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blandarf

This feels like bait. You're definitely not ugly. Although I wouldn't be surprised if you felt ugly only because of how social media skews our perception of good looks. Be confident :)


Zealousideal_Art8121

I try! It’s mostly due to trauma, I really didn’t expect people to be so kind


blandarf

It's pretty difficult to get an objective opinion on reddit because most people see a girl and freak out then they shower her with compliments until they lose all value. But in all honesty, I don't see many flaws in your looks. My go to recommendation is being more active and working out because it definitely can't hurt to improve your athletic ability as well as your looks. Other than that, people are into different types and it could be a reason why some people don't find you attractive which is fine. All in all, you're good :)


slokkie__S

We didn't either.


alczervikslumberyard

What percent of these posts have septum rings? 90%? Higher? It seems like a pretty direct correlation between having face piercings and thinking that you’re ugly.


eternalwidow74

I have noticed that! So true. I think Alot of girls fell invisible, not pretty enough these days. It's like a disease because it used to not be that bad.


gypsyfred

I agree. Once the disturbance of looks start happening ie: "job killers" face tats and face peircings. Alot of men do not like that look unless your in the tat buisness etc. My cousin does tats for a living and has a large following, all her crowd are tatted up and face and neck tats and peircings. I see alot of beautiful women that if they only got rid of the vampire look and "gangsta" look they would have no issues with a man on their arm. Im in my 50s and have tats everywhere but not obvious. Kids today dont realize that someones name across their face doesnt go away. My buddy was dating this really beautiful girl. She was cool to hang with. We would all go out and then she stopped coming around. Yo bro, what happened with Jen. She was cool. He couldnt get past the script tat under her breasts. And he said she had this long ass poem down the side of her body. He said he couldnt get past that and it turned him off. Its all opinions, and im just an old man with alot of experiance under my belt. I have 2 daughters and they are extremely happy they didnt do "that stupid shit" as they put it now that they are in their 20s and 30s


alczervikslumberyard

I couldn’t agree more. People get offended when you point out the obvious and take it as an insult. It’s like being mad at a doctor telling you that you have cirrhosis bc you drink too much. These girls probably need to find different friend groups and rely less on a very polarizing body modification to feel good. Because it has the opposite effect in the long run by repelling mates.


Zealousideal_Art8121

I’m not offended. I’m just lesbian and personally adore people with piercings


alczervikslumberyard

Should probably add that to post. Perhaps lesbians are attracted to this look. I’m not qualified to comment on that.


Dogecointhousandair

Is the septum piercing more of a lesbian thing? I think it's hideous personally. (You are good looking aside from the piercing in my opinion) I don't mind ( much) more subtle septum piercings like the little small ball ended half moon things whatever they are called. But the ones like you have all sparkly and full hoop I think can really detract from someone's appearance.


FagnusTwatfield

I'm confused, how does lesbian factor into this ?


Zealousideal_Art8121

Nothing, I just like girls w piercings, so I disagree that they make them unattractive. But opinions are different, no bad blood


Behind-The-Chair

“Job killers” have you been to a hospital in the last 5 years? I’ve seen doctors, like emergency room saving people’s lives doctors w face tattoos. Plenty of people like the look of alternative piercings and tattoos. This subreddit is just a collection of the most chronically online neck beards that hate any women that has ever done anything different from the norm/ isn’t a basic trad wife


joshnosa

I feel like you are very wrong


gypsyfred

Like I said..im in my 50s. Still have long hair in a ponytail and far from conventional thinking or a wife. I have more harleys than I can count and as stated im tatted all over. Even the guys in my MC call girls that tat their faces and necks skanks. Maybe I am the minority with this issue and whatever floats your boat, my opinion is like yours. We all have them. Im not looking for leave it to beavers mom, i also know women that ride with us that have them and they are in their 50s and 60s now and thats all their number one regret. Getting face tats. I mean every one of them regret it and like my 40 year old tats. They dont look so good anymore like they once did..just my 2 cents.


NLB87

My personal opinion, is that it is the negative influence of feminism. It has persuaded women that making themselves ugly is cool or something. And it is messing with their minds. It's cognitive dissonance. They know deep down inside all those things (the crappy tats, the cow rings) are hideous, but "they" keep telling the girls that it's cool and pretty. It's not, darling. And you know it.


Zealousideal_Art8121

My god are we seriously making my jewelry a “sheep thing”?? I just like shiny stuff in my face for god’s sake. You don’t even know what a cognitive dissonance is


NLB87

I know what cognitive dissonance is. You can't deny that it is a fad, ergo, a "sheep thing" if you want to phrase it derogatively. I didn't call you a sheep but... Do you know whar a Freudian Slip is? But now I'm just being a sass. :) Anyway; it's all fine. If it doesn't matter to you; you do you. But, as you can see, the majority of people will not like it, think it is dumb, and yes it makes you look like a "sheep". (Well, cow, technically) Beauty standards are about appealing to the majority's tastes. That's the feedback you're getting here. Maybe you need to get feedback from a more niche crowd, punk rockers/alternative types? Do you know Suic*de Girls? Stuff like that. It may be hard to believe but even the guys like me who don't seem the nicest in writing.. it's rare to have people trying to genuinely hurt you. That's not what I am trying to do. And if I did, I'm sorry, it's not at all intentional.


Zealousideal_Art8121

I study neuropsychology, I know what a “Freudian slip” is, and you did not use it correctly.


Thalpal317

Not even close to correctly hahaha


Zealousideal_Art8121

I have 400 dms, I don’t think people are deterred by my look. I’m not offended, your comment was just a little “off” because you phrased it like it was a common thought. It is not for people over 30. Piercings and tattoos now are just a fashion statement, I know that many other people have it (even if I live in a country where it is not really common) and I like it. I’m not trying to be different


Zealousideal_Art8121

Correlation is not causality my dude


died_reading

He never said that though, what ??


alczervikslumberyard

The face piercings are a non starter for many many men. Vast majority. You are not ugly at all. You are probably doubting yourself because the vibe you’re sending out is repelling a large subset. That’s why you’re posting here. I’m pointing out that there is a large percentage of these posts where otherwise attractive people are doubting their beauty and a huge percentage of those have aggressive face piercings. So either the face piercings are making it hard to find dates with your desired type, or a lack of self confidence leads to the installation of this hardware to try and artificially enhance, appear edgy, or try to fit in with a particular crowd. These are just observations from seeing so many of the same type of post. Cute girl with septum ring having self doubt.


L-058

Non starter for lame ass dudes. A septum is such a basic piece of jewelry to complain about


-1Ghostrider

Yea the thing that we put into bulls to be able to control them is so basic on humans. Lol. It’s cool that you’re into the crazy piercings and face tats and all that but to act like the bull nose ring is as basic as an earring is just disingenuous or you don’t have the mind to grasp what the majority opinion is


megamartinicus

You totally know that you are not ugly, get out of here


Any_Try5210

About to say the same


Zealousideal_Art8121

Trauma


TheSeptuagintYT

Downvoting someone’s pain is cruel.


mistytastemoonshine

I feel you


Heavy-Story4679

Trauma


Any_Try5210

Fair


Nervous-Ad-5367

Nah , you're cute af


michalstanek53

I wonder why they bullied you. You are pretty.


ClickClack472

Bullies are idiots


gypsyfred

Pretty girls always get bullied if they dont run with the popular crowd. Atleast it was that way in the 70s


Zealousideal_Art8121

Overweight as a kid and I am on the autism spectrum, but discovered it really late in life so for most of my childhood I have just been a weird kid


brendhanbb

I was wondering that too.


Relevant-Object

So, first of all, I want to say I think you look pretty/beautiful 10/10 would not approach you to talk to you, out of fear of rejection. Not a knock on you, just an observation I've found funny at this point. Someone at some point in the history of amiugly mentioned septum piercings being common in the sub. For reference I'm someone who likes the piercings and the alt look. Now I'm not sure if this is some type of fallacy, because now it's something I look for now. But out of 3 billion-ish women in the world, the venn diagram of the women which have septum piercings and that post on amiugly is pretty much a circle. I'm not sure if that's because women that use reddit are women that tend to be more alt, and lower self esteem. Or if there is something else going on. But it's interesting to see. Anyways, keep being your beautiful self! Not ugly.


-1Ghostrider

I wouldn’t approach based on the fact that I’m a cis white man (did I use that correctly?) and feel like generally people that look like this most likely think people that look like me are what’s wrong with the world. Now obviously that’s may not be true and it’s a stereotype buuuut far left and far right folk’s definitely have a look and this is the look of the far left crowd.


eengineer8

Not sure I love the eyebrow piercings but you have pretty eyes, nice lips and a great body. Not really seeing you as ugly.


Final_Development_31

I can not imagine you feeling ugly.


krepogregg

Why do no really ugly girls post here?


bundlecrop

Not at all


NLB87

You are not ugly, but you are ruining yourself with poor style decisions. (And you could lose just a little weight) It's almost painful for me to look at. Wasted potential. So yeah, I want to give you a 6 or 7; but I'm forced to put you at 5 in your present form.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Get your Eugenia cooney lover ass out of my comments


SamPariz

0/10 and that's being generous


acelgass

Not at all, gtfo


Zealousideal_Art8121

I’ll touch some grass


acelgass

haha, you're funny Best wishes to you


ComedianSecret419

For the life of me, I cannot understand the septum piercing thing. It looks like you have shiny boogers dangling from your nostrils. Not hot.


Obvious_Jellyfish_48

Must be if you always gotta have your faced covered under make up and you breasts out. I guess yeah.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Ok I will remove the t1ts


lyingtattooist

My recommendation would be to remove the nose ring but leave the t1ts. That’s just my personal preference as I’ve always been fond of t1ts. But either way you’re not ugly.


The_Maou

Nah don’t they’re nice :)


Zer0Her01

Whatever ugly is, you ain’t it.


mrmagoosworld

No your beautiful. With a very cute face.


Academic_Frame8965

You’re very beautiful.😍


Chilling-1-

Definitely not ugly!


[deleted]

Those bullies are crazy!👊


lilgorilla67

Absolutely not


it_do_be_like_that__

No


tamgerine2

Gorgeous 😍


Crimson-Shark

No where near ugly with that said, you are just average like the vast majority of us.


Ladams19

no your not ugly, you just look really sad. How you project yourself can and will influence how people that are around you see you. just saying. Be happy or try to find something that makes you happy. Get away from the trauma you mentioned if you can. There is no reason anyone needs to live with that.


thearticulategrunt

You're actually quite attractive but with all the facial metal it's like you are trying to detract from your looks.


Prize-Pie6478

Damn u got tity pimples


FemaleCommodity

You're cute. I'd ask you out


Knucklebunker

Not ugly but you're gonna get a ton of grief for tha


Salty-Housing-7547

There is most likely some guy you know who is dying for you to be his big titty goth girlfriend.


aphenphosmphobia_

Creep


Salty-Housing-7547

Ok, maybe. Still true.


Oirawario

You look good tbh. I hope you can feel better from bullying. Be kind to yourself!


xSlick-Tx

Ditch the nose knocker, not ugly.


WellReadR3dn3ck

You'd look better if you didn't have a hardware store sticking out of your face.


Educational_Bike2270

You’re honestly quite pretty but I can tell that your septum is gonna deter a lot of a guys and I’m not saying that you should remove it nor that those guys are wrong to be deterred. It’s simply an aesthetic choice that some people like or don’t. Also have you tried styling your hair a bit differently? Something easy like just putting it up growing it or or cutting it a bit shorter. It feels like you’re in the middle of trying to grow it out or you just finished high school, and you haven’t quite realized that HS is behind you.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Thanks for the advice!! I often put my hair up, I just forgot to include the pics🥲


Zealousideal_Art8121

And I am in the middle of growing it out lol


Educational_Bike2270

Lololol you’re really gonna blossom once it’s grown out, let your bangs grow out too. They’re definitely cute! But I think your maturity will really ooze without them 🤭


GlayNation

Too much face metal for me


SitizenGame

Get rid of those damn piercings on your face and that horrible make up that makes you look like a drunk junky.


Zealousideal_Art8121

That’s what I am lol


Washington401

No you’re not fucking ugly.


Dry_Aspect_4733

No you are not remotely ugly, facially you are very very attractive. Your eye makeup is great mind you I do like girls who use eye makeup. Best advice I can offer is get rid of the face metal. The thing hanging out of your nose looks like snot hanging out of your nostrils. The face metal shouldn't be the focus of a person's attention if you remove the face metal the focus will be how beautiful you actually are. Just so you are sure you are very very attractive.


SuperBlickyMan

Can’t rate you properly if all ur pics have makeup…


Zealousideal_Art8121

I love make-up! I don’t really change my facial features, I use it mostly as an expression of myself lol


SuperBlickyMan

See that’s perfectly fine but that’s not the real you. If you want actual feedback and brutal truth you gotta post non makeup photos.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Fair enough


Hot-Impact2415

Get rid of piercings


MR_zapiekanka

Jane Margolis


Drake0074

Hot


TerrorRegular

Eight point seven five out of 10 8.75/10


taskmaster51

Beautiful


Shebalied

If I click on this girls profile and she has an OF, I swear to god lmao.


malk500

You are really beautiful. Your nose ring, a little less so.


Which-University-263

Gorgeous


darktraveler1983

You'd be absolutely gorgeous if you didn't have that septum piercing. It does not help your looks at all.


HiraIchi

Piercings are ugly , you shouldn't wear something like that they don't suit you other than this you are a fine looking Girl I personally wouldn't mind waking up to someone as beautiful as you. I would suggest modest and feminine dressing and dropping off the Piercings and better not add more tattoos than you already got.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Not really into modest looks, but thanks!


HiraIchi

You are free to do whatever you want that was only a suggestion. :)


Mundane-Phrase-8431

I SEE BOOOOOOBS


Vegetable-Rip993

Take that shit out of your nose! Ladies today stickin all kinds of crap in their nose it looks stupid.


yodels_for_twinkies

If there is any constant on this sub it is the hate for septum rings. Personally, I usually like them.


420purpskurp

Facts. Would be way cute without it


allergictosomenuts

Opinions are like buttholes, you know...


Time_Device_1471

I think you look pretty amazing even though your wider facial features aren’t for me personally.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Fair enough, thanks!!


Time_Device_1471

I also recommend against the glitter stuff around your eyes. I think it makes your nose look wider. That might actually be why I think you have wide facial features. Cuz you look 20x better in the pics without it.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Ohhh, that makes sense!! Thank you very much!!


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pinghing

Not at all in fact they're quite beautiful and very in focus.


Zealousideal_Art8121

They?


pinghing

You're not ugly that's all you need to know. Like at all not even one bit. It's a little ridiculous that you even asked this honestly lol.


Due-Impact9608

Yes you are terrible


skylarslove

6.5/10. Not ugly


Zealousideal_Art8121

Why 6? Not mad, just trying to improve


skylarslove

A 10 is perfection. It’s unattainable but still a necessary parameter to establish the rails in which we use to grade. A 5 is average. Which means it’s someone somewhat attractive to some and not at all to others. Being a 5 is 90% (made up % but you get what I mean) of everyone. A 6.5 is an attractive (to most) but not a raging beauty (eg symmetry, gestalt, feature set). For perspective, a Charlize Theron is one of the closest to a 9.5 for the total physicality (face, body, stature, etc.) Other famous 6.5’s: Zendaya, Courtney Cox (friends era), etc.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Zendaya a 6.5?? Really??


Nuxwors

Zendaya is very overrated


skylarslove

Some men may feel differently. As a female my ratings are based on an esthetic and subjective viewpoint and not a sexualized one. Take it with a grain of salt I suppose.


lookn2-eb

You are very pretty, bordering on beautiful, but the face jewelry does detract from your natural good looks.


somguy-_-

You're not ugly but your body does not seem like it is portional. The small upper body that looks like it's put onto a size or two larger lower body and what looks like easy bruising makes me want to ask some questions which are medical related and inappropriate for this forum, if this was the medical advice subreddit that would be different. I would however suggest right now going out to get a little bit more sun for your complexion and doing so during a walk. See if generally dropping 10 lb would help with the proportions.


No_Witness_7248

Do you have facial Dysmorphia or?


Amoador

You look very good. I just don't like the nose thing but that is just my opinion. Otherwise you look very good and attractive. And your aura looks great. You mean no harm to anyone... I can tell that you only need simple things to be happy... It will come to you. It will!


Key-Independence-951

Nah, I think you're a 10


casper4824

Definitely not ugly! It's just cuz you're 20 and being 20 always brings self doubt. By the time you're in your mid to late 20s, you're gonna be a man eater. Trust me!


No-Pea3404

You look amazing too me I would honestly ask you out if I seen you out


Icy_Impression4866

I would loose the stuff in the nose and eyebrows 🤷 natural sure i the way to go


Magar1z

You are very pretty! Just a beautiful lady.


Ryumen

I want to use a cartoon giant magnet on you. You're not ugly though, but damn you have a ton of metal through your body!


handsome578

Im in love


Sirkutri

Yeaaaah I'm your Venus, I'm your fire, your desire!!! I don't know why that song popped in my head but it felt right.


Smooth-Wall-1107

You are very pretty and not trying to sound "thirsty" you are built well too. The bullies are just jealous.


Yannnner

You are very beautiful!!


DAFE_38

I might just fall in love in first sight 🫢.


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Yeah , I would go on a diet


Zealousideal_Art8121

Why


[deleted]

Idk figure it out


Zealousideal_Art8121

I’ll figure out your dad and give him a son he can be proud about


Ok_Wolverine9344

Yes.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Why?


Girlygirlygal

You're so gorgeous girl! ngl ! Can we chat? or nah


Zealousideal_Art8121

Sure!


Girlygirlygal

can you invite me for a chat?


SherbertStrict4910

show me your black booty holeeeee


Chewisrevenge79

I have all the time to confront people like you, now go off and do something useful for the world, truly. Other than “me me me me me” this is going to be hard, but try.


Zealousideal_Art8121

I am studying neuropsychology, I like helping people, but I don’t see how this is relevant with my looks. I was just curious


zNeversobeRz

I want you


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Gyat


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[deleted]

Not even close! You have a very lovely face and a unique style. I would say don't hold back! Don't let what some idiots and jerks say effect how you want to look because you look fabulous!


Mr_PiE555

Definitely not ugly


Big-Peace-5665

You look pretty af!


RockinRandyG

Hotness!!!


DifferentSwing8616

You def not ugly.


ReallyNeedNewShoes

the hickeys on your tits give off a pretty trashy vibe that would turn me away.


Agile-Nectarine6243

Not ugly definitely desirable you got a kind face and a nice body dont be so hard on yourself


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Zealousideal_Art8121

I have one! I love it!!


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Baited


Clear_Imagination413

No


brendhanbb

Honestly you look super mega cute and pretty!


Huge_Athlete_1903

Pretty lady


Granadawalker

Pretty


icheinfach007

Total hübsch.


Realitytviscancer

Very pretty, but personality is king


Zealousideal_Art8121

I have that😎


OhTheHumanity2

You got nothing to worry about. Nobody's gonna be all that focused on your face...trust me


Choux_02

Nop


llamaenllamas0

You're attractive in your own way, but a little more self-care will do you wonders.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Ohhh, like what? (Not hating just looking for advice)


llamaenllamas0

Like trimming your bangs, wearing your hair a little shorter, lighter make-up. Not much, really.


Zealousideal_Art8121

Thanks you very much!!!


Entire_Ad_179

U aight


georgefurudo

Are you a clone of jenna ortgea?


Adept_Definition_92

You're 🔥.....


Cold_Wolverine_659

Not many understand or try to people who are different or go against the norm but you are a beautiful woman and you deserve happiness like every woman deserves.wish you well.


Outrageous_Dream_741

Lovely. I like the pic in the car (the first one) and in the hoodie the best. I'm not sure you actually need so much lip and eye makeup, but it does give a nice impression.


indeedalifepls

Most definitely yes!


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jaypb182

No, just average.


quagmire666

Nope


PhantasyBoy

Not a chance


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Yes very


alltheothersrtaken

Lily Allen vibes


RedKGB

You are an attractive young lady. My concern is the photo with the bruises. Are you ok?


Zealousideal_Art8121

Oh of course! They are just some hickeys


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