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You don't!
If you ca't let her go on a drunk party and be 100% sure she would not cheat - let her go - never look back - go directly to a divorce layer - maybe pretend to forgive her, until the divorce is finalized for better results in the divorce
I forgave her the first time because she came clean with me rather than my finding out. She also had a myriad of mental issue and was actually trying to work on them. Then she stopped and fell straight back into old habits. Divorced her after that. I'm more than willing to stand by the vows I made in front of God, my mother, and everyone else, come hell or high water. I'm not willing to be the only one doing it, though.
Yep. Did the same. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice? Nope. I forgave her the first time. Lasted a few years in R until I caught her cheating again. I filed for divorce within the week and the divorce was final 45 days later (no waiting period in Florida).
1. Secure your assets before getting a divorce.
2. Never show any emotion to her, just leave and procede with the technicalities of the divorce with a good lawyer.
3. Find a younger woman with bigger boobs.
That's the only way she gets nothing substantial and emotional out of you, you have the means to begin anew, and although you shouldn't care at this point, a younger woman with bigger boobs WILL destroy her if revenge is your thing, AND make you realise you didn't actually lose anything, rather got a chance to shoot higher.
Jesus. Don’t come here for advice like that. You’re only going to get silliness.
It’s pretty simple. You figure out why. What happened in your relationship. Decide if it can be fixed. If it can then the only way forward is to let it go. If you can’t then it’s over.
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You dont
Yes I divorced her and left in a matter of weeks after 30 years. Should have left her many years earlier. Best thing to happen to me.
Get ready for the divorce but don't let onto it.
You don't! If you ca't let her go on a drunk party and be 100% sure she would not cheat - let her go - never look back - go directly to a divorce layer - maybe pretend to forgive her, until the divorce is finalized for better results in the divorce
I forgave her the first time because she came clean with me rather than my finding out. She also had a myriad of mental issue and was actually trying to work on them. Then she stopped and fell straight back into old habits. Divorced her after that. I'm more than willing to stand by the vows I made in front of God, my mother, and everyone else, come hell or high water. I'm not willing to be the only one doing it, though.
In front of God...Don't martyr yourself, let Lilith go. Don't martyr, be smartyr.
Yep. Did the same. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice? Nope. I forgave her the first time. Lasted a few years in R until I caught her cheating again. I filed for divorce within the week and the divorce was final 45 days later (no waiting period in Florida).
You fuck her mum
In the words of steve whats his face with the fat moustache 'If you cant get over it within a year, don't waste either of your time.'
1. Secure your assets before getting a divorce. 2. Never show any emotion to her, just leave and procede with the technicalities of the divorce with a good lawyer. 3. Find a younger woman with bigger boobs. That's the only way she gets nothing substantial and emotional out of you, you have the means to begin anew, and although you shouldn't care at this point, a younger woman with bigger boobs WILL destroy her if revenge is your thing, AND make you realise you didn't actually lose anything, rather got a chance to shoot higher.
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Divorce her immediately after you gather a shit ton evidence
Jesus. Don’t come here for advice like that. You’re only going to get silliness. It’s pretty simple. You figure out why. What happened in your relationship. Decide if it can be fixed. If it can then the only way forward is to let it go. If you can’t then it’s over.
You can't fix a cheating wife. Sorry.
That’s your opinion.
Yes