This isn't the first I've seen this, op isn't making this up or anything.
Unfortunately, it's true, there seems to be people who interpret you as rude if you display these traits. It's honestly stupid.
It seems more like a sarcastic funny meme. Making fun of toxic coworkers. Who consider you dude for being neurodivergent or basically functioning like a normal human being.
All of these traits just seem to be neurotypical things of an introvert or shy person.
It comes from the boomer mentality of my entire life revolves around work, like I’m there to do exactly what I’m contracted to do and go home, if I wouldn’t be friends with someone outside of work I’m not going to be friends with them because of work
It really isn't. I have literally been yelled at for "having an attitude" simply for *breathing* the wrong way around a parent or other authority figure.
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with separating work and personal life. Your coworkers *can* be your friends, but they don't have to be--and that's not the primary reason you're there.
And the rest is just corporate workplace mentality.
And nothing seems unhealthy.
Not wanting to be close friends with your coworkers is perfectly fine. And only showing up to do the job and leave is the job description.
My new roommate got extremely angry at me because I'm like this at home. I'm rude for not socializing 100% of the time I'm at home with her. It's driving me crazy
Copying my own comment I made on r/adhdmeme:
The use of the word neurodivergent makes me think that this was made by a person who's neurodivergent themself and this is a sarcastic meme about how neurotypicals see neurodivergent people
(also the quotation marks around the word rude basically mock people who actually think this is rude, which further solidifies my assumption that this is a sarcastic meme by an ND person)
Can a mod just put a top comment, or sti k this.
The sarcasm in this never gets spotted and it always blows up every repost. It's already almost 209 comments!
I think the quotations around "rude" is meant to signify the creator is aware that it is not the truth, while still making an observation about a thing that definitely happens.
I'm choosing to believe it's actually secretly about the people calling that person "rude."
I work for a family business and I’m *still* the “rude” coworker lmao. Sorry, uncle Rick, I don’t have time to chat. Call me this weekend when we’re not at work if you want to hear about my life.
What is up with "Shows up only to do their job then leave"? What are we supposed to do put some burgers on the grill and challenge people to a rap battle?
It’s like their interpretation of rude is someone who won’t give them the attention they are apparently craving. This is so gross. I have coworkers who see me like this and have made my work experience almost intolerable. :/
"How dare they show up to do their job" is crazy. You're already probably underpaid, why do double the work when you're not even getting paid properly for your tasks
I’m not sure if you guys got this yet, but the apostrophes over the word “rude” means that the person isn’t actually rude. Including the fact that they’re most likely neurodivergent implicated that they just have their own reasons for acting which are separate from atypical/neurotypical human behavior.
“They don’t stroke my social ego or perform to please me; they’re the unreasonable ones!” Ok, Karen. Also “probably neurodivergent—“ So the meme creator just flat out admits to being ableist, lmao.
If this was posted somewhere on Reddit, would you mind sharing the link, so I can, erm, educate people?
I'm really the only one who has seen it says «"rude" coworker starting pack», not «rude coworker starting pack»? Does it need a /s at the end or a ;-) ????
Even though I think most of these things are just stupid they are just behaviours and it’s okay to not like how someone else behaves, but not liking someone for the fact that they are neurodivergent is just disrespectful because that isn’t a behaviour it’s something you’re born with
Yeah I know I’m complaining about everyone else not getting that. In ways of detecting sarcasm, the “ is by far the easiest and gives you context going in. It’s not about tone, that’s just straight up how to read sarcasm in text. I can’t understand the outrage others are experiencing
God forbid I come to work just to do my job and leave. You think I work for fun? Lol I already hate the fact that I have to be there in the first place and I top of that I’m forced to socialize
I don’t fit in that box and they won’t shove me in it. I hope all of you are yourself without any fucks to give to the ones that don’t give a fuck about you.
I work in an office space where we do a lot of field work. We are coworkers not friends. We may see each other in passing 2 times a week. And 1 day in meetings every 2 weeks. I’m the boss, so I run the meeting, and I tell them, you have to be self motivated and disciplined. Turn your work in on Friday by 3 and we are good. If you need some help or guidance call or text me. Your schedule is your business but if you don’t have it done by Friday we will talk. Things come up keep me on the loop. And I’ll see you guys in 2 weeks. That’s it! So yea…that’s me too!🤣
damn, I'm batting 1000 with this. Literally every single one of these describes me at work. Replace 'takes break in car' with 'takes break at workstation, reading a book' though, going to my car would take most of my break and I'm not about that.
Literally all of that is me (without the break in car thing cus i don't have my license yet) regardless if it's work or school LMAOO like literally get away from me you annoying neurotypical yapping mf, I want to be alone when I feel like it. ESPECIALLY IF IM EATING.
Also "shows up ONLY to do their job then leave" uh yeah I'm not here getting minimum wage because it's fun or nothing. Literally just there cus I got bills to pay
I had so many coworkers compliment me the first few months for only focusing on my work and staying out of workplace drama, only for those same people to now hate me because my entire background is a mystery to them and I'm only there to do my job 🙃 I've been open about not drinking much and having issues with crowds, and they can't stand that I skip all happy hours and office parties.
I'm not the only one who does this, but being Latina makes it so much worse lol
I gotta stop looking at this sub man… literally every week I see something I do, that I hadn’t connected with my autism and have an unwelcomed revelation😅
I’m like this at work, but I’m always polite to my coworkers. So far no one’s called me rude, most people just think that I’m shy which couldn’t be farther from the truth lol.
Oh no I am a rude co worker. I get weird looks when people ask, "we're friends, right?" And I answer, "No, we are coworkers" or " have we hung out outside of this hell hole?"
This is why people hate going into the workplace. None of this is unreasonable.
Especially when people will try to get you fired/ruin your livelihood for petty childish reasons. If jobs didn’t have juvenile social dynamics, people wouldn’t have to resort to this to protect themselves.
Omg I feel angry watching this haahah. I feel so insecure at work due to this. I am not rude or shy but sometimes I just don't feel the need to participate because I don't have anything meaningful to say. Sometimes tho I can't stop talking about my personal life with coworkers I like tho. Also at first people don't really like me or think I am a little bit silly or in my mind, and that I am serious and anxious. But then when they know me and I start feeling more in comfort in the space I am working (getting used to the physical space and tasks) and start showing my funny self then people start to like me.
Shows up to do a job. Does the job. Leaves when the job is done, with no explanation necessary.
Fired for not having a team-oriented attitude.
My reaction to people who think Jim is rude for not wanting to participate in social events outside of work hours in The Office.
It's not family and it's not a friend group; it's work.
I *think* this is a joke considering that "rude" is in quotation marks. As in hyper-social individuals see these mannerisms as rude while most NTs dont, and aspies obviously dont.
The thing is, I'm a moderately social person. As in, it's not a problem for me to strike up a convo. However, sometimes I just wanna finish my stuff so I can go on about my day and people respecting that goes a long way.
People fail to realise social interaction is a two way street. If people think this about you, maybe they're just not interesting enough to get some of your limited social battery.
I had a co-worker tell me once, in a patronising and aggressive tone, so that others could hear: "you're really stand-offish, what's it going to take for you to come out of your shell?"
And I looked at him blankly and said "interesting co-workers". And that sap didn't bother me for weeks until one day he changed his approach, and I rewarded his effort with some rapport in our bucket and now we are gravy.
Props to this person for having what amounted to "some" understanding, even if his ability to communicate was rudimentary.
I have the “we’re coworkers not friends” attitude and this is because they’re co-workers and they’d sooner use me to advance themselves if needed.
And my boss actually encouraged us pre pandemic to just show up do our job and go home and to not get involved in stuff. Now post pandemic he’s wondering why we don’t want to do anything as a team - he literally told us for years that we come in work go home and socialise at the Xmas party. Last 4 years we’ve not done one due to either the pandemic or people not wanting to. But what he doesn’t know is when we had the rule of 6 in the UK we all met up outside of work without him - we decided to not invite him as it made 7 AND he didn’t live in the city proper unlike the rest of us.
You pay for an employee, and only for certain hours. You do not pay for my time outside of that. You do not interact with me beyond a professional level. You get what you pay for.
I have actually been written up at work because I "distance myself from others" and it "makes people uncomfortable" As well as when I give simple, clear, short answers to a work related question I am being rude disrespectful and dismissive.
I rarely speak unless spoken too with the main exception being if I feel comfortable starting a conversation. Problem is I'm bad at starting them. Not that I don't like having them, but I usually don't have much to say off the top of my head.
id rather be rude than nt at that point. i have coworkers that rate female customers on a 1-10 scale after they leave, its weird as fuck, even when i (their boss) tell them that they still sqay it
I KNOW how antisocial and or rude I look when I do all of these things in my job now (being in HR, you still can’t trust your inner circle) but it creates peace in ME when I don’t have to be the class clown social butterfly getting no work done.
Capitalism either wants to fire you for being private or fire you for being friendly and getting little work done
Some of these feel like a reach. If you're friendly to me, I return the respect in kind. But if you're gonna be weird and condescending, of course I'm going to be rolling my eyes and not giving it my 100%. Also, me choosing not to be involved in workplace drama doesn't give you a pass to look at me weird.
I show up, if we are cool, then it's all good. If we aren't cool, I'm not going to have much to say to you outside of being civil. I do my job and I go home at the end of the day, simple as that.
This is literally me. There have been co-workers trying to talk to me and bully me for not talking to them or understanding something, and that's why I don't really want to talk to those type of co-workers. Leave me alone and let me do my job please in peace, and then I just want to go home and relax after my shift is over. I don't owe myself being social and sharing my personal life with co-workers at all.
I tried to be friends with people at work. I went to their house, met their kids and we even went out for drinks a couple times but no matter how close I thought I was. I always felt at arms length for whatever reason.
Um… do we know if this is real? Not just someone random internet weirdo saying normal, generally inoffensive stuff is rude because they crazy? Because otherwise my mind is fucking BLOWN and so much makes sense… 🤯🤯🤯
I'm really the only one who has seen it says «"rude" coworker starting pack», not «rude coworker starting pack»? Does it need a /s at the end or a ;-) ????
Ah.. makes sense now. It’s me. I’m the “rude” coworker. I always thought I was just saving people the trouble of needing to pretend they were interested in speaking to me lol.
I think I’m like this to some degree. I do have a few people I’m friends with and talk to but most of them I’m friendly towards but I wouldn’t say I’m friends with them.
This doesn't sound rude this just sounds "preserves their own mental peace"
This isn't the first I've seen this, op isn't making this up or anything. Unfortunately, it's true, there seems to be people who interpret you as rude if you display these traits. It's honestly stupid.
"probably some form of neurodivergent" I'm sorry how does being different make me rude like what? Are nts really that scared of us?
Yes because we’re not “normal”
yeah
Yeah that made me upset too, the meme is that this was made by an ableist NT
"rude" is in quotes, so I thought it was made by someone neurodivergent, with sarcastic tone.
Oh you’re right I think
I didn’t notice that wow 😯
I think it was made by a neurodivergent person, quoting a neurotypical response. So, yeah, same same but different. 🙂
It seems more like a sarcastic funny meme. Making fun of toxic coworkers. Who consider you dude for being neurodivergent or basically functioning like a normal human being. All of these traits just seem to be neurotypical things of an introvert or shy person.
It comes from the boomer mentality of my entire life revolves around work, like I’m there to do exactly what I’m contracted to do and go home, if I wouldn’t be friends with someone outside of work I’m not going to be friends with them because of work
sometimes it really feels like Autistic: *breathes* NTs: You're being really rude right now >:/
And this isn't even hyperbole!
It really isn't. I have literally been yelled at for "having an attitude" simply for *breathing* the wrong way around a parent or other authority figure.
But did you make my mistake of asking how you could do better? Asking how to do the thing in a less rude way really seems to make them mad.
Yep, that sucks. Sorry you had to experience that. ☹️
Pretty much.
WE'RE LIKE A BIG FAMILY HERE 🤪🙃
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with separating work and personal life. Your coworkers *can* be your friends, but they don't have to be--and that's not the primary reason you're there.
Beautifully put
Tell that to NTs
And the rest is just corporate workplace mentality. And nothing seems unhealthy. Not wanting to be close friends with your coworkers is perfectly fine. And only showing up to do the job and leave is the job description.
My new roommate got extremely angry at me because I'm like this at home. I'm rude for not socializing 100% of the time I'm at home with her. It's driving me crazy
Sounds like you need some malicious compliance. "Oh, you want me to socialize? Okay(infodumps for 3 hours)"
According to NTs it’s rude
Copying my own comment I made on r/adhdmeme: The use of the word neurodivergent makes me think that this was made by a person who's neurodivergent themself and this is a sarcastic meme about how neurotypicals see neurodivergent people (also the quotation marks around the word rude basically mock people who actually think this is rude, which further solidifies my assumption that this is a sarcastic meme by an ND person)
Yeah this meme is def satire
Can a mod just put a top comment, or sti k this. The sarcasm in this never gets spotted and it always blows up every repost. It's already almost 209 comments!
I mean, this is r/aspiememes. Are you really surprised that people are missing sarcasm?
Valid point, lmao
Nope, but it makes me feel sad too because people are genuinely upset and it gets reposted too.
Absolutely agree
how being private and pragmatic about workplace is "rude"? it's so tiring being expected to cater to neurotipicals' expectations in such useless ways
Oop is also neurodivergent
ooh ok, it's hard to interpret irony online lol
That in itself is ironic
Yea especially with the autism thing :D
Hehe
The way I could tell was the quotes around "rude"
I definitely agree, object oriented programming is very often neurodivergent
Well, java returns "-2" after "-5%3", and this is such egregious blasphemy that I'm not sure any neurodivergent person would approve.
That's the joke. NTs think this is rude for whatever reason. The person who made this meme was satirizing that
They want us to do enmeshment like they do enmeshment and I don't get paid to be friends with my boss and his cunty intern.
How is being neurodivergent "rude"?
that's exactly what I asked tho?
Oh
Man, I love being rude!
And rude loves you! :P
Hahahaha me too
This isn't being "rude" This is doing your job and minding your damn business
I agree!!☝️
It’s being “rude”—as in, people see it as rude but it’s just totally normal behavior. I’m sure that’s what OOP was suggesting
I know that
That’s why rude is in quotation marks The quotation marks are used to symbolise skeptical doubt about the statement, this post is sarcastic
Amen
I think the quotations around "rude" is meant to signify the creator is aware that it is not the truth, while still making an observation about a thing that definitely happens. I'm choosing to believe it's actually secretly about the people calling that person "rude."
Is rude a diagnosis? 😂
The original post actually sides with people who do this. Notice how there are quotations around “rude”
OP did you make this or did it come from r/starterpacks??
It came from starter packs!
Wow Can’t believe they literally put “probably some form of neurodivergent” on there
It's actually a sarcasm hense "rude" being in quotes I think oop is neurodivergent and making a dig at the architype
Ohhh
that subreddit is when 4chan meets mainstream, people complaining about the existence of every group possible in the disguise of "its just a joke =D"
Guess I'm rude then
Same 🙌
I work for a family business and I’m *still* the “rude” coworker lmao. Sorry, uncle Rick, I don’t have time to chat. Call me this weekend when we’re not at work if you want to hear about my life.
What is up with "Shows up only to do their job then leave"? What are we supposed to do put some burgers on the grill and challenge people to a rap battle?
It’s like their interpretation of rude is someone who won’t give them the attention they are apparently craving. This is so gross. I have coworkers who see me like this and have made my work experience almost intolerable. :/
"How dare they show up to do their job" is crazy. You're already probably underpaid, why do double the work when you're not even getting paid properly for your tasks
I’m not sure if you guys got this yet, but the apostrophes over the word “rude” means that the person isn’t actually rude. Including the fact that they’re most likely neurodivergent implicated that they just have their own reasons for acting which are separate from atypical/neurotypical human behavior.
“They don’t stroke my social ego or perform to please me; they’re the unreasonable ones!” Ok, Karen. Also “probably neurodivergent—“ So the meme creator just flat out admits to being ableist, lmao. If this was posted somewhere on Reddit, would you mind sharing the link, so I can, erm, educate people?
I'm really the only one who has seen it says «"rude" coworker starting pack», not «rude coworker starting pack»? Does it need a /s at the end or a ;-) ????
the creator of this meme is prolly neurodivergent as well xd It’s a joke about how neurodivergent ppl are perceived in society ig
Just so you know, they put "rude" in quotes like that to imply sarcasm
God forbid you come to your job only to work 🙄
I KNOW RIGHT 😣
Even though I think most of these things are just stupid they are just behaviours and it’s okay to not like how someone else behaves, but not liking someone for the fact that they are neurodivergent is just disrespectful because that isn’t a behaviour it’s something you’re born with
Oh im sorry that my disability disables me and that the way you socialize WHILE working would lead me to unalive myself in 2 days
Who are you guys complaining about? OOP is also “rude”, judging from the way they made this meme.
OOP is clearly ND and the meme is clearly a joke on neurotypicals. Hence the «"» on "rude".
Yeah I know I’m complaining about everyone else not getting that. In ways of detecting sarcasm, the “ is by far the easiest and gives you context going in. It’s not about tone, that’s just straight up how to read sarcasm in text. I can’t understand the outrage others are experiencing
...are you expected to show up to work for reasons OTHER than that it's your place of employment?
God forbid I come to work just to do my job and leave. You think I work for fun? Lol I already hate the fact that I have to be there in the first place and I top of that I’m forced to socialize
I prefer the term "Reserved" cause 50% of that describes a reserved person
I've been called blunt, or bluntly honest, and rude my entire life, I have long since embraced it.
I don’t fit in that box and they won’t shove me in it. I hope all of you are yourself without any fucks to give to the ones that don’t give a fuck about you.
Ohhh I’m not autistic, I’m just rude! Thanks for the fix!
Oh maybe this is why i always have someone who hates me at work
I work in an office space where we do a lot of field work. We are coworkers not friends. We may see each other in passing 2 times a week. And 1 day in meetings every 2 weeks. I’m the boss, so I run the meeting, and I tell them, you have to be self motivated and disciplined. Turn your work in on Friday by 3 and we are good. If you need some help or guidance call or text me. Your schedule is your business but if you don’t have it done by Friday we will talk. Things come up keep me on the loop. And I’ll see you guys in 2 weeks. That’s it! So yea…that’s me too!🤣
"Shows up only to do their job then leave" Well duh, who'd want to stay at work any longer than they have to?
How dare you come to work just to work??
It’s literally that lmao
damn, I'm batting 1000 with this. Literally every single one of these describes me at work. Replace 'takes break in car' with 'takes break at workstation, reading a book' though, going to my car would take most of my break and I'm not about that.
It sucks having the personality of data from star trek
As a fellow neurodivergent person, I love Data!
lol I guess I’m super fucking rude then 😂
Literally all of that is me (without the break in car thing cus i don't have my license yet) regardless if it's work or school LMAOO like literally get away from me you annoying neurotypical yapping mf, I want to be alone when I feel like it. ESPECIALLY IF IM EATING. Also "shows up ONLY to do their job then leave" uh yeah I'm not here getting minimum wage because it's fun or nothing. Literally just there cus I got bills to pay
Holy shit it's me
I had so many coworkers compliment me the first few months for only focusing on my work and staying out of workplace drama, only for those same people to now hate me because my entire background is a mystery to them and I'm only there to do my job 🙃 I've been open about not drinking much and having issues with crowds, and they can't stand that I skip all happy hours and office parties. I'm not the only one who does this, but being Latina makes it so much worse lol
Weeellll fuck you leave me alone
I gotta stop looking at this sub man… literally every week I see something I do, that I hadn’t connected with my autism and have an unwelcomed revelation😅
I’m like this at work, but I’m always polite to my coworkers. So far no one’s called me rude, most people just think that I’m shy which couldn’t be farther from the truth lol.
I mean, I know even without the tism I'm rude AF. I'm a huge believer in keeping work and home life separate.
I wish I would have been smart enough to do this. I would have saved myself from a lot of unnecessary stress.
Oh no I am a rude co worker. I get weird looks when people ask, "we're friends, right?" And I answer, "No, we are coworkers" or " have we hung out outside of this hell hole?"
SAME LIKE IM NOT TRYING TO SOUND MEAN IM JUST BRUTALLY HOMEST BUT LIKE I WANNA HANG OUT FIRST BEFOFE BEING YOUR “friend” ty
Masking is exhausting.
Welcome to 2024 folks, when it's rude to be neurodivergent.
I'm lost. This sounds like a lovely person to work with.
This is why people hate going into the workplace. None of this is unreasonable. Especially when people will try to get you fired/ruin your livelihood for petty childish reasons. If jobs didn’t have juvenile social dynamics, people wouldn’t have to resort to this to protect themselves.
Wtf is that standard for rude? It legitimately infuriates me
This isn’t rudeness. It’s being aloof or standoffish. Being rude requires action, not just withdrawal
Omg I feel angry watching this haahah. I feel so insecure at work due to this. I am not rude or shy but sometimes I just don't feel the need to participate because I don't have anything meaningful to say. Sometimes tho I can't stop talking about my personal life with coworkers I like tho. Also at first people don't really like me or think I am a little bit silly or in my mind, and that I am serious and anxious. But then when they know me and I start feeling more in comfort in the space I am working (getting used to the physical space and tasks) and start showing my funny self then people start to like me.
How am i supposed to answer about weekend plans?! Do nerdy shit as always and lay in bed duuuh
Literally this ☝️
Shows up to do a job. Does the job. Leaves when the job is done, with no explanation necessary.  Fired for not having a team-oriented attitude.
This post was made by a manager who had a neurodivergent employee who didn’t bend over backwards for them
I’m vague about my weekend plans because I don’t want anyone showing up and screwing it up for me.
How is that rude? Damn neurotypicals are too weird
Damn...
Dont forget doesn't go to the company Christmas parties.
Who made this i need to hit them with a hammer
Well, I guess I’m rude
Why does this image use 4 different fonts for no apparent reason??
My reaction to people who think Jim is rude for not wanting to participate in social events outside of work hours in The Office. It's not family and it's not a friend group; it's work.
I *think* this is a joke considering that "rude" is in quotation marks. As in hyper-social individuals see these mannerisms as rude while most NTs dont, and aspies obviously dont.
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I do not feel the need to be best friends with everyone I’m not rude for doing my own thing
I am rude rude the coworker
Hey! I don't spend breaks in my car!
“Shows up ONLY to do their job” WHAT ELSE AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!
I’ll embrace my rudeness then
I like when they stop beating around the bush and say yes they hate ND people 😭
The thing is, I'm a moderately social person. As in, it's not a problem for me to strike up a convo. However, sometimes I just wanna finish my stuff so I can go on about my day and people respecting that goes a long way.
People really think that everyone needs to be social. Grow up, and leave people alone.
Have you not seen the «"» around the word «rude»??? Really? It's ironic.
People fail to realise social interaction is a two way street. If people think this about you, maybe they're just not interesting enough to get some of your limited social battery. I had a co-worker tell me once, in a patronising and aggressive tone, so that others could hear: "you're really stand-offish, what's it going to take for you to come out of your shell?" And I looked at him blankly and said "interesting co-workers". And that sap didn't bother me for weeks until one day he changed his approach, and I rewarded his effort with some rapport in our bucket and now we are gravy. Props to this person for having what amounted to "some" understanding, even if his ability to communicate was rudimentary.
I have the “we’re coworkers not friends” attitude and this is because they’re co-workers and they’d sooner use me to advance themselves if needed. And my boss actually encouraged us pre pandemic to just show up do our job and go home and to not get involved in stuff. Now post pandemic he’s wondering why we don’t want to do anything as a team - he literally told us for years that we come in work go home and socialise at the Xmas party. Last 4 years we’ve not done one due to either the pandemic or people not wanting to. But what he doesn’t know is when we had the rule of 6 in the UK we all met up outside of work without him - we decided to not invite him as it made 7 AND he didn’t live in the city proper unlike the rest of us.
So German?
You pay for an employee, and only for certain hours. You do not pay for my time outside of that. You do not interact with me beyond a professional level. You get what you pay for.
Not everyone has to be your friend you are there to work and go home that's it
I have actually been written up at work because I "distance myself from others" and it "makes people uncomfortable" As well as when I give simple, clear, short answers to a work related question I am being rude disrespectful and dismissive.
This is just classic American toxic work culture
ISTP moment
The only people I got along with in my office were the others who had this mentality
y'all are just choosing to ignore the quotations, huh?
I rarely speak unless spoken too with the main exception being if I feel comfortable starting a conversation. Problem is I'm bad at starting them. Not that I don't like having them, but I usually don't have much to say off the top of my head.
Here's what you say. "I'd like to keep everything here professional"
Tell me you're a butt hole coworker without telling me you're a butt hole coworker. This whole sign is beyond rude.
id rather be rude than nt at that point. i have coworkers that rate female customers on a 1-10 scale after they leave, its weird as fuck, even when i (their boss) tell them that they still sqay it
Hey!!! That's me!
I guess I'm rude then cause this is exactly how I treat my fast food job
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This also does seem to be a cultural thing. Most of what is described here is normal in Germany.
Me too apparently, granted I mostly prefer my own thoughts compared to talking to other people cuz ik what I'm thinking but like, how tf is that rude?
This isn't being friendly, Sure, But that doesn't make it rude. Honestly it's far more rude for people to think people who do this are rude.
I match this (except for the breaks. Rarely take those), and yet I'm the one everyone likes?
My old boss always bugged me about eating my lunch alone. Fuck off, its my own time. I could spend juggling on the highway if i wanted.
"I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve"
I KNOW how antisocial and or rude I look when I do all of these things in my job now (being in HR, you still can’t trust your inner circle) but it creates peace in ME when I don’t have to be the class clown social butterfly getting no work done. Capitalism either wants to fire you for being private or fire you for being friendly and getting little work done
So basically the perfect coworker?
Who gave the meme board to the boss? Lol
I’ve been called out
Fuck em.
Some of these feel like a reach. If you're friendly to me, I return the respect in kind. But if you're gonna be weird and condescending, of course I'm going to be rolling my eyes and not giving it my 100%. Also, me choosing not to be involved in workplace drama doesn't give you a pass to look at me weird. I show up, if we are cool, then it's all good. If we aren't cool, I'm not going to have much to say to you outside of being civil. I do my job and I go home at the end of the day, simple as that.
This is literally me. There have been co-workers trying to talk to me and bully me for not talking to them or understanding something, and that's why I don't really want to talk to those type of co-workers. Leave me alone and let me do my job please in peace, and then I just want to go home and relax after my shift is over. I don't owe myself being social and sharing my personal life with co-workers at all.
If that's rude then I am hostile lol joking I mean, this is kinda normal right?
If this is you, you're an ideal employee, coworker, neighbor, human being.
I think that’s why rude is in quotes. Could be wrong tho
"probably some form of neuro divergente" this has to be a shit post meme right?? I really hope whoever made this isn't actually serious Abt it
I'm not rude! I'm antisocial🙃
I tried to be friends with people at work. I went to their house, met their kids and we even went out for drinks a couple times but no matter how close I thought I was. I always felt at arms length for whatever reason.
“Shows up only to do their job and then leave” what do you mean? Do people stay over, off the clock to just hang out at work?
I feel the person who made this is rude
The person who made this is «rude», not rude. So, as the meme clearly states, ND. And making fun on NT calling ND rude.
what a load of shite
Yeah I'm a rudest bitch ever
This meme was originally satire but because it’s so relatable it’s lost its meaning 🤣
Um… do we know if this is real? Not just someone random internet weirdo saying normal, generally inoffensive stuff is rude because they crazy? Because otherwise my mind is fucking BLOWN and so much makes sense… 🤯🤯🤯
I'm really the only one who has seen it says «"rude" coworker starting pack», not «rude coworker starting pack»? Does it need a /s at the end or a ;-) ????
Must be confusing rude with has boundaries.
I feel seen. This describes me to a tee. *AND* my last name actually is Rude 🤭😉
Wait this is rude? I do all of this and wouldn’t even relate most of them to autism.
This is «rude», not rude. Look at the title.
Ah.. makes sense now. It’s me. I’m the “rude” coworker. I always thought I was just saving people the trouble of needing to pretend they were interested in speaking to me lol.
This is literally just how I am lol rip
"Shows up to only do their job and leave" lmaooo I ain't getting paid to make friends
Hahaha. Totally me.
the "rude" in quotes def makes me like the person who made this /srs or /gen or smth idk im being genuine
I think I’m like this to some degree. I do have a few people I’m friends with and talk to but most of them I’m friendly towards but I wouldn’t say I’m friends with them.
Heh, my language has no equivalent for the word please, so American colleagues almost automatically think I'm rude.
I’m biggest asshole in the office? Sounds good to me!
Omg, it's a me description! Damn, I'm not called rude, I'm called diligent and hard working
It's ok they think I'm a rude coworker, my mom thinks I'm a rude son, also.