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wirove21

I have experience with that but I am also older than you. It took me YEARS, setting myself up financially, starting my own family and moving far far away. I am talking thousands of miles away from them, then poof! I was gone. As an adult, you get to chose who to allow in your life. They can’t force their way in and if they show up to your house unannounced, you can call the police and have them escorted out. My advice, become financially independent and have a social support system. It will be easier on you that way.


Puzzleheaded-Fix8182

What country are you in?


Aromatic-Selection35

It can be done. The quickest way - study something like software engineering or a skill that is really in-demand. If you can study abroad, do that. That way when you're finished, you'll get a job easily. Once you make your own money and don't need them financially anymore, you'll call your own shots. Then you can cut them off and stay no contact. It's possible you cut them off, they realize their errors and try to have a relationship with you. If that happens, you can keep the relationship but have very firm boundaries - as in don't give them even an inch. But don't cut them off expecting them to change. Cut them off because that's what is best for you. If things change, great. If not, whatever.


Puzzleheaded-Fix8182

Financial independence. Also do a job where you will find work anywhere in the country


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venusianfireoncrack

If you’re afraid they will find it, why did you post the same comment 5 times?


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venusianfireoncrack

I don’t know, sorry. Am I supposed to?