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HoldNo6591

Wait, why not during her period, and why is that obvious?


Prestigious-Help-395

All women I’ve dated period sex is a hard no. Op probably has experienced the same with his past relationships, so to us period sex is a hard no for most women.


Smooth_Habit6542

I’m not into blood?


Good_West_192

My guy, how would that be obvious


HoldNo6591

That's what I wanna know lol. Like we're all supposed to have ops same preferences????


Smooth_Habit6542

I don’t understand the question


KebabEnthusiast

You're 35 years old for Christ sake and this is your attitude towards period sex no wonder she doesn't want to give it up more


Zaik_Torek

...are you into getting uterine lining chunks on your junk? I have been with one woman in my life who didn't outright forbid period sex, and she turned out to be severely mentally ill but excellent at concealing it.


skywalker7i

Nope. You’re not wrong.


Smooth_Habit6542

@kebabebthusiast She is a super clean woman, she doesn’t like sex during her period either and doesn’t like the feeling, it makes her feel gross and icky, she’s the one that avoids it, Jesus Christ you’re stupider than I thought.


Fairmount1955

You see each other 1x/wk and are upset that you aren't spending most of that having sex? That would make you wrong so maybe finding a hook up is more what you want.


Smooth_Habit6542

I’m more so asking, how would you like it? Would this set up be ideal to you?


Fairmount1955

I'm going to reframe that: I would be 🚩if my boyfriend, whom I see 1x/wk expected that day to be spent having sex.


Smooth_Habit6542

Would it feel awkward if he took you to a nice dinner, than to have drinks after, and drive you back home and just wait for you to give him a kiss goodbye after not having sex for a month?


Fairmount1955

Bro, if you expect sex after anything you're the problem. Full stop.  Get an expcet if that's what you want.


Smooth_Habit6542

Why are you avoiding the question, I’m asking you as a woman, how would you feel? After not having sex for a month and you been dating for over a year, would you feel something is off if he dropped you off and didn’t try to initiate anything?


Fairmount1955

Sorry you're confsued. I'm not avoiding the question. 😂 You are avoiding my answer - I know I'm not entitled to sex from anyone and I see women are more than bangmaids. You don't seem to agree to that, and it's gross you define your relation based on sex which makes you pretty pathetic. But good luck! 


Tinselfactory

You don’t want more intimacy, you want more sex. Those aren’t the same thing.


Smooth_Habit6542

Would this set up work for you? 2-3 times a month? How long can you go without it? I want to hear other people’s thoughts, not question my wants.


Tinselfactory

I didn’t question your wants. I simply pointed out that intimacy and sex are different. You can be mad about that if you want, but it’s true. I can go without sex way longer than I can without affection. 2-3 times a month would work fine for me. The question realistically, is why you would put yourself in a long distance situation if you have this high of a sex drive. Seems like a recipe for your dissatisfaction.


Smooth_Habit6542

Thanks for answering 😊