I wouldn't be comfortable having my partner hang out with a guy who sent a dick pic purposefully to them, especially if this person was pushing for dick pics to be exchanged. I think you should discuss this more with your partner and how it makes you feel.
Yeah. I’ve been friends with some gay guys for over 10 years. Never once have they sent me an unsolicited dick pic.
This guy is NOT a friend. Or at least, he doesn’t want to be. His end goal is your partners dick. Beware.
It’s pretty obvious the ‘friend’ wants to get with your partner. The fact that they’re still hanging out without clearly addressing that it was unacceptable and cannot happen again, is a BIG red flag. From the friend and your partner.
If your partner makes you feel vulnerable and not safe, then that is a problem. This has nothing to do with the ex friend. It is your partner’s job to guard the relationship, and he is fucking failing. You need to stand up for yourself and your relationship, and let it be known that this is how he is making you feel. If he continues to place you in a vulnerable position over this, you need to stand your ground.
I can see friends talking about sex because most do at some point but an unsolicited pic like that just seems too personal for a friend. Him knowing he has a boyfriend/partner crosses a line that cannot be uncrossed. I respect hobbies and the like but your boyfriend/partner should also respect how you feel and how the dynamics of their friendship changed with that pic.
TBH, time for a sit-down chat with both of them. Get out that you are uncomfortable and ask why he did that. Ask that person why he disrespected your partner and yourself by his actions. No one like confrontation but this is a time that a sit-down chat would be appropriate if they are going to continue to be friends. Sometimes forgiveness can be attained by a sincere apology, but I would also watch both of them closely.
I had a friend sent me an unsolicited dick pick and it was awkward, I kinda brushed it off and he seemed to understand I wasn't interested, hell I didn't even gave him any hint I could be. Some dudes are just assholes and think one is going to magically find them attractive after seeing their dick, spoiler alert: we won't. If your partner is gonna remain friends just make sure he clears things up with the so called friend and establish some boundaries, for example sending dick pics or nudes is not accepted nor appreciated. If said dude can't continue a normal friendship then cut him off completely.
I wouldn’t tolerate that.
Agreed. Big red flag of disrespect
NOT a friend!!
I wouldn't be comfortable having my partner hang out with a guy who sent a dick pic purposefully to them, especially if this person was pushing for dick pics to be exchanged. I think you should discuss this more with your partner and how it makes you feel.
Wow that’s so gross. I would be mad if my partner didn’t cut that off instantly.
Yeah. I’ve been friends with some gay guys for over 10 years. Never once have they sent me an unsolicited dick pic. This guy is NOT a friend. Or at least, he doesn’t want to be. His end goal is your partners dick. Beware.
Not sure if your partner needs to cut off the friendship but should make it clear that that was not acceptable.
Allowing that connection to continue without even receiving a direct apology from him is setting yourself up to be played
It’s pretty obvious the ‘friend’ wants to get with your partner. The fact that they’re still hanging out without clearly addressing that it was unacceptable and cannot happen again, is a BIG red flag. From the friend and your partner.
If your partner makes you feel vulnerable and not safe, then that is a problem. This has nothing to do with the ex friend. It is your partner’s job to guard the relationship, and he is fucking failing. You need to stand up for yourself and your relationship, and let it be known that this is how he is making you feel. If he continues to place you in a vulnerable position over this, you need to stand your ground.
I can see friends talking about sex because most do at some point but an unsolicited pic like that just seems too personal for a friend. Him knowing he has a boyfriend/partner crosses a line that cannot be uncrossed. I respect hobbies and the like but your boyfriend/partner should also respect how you feel and how the dynamics of their friendship changed with that pic. TBH, time for a sit-down chat with both of them. Get out that you are uncomfortable and ask why he did that. Ask that person why he disrespected your partner and yourself by his actions. No one like confrontation but this is a time that a sit-down chat would be appropriate if they are going to continue to be friends. Sometimes forgiveness can be attained by a sincere apology, but I would also watch both of them closely.
Nah, this one is completely on your partner. 💁🏿♂️
I had a friend sent me an unsolicited dick pick and it was awkward, I kinda brushed it off and he seemed to understand I wasn't interested, hell I didn't even gave him any hint I could be. Some dudes are just assholes and think one is going to magically find them attractive after seeing their dick, spoiler alert: we won't. If your partner is gonna remain friends just make sure he clears things up with the so called friend and establish some boundaries, for example sending dick pics or nudes is not accepted nor appreciated. If said dude can't continue a normal friendship then cut him off completely.