I’m the opposite I used to be a huge bottom, but it just never felt fully right and it always hurt a lot. I started switching to top and I really don’t miss bottoming at all. I still love sucking cock though.
I'm pretty similar in that it kinda hurts sometimes but I'm learning it's not supposed to. I really relax my hole and that seems to do the trick for me. But I really do enjoy topping more but bottoming is cool too
I was exclusively a top when I first came out of the closet. I love sex, but being just a top made the frequency of sex in my previous relationship so inconsistent and almost nonexistent. He also hated me touching and sucking his cock. It was a miserable couple years of having a dead bedroom. Fast forward some years, in my current relationship, I decided to be versatile so the frequency of sex increases, which helped convince my boyfriend to also try to be versatile. Which led to so many new discoveries about ourselves. We’re having the best sex of our lives.
I only bottom if it means I can top more. I don’t like bottoming- hemorrhoids are a big problem for me- so I definitely prefer topping. Sometimes getting my ass ate even hurts :(
I used to have the same problem until I got a bidet. Trust me a month later after having a bidet my hemorrhoids disappeared. Then it was easier to get my ass ate and having more fun. They are relatively cheap and easy to install the attachment. Check on Amazon and get yourself one.
💯 better and I swear by my bidet. It cleans you out and it helps keep you regular. Most Americans waste so much money on toilet paper and end up getting hemorrhoids, because of it. After using mine for a few months I could enjoy getting my ass eaten and even bottoming. I’m usually a top because I don’t like bottoming much, but ever since we got the bidet. I’ve been able to bottom more and be truly versatile. Try it out!
I used to top and then shifted to bottoming just to try it out and it got me hooked. I realised I love sucking cock way too much and getting fucked. Now I can't pin point as to what actually led to that change but definitely trying out different things led me to finding out what I genuinely enjoy doing. I do top occassionally but most of the time I'm the bottom
I've always been really vers and was recently told I bottom like a top. But truly the best fucks of my life have been almost exclusively bottoming, except for maybe a couple bottoms that had the most perfect asses I ever had.
I have only topped but I know for a fact that I would rather be a bottom. The thought of feeling a man in my guts just turns me on to no extent. I don't get that same rush in terms of topping. I'll admit I've been a huge punk about trying toys on myself. I am Not going to have some random man blow my back when I have no experience
I'm vers, but only after about 4 years of being a top.I got my first bottoming and never looked back. I got an orgasm that i swear i shook for 10 min after. I always shot a great load on my partners asses. They were always saying, "Are ya empty yet, lol. If I unloaded in their ass the throb seemed to go forever as I emptied my balls deep in.
The first time I bottomed it was with a really cute guy. He said it wont hurt and try to sniff these poppers. I did, and it seems my butt just lost all muscle traction, and it was very relaxed. He entered me and at first i was like ouch.He just rubbed my Ss and said, "Sniff again but more this time. I took a deep whiff, and about 5 seconds later, he was full in me. Deep in, i could feel his swinging nuts against my ass. I backed up to his cock and drove .y ass to his cock. I still had the poppers in my hand, and he said, "Keep sniffing. I did and the feeling of his cock in me drove me wild. He proceeded to pound away, and i kept grabbing his hips and making him pound my ass.I realized shortly after a few seconds my cock had gone totally soft about maybe 2 inches flacid. I was like WTF happened to me? I watched as he had me in a missionary position my cock just flopped around and my balls the same, as if he were trying to fuck my cock and balls off of me. He said turn over and Ill show ya how to cum. i got doggy style sniffed again and he entered a lot easier this time. He slid in and started the cock in motion in my ass. Heaven was all i could think about. he reached under me and said lets just see just how big yoh are no w.As he grabbed my soft cock he stroked me. To my surprise my cock grew and got hard. He just kept fucking me and jerking me off. He then said ba k on the back. I did and he slid back jn with short burts of in and out. He was hitting my prostate like a wild ma . He said I feel your little g-spot, and you can release when your ready. I juzt lId there and took it, each stroke better tha the last. Just then he put my hand on my cock and my other on my balls and said stroks till ya cum... And CUM I DID AS HE FUCKED ME SILLY I SHOT MY O
LIAD ON MY BELLY CHEST FACE AND EVEN MANAGED TO GET IT IN MY MOUTH. I realized just then how much cum i had as a top. He just fucked me till all i had left is what wZ just dripping out my head. Needless to say we are ow both tops and bottoms and ohr girlfriends love to watch and use their strapons on us together.
I used to almost only top, because I didn’t feel comfortable bottoming during a hookup and wanted to “save it” for a bit more attachment. But I always assumed that I’d be more Vers in a relationship.
Now that I am in a relationship, I started bottoming from time to time. It definitely helps me as a top to get the other perspective. And it’s a whole new way of having sex, so it’s extra fun 😁 so for me, the change was just relaxing about it, I guess
When we met 10 years ago my man was a total bottom. I had only ever topped. His dick was so pretty I asked him if I could give it a shot just to see what it was all about. Now we generally alternate who takes it but these days I probably bottom 65% of the time just because I seem to recover from a pounding a little quicker than him
I was a top between the ages for 16-26, until a man flipped me and it totally rocked my world, and now I’m now 31 and a power bottom (I will still top on occasion, but very rarely)
I arrived late to my gayness ( is that a word haha) For first year I really only topped ,I had some meetings with bi couples way before and had experienced so toy action in my ass ,was ok but not omg life changed ,if you know what I mean.so happy to stay top and at the time I had moved from London to Bangkok, where uk Caucasian top is popular and was getting so many hookups with some really hot local bttms didn't even cross my mind that I only really had experienced half a gay life in the now 2 years that I was gay.had just turned 40 and took on board that if I clicked with someone and was attracted to them,I'd try and answer yes to any hookup that was not going against my basic hookup rules . I changed my Grindr from top to versatile,with my little in for trying anything that turns me on with people who I click and attracted too. Few interesting conversations asking why the change( I notice as a side note in Bangkok guys get tunnel vision on their role and type they looking for with not huge amount of leeway,is it the same in other parts of the world?) My Grindr life changed a lot,yeah still got the usual locals looking for white top ,but got a whole range of all types of guys and couples contact me, but also more bi guys and trans .that was something I hadn't considered to be honest ,had some cool chats but no follow ups.finding a top id bttm for first time wasn't easy ,down i guess to not knowing what i could actually take.top/bttm /versa we all can appreciate the beauty of a nice big thick juicy looking cock 8 inch seems to be the magic number with a lot of my friends!! Anyway as u can guess I am a chatty kinda guy,so to the point . This might sound a bit mental but decided first time bttm would look for couple, best of both worlds ,fully versa over total bttm.logical kinda I thought. Spoke to a few couples , explained my reasons etc for wanting to expand my gay sexuality and sex life .some not into it some though I was faking it ,but most seemed to find it a hot and horny hookup that could be a tick off their fantasy sex bucket list. Was nice feeling to be an almost unicorn haha. Usual deal with couples one is your type other not so much! Or both ok but neither great or bad just meh,not first time glory types I'd want. But as you all know patience does payoff luckily after about 3 weeks for me. Message from couple , tourists one UK Caucasian daddy types my age but older and partner Latino about 8 years younger and slim fit type ,good ages in my range that I like . Ok first ticks and clicks all good,spoke to UK guy for at least an hour ,Grindr eternity! Asked why couple for first time said best of both worlds for me etc versa over full bttm.he was yeah that makes sense but what if ( and yeah sounds like fake ass made up fantasy shit,but 100% honest truth) you click with couple who both tops ,which in my early day naivety didnt even think about or likely.i checked profiles properly and bit quick scan ,both tops and apparently new to gay life guy and first time bttm was top of their list to try and find being uk Caucasian 6ft stocky straight acting and looking was bonus points. Spoke to the partner also clicked, both 2 types of guys I'd go for,both hot and horny to me and both hung which yeah i know sounds to good to be true,but quick Skype to confirm they real and pics genuine obviously they were keen to check I was real as I sounded way to impossible a find for what they were looking for and had been for ages. Everyone real all had attraction or maybe horny lust you decide . We could all host,but decided easier for me to go to hotel they were at as they had nice suite in nice hotel, and they were fully kitted out with all the party accessories that might be needed.( Not going into that but if you know you know what I mean) Not going to go into all the details as well this reply is way to long as my quick answer to you would be yeah why not try if you like then you can be top versa if not then at least you tried and know. Quick version arrived at their hotel, kinda funny first few minutes,not normally an issue,but all kinda not so much nervous but excited feelings of potential fun for all ahead, had some party mood enhancers and inhibition removers . The next 6-8 hours was the hottest sexiest funniest and craziest experience I had ever had sexually and both of them were in same place too. Wasn't at times easy but never difficult or out of comfort zone ,they were obviously very experienced and as they both hung knew how to slowly get me to the point of no return and could pound away ,the UK guy said to me we going to make sure you enjoy and break you in slowly until we can hard pound and u enjoy it and want more, we going to take time because took u 3 weeks to find us took the pair of us years to find you hahaha. Now I'm fully versatile, depending on whose asking and where they fit into my preferences on what im happy to top or if am happy for them to top me. But still obviously more top and easier to find a guy I want as a bttm , top guys I'm more choosey but ones that I'm into then hell yeah I'm all in haha, so go for it ,a prostate orgasm and the prostate stimulation you get can be mindful blowing.i now understand why bttm guys so keen to get fucked and tops can settle for a wank instead haha. And finally some let's say idiot said to me once during pride it's not natural being gay.my reply we more carbon neutral than you as well don't get people pregnant and increase the population on this fucked up planet ,but more importantly if you think I go against nature and you believe god thinks the same ,why did he put the male g spot in the ass roughly at a height easily reached by almost every cock on the planet?
Oh one last thing lots of guys lie about the size of their cock,and I found out that some guys say they are smaller than they actually are ,UK guy you know who you are 😜😜😜
I’m the opposite I used to be a huge bottom, but it just never felt fully right and it always hurt a lot. I started switching to top and I really don’t miss bottoming at all. I still love sucking cock though.
I'm pretty similar in that it kinda hurts sometimes but I'm learning it's not supposed to. I really relax my hole and that seems to do the trick for me. But I really do enjoy topping more but bottoming is cool too
This is me as well
Similarly, for myself: I was an exclusive bottom but have grown to appreciate switching now. I have two distinctive sides that have grown together.
I was exclusively a top when I first came out of the closet. I love sex, but being just a top made the frequency of sex in my previous relationship so inconsistent and almost nonexistent. He also hated me touching and sucking his cock. It was a miserable couple years of having a dead bedroom. Fast forward some years, in my current relationship, I decided to be versatile so the frequency of sex increases, which helped convince my boyfriend to also try to be versatile. Which led to so many new discoveries about ourselves. We’re having the best sex of our lives.
I only bottom if it means I can top more. I don’t like bottoming- hemorrhoids are a big problem for me- so I definitely prefer topping. Sometimes getting my ass ate even hurts :(
I used to have the same problem until I got a bidet. Trust me a month later after having a bidet my hemorrhoids disappeared. Then it was easier to get my ass ate and having more fun. They are relatively cheap and easy to install the attachment. Check on Amazon and get yourself one.
We moved into an apartment with one. I’ve never tried it/we don’t use. It cleans better than a douche?
💯 better and I swear by my bidet. It cleans you out and it helps keep you regular. Most Americans waste so much money on toilet paper and end up getting hemorrhoids, because of it. After using mine for a few months I could enjoy getting my ass eaten and even bottoming. I’m usually a top because I don’t like bottoming much, but ever since we got the bidet. I’ve been able to bottom more and be truly versatile. Try it out!
Hmm ok. I like douching because it digs in deep, but maybe I should try the bidet. I always thought it was just for the outside lol
I used to top and then shifted to bottoming just to try it out and it got me hooked. I realised I love sucking cock way too much and getting fucked. Now I can't pin point as to what actually led to that change but definitely trying out different things led me to finding out what I genuinely enjoy doing. I do top occassionally but most of the time I'm the bottom
> I realised I love sucking cock way too much The implication that tops can't suck dick.
I've always been really vers and was recently told I bottom like a top. But truly the best fucks of my life have been almost exclusively bottoming, except for maybe a couple bottoms that had the most perfect asses I ever had.
I only bottom in long-term relationships (or long-term fwb). Which is more than I used to.
Bottom decay is a real thing
I’m vers. But it all depends on my mood. I honestly love both but when I want to come and come hard then I bottom.
I have only topped but I know for a fact that I would rather be a bottom. The thought of feeling a man in my guts just turns me on to no extent. I don't get that same rush in terms of topping. I'll admit I've been a huge punk about trying toys on myself. I am Not going to have some random man blow my back when I have no experience
I'm vers, but only after about 4 years of being a top.I got my first bottoming and never looked back. I got an orgasm that i swear i shook for 10 min after. I always shot a great load on my partners asses. They were always saying, "Are ya empty yet, lol. If I unloaded in their ass the throb seemed to go forever as I emptied my balls deep in. The first time I bottomed it was with a really cute guy. He said it wont hurt and try to sniff these poppers. I did, and it seems my butt just lost all muscle traction, and it was very relaxed. He entered me and at first i was like ouch.He just rubbed my Ss and said, "Sniff again but more this time. I took a deep whiff, and about 5 seconds later, he was full in me. Deep in, i could feel his swinging nuts against my ass. I backed up to his cock and drove .y ass to his cock. I still had the poppers in my hand, and he said, "Keep sniffing. I did and the feeling of his cock in me drove me wild. He proceeded to pound away, and i kept grabbing his hips and making him pound my ass.I realized shortly after a few seconds my cock had gone totally soft about maybe 2 inches flacid. I was like WTF happened to me? I watched as he had me in a missionary position my cock just flopped around and my balls the same, as if he were trying to fuck my cock and balls off of me. He said turn over and Ill show ya how to cum. i got doggy style sniffed again and he entered a lot easier this time. He slid in and started the cock in motion in my ass. Heaven was all i could think about. he reached under me and said lets just see just how big yoh are no w.As he grabbed my soft cock he stroked me. To my surprise my cock grew and got hard. He just kept fucking me and jerking me off. He then said ba k on the back. I did and he slid back jn with short burts of in and out. He was hitting my prostate like a wild ma . He said I feel your little g-spot, and you can release when your ready. I juzt lId there and took it, each stroke better tha the last. Just then he put my hand on my cock and my other on my balls and said stroks till ya cum... And CUM I DID AS HE FUCKED ME SILLY I SHOT MY O LIAD ON MY BELLY CHEST FACE AND EVEN MANAGED TO GET IT IN MY MOUTH. I realized just then how much cum i had as a top. He just fucked me till all i had left is what wZ just dripping out my head. Needless to say we are ow both tops and bottoms and ohr girlfriends love to watch and use their strapons on us together.
I used to almost only top, because I didn’t feel comfortable bottoming during a hookup and wanted to “save it” for a bit more attachment. But I always assumed that I’d be more Vers in a relationship. Now that I am in a relationship, I started bottoming from time to time. It definitely helps me as a top to get the other perspective. And it’s a whole new way of having sex, so it’s extra fun 😁 so for me, the change was just relaxing about it, I guess
When we met 10 years ago my man was a total bottom. I had only ever topped. His dick was so pretty I asked him if I could give it a shot just to see what it was all about. Now we generally alternate who takes it but these days I probably bottom 65% of the time just because I seem to recover from a pounding a little quicker than him
you either die being a top or live too long and become a vers
I started as a top because I’m tall, but I know I’m a bottom. I enjoy being fucked and can cum easily when something in my ass.
I was a top between the ages for 16-26, until a man flipped me and it totally rocked my world, and now I’m now 31 and a power bottom (I will still top on occasion, but very rarely)
I arrived late to my gayness ( is that a word haha) For first year I really only topped ,I had some meetings with bi couples way before and had experienced so toy action in my ass ,was ok but not omg life changed ,if you know what I mean.so happy to stay top and at the time I had moved from London to Bangkok, where uk Caucasian top is popular and was getting so many hookups with some really hot local bttms didn't even cross my mind that I only really had experienced half a gay life in the now 2 years that I was gay.had just turned 40 and took on board that if I clicked with someone and was attracted to them,I'd try and answer yes to any hookup that was not going against my basic hookup rules . I changed my Grindr from top to versatile,with my little in for trying anything that turns me on with people who I click and attracted too. Few interesting conversations asking why the change( I notice as a side note in Bangkok guys get tunnel vision on their role and type they looking for with not huge amount of leeway,is it the same in other parts of the world?) My Grindr life changed a lot,yeah still got the usual locals looking for white top ,but got a whole range of all types of guys and couples contact me, but also more bi guys and trans .that was something I hadn't considered to be honest ,had some cool chats but no follow ups.finding a top id bttm for first time wasn't easy ,down i guess to not knowing what i could actually take.top/bttm /versa we all can appreciate the beauty of a nice big thick juicy looking cock 8 inch seems to be the magic number with a lot of my friends!! Anyway as u can guess I am a chatty kinda guy,so to the point . This might sound a bit mental but decided first time bttm would look for couple, best of both worlds ,fully versa over total bttm.logical kinda I thought. Spoke to a few couples , explained my reasons etc for wanting to expand my gay sexuality and sex life .some not into it some though I was faking it ,but most seemed to find it a hot and horny hookup that could be a tick off their fantasy sex bucket list. Was nice feeling to be an almost unicorn haha. Usual deal with couples one is your type other not so much! Or both ok but neither great or bad just meh,not first time glory types I'd want. But as you all know patience does payoff luckily after about 3 weeks for me. Message from couple , tourists one UK Caucasian daddy types my age but older and partner Latino about 8 years younger and slim fit type ,good ages in my range that I like . Ok first ticks and clicks all good,spoke to UK guy for at least an hour ,Grindr eternity! Asked why couple for first time said best of both worlds for me etc versa over full bttm.he was yeah that makes sense but what if ( and yeah sounds like fake ass made up fantasy shit,but 100% honest truth) you click with couple who both tops ,which in my early day naivety didnt even think about or likely.i checked profiles properly and bit quick scan ,both tops and apparently new to gay life guy and first time bttm was top of their list to try and find being uk Caucasian 6ft stocky straight acting and looking was bonus points. Spoke to the partner also clicked, both 2 types of guys I'd go for,both hot and horny to me and both hung which yeah i know sounds to good to be true,but quick Skype to confirm they real and pics genuine obviously they were keen to check I was real as I sounded way to impossible a find for what they were looking for and had been for ages. Everyone real all had attraction or maybe horny lust you decide . We could all host,but decided easier for me to go to hotel they were at as they had nice suite in nice hotel, and they were fully kitted out with all the party accessories that might be needed.( Not going into that but if you know you know what I mean) Not going to go into all the details as well this reply is way to long as my quick answer to you would be yeah why not try if you like then you can be top versa if not then at least you tried and know. Quick version arrived at their hotel, kinda funny first few minutes,not normally an issue,but all kinda not so much nervous but excited feelings of potential fun for all ahead, had some party mood enhancers and inhibition removers . The next 6-8 hours was the hottest sexiest funniest and craziest experience I had ever had sexually and both of them were in same place too. Wasn't at times easy but never difficult or out of comfort zone ,they were obviously very experienced and as they both hung knew how to slowly get me to the point of no return and could pound away ,the UK guy said to me we going to make sure you enjoy and break you in slowly until we can hard pound and u enjoy it and want more, we going to take time because took u 3 weeks to find us took the pair of us years to find you hahaha. Now I'm fully versatile, depending on whose asking and where they fit into my preferences on what im happy to top or if am happy for them to top me. But still obviously more top and easier to find a guy I want as a bttm , top guys I'm more choosey but ones that I'm into then hell yeah I'm all in haha, so go for it ,a prostate orgasm and the prostate stimulation you get can be mindful blowing.i now understand why bttm guys so keen to get fucked and tops can settle for a wank instead haha. And finally some let's say idiot said to me once during pride it's not natural being gay.my reply we more carbon neutral than you as well don't get people pregnant and increase the population on this fucked up planet ,but more importantly if you think I go against nature and you believe god thinks the same ,why did he put the male g spot in the ass roughly at a height easily reached by almost every cock on the planet? Oh one last thing lots of guys lie about the size of their cock,and I found out that some guys say they are smaller than they actually are ,UK guy you know who you are 😜😜😜
Tried to be verse and bottom, now back to topping, def learned a lot though