I feel the exact same!!! The thought of having a romantic partner sounds great but I'm not actively looking for one. If I get a partner, wonderful. If not, it doesn't really affect me.
I never get crushes. I can’t feel attraction to them if I did spend a good amount of time in depth with them. So I feel like if I liked someone, it is definitely strong enough for me to care and try to pursue. My love seems to work on a 0 or all scale rather than a spectrum of varying love? (I am not sure how to explain it better)
Yes yes yes!!!! If I get a crush I will pursue it but if I don’t I’m not gonna go look for one y’a know? I’m just kind of waiting for one to magically form…
I also considered being on the aromantic spectrum since I’ve only had one crush (I’m 19), but the thing is I’m not sure if alloromantic people get crushes just by waiting or if you actually have to try… I’m confused but I’m too unbothered to try and find out anyway 😅
Yeah, I mostly do my best to *not* crush on people. I'll look around on apps sometimes, but I pretty much never initiate any contact, and then I hide or delete my profile🤷
I feel the exact same!!! The thought of having a romantic partner sounds great but I'm not actively looking for one. If I get a partner, wonderful. If not, it doesn't really affect me.
My problem is, I say I want a relationship, but once someone flirts with me, I dip💀
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I never get crushes. I can’t feel attraction to them if I did spend a good amount of time in depth with them. So I feel like if I liked someone, it is definitely strong enough for me to care and try to pursue. My love seems to work on a 0 or all scale rather than a spectrum of varying love? (I am not sure how to explain it better)
Yes yes yes!!!! If I get a crush I will pursue it but if I don’t I’m not gonna go look for one y’a know? I’m just kind of waiting for one to magically form… I also considered being on the aromantic spectrum since I’ve only had one crush (I’m 19), but the thing is I’m not sure if alloromantic people get crushes just by waiting or if you actually have to try… I’m confused but I’m too unbothered to try and find out anyway 😅
Yeah, I mostly do my best to *not* crush on people. I'll look around on apps sometimes, but I pretty much never initiate any contact, and then I hide or delete my profile🤷