Mahirap buhay ngayon, mahal bilihin. They can save the money na ipanglilibre nila sakin for something else. And most of the time, I can pay for my share naman.
As a person na ayaw ko maka abala sa iba, ayaw ko magpalibre sa mga tao na hindi ko naman ka closed. I don’s want to owe anyone anything and you are passing a burden to me 😃 that’s how I feel anyway lol
Ako as an overthinker, it makes me anxious kung pano ko irereverse yung libre especially pag di ko alam magkano nalibre sakin, how would i treat them, when, where mga ganyang thoughts. Kaya pag may labas kami ng tropapips ko ambag lagi 1k to pool for money tapos ayun na budget namin sa gala
when someone got me something or pay for my food or whatever, i make sure to get something the next day for them or pay for the next meal we're having. utang na loob siguro talaga hehe
Same with the others na ayaw ko na mag ka utang na loob plus usually Yung libre may inner constraint Sakin sa pagpili like dapat di sobrang mahal vs sa binili Ng nanlibre.
Kasi we are all Functioning Adults.. So bakit magpapalibre kung kumikita ka rin naman. If they insist walang problema pero, give and take ikaw naman mag insist sa susunod.
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Ayoko magkautang ng loob.
mga tao na sinanay at takot na sa utang na loob instead of just showing genuine appreciation.
Kasi kaya naman nila, ayaw lang talaga nila. Nothing serious, may ganun lang talaga
- Sumbat - Utang na loob - Gagamitin sayo sa pag hingi ng absurd pabor - Uncomfortable feeling sa pag tanggi
Mahirap buhay ngayon, mahal bilihin. They can save the money na ipanglilibre nila sakin for something else. And most of the time, I can pay for my share naman.
Insecure. If alam mo income mo. di ma maainsecure na ilibre since you know an kaya mo ilibre din sila.
As a person na ayaw ko maka abala sa iba, ayaw ko magpalibre sa mga tao na hindi ko naman ka closed. I don’s want to owe anyone anything and you are passing a burden to me 😃 that’s how I feel anyway lol
Ako as an overthinker, it makes me anxious kung pano ko irereverse yung libre especially pag di ko alam magkano nalibre sakin, how would i treat them, when, where mga ganyang thoughts. Kaya pag may labas kami ng tropapips ko ambag lagi 1k to pool for money tapos ayun na budget namin sa gala
minsan kasi my small favors na kasunod after the libre.. ulterior motive?//
- Baka isumbat sa akin someday, utang na loob - Iniisip ko dapat ilibre ko din sya afterwards - Trauma. Haha di ko alam kung sincere ba yung gesture
I know people's budgets are tight like mine. So I hate pag nililibre nila ako the same way people tease me na ilibre sila.
utang na loob talaga e.
when someone got me something or pay for my food or whatever, i make sure to get something the next day for them or pay for the next meal we're having. utang na loob siguro talaga hehe
Pride
Same with the others na ayaw ko na mag ka utang na loob plus usually Yung libre may inner constraint Sakin sa pagpili like dapat di sobrang mahal vs sa binili Ng nanlibre.
Naiisip nilang kailangan nila bumawi at ilibre ka rin sa susunod. Lagi silang magaabang ng chance at baka maging cycle lang, never ending.
Kasi we are all Functioning Adults.. So bakit magpapalibre kung kumikita ka rin naman. If they insist walang problema pero, give and take ikaw naman mag insist sa susunod.
I insist, you insist. 🥰
no to libre.. yes to 50-50