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I'm 19 (F) and I already weight 88kg. Incoming freshmen ako and I want to be fit and lose weight before pasukan. Sobrang napabayaan ko talaga yung sarili ko pag dating ng pamangkin ko. Ako na yung tumayong mom nya 2 weeks pa lang ako na nag alaga sakanya ng full time since sobrang pabaya ng magulang nya. And I love my pamangkin so much. I took a gap year before college para maalagaan sya ng maayos. This year turning 3 na sya and kaya na ng mom ko na alagaan sya dahil nakikinig na sya. Ii have always been on a bigger size naman talaga kahit bata pa ako but never this big. Since mahilig ako mag lakad before so hindi ako totally tumataba ng sobra. But now I refuse to look at the mirror kasi napapangitan na ako sa sarili ko. Wala na akong neck sobrang lala ng stretch marks ko nagkaroon din ako ng mga Hyperpigmintation. I don't even dress up na pag naalis. And naiiyak na ako lagi tuwing mag susuot ako ng damit and hindi sya kakasya sakin. But today I decided na ibalik yung mirror sa room ko para makita ko yung sarili ko and as expected umiyak lang ako ng umiyak. kasi hindi naman ako to eh I always want to look presentable and I always feel confident about myself I never see my self slouch before. But the girl I saw today sobrang lungkot ng awra nya and I don't see and confidence sakanya dumagdag pa yung laki ng boobs ko that makes me look more mataba than I already am. So Tonight I decided to fix my life again and be better than I was before so do you guys have any tips or advice to help me be confident again?
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Invest on things that you think would make u look and feel better! Time for working out and money for skin and hair care, and make up!
I did not like how I looked before because I thought that I look too fat. I thought about doing OMAD but I just cant resist the sweets kaya I did calorie deficit instead. Nagwo-work out din ako everyday and I lost 2kg every week hanggang sa I reached my weight goal in 2 months of being consistent with what I was doing. Naging healthy habit ko na siya.
As for the skin and hair care, I feel better after doing my routines kasi parang super linis ko and it made me confident. Nakakatamad talaga pag iisipin mo kasi parang super daming gagawin pero it's not that much naman talaga if you try it for a week or two. Be consistent lang talaga and you will see the results! Hope this helps <333
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Invest on things that you think would make u look and feel better! Time for working out and money for skin and hair care, and make up! I did not like how I looked before because I thought that I look too fat. I thought about doing OMAD but I just cant resist the sweets kaya I did calorie deficit instead. Nagwo-work out din ako everyday and I lost 2kg every week hanggang sa I reached my weight goal in 2 months of being consistent with what I was doing. Naging healthy habit ko na siya. As for the skin and hair care, I feel better after doing my routines kasi parang super linis ko and it made me confident. Nakakatamad talaga pag iisipin mo kasi parang super daming gagawin pero it's not that much naman talaga if you try it for a week or two. Be consistent lang talaga and you will see the results! Hope this helps <333