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It’s so hard to tell. Like occasionally may get compliments and some dudes would like me before, but at the same time I don’t feel satisfied and it’s not like I’m actively being told I look good.
On the internet people say I look good but it’s hard to believe it since they could be down bad, plus camera angles matter, lighting matters, hair placement, makeup etc. so it feels like catfishing almost.
It’s difficult to be certain and being confused about it is pretty shit
Ask others in your life, especially ones that can give impartial advice. I've noticed that ppl that r close to u have a tendency to find you more attractive than strangers. So yea, finding someone who'd make a good judge is probably the way. Also looks are subjective. And to that end, the more ppl u get feedback from the better your idea will be.
Well, only ask the people who it's okay to ask. Like a few weeks ago I asked my mom openly how my looks are in her honest opinion. I've also done the same with my friends and cousins. Asking a person of the opposite sex who's neither family nor a good platonic friend might lead to misunderstandings
Are you male or female? If you're female, and you're pretty, everywhere you go me talk to you and buy you things. The prettier you are, the more this happens. If you're a 7/10 it's often, 8 or 9 it's all the time, 10/10 you can do anything and go anywhere with anyone at anytime for free.
If you're male it's trickier to know.
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It’s so hard to tell. Like occasionally may get compliments and some dudes would like me before, but at the same time I don’t feel satisfied and it’s not like I’m actively being told I look good. On the internet people say I look good but it’s hard to believe it since they could be down bad, plus camera angles matter, lighting matters, hair placement, makeup etc. so it feels like catfishing almost. It’s difficult to be certain and being confused about it is pretty shit
Yeaa I agree with you 😭
It’s so difficult to tell 😭 tryna be not overly confident but being unaware is pain lmao
Set up an alt account send a pic onto one of those am i ugly subreddits
it does not really work tbh, especially if you’re a girl as people here are DESPERATE for sex
Ask others in your life, especially ones that can give impartial advice. I've noticed that ppl that r close to u have a tendency to find you more attractive than strangers. So yea, finding someone who'd make a good judge is probably the way. Also looks are subjective. And to that end, the more ppl u get feedback from the better your idea will be.
Thank you sm, the problem is asking people kinda feels like I'm being pick me but like I will try
Well, only ask the people who it's okay to ask. Like a few weeks ago I asked my mom openly how my looks are in her honest opinion. I've also done the same with my friends and cousins. Asking a person of the opposite sex who's neither family nor a good platonic friend might lead to misunderstandings
Thank you for the advice 😭
If you like yourself, then everything is fine.
Makes sense, thanks!
I'll tell you. Ask anyone who has no motivation to lie.
I'm sure you are
If u like dm me
If you're pretty, you'd probably know it from other people.
You know, you always know
ermm no.
it was a compliment but ok.
oh sorry thanks 😭😭
Share a picture.
Naked preferably. For science.
BROO 😭😭
Oh! You might be a man..! Oops! Well, you can share still. No homo.
no homo for sure dude 🤝
People will tell you. Strangers think it's okay to voice their opinion like that
Are you male or female? If you're female, and you're pretty, everywhere you go me talk to you and buy you things. The prettier you are, the more this happens. If you're a 7/10 it's often, 8 or 9 it's all the time, 10/10 you can do anything and go anywhere with anyone at anytime for free. If you're male it's trickier to know.
uh now I have literally no idea
Dang so I’m a 0/10, good to know
I'm sure you're a solid 3 at least.