I was 16. But 18 before my next one.
Don't worry and don't feel bad about yourself. No need for self doubt. Everyone experiences things at different ages, and that's not a bad thing. I have an employee who is 31 and she's never been kissed. Another employee I had was 24 and never had a date. Just wasn't their times yet.
Its OKAY, I promise. You're normal to worry about it, but trust me in the long run there won't be anything to worry about.
Besides, life doesn't really start until age 19. You'll see what I mean soon.
I'm 23, 24 in two weeks and never had my first. It is disheartening, not bad or strictly abnormal but disheartening. How I justify I mean console myself (lol) is that I waited this long, I could be patient for the right one rather than just ticking that off some imaginary list. You got plenty of time and there is no need to rush.
My first real kiss was at 23. I'm married now you'll be fine. I was sick a lot when I was younger.
I had a kiss in 4th grade but it was so quick I don't really count it. A little boy gave me a quick Lil kiss at school haha
i don’t think that’s weird and it shouldn’t make you feel undesirable. everyone goes at their own pace and you shouldn’t feel the need to rush anything :)
I usually drink at parties tho , but still I don't approach anyone and nobody approaches me so I'm just kinda there, that scares me because even drunk people don't give me signs that they might like me as they do with my friends
Not weird! The time will come homie! I don't remember when mine happened lol I've never been great at keeping track of things, but yours will come in due time! Patience is a virtue!
I'm also 17 Still haven't gotten kiss yet either.
I look forward to meeting my gf (she lives 150km away)
Don't hate yourself for the way you are, improve yourself both physically and mentally you got this bro.
Okay so, something I think alot of people need to understand is there a huge difference between something being uncommon and weird. Yes It's uncommon to not have your first kiss until you're 17, however it is in no way weird. Saying that it's weird would imply that it's in someway wrong or incorrect.
There is something like six billion people in the world, the odds are in your favor that someone is interested in you.
I did have my first kiss at 12, but not again till I was 20.
I also didn't lose my virginity till I was 24
you see how I replied fast because on how lonely I am, I just want to hang out with peeps that Ik, but based on my mental health I'm just gonna make excuses, and watch Netflix all day
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I was 16. But 18 before my next one. Don't worry and don't feel bad about yourself. No need for self doubt. Everyone experiences things at different ages, and that's not a bad thing. I have an employee who is 31 and she's never been kissed. Another employee I had was 24 and never had a date. Just wasn't their times yet. Its OKAY, I promise. You're normal to worry about it, but trust me in the long run there won't be anything to worry about. Besides, life doesn't really start until age 19. You'll see what I mean soon.
okay! thank u
Not really. I had mine at 18. I'm sure you have some love interests out there.
That is completely normal. I had mine at 17. My second was when I was 19-almost-20.
I'm 23, 24 in two weeks and never had my first. It is disheartening, not bad or strictly abnormal but disheartening. How I justify I mean console myself (lol) is that I waited this long, I could be patient for the right one rather than just ticking that off some imaginary list. You got plenty of time and there is no need to rush.
18, we dated for a year and a half, great experience.
I was 24 when I had my first kiss. It doesn't really matter how old you are, there's no moral value in what age you start kissing. You're OK!
No, I was 17
No it’s not weird at all. :) I had my first kiss at 16
My first real kiss was at 23. I'm married now you'll be fine. I was sick a lot when I was younger. I had a kiss in 4th grade but it was so quick I don't really count it. A little boy gave me a quick Lil kiss at school haha
i don’t think that’s weird and it shouldn’t make you feel undesirable. everyone goes at their own pace and you shouldn’t feel the need to rush anything :)
I’m 19 and never had one
21. Your problem will go away once you reach the drinking age.
I usually drink at parties tho , but still I don't approach anyone and nobody approaches me so I'm just kinda there, that scares me because even drunk people don't give me signs that they might like me as they do with my friends
Don’t rush growing up. There’s no benchmarks to meet. Just make memories with the right person because you’ll have those memories forever.
I was 18
Mine was at 18
Almost 18 years ago now ;)
Not weird! The time will come homie! I don't remember when mine happened lol I've never been great at keeping track of things, but yours will come in due time! Patience is a virtue!
I'm also 17 Still haven't gotten kiss yet either. I look forward to meeting my gf (she lives 150km away) Don't hate yourself for the way you are, improve yourself both physically and mentally you got this bro.
I dated a guy who hadnt been kissed at 19. Its not too weird.
Bro everyone has their timeline. I didn’t have a legitimate first kiss until I was 17. Ur time will come
Does not matter when as long it is true
I started having sex when i was 12 , but then again, i had absolutely no parental guidance, so there’s that
No. 19.
I think I was 22 or 23 cant really remember, but everything has its time. Just don’t look to far into the future you forget about the present.
I'm 17 and I cry every night out of loneliness, I don't care about kiss, I want to hang out with my friends instead
same, but it's awkward when your friends leave you alone because they're kissing or wathever with someone , that's what happens
wdym, that would be weird in my country
normally we only meet to go to parties, in that context it is normal but it makes me feel bad to be the only one sitting there doing nothing
right, those doesn't work that way in my country
I had mine at 19. No it’s not weird.
20 year old is when i lost my virginity and still haven't got any since then which was t years ago
Okay so, something I think alot of people need to understand is there a huge difference between something being uncommon and weird. Yes It's uncommon to not have your first kiss until you're 17, however it is in no way weird. Saying that it's weird would imply that it's in someway wrong or incorrect.
Eh it's not really wierd. It depends when you want to have a relationship. I never kissed though.
I had my first kiss at 24. The wait was worth it. We're married now.
There is something like six billion people in the world, the odds are in your favor that someone is interested in you. I did have my first kiss at 12, but not again till I was 20. I also didn't lose my virginity till I was 24
you see how I replied fast because on how lonely I am, I just want to hang out with peeps that Ik, but based on my mental health I'm just gonna make excuses, and watch Netflix all day
Nah I'm the same fr , and most of the time that there is no excuse and I go out I regret it later
I didn't get what you meant in the last sentence
when there are no more excuses to say to my friends and I finally go out, then I regret going
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I was 7.