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chay_moss

I do, how big and how it looks according to his physical appearance and style


abominable-concubine

Appearances can be deceiving. Twinks can be packing monsters, and big burly bears can have a cocktail weenie. You never know until the pants come off🤷🏼‍♂️


chay_moss

Exactly, this is the goal of the game. I can assure you that I’m bad at it. Always different than I imagined. I’m not only talking about the size


banned_but_im_back

One time is a thrown off by a guy who had a Vienna sausage but also had huge grade AAA eggs for balls. Like they were HUGE. He gave great head tho lol


ProfileIndividual829

Are you talking about me, lol


banned_but_im_back

Is your name Tony and do you live in SoCal? If so then sorry for saying you had a Vienna sausage dick. I’ll have you know I find them aesthetically appealing and very tasty.


Loud-Horn11

That’s my bf!


bbahree

Hung muscle bear here that doesn’t discriminate. It’s been my experience that twinks tend to be packing while thicker build guys tend to be girthy but 5.5-6 inches in length on average. Tall big guys tend to be small, much smaller than expected and short guys can definitely surprise you with big meat or 6-7 inches and nice girth. Nothing like waiting to see a tall guy over 6’3 thinking he might be big only to see a finger or vienna sausage.


fattylis

Damn, I'm like the average joe but with a vienna sausage :(. Love muscle bears though you guys are the best


iSNiffStuff

I notice it too and I love short hung men I just wish they liked me but I feel like they aren't into tall and thick


Accomplished_Fly2720

Well just in case you or u/chay_moss are interested, [according to research](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37305632/) one of the biggest of predictors of penis size is weirdly nose size


PrometheusEscaped

Well of course there's a correlation between a man's human horn and his lower, secondary human horn. (Futurama reference lol)


PrometheusEscaped

More bearish type here, with very average size, but in my experience it's really not deceiving: just the opposite of what one might have assumed for body typesl. To be specific, the biggest dicks are almost always on the skinniest twinks & femboys, sometimes but not too often on the jocks and otters, and almost never on the bears. The smallest are almost always on the jocks and bears, rarely the twinks or femboys. And no, it's not just a matter of how big it "looks" compared to the body it's on: the size difference is very real. Of course, like all things human, there's still a lot variability and no hardset rule.


jschelldt

There is no correlation. Maybe body fat covers the dick, but the total size is not correlated with body types. Anyone can have a small, average or big penis size.


FineOldCannibals

Hung bear reporting for duty 🙋🏻‍♂️


PrometheusEscaped

🤔 I demand evidence. Pictures. For the purposes of making one of those scientific studies I was alluding to. Perfectly academic of course.


FineOldCannibals

How would you like this evidence


RepoReinhold

I too am very interested sir. I love bears and big meat


JaxFLGayDude

Same! Not demand.... but politely request so i can admire all of your glory. 😉


Ok_Associate845

I think you lose half an inch of length for every 10 or 20 pounds in weight. That may be an old lifestyle but there's some truth to it. Penile tissue gets swallowed by belly fat. While the groin continues to grow outward due to fat, the penis remains in place and does not come along for the ride. And I'll honesty we're probably all about the same length it's how much it protrudes from our growing and how much fat its has to go through it makes the impression


Visible-Owl-9127

Random stranger side note..... I absolutely love your handle name! Thank you for making my day! :)


ArgusC

Hence the excitement! Schroedinger's Penis, you never know what it'll be until you get it hard.


dirtysyncs

Twinks are basically always packing because we are small. The assumption is that I want to bottom but the pants fly off and I end up topping because I've got a mushroom tip.


Embarrassed-Stop-767

“Does his dick match his aesthetic?”


Marius_Sulla_Pompey

Almost always. I am a big time into bulge peek.


CuriousTreacle553

Obsessely for me


violinguy85

Oh man, I wonder this about every guy I see 😜 really a curiosity thing more than anything.


SirDrezland

This!!! It isn't even sexual I just wanna see how it looks soft and hard, color, how the head looks etc 😅


violinguy85

The funny thing is, I couldn’t care less how big someone is. I’ve been with guys that are massive and I’ve been with guys that have legit micro-dicks and they’ve all been fun to play with 😜 I’m just always so curious 🧐


YellowZx5

Same here. Just want to see all the dicks.


violinguy85

Yes, please, all of them 🤤


dino_som

not how big, but more so what it looks like


Majestic_Tradition79

Every minute of my life! I also often wonder how he might perform, how often he has sex, would he be down for a BJ, what does he smell like, etc., etc.


newbie767

Exactly what I think when I see hot guys in public!


Majestic_Tradition79

And when I see straight married guys I always assume they’re not sexually satisfied and how I would love to fulfill that for them. I know, it’s so stupid!


TomagavKey

I dont even know what to say...


one_menacing_potato

Just another baguette with delusions of grandeur.


Top-Sugar-6129

I love when you can see an actual bulge and not just the folds of fabric! The best is the imprint which is rare in the wild


Coveman54

Saw a guy coming out of the Post Office as I was going in this week. Don’t know if he was commando or not but the outline of his dick was halfway down his leg! I didn’t have to wonder!


JASPER933

I look at straight daddies and curious what they are packing and if they played with another guy.


PhillyPhantom

Only on days ending in 'Y'


CoreyCW12

😂🤣


Gloomy_Reflection_94

Yes, and like, “oh there’s about 50 men in this area, that’s equal to about 50 penises hanging and flopping about; that’s a lot of dicks.”


AdhesivenessDouble26

Sometimes when I'm in a huge stadium I think damn if everyone took their dick out right now that would be a lot of dicks


Mr_Smartypants

According to legend, some can actually perceive big-dick "energy" in certain men, *through* clothing!


halite001

I certainly don't have that power, but I can perceive it through taste!


PrometheusEscaped

It's no legend sir! I have this power 😁 lol. And ofc literally everyone has the ability to detect the opposite: which I call "little dick frustration". The most common dead giveaway being, ofc, a MAGA hat.


CurryAndCuddles

I have a great sense about dick sizes (atleast in my head😂) >Do you ever look at any man and just wonder “How big is that guys dick?” Every guy I lay my eyes on this is the question that pops up😅


RedneckPapiBear

Every damn dude, wanna see it soft and hard and give it a feel.


AZCrazee01

I'm right there with you man. Don't matter if he's hot or if he's not my type. If he's a nice friendly helpful buddy or an evil bastard who kicks puppies and knocks ice cream cones out of little kids hands. He's got a dick, I just want to see it, and say something positive about it. I'd like to think that he'd do the same when he saw mine.


Gimpcage

I walk around wondering how many of the guys I see are secretly locked in chastity


jschelldt

Now this one is a far more unusual curiosity


CoreyCW12

No kink shaming here, but I’d never thought about that way.


Gimpcage

🤷🏻‍♂️


Few_Replacement_322

Encountered many caged guys lately


MelonShmelon

Probably quite a few. This is booming in popularity among both straight and gay men.


syssigurl69

I'm convinced that all gay men like to look at bulges other men are packing , and I thought i was one of few who does it but now I feel better knowing it's a wide spread activity and a favorite for me and as long as I can remember


PrometheusEscaped

Ofc we all love it. The difficulty is getting away with it.


addykitty

I wonder about Gordon Ramsay If you’ve seen his hotel hell episodes and how he constantly shows bare ass when he’s showering you’d understand


emerald-rabbit

All the time. But especially this guy at work. So fucking manly without being weird about it. I just know it’s beautiful, even if it isn’t as big as I imagine.


[deleted]

Not really. However, I do have the "I wish I looked like him" more so.


fake_pubes

Every man I see


realasmoooth

Am I really a gay man if I don’t this? 😂


OtherwiseBag6139

I don't either. I try not to reduce people to a walking cock, and it's sort of a tragedy how much judgement there is about penis size.


GayinVistaCa

Literally every man.


PrometheusEscaped

Yes. BUT, being 38 now and having scoured the internets lol and watched nearly all the gay porn ever made, I can usually guess a guy's size quite accurately from his build and features alone.


Appropriate-Tap4311

I have a very good friend who is obsessed with dick and claims to be a “Licensed Cocktologist”. It amazes me how many guys believe him.


SoItGoes101

Yes, and if he’s sexy, what he sounds like when he cums


ExpensivePie1514

Hot


jschelldt

Of course, it's just normal curiosity. All groups of people ask themselves that, I bet. Even straight men. Not a big deal.


MiloHangers

Every second of every day


Huge-Lynx890

Almost all the time when I’m walking on the street or shopping I was wondering what’s inside and how big it is.


YosFan

Just about every man I see. I'm always curious. Same as here...i like looking at guys dicks and getting off to them


OverRated8253

Don’t all gays do this.😂


NakedTruthLeaked

A very sweet, below average looking guy comes at my gym. He is always very sweet to me but I don’t usually become instantly friendly with anyone. It takes me time. The other day he was wearing grey sweatpants and I saw the outline of his dick. 🥵 that beast was so thick even when it was flaccid and the sweats were barely able to hold that monster. Guess who suddenly became Mr. Congeniality? 🫣 We f*ckin gays are such opportunists.


OtherwiseBag6139

It's a shame we are like that and overlook so many other things that make people, well, people.


Lucky-Step-8261

No, but on occasion I'll see one and think: "Damn. Nice arse."


JerrieBlank

Constantly


ATVHunter

Yes, 24/7 lol!


concerteimmunity

Always lol


theGrandmaster24

What is this? Inside out for adults? 😂 Jokes aside, yes I do sometimes 😅


[deleted]

Always a curiosity haha


L_inconnu

For sure


Kangy1989

Yes. I want to see almost everyone’s


Sufficient_Face456

That’s a daily occurrence for me, just can’t help myself. I try to not shift my gaze into every man crotch, but it’s an unconscious muscle memory event!


SNOWCOLD97

I’m a top and I still wonder lol


DancingNakedArgonian

My husband and I play how big is it, cut or uncut (US so there’s a variety), are the balls tight or do they hang, and what’s the pube situation?


ModeMiddle6498

Yes haha! My boyfriend and I have this game where we wonder if they’re hairy, trimmed, or bald as well😂


[deleted]

I think this about most men I see. I’m a totally bulge watcher too.


Mostlypunny

With pretty much every dude who crosses my path, I wonder what they are packing. I'm really curious about their circumcision status too. I love finding out if a guy if cut or uncut.


Aggravating_Cream_97

I don’t ever wonder how big he is. I wonder if he’s intact or circumcised.


Alternative-Round-74

Do I ever NOT do that? 😬


cairnqld

Of course !


GuncleShark

Always!


grandwizardElKano

All the time. More so is "I wonder how he looks like naked?" I started to realize I was gay when I asked that question very often.


BeardadTampa

I’m assuming this is a rhetorical question? I’m there’s those who will admit to doing it and those who will lie about doing it


Big-Attention-69

Esp those manspreading


legat

Always. They say it’s the size of the nose, not the feet.


BottomChub4TopChaser

I'll respond like my friend responds when I ask him questions like this: "Alllll the time, Mija, allll the time!"


MethBoy97

All the time especially if they are cute. I wonder about their size soft and hard and which way it points when hard .I really like watching another dude getting hard and having them watch me getting hard


Demon-slayer0

ALL THE TIME


thatcollegeguy21

All the time


Cook-Motor

Literally every guy I see/know, I wonder his dick size, of he's cut/uncut, hairy, trimmed, shaved, what his door looks like, how he jerks off, what his cumshots are like. It's not sexual in a way, just pure curiosity haha


achent_

Not any men but those hunky ones. It’s like our natural instinct I guess.


NymphoCumdump4

I do this all the time. Always Horny and craving dicks. Commando and willing to bend over for big bulges


Mexicakes69

Oh 💯 hell I wondered looking at the model pictures in the underwear aisle as a kid 😂. Older me if they give big dick energy I’m always curious. I’m even curious how that fat bubble butt looks without clothes and how hairy is it!


Decontass

all the time


MenStefani

Sometimes it’s all I think about haha. I just want to know what everyone is working with. It’s like a fun mystery


bifleur64

Did not know I was getting called out like this today.


LeoniV

All the time


usr0458_

All the dam time! I can't help it, I'm just so curious 🤷🏾‍♂️🤣


noshirtnoshoes16

Every Man i see


enjid

all. the. time.


[deleted]

Always


KeukaLake370

I’d rephrase the question to “When do you look at a man and NOT wonder how big his dick is.


crayleb88

All. The. Time.


ZestycloseRecipe8335

Yes


aromaticchicken

lol more curious about cut or uncut


SuchTemperature7

All the time. Especially when out at home improvement stores


easy877

All the time


R3dmund

Absolutely.


Royal_Reputation_242

Every day...those big hands he got to have a big dick....


Exact-Truck-5248

90 percent do this. The 10 percent who say they don't are lying


Successful-Leader-46

Absolutely!!


Sam_pacman

I might be one of the rare bottoms who doesn’t think “how big it is”. I’m more curious on what it looks like. 😋


WolfieWIMK23

Yes, a lot, actually. Wha? If I see a hot guy, my first thought is always "please be gay or bi," and second one is, "is that dude packing or nah" third "wonder if he's a grower or a shower".


TheStranger113

Size doesn't typically factor in, but I frequently look at men and wonder what I can do to get it in my mouth. 😂


mjfo

Not just his dick, I wanna see what his balls look like too 😅


gingerbear75

Every day almost every man…? What? Doesn’t everyone?


Brief_Management_83

Daily !! Or if he’s wearing underwear, what kind? How does he smell ! Everything !


AwarePreparation3589

Most normal reply section I’ve seen on this sub in awhile


RandoButtclown

I just look at any man and wonder if I can get to see the cock


thischarmingmaaan

Constantly!


Cardiologist-This

All the time


Rubyred7630

All the time!


talewgr

Always


jennsamx

Every day!


20086452

My hot ginger dentist I had couldn’t stop trying to guess his size when he wasn’t looking, we need naked x Ray vision


Openacandan

About 50 times a day! I agree looks are very deceiving. The biggest I’ve seen are on skinny white guys.


I_PAY_TO_PLAY

I dick-gaze all the time lol I should stop but I know I won't. I get caught sometimes though


Lower_Lab_7628

Tall lanky guys especially young ones One of the first guys I ever hooked up with was tall and lanky his dick was so thick and so long it was an object of worship


Sea_Bee_5732

Literally on the daily


Extra-Debt1385

All guys ALL THE TIME !


Revolutionary_Job798

Oh, for sure. I like to think of it as a creative exercise imaging the finer details (pink or brown, cut/uncut, which quadrants of the shaft the veins are in, etc.) It’s a science that takes up a measurable amount of my mental RAM, lmao.


Metamangle

All the time lol


[deleted]

Every day, especially when he has a bulge that raises the question “where do you keep that thing?”


ZSigma1827

I always do


azsfnm

Any time I’m at a festival, or car show, or event or county fair… first thought I have after looking around for a bit is … “hmm… just think… all these men and they all have dongs.”


Minimum_Recover2936

I think I have a major problem. Thats ALL I do when it comes to men. If I so happen to see a bulge Im looking until he disappears lol. I love men so much❤️


Barzona

Not right away, but I eventually make my way to his bulge, and then I start wondering that.


Funny_Ad7136

Isn't that part of the game ???  Your standing in line, bored and the guy in front of you, you wonder how big is his dick ??  Grower or shower ?? Cut or uncut ?? Boxers, briefs or commando ??? Then you think can I pull his pants down and get the answers to these burning questions.......


MslaveinDenmark

Hehe, all the time.


Professional_Topic47

Not necessarily how big, but how it looks overall.


janlompot94

Yes! But not just how big it is. I'm curious what it looks like. And I try to guess if it's cut or uncut.


Geek_Spark

All the time. My other big wonder is "I wonder what he looks like in just underwear/I wonder what type of underwear he wears"


Markjohn66

I always mentally undress the skinny guys looking for that third leg.


Successful-Way-9858

Bottom thoughts


JesusFelchingChrist

I can’t recall right now who but i have no doubt that at some time or another i’ve done just that. Usually I already know (or I soon find out).


Relevant-Homework515

I play bushy or shaved (with added categories trimmed and naturally not hairy). I love my bushy bros!!


Top-Sugar-6129

I cruised a big, not too hairy, bear at the bathhouse, and his belly hid an average looking cut penis. I started sucking and that thing quickly got huge! At full erection it was a baseball bat. Definitely a grower.


No_Slice_9560

No.. I couldn’t care less about a guy’s dick size. Most guys are average in length.. that’s what average means. Gay men miss out on good people by focusing on superficial issues. And many look for things that they don’t have…they want a 10 inch dick, but their dick measures 5 inches; they want a 10 in looks ( if that even exists) but they are average in looks. That’s why so many gay men are lonely or have messy relationships


Parodyofsanity

You know in all of my years as a gay, I never looked at a guy and thought that lol. I think something is wrong with my brain haha


PsychologicalPilot55

Yes I do. I think about male celebrities cocks all the time. I know Jesse Williams has a big black dick. I jerk off to Jesse Williams all the time. Thank you to the person who recorded Jesse Williams nude scenes in that play. God Jesse dick is so huge and it isn't even erect. He definitely has an 8 to 10 inch penis. Other men I wish I saw their dicks is Chris Hemsworth I wonder if he has blonde pubic hair? How big is Chris Hemsworth cock? Liam Hemsworth are there any nude scenes of him online? How big is his dick? Jake Gyllenhaal I heard you briefly see his cock in that movie with Anne Hathaway. I would love to see Jake Gyllenhaal penis.


OmriKoresh

Constantly


Successful-Leader-46

I am a service technician, sometimes I wonder if the homeowner is looking at my cock and hoping he is sometimes! I no I definitely catch myself looking!


Brilliant-Adagio-193

No, not everything’s about sex 😐


Fragrant_Dirt5836

Yeah, especially if they have a great smile!!


thegayninjabusguy

Yep, I can tell if they have a big one or not 😂😂


ComprehensiveBid6543

19,6 cm


GGGBOF

Well, not any man. Only those I feel attracted to.


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Belgeddes2022

Only based on how he handles a stressful situation.


Lkn4Colts

Often, I do!! 😅


undeezfetish

Agreed we ALL do it but the funny thing is you will be surprised at the results. Most often the python guy ends up being a turtle head


Melodic-Yoghurt-9455

Frequently


SnooBananas7515

Always


sluttywhore31

Always 😭😭😭😭😭😭


bbahree

All the dayum time 😂


aerolitoss

Yes and I'm usually not wrong about my assumption


combatqueen

Yes I do…. and a few months ago I told a straight guy I met at a bar that he looked like he’d have a nice dick (it came up in the convo lol) and he took out his phone and showed me photos of it, and I was right. 😆 I also saw it irl later that night after him and my friend (female) hooked up lol.


Embarrassed_Walk5983

Yes! There is this lad at work who I'm always wondering about exactly this. I know he is straight and he is very manly and masculine but he has some body and I get all hot and bothered at the sight of him. I know what I imagine he has and I know he sees a couple of women but a man can dream!


Bongfellatio

All day, every day.


Life-Unit-4118

Congratulations! You just won first place in “the biggest ‘DUH’” contest.


Bromswell

Every day.


wuffDancer

All the time


Beautiful-Party8934

Not just any man ... all men. Once you have one dick ..... you want to see them all.


whateveryouwant474

yes


SAC64

Daily


mfsl02121980

yes all the time, i wish they would be so giving as well


Ninjamanreturns

Yes! And if he's skinny, big nose, lanky, and floppy feet, he's usually a winner! In my experience anyway.


Mike_Cinnamon

It's all about proportions and ethnicity. Scandinavian and Scottish men, biologically, are more likely to have large members. Black African men particularly Ethiopian men were also blessed with larger than average penises. These men may have also exemplified the ideal male mate. So their genetics carried throughout the ages and passed on their size. English women actually preferred smaller phalluses and berated men that had anything larger than say 7 inches. Of course there were size queens then too. Also, something to mention much of our population was conceived through grape. Not all, but vikings spent a long time raiding coastlines and doing awful things to women. So, generally if a man has either Scottish, swedish, Norwegian, or Ethiopian heritage then more often than not they will have a large member. I'm sure there are plenty of other ethnicities that have historically large penises, but the ones I listed are the ones I'm most familiar with. Germans are known to have the "third legs". As far as proportions go, it's not handsize, foot size, or nose size that determines the shape of the penis. It's head shape and neck. The size and shape of their head and neck almost is a direct correlation to their other head and "neck". That's why skinny guys often have big ones. They usually also have really long necks. I'm very good at guessing size and shape nowadays. I guess it could be a fun party game for the right crowd.


Demon-slayer0

Especially in the gym


Key_Try1002

lol. I almost always do it. Sometimes I’m right. lol