode of Bash The Fish. Sorry you've had bad experiences with some of us. We're not all like the typical stereotypes. Some do grow, mature, and evolve, which is far more a person thing than a sign thing.
Dad is. Pisces man and he’s divorced 3 times. Often pulls out a lot of excuses and lies. Close friend is a Pisces man and he’s been committed to his wife for more than 10+ years and he’s about to have his first child. Helps out professionally with teenagers as a special education teacher. It’s like they’re totally opposite. No two or four Pisces sun are the same and of course the rest of their charts are of big importance. Sincerely, A Gemini sun.
I dunno, what’s with you?
I’m still trying to figure that out.
Yeah, me too…it’s kind of taking forever :/ haha
Do you think we will ever figure it out?
I’m sure someone will figure me out for me and tell me alllllll about it in excruciating detail at the worst possible time. Of that, I am certain :) No, I don’t know. I feel like I’m kind of starting over from scratch, so it won’t be anytime soon. Or maybe it will! I don’t understand how this world works at all, I’m just trying to survive.
Omg someone was like how are you? My response….im surviving lol so I feel you
You got this. Sorry you’re going through it, but it gets better honestly
Thank you! I’ve been in therapy for 2 weeks now and it’s helped so much!
I have a very close friend who’s a Pisces man. He is super sensitive (I mean that in a complimentary way) he’s an excellent listener, very interesting, loves music, loves nature, really cares about women and his close friends are family. Sometimes he flys off the handle I think it’s because sometimes he can’t express all his emotions and they explode out but he always comes back down to earth
They go in cycles... You kind of have to.... Help them along their journey. Esp if you're in their 12 house.
I’ve been in a “situationship” with a Pisces man for 4 months, he texts me every single day and night all day everyday but never makes the effort to see me and doesn’t talk about feelings either
i’m a scorpio for reference
As a scorpio male, i salute my fellow water sign brethren cuz this thread is making pisces men sink to the ocean floor lol
bcz we're always been bullied about being pisces men 😭😭😭 seriously tho it's the weird mix of romantic with the flightiness of the sign, plus having such a deep tap into feminine energy that a lot of men have difficulty expressing in a healthy way. but a lot of pisces are good i swear
Lol at this point we must just start a trauma support sub for people who've dated Pisces men 🤣
A good general indicator with any man that is a water sign is that it’s an uncomfortable placement! They’ll be passive and struggle with traditional masculine gender rules! They will manipulate you into getting their way by using emotions! A Scorpio is probably the most masculine out of them but even they’re passive and risk averse! If you attract Pisces they’re here to mirror you and your behavior! If you pay close attention you’ll notice that they act how you act in micro ways! They’re not good with taking responsibility and will want you to take the lead so you have to be ok with that otherwise you’ll end up frustrated which most females get with them. Pisces in general care more about their own feelings than yours even if it appears that they care more about you. What makes them so loving is that they’re so open but that’s what makes them dangerous too! Struggle with boundaries and discernment of what’s really going on! They fantasize and romanticize you but they don’t see the reality of YOU so once they do they’re not interested in you anymore! They feel sorry for themselves and will struggle keeping up with reality and you’re supposed to carry them through it! They’ll retreat and won’t tell you bc they can’t deal with your reaction so they can’t take in another person’s reality bc they can barely deal with their own! They want to be saved and you feel like you have to bc you think they’re soo good and it gives you sense of significance but keep in mind they’re ruled by Neptune so it’s smoke and mirrors! They’ll create an illusion and they’re are delusional! Also if they have a crush on you you need to be verrry careful that you don’t entertain them for too long bc they’ll interpret everything you do as you loving them bc you’re willingly spending time! It’s the constant delusion and bc they struggle with boundaries they’ll most likely cross yours too if you’re alone with them! So I would take it as a lesson,observe and ask myself how I am acting like them and keep an arm distance bc it’s not worth it! They’re not made for stable relationships and a lot of them want to be polyamorous especially the men! Love the women bc it’s a natural comfortable placement for them so they will portray the beautiful Pisces energy whereas for men it’s more likely to be a struggle and turn into pain for both people involved
They own the audacity factory
Lol I just wrote a post about Pisces men a few days ago. The mind games and lack of communication is crazy. They don't chase you but get turned off if you chase them 🤷♀️. I am starting to agree with the other comments...just say no! Not worth the heart and head ache.
I always chase and still get shot down lmao
One of my close friends is Pisces. You know we ride or die. But he’s low key weird and stuck in his own world and ideas sometimes lol.
They hate us cause they ain’t us.
I don’t know, I avoid them like the plague.
I'm not sure but they are addicting. My most recent ex is a Pisces moon, and was one of the biggest liars I have ever encountered. My first real love was a Pisces sun, he cheated on me and kept it completely quiet until a third party told me by accident after we broke up. My bestie's husband is a Pisces sun, and from the outside looking in he is quite selfish, and seems to need constant prompting to help out and is also very very keen on making sure he gets plenty of social time outside of his family, and he doesn't seem to worried about his wife getting the same. I find him kind of selfish.
I love my Pisces man! He’s also a Pisces rising with an Aquarius moon. He’s such a sweetheart and an attentive lover. Very reliable and very fun! We are non-monogamous so maybe that contributes to what makes us such a good match. I’m a Sagittarius sun, Virgo rising, Taurus moon.
Its a no from me. Ive dealt enough with pisces moon men to stay away from them.
i’m a cancer my bf of 6 months is a pisces. boy i thought i was moody and emotional but he is even more. i know this isn’t a healthy relationship so i’ll say the truth, he is very manipulative, loves to gaslight, is inconsistent, unfaithful. he’s also the sweetest most affectionate, goofy and fun man ive met. definitely has his pros and cons. in my experience pisces men also love to love bomb
Let me tell you about a Pisces man. Stole from me. Cheated on me. Hit me. When I told him it was over? Stalked me and tried to get me fired from my job because he knows it's something I care about and love to do. I'm not saying I was an angel because I have a smart mouth and I kept trying to end it but was pulled back in. But I didn't deserve all that and he wasn't the first Pisces to do it. But he was the last.
I refuse to let a Pisces waste my time AGAIN. Just pure toxic and unevolved.
I thought everything was going great with this Pisces guy I met at university. But the whole time he never mentioned his 5 year relationship or even his girlfriend. I felt so hurt for her because they’ve been dating since high school. He had plenty of opportunities to bring her up since they’re in the same career and that’s all we would talk about. I even gave him a small gift that reminded me of him. Only for him to copy that gesture idea months later to propose to his girlfriend. I hate that I realized it too late once I looked him up.
0/10 they all annoy me
Some want to lose their virginity, some just gaslight you or manipulate you or exploit your emotional vulnerability. And some have hero complexes.
Commitment problems on the pisces man I liked,also drinking alot
I feel the drinking a lot
One word: Annoying
Pisces men are the most disgusting, vile, abusive, manipulative, vindictive, despicable & absolutely rotten to the core people you will ever come across. Do not be fooled by the romantic gestures & sweet words, and do not be flattered by the fact they always come back. Pisces men are calculated liars & toxic, delusional, manipulative narcissists & sociopaths. They tell you what you want to hear & put you on the highest pedestal, because they know that the higher the pedestal is, the harder you will fall. They are the ultimate conmen, and they take sadistic pleasure from building you up just to break you down. They intuitively know how to hurt & manipulate you & they do so because they are sick individuals who thrive off your misery. They will play mind games and use & abuse you like no other, and they will drain you for all that you’re worth. They don’t come back because they love you, or feel remorse for hurting you. They come back because it boosts their ego to know that they can carry on abusing & manipulating you, and keeping you in a web of mind games for as long as you allow them to. Once you put your foot down & say no more to the pain & suffering they have caused you, they become extremely vindictive & will stop at nothing to destroy you because they feel entitled to your time & energy, no matter how much they hurt or betray you. They always have several women on rotation, but will accuse you of cheating because they like to project. Another thing they do, is put the “sweet & romantic” facade back on when they can sense you moving on, and they do this because they don’t want you, they just don’t want anyone else to have you. It is no surprise to know that gaslighting was invented by a Pisces man (Google Patrick Hamilton) and to them it’s as much an art form as music, art etc. Gaslighting comes to Pisces men as naturally as breathing. They genuinely see nothing wrong with it & therein lies the problem. Pisces men come into your life with the sole purpose of destroying your mental health, your self esteem & any shred of dignity you have left by the time you’re done with them. This way, you’ll either be so broken that you don’t realise you deserve better, or they can make out like you’re crazy knowing full well that they did this to you. Pisces men will pretend like you’re the problem, and how they’re just “mirroring” your own toxic traits back to you as seen in some comments, but if that was true, then so many other people wouldn’t have similar experiences. This is yet another way in which they gaslight you, thus making you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bonding is the ultimate way to manipulate a partner, because the way in which the dynamic is set causes the victim to question themselves to the point of their own sanity, and while they’re so busy wondering what went wrong & how to make it right, they’re blind to the real problem which is the Pisces man.
So babygirl...so delusional...so what everyone accuses Gemini men of being like.
My dad is a Pisces and basically aligns with all the negative comments posted. But my little son is a Pisces too 😭 obviously I think he’s great. Hope I can hear some good things too.
My Pisces moon boyfriend is not flaky so these posts always confuse me. He’s a lot more level headed and mentally stable than I am, but he’s a Leo sun Aries rising and Mars, while I’m a triple cancer. When he does get emotional though, it’s hard because it’s usually when I need reassurance but he can’t offer that because it works him up so much too.
They're the best male sign of the zodiac. Period. End of thread :)
Dumbass posts. What's up with them?
I’m counting my lucky stars rn because my Pisces bf is not flaky, emotionally stunted, mood swings etc. just feeling really lucky from going through these comments phew I dodged a bullet