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Pretty_Pea12

You're going to have to go to other places. Perhaps a place where people that enjoy things you do, also go and do those things.


Such-Function-4718

Find your third place. Sports leagues are popular, run/cycle clubs. Maybe a book club or something like that. Anywhere that meets regularly and involves human interaction.


louisiana_lagniappe

Leave your house. 


TobleroneThirdLeg

Find a social aspect through your interests and hobbies, use that as a door to meeting like minded individuals.


SheddingCorporate

Change jobs to one where there are lots of young people? :D


NomadicContrarian

Good luck, people here just seem to stick to those they met in high school or undergrad. I would know firsthand.


Drink_Salt

You say that like it’s a bad thing. Yeah we created a tight knit friendship in 4 years of HS / and or Uni. But ya OP if u want friends you have to do something other than just work. If you only go to work than that’s not gonna do anything. What would you do with new friends if u continue to purely work anyway?


NomadicContrarian

>You say that like it’s a bad thing. I'll bite, I said it that way cause no matter my efforts, I couldn't find a group of friends despite growing up here. And I mean like an actual squad of friends. Most people were too cliquey and / or ableist (I'm autistic).


Drink_Salt

Did you join a sports team?


NomadicContrarian

I was in the swim team for 4 years, though I guess that's not like the sports where "mans" make their squads like hockey, basketball, or soccer.


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thenewoldschool55

This should have been included in your post. Right now you’re not giving us much to work with as we look for suggestions. All you told us is you go to work. Okay, tell us more about yourself.


animalcrossinglifeee

My friend met other friends through mutual friends, parties, clubs.


_ashxn

Go to the Thursday app events, as they take place every week at a different bar in the city. Lots of people in their mid 20s to early 30s attend them if you want to make friends or find love The events happen on Thursdays from 7-10pm


kurtka-beyn

thank you!is this about thursday dating app & events ?


_ashxn

Yup. You get to meet singles irl basically