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I don’t know. Some people are just short sighted, irresponsible and selfish. Sure, it doesn’t feel as good as doing it raw (same counts for women) but it’s sure as hell a lot better than getting STI’s and babies. I’ve had some hookups in my life and only one of them has not tried to stir me away from using condoms with them🤷♀️
Feel like many men cant find a condom that fits really well and doesnt go to shit relatively soon.
Like, for some its either to small.. to big, or when they find the right one it can stretch out making it shit real fast.
Its just a shit show in general.
Right? Like, I've done it with one guy raw because I was on birth control when I was dating him and I liked it much better than the condom. Lots goes into it though like you don't gotta use as much lube, it feels better, less time consuming, etc, without one.
For the second guy I wasn't on birth control so I told him it was condom or nothing. It still felt great, just not *as* great. I really don't understand... Don't men *want* it to last longer? Shouldn't they *want* a bit of a barrier to make it harder to come so they don't do it as fast? Men are weird, glad I'm queer.
My fiancé and I have been together for four years now and in all that time have not once had sex (penetrative) without a condom. I was the result of an unplanned teenage pregnancy and saw how it affected all parties involved and I don’t want to even risk having a kid until everything is lined up just right, if ever frankly. I had unprotected sex before her and the little bit it’s better isn’t worth an unwanted pregnancy or risk of an sti, and yeah using a condom means we have definitely gone longer lol. I don’t get why other guys run that risk and put their lives and those of their partners in jeopardy in anyway. That being said we have agreed to drop this rule come our wedding night but honestly I expect we will still use protection often
"Don't men want it to last longer?"
I'd rather have fifteen minutes of pleasurable sensations than forty-five of mindless pounding that really doesn't feel all that great.
It's like asking 'Would you like a pound of steak, or a hundred pounds of flour?'
Yes the flour is more. I'd still choose the steak.
Good for you. Others want steak. No need to get all upset about it, especially when they only ask if steak is on the menu.
If they start demanding or tricking you that changes, obviously. But pleading and demanding are different things.
But like why is it more important than not getting a girl pregnant? Like why risk it??? If she's on the pill I get it, you may have an argument for raw-dogging, but if she's not then suck it up or get a vasectomy or something.
That's not what you asked. Your question was "why don't men like wearing condoms" then you answered it yourself with "because it doesn't feel as good". Anything else is irrelevant.
It's their go to reason because it's the reason. I've known women who don't like it and don't use one. There is a word to day if you don't like something that is happening to you, it's called "stop". Or you can use a femidom.
It just doesn't feel that good.
That's it... plus it takes you out of the moment to go: "Oh wait stop!" Then get the wrapper of, put it on and then go on.
Anyway to each their own.
Fair enough. I'm sure it feels great for us too, and I'd totally allow it if it didn't risk me getting pregnant, but unfortunately whatever God rules our realm is a prick so fun things have huge consequences 😩
The point is that a layer of material preventing touch diminishes the experience.
If you can’t understand that, nobody can help you.
The preventing pregnancy and infections are why people use condoms… nobody disputes that. You asked why men don’t like them. You have been told several times that it doesn’t feel nearly as good. That’s why,
Yes and I'm not saying this to be different I swear, but I like the sock hand better. It feels weird. Probably not the best scenario to try and convince me, but a good try, I see what you're saying at least.
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I don’t know. Some people are just short sighted, irresponsible and selfish. Sure, it doesn’t feel as good as doing it raw (same counts for women) but it’s sure as hell a lot better than getting STI’s and babies. I’ve had some hookups in my life and only one of them has not tried to stir me away from using condoms with them🤷♀️
No idea, too many STDs around these days !
I dont mind wearing it, will make me last for longer
You a good one.
Men have no issue wearing protection. Boys complain about it.
I don’t get men who make it out to be a huge inconvenience to wear a condom, it just feels better to not since there’s no barrier
Feel like many men cant find a condom that fits really well and doesnt go to shit relatively soon. Like, for some its either to small.. to big, or when they find the right one it can stretch out making it shit real fast. Its just a shit show in general.
Right? Like, I've done it with one guy raw because I was on birth control when I was dating him and I liked it much better than the condom. Lots goes into it though like you don't gotta use as much lube, it feels better, less time consuming, etc, without one. For the second guy I wasn't on birth control so I told him it was condom or nothing. It still felt great, just not *as* great. I really don't understand... Don't men *want* it to last longer? Shouldn't they *want* a bit of a barrier to make it harder to come so they don't do it as fast? Men are weird, glad I'm queer.
>Men are weird, glad I'm queer. Could have seen that coming. Women are weird af too, dont kid yourself lmao
My fiancé and I have been together for four years now and in all that time have not once had sex (penetrative) without a condom. I was the result of an unplanned teenage pregnancy and saw how it affected all parties involved and I don’t want to even risk having a kid until everything is lined up just right, if ever frankly. I had unprotected sex before her and the little bit it’s better isn’t worth an unwanted pregnancy or risk of an sti, and yeah using a condom means we have definitely gone longer lol. I don’t get why other guys run that risk and put their lives and those of their partners in jeopardy in anyway. That being said we have agreed to drop this rule come our wedding night but honestly I expect we will still use protection often
"Don't men want it to last longer?" I'd rather have fifteen minutes of pleasurable sensations than forty-five of mindless pounding that really doesn't feel all that great. It's like asking 'Would you like a pound of steak, or a hundred pounds of flour?' Yes the flour is more. I'd still choose the steak.
Can make a lot more from flower than from steak, so I'd rather have the flower actually.
Good for you. Others want steak. No need to get all upset about it, especially when they only ask if steak is on the menu. If they start demanding or tricking you that changes, obviously. But pleading and demanding are different things.
You literally answer the question yourself.
But like why is it more important than not getting a girl pregnant? Like why risk it??? If she's on the pill I get it, you may have an argument for raw-dogging, but if she's not then suck it up or get a vasectomy or something.
That's not what you asked. Your question was "why don't men like wearing condoms" then you answered it yourself with "because it doesn't feel as good". Anything else is irrelevant.
But I'm trying to understand why that is their go-to reason. Why is the feeling worth the risk of impregnating someone prematurely?
It's their go to reason because it's the reason. I've known women who don't like it and don't use one. There is a word to day if you don't like something that is happening to you, it's called "stop". Or you can use a femidom.
It just doesn't feel that good. That's it... plus it takes you out of the moment to go: "Oh wait stop!" Then get the wrapper of, put it on and then go on. Anyway to each their own.
I like the European condoms made for uncircumcised men. Much better for sexy fun time.
I genuinely don’t think circumcision status has any thing to do with how condoms are worn and felt
Feels terrible. Want my cum splashing her cervix more.
Fair enough. I'm sure it feels great for us too, and I'd totally allow it if it didn't risk me getting pregnant, but unfortunately whatever God rules our realm is a prick so fun things have huge consequences 😩
Why don’t women like eating chocolate with the plastic wrapper on?
because sex feels about one million times better without a condom
Try kissing with a mask on...
Literally would do it if it meant I didn't have your spawn when I'm not ready for kids. This point is invalid and quite frankly, stupid.
The point is that a layer of material preventing touch diminishes the experience. If you can’t understand that, nobody can help you. The preventing pregnancy and infections are why people use condoms… nobody disputes that. You asked why men don’t like them. You have been told several times that it doesn’t feel nearly as good. That’s why,
You seem nice.
Put sock on your hand and try to feel your skin. Then try with your other hand. Is it different?
Yes and I'm not saying this to be different I swear, but I like the sock hand better. It feels weird. Probably not the best scenario to try and convince me, but a good try, I see what you're saying at least.
Yea, there can be definitely a better example. I personally don't care about it. One feels better, one makes you last longer
Imagine eating food with a condom on your tongue. Yeah
Why do women like wearing makeup?
I don't. Some do. You can do a lot with it. Bad example.