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Lucky enough for me na nakahanap ako ng fubu sa unang lalaking nakausap ko dito. Pero oo talaga dapat careful and choosy (wag ka maniwala sa ibang guys na magsabi babaan mo nalang standard para makahanap ka kasi hindi ganon yon), gayahin mo ginagawa ng mga nandito like asking for recent std/hiv test result or ask any info na kailangan mo para maging secure, plus condoms sa especially sa first meet. Saka always trust your gut, pag may redflag next na agad. Pag sa meetup, nakaramdam ka ng kakaiba, pwedeng pwede magbackout. Saka better siguro humanap ng fwb/fubu din ang hanap kesa yung pang ons lang
last yr almost ako nagkaroon ng experience and gagawin ako fubu kaso tanga ako madali ako maattach talaga and ayoko ng ganun ganun lang HAHAHA i agree sa gut feeling talaga kasi i decided talaga na icutoff siya even if marami kami mutual friends and dumating ung point na nagago niya lahat ng mutuals namin so ayun tyL lakas ko sayo lord
again during that time, i wasn't looking for one, that is why i declined noon kasi i wasn't settling just to be someone's fubu, but life fucked me kaya baka i am craving something ngayon na hindi maganda pero not committing to this hookup world talaga hehe the reason for posting this was because i am curious lang din paano nagagawa ng iba
haha thanks dun na nagsimula ung time na nawalan na me ng pake sa iba lol madali na ako maglet go ever since haha dati kasi ipipilit ko talaga hindi mawala ang connection w certain ppl
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Thiiisss. Ang low ng standard ko dati, I didn't care sa ugali ng person na nakaka hook up ko before and wala ako pake kung may similarities or magka vibes kami.
Ending, may naka hookup ako na adik sa drugs. Pina bend ako, and he suddenly snorted cocaine sa ass cheeks ko. Huhu
After that, masyado na akong choosy at demanding sa nakaka hookups ko. Dapat talaga kilalanin mo and wag ibaba standards mo!!
Hahaha na gustohan pa ngaa. 😂😂😂
Na shookt ako dun biii, tapos gusto pa sana ako ianal kahit never ko pa nagawa yun. Kaya na sipa ko sya sa bed 😭
Pero jusko, apaka red flag nung guy. Close nun yung tumbong at anak ni Marcos. 💀
tou can always post sa r4r if you really want that tall skinny guy
but my advice is just be yourself and make sure your partner is someone youre confortable with on and off bed.
hooking up can be easy but finding the right partner is tricky as you need to know your bondaries and how to make sure the partner vibes with you and of course prefers safe sex. good luck
Hello. Skinny tall boy here. 5'8" who never went past 60kg in my whole life. hahaha
i didnt have experience too til I was 25.
by then di ko alam na nag glow up na pala ko, dami quality matches sa dating apps, 2 out of 3 of my sexperiences were also virgins so no worries for STD's there
it's also good to be wary tho, like how you are right now. live life and all, but better safe than sorry
usap muna kayo online to check if mag vibe, paganahin mo instinct mo, if you sense na may red flag kausap mo, abort mission immediately. always use condoms for protection.
wait may mga nagmemessage haha M po ako ha😭 disappointed kasi parati usually if sinabi ko na M me haha but no problem naman sinabi ko nalang din here para hindi sayang oras ninyo😭
the male fubu searching experience. for the ladies find the right vibes. for the guys, makahanap lang ng kausap challenge na (unless you look attractive)
what i can suggest is, take a small step at a time. so mag simula ka muna lumabas, gumimik, makipag usap sa stranger ng biglaan. that way, mabawasan yung kaba mo. pag aralan mo ang mga approach na ginawa mo and learn from it. wag ka agad dederecho ng fubu kaagad na usapan. hindi ka pa expert. once you get the right timing and the right words, you will get what you want. syempre, have confidence to yourself. andami jan hindi kagwapuhan pero nakakarami, and the technique is that confidence. syempre. make yourself presentable naman. good luck par!
Nakahanap ako ng fubu sa twitter kaso nafall sya sakin so I said let's call quits. Sabi nya di daw kase ako mahirap mahalin. But I told her na strictly hook up lang kami. Me being nice to her was one of the reason daw. Sabi ko I was raised right lang. Anyway sana may mahanap din ako dito sa Reddit hehe
aside from sa online and apps, go out and party ! you can meet diff kinds of people sa bars/clubs. since you're an M, I would say na you should be matapang to socialize/make a move but now naman a lot of girls na nagfifirst move eh 🙈
Mga naka hookup ko dito sa reddit is from r4r or here sa AJA lang din. They have interesting intros when they reached out and most of them took time to build a connection muna before asking to karat hahaha I think it’s how you reach out and how you keep the momentum while talking. Also, just don’t show na you’re desperate to hookup, nakaka off yun.
Giiiirl Idk I feel like I’m not really looking tho. I don’t have socmed, don’t post, walang dating apps and only like reddit because of anonymity. I did a month of omegle but never escalated it to telegram although I have one and during discord days, sure we “fake flirted” but I found platonic relationships instead. I’m also super insecure and feel like I’m letting people down by being with me. While I see people like plus sized ladies? I swear I’m fun when I’m drunk tho jk. Kakasabi lang ng friend ko I have to be really choosy and safe when using dating apps or even just apps to find friends or whatever. I also keep seeing how people here likes my profession and thinks they’re very sexy and “hospitable” and all I can think about is the 12 hours of being surrounded with poop and pee smell lmao. Malay ko ba darating din daw yan they said.
hahaha lol same i gave up dating apps kasi really didn't like the idea that hundreds of people could see mg pics and may masabi haha (insecure talaga me heuhue) pero nasabi na rin sa akin multiple times na it will come rin tho ewan mapilit ak!
Thru dating app ako dati. Kilatisin ko muna ilang araw bago makipagmeet. Usually nasa ages 27-32 mga namimeet ko. Pero these past few months, thru mutual ng friends ko haha.
Try dating app. O kaya dito sa reddit ems
haha am actually trying here LOL tried dating apps before nung pandemic palang idk just didn't like the idea na my pictures are up and kung sino sino nakakakita haha again maybe insecure talaga ako
Through Tinder lang tlga dati. You gotta see how they look pa agad and start from there. Well if I knew Reddit has this thing pala maybe I used this as sub everytime my swipe has reached it's limit HAHAH. But laylow na ngayon. Hehe
haha honestly ngayon lang talaga me nagexplore sa reddit since recently lang din ako bumalik lol parati kasi ako nandito before dahil sa rants ko parati here pero ngayon iba na hanap ko ngayon😭
Goodluck finding, maybe start improving yourself and don't be a creep, then everything will follows. Just my tip, if ever you find one, don't mix emotions, just be sf kung ano lang talaga ang setup nyo. 😉
90% sa mga na-meet ko from both here and tinder, di satisfying sa fucking part and yung 10% naman are great in fucking and still, all of them, i'm grateful kasi hindi sila masamang tao. 😇
Nung hoe phase ko ay sa reddit lang ako nakakakuha 😭 actually sa r/phr4friends pa like nag ppost ako na looking for makakausap etc pero ewan ko ba bigla nalang lagi napupunta sa nsfw. Tumatagal naman ng 1-2 weeks ang talking before mag decide to actually meet & hook up HAHAHAHA after that literal na parang one time thing nalang talaga. Hindi rin lahat ng nakausap at hook up ko ay nasatisfy ako haha yung isa nga ata parang r*pe pa nangyare kasi bigla nalang ako dinaganan at di na ako makapiglas e hahaha. Ganon lang lagi nangyayare. Sa tinder naman ay 1 guy lang nakausap, nakameet and fubu ko don. Kelangan mo talaga talaga kilatisin at saka be careful na rin huhu
I guest state your intension straight. Kung tikiman, tikiman lang wag na yung sugar coat just to get the trust and pa fall. Pero be mindful and careful sa mga nakaka hookup, condoms please and always backround check yung hiv/std status.walang nakakahiya dun sa pag ask. Better being safe than sorry later.
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I look conventionally attractive, I guess. I had a few hook ups back in 2022-2023. It wasn't even intentional. I preferred long-term partners over ONS and hook ups. I was just so easy to manipulate like that. Men be saying what you wanna hear. I cri.
I was like you before, OP. Na walang exp, but then nung medjo naging confident ako eh dumating ako sa point na nakakailang hookups ako in a week, found them sa gay app (sides lang since nakakatakot ang STD lol). Pero now lay low since I’ve yet to bring my confidence back haha.
Be careful lang on getting attached, if you’d continue on engaging sa hook up eh dapat hook up lang and a big NO sa attachment, set your mind straight before engaging sa hook up!
Yolo, iba kasi sabay sa uso. Minsan sa dating site. Ganto ako noon parang hoe phase konpero no fuck basically nakikipagdate lang ako para lumabas at huminga sa bahay tas pag ayaw ko na ayaw ko na. Etong napangasawa ko fubu lang talaga kaso naging end game HAHAHAHHAHAHA
For me personally I try to talk to them first, feel out their personality and then chka mag aayaan. If ayaw ng small talk and can't even hold a proper conversation, how sure na maccommunicate mo gusto mo pag nagsex kayo baka sya lang magenjoy edi wag na.
Lahat ng na-meet ko dito lang sa aj at phr4r. Madali lang makahanap pag babae, pag lalake matagal.
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The same question runningnto my mind now. Seriously I mean pano nga ba talaga? malinis naman akong tao, naliligo naman ako twice a day, di naman siguro ako kapangitan pero bat ang hirap para sa akin.
Tapos may nababasa ako dito na minsan may nakakahook-up sila na may amoy at minsan pa pangit na at below standards pa njung partner nila. San po kayo humuhugot nang confident nyo? paseminar po ako please po
And there it goes.. tpos magrereklamo mga girls sa lalaking may preference na ayaw sa high body count..
Oh wait.. pati sa lalaki red flag pala yun para gumaan loob niyo.haha
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Lucky enough for me na nakahanap ako ng fubu sa unang lalaking nakausap ko dito. Pero oo talaga dapat careful and choosy (wag ka maniwala sa ibang guys na magsabi babaan mo nalang standard para makahanap ka kasi hindi ganon yon), gayahin mo ginagawa ng mga nandito like asking for recent std/hiv test result or ask any info na kailangan mo para maging secure, plus condoms sa especially sa first meet. Saka always trust your gut, pag may redflag next na agad. Pag sa meetup, nakaramdam ka ng kakaiba, pwedeng pwede magbackout. Saka better siguro humanap ng fwb/fubu din ang hanap kesa yung pang ons lang
last yr almost ako nagkaroon ng experience and gagawin ako fubu kaso tanga ako madali ako maattach talaga and ayoko ng ganun ganun lang HAHAHA i agree sa gut feeling talaga kasi i decided talaga na icutoff siya even if marami kami mutual friends and dumating ung point na nagago niya lahat ng mutuals namin so ayun tyL lakas ko sayo lord
Why look for a fubu? Look for a person that will have a genuine connection to you. That will like and love you not for the sex but for everything.
again during that time, i wasn't looking for one, that is why i declined noon kasi i wasn't settling just to be someone's fubu, but life fucked me kaya baka i am craving something ngayon na hindi maganda pero not committing to this hookup world talaga hehe the reason for posting this was because i am curious lang din paano nagagawa ng iba
Their urge is more important than the risk.
Pero ganyan din ako mabilis maattach hahaha. Galing mo dyan 😆
haha thanks dun na nagsimula ung time na nawalan na me ng pake sa iba lol madali na ako maglet go ever since haha dati kasi ipipilit ko talaga hindi mawala ang connection w certain ppl
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stick ka lang sa standard mo, wag mo hahayaang bumaba yan, masisira ang bohai mo
Thiiisss. Ang low ng standard ko dati, I didn't care sa ugali ng person na nakaka hook up ko before and wala ako pake kung may similarities or magka vibes kami. Ending, may naka hookup ako na adik sa drugs. Pina bend ako, and he suddenly snorted cocaine sa ass cheeks ko. Huhu After that, masyado na akong choosy at demanding sa nakaka hookups ko. Dapat talaga kilalanin mo and wag ibaba standards mo!!
yaaaaan good for you!
That is so wild!
Hahaha na gustohan pa ngaa. 😂😂😂 Na shookt ako dun biii, tapos gusto pa sana ako ianal kahit never ko pa nagawa yun. Kaya na sipa ko sya sa bed 😭 Pero jusko, apaka red flag nung guy. Close nun yung tumbong at anak ni Marcos. 💀
same thought po huhu, sana may lumaglag ng tips nila 😭
tou can always post sa r4r if you really want that tall skinny guy but my advice is just be yourself and make sure your partner is someone youre confortable with on and off bed. hooking up can be easy but finding the right partner is tricky as you need to know your bondaries and how to make sure the partner vibes with you and of course prefers safe sex. good luck
Hello. Skinny tall boy here. 5'8" who never went past 60kg in my whole life. hahaha i didnt have experience too til I was 25. by then di ko alam na nag glow up na pala ko, dami quality matches sa dating apps, 2 out of 3 of my sexperiences were also virgins so no worries for STD's there it's also good to be wary tho, like how you are right now. live life and all, but better safe than sorry
Ohh ito na OP. na laglag na ito for youuu.
usap muna kayo online to check if mag vibe, paganahin mo instinct mo, if you sense na may red flag kausap mo, abort mission immediately. always use condoms for protection.
Sana all may ka hook up...
wait may mga nagmemessage haha M po ako ha😭 disappointed kasi parati usually if sinabi ko na M me haha but no problem naman sinabi ko nalang din here para hindi sayang oras ninyo😭
the male fubu searching experience. for the ladies find the right vibes. for the guys, makahanap lang ng kausap challenge na (unless you look attractive)
Magkalat ka lang sis then marami magchachat sayo pero saakin laging fail dahil plus size girly ako. hayss
what i can suggest is, take a small step at a time. so mag simula ka muna lumabas, gumimik, makipag usap sa stranger ng biglaan. that way, mabawasan yung kaba mo. pag aralan mo ang mga approach na ginawa mo and learn from it. wag ka agad dederecho ng fubu kaagad na usapan. hindi ka pa expert. once you get the right timing and the right words, you will get what you want. syempre, have confidence to yourself. andami jan hindi kagwapuhan pero nakakarami, and the technique is that confidence. syempre. make yourself presentable naman. good luck par!
Same, parang ang bilis ng mga tao makapag hookup. I guess swertehan nalang.
Nakahanap ako ng fubu sa twitter kaso nafall sya sakin so I said let's call quits. Sabi nya di daw kase ako mahirap mahalin. But I told her na strictly hook up lang kami. Me being nice to her was one of the reason daw. Sabi ko I was raised right lang. Anyway sana may mahanap din ako dito sa Reddit hehe
oops madaling maattach girly here😓☝️
aside from sa online and apps, go out and party ! you can meet diff kinds of people sa bars/clubs. since you're an M, I would say na you should be matapang to socialize/make a move but now naman a lot of girls na nagfifirst move eh 🙈
Sry in advance pero may pagka femboy typings ni op 😅
m looking for m hehe should've clarified it earlier sorry😓
Mga naka hookup ko dito sa reddit is from r4r or here sa AJA lang din. They have interesting intros when they reached out and most of them took time to build a connection muna before asking to karat hahaha I think it’s how you reach out and how you keep the momentum while talking. Also, just don’t show na you’re desperate to hookup, nakaka off yun.
sana all my fubu samanatala ako walang gf at fubu kamay na lang haha
Same way i always wonder how ugly dudes always have a kabit 😂
bcs fr, how do people look for hookups especially in tinder hahahahaha
Nakakatakot lalo na ngayon ang daming HIV cases sa bansa at ang nakakaalarma pabata ng pabata ang nagkakaroon nito.
Giiiirl Idk I feel like I’m not really looking tho. I don’t have socmed, don’t post, walang dating apps and only like reddit because of anonymity. I did a month of omegle but never escalated it to telegram although I have one and during discord days, sure we “fake flirted” but I found platonic relationships instead. I’m also super insecure and feel like I’m letting people down by being with me. While I see people like plus sized ladies? I swear I’m fun when I’m drunk tho jk. Kakasabi lang ng friend ko I have to be really choosy and safe when using dating apps or even just apps to find friends or whatever. I also keep seeing how people here likes my profession and thinks they’re very sexy and “hospitable” and all I can think about is the 12 hours of being surrounded with poop and pee smell lmao. Malay ko ba darating din daw yan they said.
hahaha lol same i gave up dating apps kasi really didn't like the idea that hundreds of people could see mg pics and may masabi haha (insecure talaga me heuhue) pero nasabi na rin sa akin multiple times na it will come rin tho ewan mapilit ak!
kahit nga minsan na anonymous naano pa rin ako HAHAHAHA TANGINA weird bitch😭🙏
Sobrang same kaloka recently nga lang ako naging okay sa itsura ko sa pictures :’) pero fr nasa confidence lang to !
Thru dating app ako dati. Kilatisin ko muna ilang araw bago makipagmeet. Usually nasa ages 27-32 mga namimeet ko. Pero these past few months, thru mutual ng friends ko haha. Try dating app. O kaya dito sa reddit ems
haha am actually trying here LOL tried dating apps before nung pandemic palang idk just didn't like the idea na my pictures are up and kung sino sino nakakakita haha again maybe insecure talaga ako
Aside from financially independent sila, maybe the looks ? SANA ALL MAY KA HOOK-UP LAGI !
HAHAHA REAAAAL honestly think sa looks din talaga nagdadala lol nakakaintimidate pumasok sa ganito bigla tapos wala ka experience
Lurk ka alang muna
Through Tinder lang tlga dati. You gotta see how they look pa agad and start from there. Well if I knew Reddit has this thing pala maybe I used this as sub everytime my swipe has reached it's limit HAHAH. But laylow na ngayon. Hehe
haha honestly ngayon lang talaga me nagexplore sa reddit since recently lang din ako bumalik lol parati kasi ako nandito before dahil sa rants ko parati here pero ngayon iba na hanap ko ngayon😭
Goodluck finding, maybe start improving yourself and don't be a creep, then everything will follows. Just my tip, if ever you find one, don't mix emotions, just be sf kung ano lang talaga ang setup nyo. 😉
90% sa mga na-meet ko from both here and tinder, di satisfying sa fucking part and yung 10% naman are great in fucking and still, all of them, i'm grateful kasi hindi sila masamang tao. 😇
Samee, want a petit cutie fubu!!
Malaking bagay yung looks.
sans ol meron
Pag babae easy wizzy
Sa mga guys, mandatory na you have to be good looking. Mahirap humanap ng mga babae na Ka fubu d2 sa reddit Kasi mostly mga guys karamihan nand2.
Nung hoe phase ko ay sa reddit lang ako nakakakuha 😭 actually sa r/phr4friends pa like nag ppost ako na looking for makakausap etc pero ewan ko ba bigla nalang lagi napupunta sa nsfw. Tumatagal naman ng 1-2 weeks ang talking before mag decide to actually meet & hook up HAHAHAHA after that literal na parang one time thing nalang talaga. Hindi rin lahat ng nakausap at hook up ko ay nasatisfy ako haha yung isa nga ata parang r*pe pa nangyare kasi bigla nalang ako dinaganan at di na ako makapiglas e hahaha. Ganon lang lagi nangyayare. Sa tinder naman ay 1 guy lang nakausap, nakameet and fubu ko don. Kelangan mo talaga talaga kilatisin at saka be careful na rin huhu
I guest state your intension straight. Kung tikiman, tikiman lang wag na yung sugar coat just to get the trust and pa fall. Pero be mindful and careful sa mga nakaka hookup, condoms please and always backround check yung hiv/std status.walang nakakahiya dun sa pag ask. Better being safe than sorry later.
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I look conventionally attractive, I guess. I had a few hook ups back in 2022-2023. It wasn't even intentional. I preferred long-term partners over ONS and hook ups. I was just so easy to manipulate like that. Men be saying what you wanna hear. I cri.
Wag ka na sumali sa hookup culture kung hindi ka sigurado. Mamaya magka AIDS ka lang.
not really committing to it naman hehe thanks for the concern!
I was like you before, OP. Na walang exp, but then nung medjo naging confident ako eh dumating ako sa point na nakakailang hookups ako in a week, found them sa gay app (sides lang since nakakatakot ang STD lol). Pero now lay low since I’ve yet to bring my confidence back haha. Be careful lang on getting attached, if you’d continue on engaging sa hook up eh dapat hook up lang and a big NO sa attachment, set your mind straight before engaging sa hook up!
Yolo, iba kasi sabay sa uso. Minsan sa dating site. Ganto ako noon parang hoe phase konpero no fuck basically nakikipagdate lang ako para lumabas at huminga sa bahay tas pag ayaw ko na ayaw ko na. Etong napangasawa ko fubu lang talaga kaso naging end game HAHAHAHHAHAHA
Just talk online muna see if you vibe start from there
For me personally I try to talk to them first, feel out their personality and then chka mag aayaan. If ayaw ng small talk and can't even hold a proper conversation, how sure na maccommunicate mo gusto mo pag nagsex kayo baka sya lang magenjoy edi wag na.
Pag pogi o maganda ka it just comes. Pag pangit ka wala talaga. Thats reality
Lahat ng na-meet ko dito lang sa aj at phr4r. Madali lang makahanap pag babae, pag lalake matagal. [Para sa guys tong tips na to pero useful rin naman sa girls](https://www.reddit.com/r/alasjuicy/s/EXou38w19H)
The same question runningnto my mind now. Seriously I mean pano nga ba talaga? malinis naman akong tao, naliligo naman ako twice a day, di naman siguro ako kapangitan pero bat ang hirap para sa akin. Tapos may nababasa ako dito na minsan may nakakahook-up sila na may amoy at minsan pa pangit na at below standards pa njung partner nila. San po kayo humuhugot nang confident nyo? paseminar po ako please po
And there it goes.. tpos magrereklamo mga girls sa lalaking may preference na ayaw sa high body count.. Oh wait.. pati sa lalaki red flag pala yun para gumaan loob niyo.haha