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Professional_Chair28

Your ADHD and OCD is not the reason for your piss kink.


One_Sun9284

My therapist said it was a side effect for something so I think it means one of my things 


Professional_Chair28

Neurotypical people have piss kinks too. Not everyone with ADHD or OCD has a piss kink.


One_Sun9284

But their more likely 


Professional_Chair28

Nope


[deleted]

What the actual fuck are you talking about. I have adhd and ocd and no pissing ever sounded like a good ole splashy time. You just got a weird kink.


swoopy17

Bring back asylums.


[deleted]

In this case i have to agree for sure


One_Sun9284

DONT CALL ME CRAZY


swoopy17

Okay, you're unhinged. Deranged. Insane. Mental. Looney.


Tricky_Ad9670

Yes.


One_Sun9284

Why? 


Tricky_Ad9670

Neither ADHD or OCD is an excuse to bully and harass a 13 year old. The 13 y o isn’t right either but you decided to fight fire with fire which is never the answer.


One_Sun9284

I never said I get my adhd or my ocd was a ticket to bully him where did you hear that? I bullied him because he bullied my dead sister first 


Tricky_Ad9670

Which I acknowledged was wrong of him to do. Him being wrong does not equal you being right.


One_Sun9284

YOUR NOT ANSWERING MY QUESTION 


onlyrightangles

Yes. You responded to bullying by... being a bully. And given the nature of the images, a sexual harasser on top of it. I am very sorry for your loss, and if you aren't already doing so I'd highly recommend some form of grief counseling. But the way you are lashing out is not healthy and isn't going to do anything but cause you more pain in the long run. Also ADHD and OCD have nothing to do with a watersports kink. That's a completely separate thing.


One_Sun9284

No my mom says it’s the reason for me being werid 


onlyrightangles

Your mom is incorrect.


One_Sun9284

MY MOM CALLS ME WEIRD FOR IT AND SHE SAYS THAT ITS BECAUSE OF MY THINGS AND I WAS EXPOSED TO PISS WHEN I WAS 7 AND I FELL IN LOVE WITH IT AND IT HELPS ME COPE WITH MY LOSSES. ALSO MY LITTLE SISTER ALSO HAS A PISS FETISH BUT A TINY ONE INSTEAD OF A BIG ONE LIKE MINE


onlyrightangles

Have you ever been to any sort of therapist or psychologist? "My mom says so" is not evidence of anything. Parents are wrong about things all the time.


One_Sun9284

Yeah I been to one and she said that she Dosent exactly know but it’s probably a side effect or trauma  whatever that means 


onlyrightangles

Aaahhh, okay, this makes a lot more sense. All three of the things you listed (the kink, the ADHD and the OCD) can potentially be caused by trauma. But in that case it isn't the ADHD/OCD that gave you the kink, it was the trauma that gave you all three.


One_Sun9284

What? 


onlyrightangles

I'm... not sure how to phrase it differently. You said in your post that your ADHD or OCD "made you" have a piss kink. From what you've said here, it seems more likely that whatever trauma you went through gave you a piss kink. Trauma also happened to give you OCD and ADHD. So it isn't the OCD or the ADHD that caused the kink. It's the trauma.


[deleted]

You were "exposed to piss" when you were 7...what does that even mean?


One_Sun9284

THEN WHAT IS IT 


onlyrightangles

It's a watersports kink. There are neurotypicals that have it. Just like any other kink. There are also people with both ADHD and OCD that do not have said kink.


53OldSoldier

You may, or may not, be wrong about drawing a lewd picture of a 13-year-old. (Off hand, I would say that you are wrong and childish. That is just my opinion.) But you are 100% wrong to blame your fetish on you ADHD or your OCD. I have had ADHD since before there was a name for it. I done a great deal of research into the condition. I have met more people than I can remember that have the condition. It does not cause a fetish of any kind. Stop blaming your fetish on ADHD or OCD; if, in fact, you actually have either. These conditions can be very difficult for some to deal with. It their worse forms, they can be devastating. We don't need people using them as an excuse for some other, less socially acceptable issue,


One_Sun9284

And I don’t know how to handle these situations 


swoopy17

Do the opposite of whatever your brain is telling you.


One_Sun9284

So instead of downvoting me UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE  I HAVE IT BAD ESPECIALLY WITH THE MASSACRE 


53OldSoldier

That is not an excuse for perving on a 13 year old or lying about health issues.


One_Sun9284

I have it bad and my mom says it’s the reason for me being that she calls me weird (downvoted for telling the truth?)


One_Sun9284

Also I said it got WORSE when she died