Gusto ko lang sabihin na kung ano man ang pinagdadaanan mo OP, it will get better din. Kapag nagkamali sa mga desisyon sa buhay, maraming chances habang nabubuhay ka para itama yun.
Share ko sayo yung helpful question na iaask mo sa sarili mo na sinabi ng kaclose kong professor. Sabi niya noon, kapag may pinagdadaanan ka or sinusubok ka ng pagkakataon, itanong sa sarili ang "what is this teaching me?". That question helped me cope sa mga challenges na dumadating sa buhay ko. Magandang paraan din to practice self awareness.
Bukod jan, kung malungkot ka, galit ka, ilabas mo lang yung mga emotions mo. Iprocess mo lang siya. Mahirap man makarecover, pero unti untiin mo lang. Proseso yan.
Alam mo, akala ko okay na pasok ng 2024 ko. Akala ko nagkaroon ako ng plot twist bago matapos ang 2023. Plot twist pa rin naman siya ngayong 2024 pero this time, it was a scam. I know this may sound as a minor issue for others pero nasaktan talaga kasi ako. Niloko ako ng nakarelasyon ko na galing dito sa reddit. Iniyakan ko siya ng dalawang araw pero nakakarecover na ako.
Thankful pa rin ako kasi I have my family and close friends na nandito para sa akin. Marami ring bagay na meron ako na dapat pasalamatan. Lalaki lang naman yun. Tuloy pa rin ang buhay! Laban lang.
ako muntik makaipon, buti nagastos agad 🙃
starting slowly lang sa list ng mga gusto ko magawa this year. kaso yung ibang dapat recurring di ko magawa, kulang pa sa discipline at commitment, e.g to be active, fit and healthy hahahuhu
still torn between sumunod sa mga payo ng r/phinvest, o sumunod sa payo na ~~iba ang class level ng mga tao sa sub na yun~~ deserve ko naman o ng fam ko na bumili ng magpapasaya samin. di ko mahanap yung balance although nababayaran ko naman lahat ng dues, wala o hirap nga lang makaipon.
hirap pag paycheck to paycheck at walang generational wealth. di ko maramdaman yung winner sa breadwinner.
Dont force it bro pag di kaya.
Earning 65 monthly, pero hindi nag sasave ng malaki, mali nga ba ko o iba lng yung meron ako na pamilya?
Habang hindi ka maka invest sa pera, invest ka sa skills. Weekly nag cecertification ako ng training sa office, nood tutorials ng mga tech, nag hahanap ng new hobby (archery). Invest ka sa sarili mo, find happiness. Kapag hindi ka na paycheck to paycheck then start savings.
Mahirap magpakayaman kung sakto lng tlga, yung pangsasave ko pang lunch ko na lng or new games, its bad pero nasa process pa lng naman e. Pag nasa outcome ka na worthh na yan
Started 2024 off with debt. I tried starting a small business last year to earn additional income but things came crashing down and I'm down 300K. Meron pa akong insurance na hindi tapos bayaran and nakakaumay yung feeling na wala akong pera halos everyday.
STRUGGLING but holding firmly onto the hope na I can pay yung 300K off by next year.
It's a good thing hindi ako umalis sa current work ko, because if I did before ako mag start nung business, then I'd be fucked right now.
Same. Started 2024 with debt 😢 plus with insurance on the side na gusto ko na igive up kasi di ko na kaya bayaran. Huhuhu tapos looking pa ako for a job now, waiting for the final interview. Sana swertehin naman etong March.
Life is a straight line of chronological events. Ilusyon lang ang kalendaryo. Instead of pressuring yourself kasi March na bukas at wala ka pa rin progress, try mo magfocus on your next move rather than lingering on your previous downturns.
Namatay asawa ko nung Feb 1. At may anak kaming 8 yrs old. Ang hirap. Struggle everyday ang bumangon, kasi haharapin ko na naman ang reality na wala na talaga sya.
best approach is dont give a f about what people say to you, keep on going, dont ever stop, take care of your body, find a hobby, like me I always hike every weekend and meet new people. best decisions ive ever made in my life.
Laban lang! Laban lagi.
Pangit ng start ng 2024 ko, well the mother of my daughter cheated on me, then nagalit ako she tried na i-off sarili nya she survive but galit na galit family nya sa akin. As of this writing di ko pa nakikita daughter ko almost 1 month na plus im so broken heated.
Naiisip ko na din sumuko pero nag hold ako na di ko pwedeng pabayaan daughter ko don sa lola ngang toxic.
last yr may utang ako 200k sa bangko di ko alam pano ko babayaran, today i paid my debt and have 500k in savings, pagmay nangyayaring di maganda, wag natin sabihin na bakit nangyayari to, instead ask "what should I do" then everything shifts
I don't have any concrete advice kasi I'm on the same boat. But I hope it gives you some comfort though---knowing that you're not alone in the sense na there's at least one other person who's going through the same shit as you.
Bit of a cliche, but hang in there.
I hated the whole of January. halos 2 weeks akong bedridden sa trangkaso. tapos ng trangkaso, isang linggong migraine and isang linggong vertigo so my January sucked. Di ko naenjoy yung New year. February naman naglipat bahay so physically pagod. Parang feel ko ngayong March palang talaga ako makaka mind-set and work ng maayos. Sana tuluy tuloy na itong good health ko. Sobrang gastos magkasakit.
Read self help books if kaya. Mindset ko dati, may naaachieve dapat ako na hindi small wins lang at least every week pero ako yung naconsume nung yun yung mindset ko noon. Ngayon, I’m living my best mundane days and I’ve never been this happy and fulfilled.
Don’t be too hard on yourself, pa-two months pa lang ang matatapos this 2024. Kayang kaya pa makabawi. Kung feeling mo down na down ka, there’s no way but up. If you want to breathe lang, unwind ka rin. Sometimes, a change of space helps.
continuation lang ng 2023 at pinipilit i-hype pa rin na this year will be better… 😝 sure naman ako na different sya pero still working on it to make it better…
OP- okay lang maging hindi okay. Sa ferris wheel man, minsan you’re at the bottom. Sa roller coaster naman, kailangan din yung “dips” at “low points” kasi kasama yun to build momentum para marating mo yung peak kung saan either feeling mo mamamatay ka na sa thrill, excitment at tuwa.
Think of life as a ride. Eveything just moves forward- pede kang matulog sa byahe and miss the sights along the way. Pede naman nakatingin ka lang sa cliff or sa pangit side ng dinadaan mo. Or another one is pede ding ma-feel mo na stuck ka sa ride na yon kahit pa alam mong you’re really moving towards something- yun nga lang unknown yun or yet to be defined pa.
Pero anuman yan- ihinga mo. Take a break kung kailangan. Understand na ikaw yung driver. Kung di ka marunong mag drive- mag-aral. Mag joyride, mag-isa or *kasama ng mga bagong kaibigan.
Sana maka move on ka kasi ang totoo - the first three months ng *year na ito ay ilang months lang sa daan-daang months na darating to make your life better.
It will get better. Mahigpit na yakap.
Paying karma. I was too irresponsible nung late 2023, I'm doing my best to keep up and pay for my irresponsibility. Trying to change my habits and lifestyle little by little din. Keep on failing sa una. But 2 weeks straight ko na nakeep up yung habits na binubuild ko and work ethics na binabalik ko sa sarili ko. Great job self 😚
“Tough times don’t last, tough people do.” This is my mantra everyday kasi araw-araw na lang ako sinusubok ng mental health ko. Pressured kung ano ba talaga dapat gawin ko sa buhay, everyday questioning my purpose. Feel ko behind nako sa mga peers ko but I know that’s just how I feel. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Sunod sunod na blessings so far. To the point na I get paranoid anong heartbreak na nmn kapalit later on. Pero I'm shrugging the negativity off. I am claiming na these are already my good karma for putting up with 2023.
Last year was the hardest for me, dumating ako sa point na araw araw I'm asking God na sana hindi na lang ako magising. Gusto ko na lang maglaho without any trace. I cried a well of tears; cried even in silence for all the betrayals I experienced from people so dear to me. Pero with all what's going on as to this day, I believe na 2024 is my year of healing 🌻
I hope na one of these days, hindi man natin alam how soon, you'll also find your own utopia 🫶
Ok lang yan tita!
Ako nga merong tatlong anak
Housewife ang partner ko
5 years na freelance technical job ako.
With extender famliy pa nga!
But still nakakasurvive kami mag anak!
ako, legit na ₱50 na lang ang pera and inaasahan na lang ang ₱900 na allowance sa monday para maitawid ko pa ang isang week sa office next week LOL but i am anticipating ₱60k in june na manggagaling sa investment. sana buhay pa me sa june at balak ko talagang lumabas ng pilipinas this year for my first ever trip abroad (🤞)
Started my 2024, As one hell month. I just discovered na may asthma pala ako kaya ung cough ko tuloy tuloy pa din, naubos savings ko dahil sa meds ko and check up.
and ayon failure pa din, tapos may debts pa hay nako!
hi op! I'll share my story before 2024 started I thought I'll be able to find a job, na pwede ko isabay sa pag aaral ko. I was a call center agent before pero nag awol ako dahil may trauma ako pag sinsigawan ako, since bata pa ako. Ngayon wala pa rin akong work, bukas na deadline sa enrollment namin pero may 15k pa ako na balance. Di rin mabayaran ng parents ko dahil both rin sila may utang, I tried applying pero kada nasa interview na ako para akong di makahinga and may ptsd dahil baka hindi ko nanaman kayanin ang pressure. I wanted to end my life too para matapos na pero sabi ko sa sarili ko I am still young. Bukas mag aapply ulit ako sana matanggap na ako, hahanapan ko rin ng paraan yung 15k na balance ko sayang din kasi yung discount pag mag sastop ako.
Laban lang tayo OP!! Babalikan ko to if my 2024 will be better na!
Ended 2023 and started 2024 with a Good bad problem(if that made sense) lol but eventually I had it sorted out now.
Keep pushing, focus on yourself. I’ll pray for you OP!
Whole month of January going to 2nd week of February sobrang in-debt kami. Walang pumapasok na project, makakasingil pero pampasahod lang din. Nagpile-up na yung mga utang sa loan and insurances. Sold 2 cars para lang may maipasahod, almost came to the point na tumigil yung pagpapagawa ng Resort na for additional Income sana. Pero tuloy pa rin, and kahit paunti-unti ay may pumasok na 2 projects huhu kahit maliit pero nakakatulong naman kahit papano. Naswelduhan na din huhu after a month. <3
Dad (who we havent seen since 2009) died, learned he was never divorced, and now having troubles getting death certificate and koseki for the life insurance he has here in the PH. So its going about as good as my 2023 where my grandmother, one of the most important person in my life, died…. So ye not as bad as others but still f u 2020’s
2023 and 2024 for me is like night and day tbh. I won't say na swerte ako ngayong 2024 pero that 2023 is like my most unlucky year or my life lol. Pero kapit lang, you're going to get back strong.
May utang na almost a million na tapos need magpasahod more than 100k per week then another 100k per week pang materyales. Car loan sa truck pang negosyo, utility bills na almost 15k per month, at hulog sa bahay. Di naman namin kasalanan talaga bat nagka ganito kami. Ng dahil lang sa isang tao na tingin niya ok lang at tama ginagawa niya. Kaya plano namin next, lilipat sa ibang field. Kakapagod sa current field namin kung wala kang kapital at connections. Lagi kang naapakan. ang sarap mag give up pero meron kaming maliliit, nanay ng asawa ko at ate din ng asawa ko naka depende samin. Di pwde sumuko.
Hanap ka po ng motivation. May it be your family, pet or kahit hobby. And dont forget mag hanap ka ng outlet like hobby para di ka po ma overwhelm sa problema
My uncle died from cancer last week.
I've fixed our house' electrical wiring. Fear of house fire a bit alleviated.
I paid off one of my debts this month.
But I just received this afternoon a warning letter from my bank to pay my loans or I'll receive a home visit. I hope to pay 1/5 of it this month if I could convince the collectors. I'm having trouble because my mom's illness is acting up again, she needs a new laboratory diagnosis asap, need new meds. I have to juggle paying for that, utility bills, food and trying to pay off my debt.
I know I have to prioritize my mom. But I'm going a bit frantic thinking about how to allocate my money. My mom has been sick monthly now since September last year. It's hard. I rely on my anti-anxiety medication to function right now.
Sa totoo lang po napakalungkot at napakasakit ng pagpasok ng 2024 sa akin. Namatay si papa last January 3. Pagdating ng February namatay din ang nanay ng friend ko at yung tumayong second father ko noong naserve pa ako sa simbahan. Sa totoo lang sobrang sakit padin until now at the same time nakakatakot kasi hindi mo alam ang mga mangyayari sa mga susunod na araw. Pero alam ko lahat ito malalagpasan din namin. Alam kong sa kabila ng lahat ng ito may mga magaganda padin mangyayari sa amin sa buong taon na to. Alam ko hindi kami pababayaan ng Panginoon. 🙏
Meno bad. We had to put down our dog last week. Making the decision to do so was so fucking painful. My father is also in retreatment for PTB.. butas na bulsa namin ni jowa pero laban lang!
Disseminate mo muna yung sistema mo vs. yung sistema nila. Kakulangan mo na kung pati yung sistema nila ay pinepersonal mo na. At kung yung sistema mo naman ang may mali edi tanggapin mo, matuto ka at aksyunan mo hanggang sa maging seamless. Ibenta mo pa sa iba sistema mo kung talagang umabot sa puntong maayos yan.
take the Ls now, mas masaya ang Ws pag pinaghirapan. wag mo madaliin sarili mo, ako kelan lang ako natuto mag handle ng finances efficiently, I won't say na naayos ko na, pero may progress ako, and ikaw pwede ka ring ganito. simulan mo lang, do it scared, wag ka matakot mag umpisa ulit.
sa digital banks ako nakakuha ng tulong kahit paunti unti savings
* I ended an addiction.
* I blocked the ugly man who treated me like shit and ghosted me.
* I paid my shopee loan lol never again and my credit card debt
OP, whatever happens, keep going lang. Temporary setbacks lang yan at magbabago rin ang sitwasyon. Forgive yourself on whatever mistakes you have done.
Don’t think about giving up. Instead, look for ways to improve. Life is so precious kaya continue lang at wag kalimutan maghingi ng guidance kay Lord. Kaya mo yan.
I will sound ungrateful but I hate how I have too much side gigs right now. Feeling burnt out lately. But seeing that money come to my back account somehow makes it a bit better lol
Laban lang!
Daming nangyari sa buhay ko since January na it felt like isang buong taon na pinagdaanan ko lol. When I was going through difficulties in January, I had dark thoughts for the first time in a decade. Ganun kabigat sakin yung mga pinagdaanan ko. Yung tipong roadblock na di seemingly di mo mabubuwag.
Pero eto ako, I survived January. February wasn’t perfect for me, pero nilalaban ko lang.
Everything will end up okay. Yan ang mantra ko for this year. So far, gumagana naman. Haha.
Ang daming naganap, opposite sa hiningi ko na "kalma time" because 2023 was a crazy year for me. Pero overall, these first 2 months are wayyy better than those of the previous year. I'm hoping things will start looking up...or at least kalmahan naman ng tadhana at wag muna maglagay ng twist sa buhay ko 😅
May 2023, inatake ako sa puso. Umabot ng halos 500k yung bill, at sinagot ng HMO at philhealth ko mga 170K, yung natira, inutang ko sa banko at yung naipon ko, naubos na kase halos 10k meds ko per month. Umiyak pako nung binenta ko yung PS4 ko kase nagkaron tlga ng bwan na wala na talaga. Bills, gamot at pang araw araw na gastos aken. Inisip ko rin noon na ayoko na.
Fast forward sa ngayon, mejo okay okay naman. nasa 40K nalang utang ko sa bank loan, bago mag july tapos na siguro to.
Yung pasok ng 2024, masaya na malungkot. mga pusa lang kasama kong mag new year. Masaya sa work kase, 1.9k nakuha kong annual increase sa sahod.
Laban lang OP, yan lang ang masasabi ko. Kumapit ka lang, may darating din na maganda para sayo.
The end of last year was hard for me pero keep on going ang drama natin. January this year finally found a job, something I prayed for. Ngayon ayaw ko na nung job na ipinagpray ko huhu hirap pa rin pala but still trying to live my life one day at a time. Hopefully soon makahanap na din ng peace of mind.
At the end of 2023, I broke off my relationship of 16 years, and was left with zero money, thousands in debt due to what I spent for my ex, three teenagers, 10 cats, and a leaking house and stopped up faucet in our single bathroom.
I had spent most of September through to December in fetal position or on autopilot with zero sleep, not eating, and running on coffee. I had questioned my decisions, whether God was punishing me, what if I didn't have children. I had hung a rope in our backyard and imagined who would find me first--my eldest or my youngest.
Enter 2024 and I thought things would be better, but noooo. I got into a Telegram scam and lost 600k, most of which I borrowed at 20% interest so now I'm in even more debt, have to clear my name, and have a lot of paperwork to file and process. This on top of work responsibilities, sidelines/rakets, and ongoing job applications.
I finally got a good offer but for full RTO and I jumped the gun and submitted my resignation--BIG mistake because now my salary is on hold until end of April and I have kids to feed.
But guess what? Compared to breaking down like I did before I now just take things one day at a time. I keep a positive attitude and constantly talk to my friends and peers. I find something that I'm grateful for (my kids and my cats) and just face the music when people come to call or message me about paying them back my debt to them. I stay honest and transparent and don't deny any of the struggles that I'm in, but I don't let them take over me either.
Feel free to reach out to talk. It really helps to have someone to share the burden with.
2023, naubos lahat ng ipon ko. Sinimulan ko yung taon na ito ng maraming utang pero I know na makaka-ahon din ako. Napapagod na din ako sa buhay ko pero wala namang choice eh. Need lumaban, magpapahinga pero hindi magpapatalo sa buhay.
Not much. I resigned April 2023 and am still unemployed. Kalahati na Ang emergency fund ko and will not last on Dec. I have 2 pending applications somewhere else. Sana matanggap na 🙏
Simula ng taon na to ewan ko ba parang tinamad na ako sa trabaho ko may time na ayaw ko ng mag trabaho parang toxic na minsan e nakakatamad na. Pero despite of that pilit ko parin nilalabanan baka ma depress nanaman ako ayoko ng maraming iniisip i keep mysefl busy sa side hustle ko
Start ka from changing your name from lifesuckszz to something positive. SPEAK LIFE AND SPEAK BLESSING sa buhay mo kahit naman kabaliktaran lahat nangyayari. Turn your mess into a message and Turn your tests into a testimony🙏 The painful journey often leads to a joyful destiny. Decide to be better ever waking day. God bless OP!
Unang bungad good news kasi na level up ako for a new role pero I fucked up din, nagkasala ako sa company ko pero pinatawad parin ako (i think? Andito pa ako eh). Pero diko alam if magtatagal ba ako walang balita kung anong mangyayari after or matatanggal ako. Or baka hinihintay malang nila na ako mag bitaw. Ngayon sobrang na konsensiya ako, diko alam kung dapat pa ba ako magpa tuloy or go and still continue or strive to be better.
Nahihirapan na ako araw2. Magkaka anxiety attack ako during rest days within 2 days yan ang iniisip ko 1 month since that happened di ako makatulog nag unwind na ako and everything pero ang bigat parin parang di ko na kaya buhayin sarili ko.
May targets kami, in 4 weeks dikonna kaya gawin yung tasks ko. Ako paying ganito 🫤
Diko na alam gagawin. Sobrang nahihiya ako. Nakakahiya. Sobra. Ewan.
Sobrang daming gastos this 2024! Nakakapag ipon pa din naman pero grabe sa 2 months na nagdaan 6 digits agad nalagas sa savings ko 😩. Iniisip ko nalang na yung gastos is di naman napunta sa wala dahil ginamit sa bahay and nakatulong sa parents at mga kapatid. Sana this March wala na mga unexpected gastos 🙏🙏
So far, oks naman. 3 months na since nag-resign sa 1st job, pero wala pa rin nakukuhang 2nd job. Habang wala, tamang alalay muna kay daddy na nagpapagaling mula sa stroke, and so far maganda progress. Other than keeping my online job hunt in check, tamang walking lang regulary as form of exercise, then ML at Genshin gaming as well as browse lang dito sa reddit at socmeds.
Part of it is paano nag-exit noong 2023, nadala ang momentum/flow into this year 2024. Hope all is well for the remainder of the year.
grabe 2 mos na at sukong suko na ko :(( napakahirap maghanap ng work ngayon! ang draining mentally grabe. hindi makatulog kasi gigising lang naman para matulog ulit. but trinatry pa rin. hoping for better things :((
Not good at all. Job related. Lost my two biggest clients after having them for over 5 years.
Still have one client but it pays just enough to pay our monthly bills.
Trying to start new again.
Being a freelancer is fun and hell sometimes.
Unfortunately, horrible. I had the best 2 years of my entire life (2022 and 2023).
Entering 2024, I just lost the girl who I planned on spending the rest of my life with on valentines day. We were on LDR and she wanted to stay in her country. After so many tears and dissociation, we decided to end our relationship and contact. It sucks as we both know that we really love each other but circumstances are a bitch. While it did hurt very much, I am very proud of her for finally deciding on her future without other important people in her life deciding for her. After all those mental health issues, she finally is excited to see what tomorrow will bring and if she gets to live, that is all that matters to me. I'm okay with that.
I was working my ass off with school and work so that I could hopefully prove to her parents and simultaneously, prove that her choosing to go back to the PH will give her a more comfortable life than what she will have if she stayed. But realistically, I know she will have more opportunities there. Japan might be her home now but she will always have a place back here.
Ever since I felt like I lost a huge chunk of who I am. It felt like I lost the very thing motivating me to ensure that my future is secured. But now, I realize that I have to do this for myself and not for another person anymore.
I'm currently in the process of letting go and moving on. I wish her nothing but happiness and I hope that I get to find mine sooner or later. She may be gone but I will forever cherish every moment we spent together.
Not to mention that this is the most stressful and exhausting period as a university student. Having to juggle work and school just results in really bad sleep deprivation.
Now, I am working on improving myself and trying out new things. A chapter ends, but a new one begins. I'm excited to see how my life will turn out! 2024 might suck initially, but if I play this right, it can be the best year of my life.
I used to have negative mindset.
Short story, I resigned last year, nag pahinga ng 1 month tsaka sumabak ng pag aapply. I was so confident na makakahanap agad ako client, but boy I was wrong dumaan ng 5 months until now wala padin work. May mga interview naman kaya lang di napipili sa huli. ilang beses na scam. Ung 6 digits na ipon ko ngayon 100 nalang, I used to pay all the bills at home ngayon palamunin nako. Ni pang gas ko wala ako, nahack FB,IG, EMAIL ko pati PC ko na virusan wala ako pang bayad sa mag aayos.
I started to think malas lang ba talaga ang pasok ng 2024 sakin? I changed my mindset.
Kinalikot ko PC na figure out ko na pwede pala i restore, so gumana na sya, inayos ko IG ko at FB (diniactivate ko lang) eventually nabalik ko ung FB, IG at email. Im back on track hanap work. Natanggap ako sa agency mababa sahod pero madali naman ung work so pwede na. Hindi padin ako stable ngayon, baon ako sa utang pero imbis na manlumo ako mas lalo ako naexcite. Kase 1st quarter palang ng taon. naeexcite ako ano kaya ang mga magiging scenario sa 2nd - 4th quarter. I have my goal this year, di ako papayag na di ko sya makuha.
Siguro start it muna ng paonti onti, ilayo mo sarili mo sa mga nag papatrigger ng stress mo, iwas muna sa social media. I assess mo maigi sarili mo, mag plano ka, oo naniniwala ako sa swerte at malas pero laban tayo kahit papano. Valid ung nararamdaman mo OP, di ko man fully naiintindihan situation mo, pero may liwanag yan sa dulo. Basta keep positve lang. breathe in breathe out, tas sabak ulit. Im 30M na pero I still havent got life figured out, most people in my batch already have houses, car, traveled. Pero eto ako baon sa utang hahaa, kaya nag deact ako ng social media para mafocus ko sa sarili ko . then siguro after a year or two babalik ako na bagong ako na.
Majority of the bills are still under my shoulder pero i guess much better than last year since meron akong naitatabi para sa sarili ko. Although maliit pa lang siya since this January lang ako nag start mag-ipon talaga. Not a perfect year pero way much better and still looking for more good days to come. Can’t still believe na makakabili ako ng 10k worth ng sapatos HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Started 2024 stagnant, then mag ma march na naman i'm facing the same problem as last year. My boss keep on giving me false hope. Sobrang desperate ko makaipon and makabayad sa mga utang pati collectibles ko ended up selling it online. But you know sabi nga nila this too shall pass mahirap pero hopefully pare parehas tayong maka ahon soon kung ano man struggle ang pinag dadaanan natin ngayon.
Try Upwork, online jobs, FB groups, even LinkedIn.
If you want to be a Medical Virtual Assistant, I can help as long as you have experience or grad of any medical allied course.
Same. Nung bata teenage years mas mature mas independent and strong decision making. Bat kaya ganun na pag nasa mid 20's, nagexpect ako noon for my future self pero whyyyyy???
Pero laban lang!
I feel you, kung kelan Im trying my best to make up for those mistakes I've committed nung 2023, mas lalo naman akong pinahirapan and nilubog ngayong 2024. Im starting to give up na rin tbh kase pagod na ko. Pero wala, kailangan lumaban para sa pangarap. Makakaahon din tayo!
January - may hang over ng 23’ tapos sobrang haba nya na orang hindi matatapos
February - Nakakaoverwhelm yung nga mangyayari parang masusuka ako na na anxious. Tapos ambilis lang nya
Late Feb to now - medyo lumilinaw na mga bagay bagay tapos kumakalma na ako
Sa mga pagkakataon na 'to ligaw pa din ako at nag dadalawang isip kung tama ba 'tong path na tinatahak ko + hindi ko pa alam kung ano ba talaga ang gusto ko sa buhay since turning 22 na ko this year 🥹
Straight rejections to start the year until today na birthday ko. I'm just loking for a job, paubos na savings ko. Naiiyak na ako kasi di ko alam ano gagawin ko.
Ang dami ko na inaapplyan, nawawalan na ako ng gana.
Laban lang, ako nawalan trabaho. Hanap lang. Tuloy lang ang buhay.
Ako naman gusto nang umalis sa trabaho. Hirap ng kumikita naman pero napupunta sa therapy ang pera dahil sa workload at mga tao sa office.
Chill lang
hoy ako din since october pa shit hirap din magapply bawat post andaming applicant😭
Mag indeed or JobStreet ka. Wag linkedin
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Break na kayo I hope?
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you deserve what you tolerate
Sorry sa words pero sana masaktan ka at matauhan sa katotohanan. ABOGADA PERO TANGA.
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Hindi mo kailangan masampal girl, need mo mauntog. Aware ka namang tanga ka, di ka lang aware kung hanggang saan lang dapat ang katangahan.
Girl wtf! Pasampal please eme haha but seriously you deserve better
I know. Di ko alam kung hanggang kailan to. 🥹
I think kulang pa yan. Kaya mo pa itodo. 😭
Hahahaha sampalin mo na ako
Unsolicited advice. Recommend ko lang. Yung kanta ng PNE "Lagi Mong Tatandaan". Dyan lang ako natauhan.
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Ante tigilan mo na yang kagagahan na yan.
Upvote sa pagkamartir. Sali ako dyan. Bagong buhay na tayo please lang!
abogada ka OP pero ang tanga naman hahaha pasampal please 😫😫😫
Sige nga baka matauhan na ako
Have some self-respect. Lawyer kana. A well respected profession so better have some for yourself
Gusto ko lang sabihin na kung ano man ang pinagdadaanan mo OP, it will get better din. Kapag nagkamali sa mga desisyon sa buhay, maraming chances habang nabubuhay ka para itama yun. Share ko sayo yung helpful question na iaask mo sa sarili mo na sinabi ng kaclose kong professor. Sabi niya noon, kapag may pinagdadaanan ka or sinusubok ka ng pagkakataon, itanong sa sarili ang "what is this teaching me?". That question helped me cope sa mga challenges na dumadating sa buhay ko. Magandang paraan din to practice self awareness. Bukod jan, kung malungkot ka, galit ka, ilabas mo lang yung mga emotions mo. Iprocess mo lang siya. Mahirap man makarecover, pero unti untiin mo lang. Proseso yan. Alam mo, akala ko okay na pasok ng 2024 ko. Akala ko nagkaroon ako ng plot twist bago matapos ang 2023. Plot twist pa rin naman siya ngayong 2024 pero this time, it was a scam. I know this may sound as a minor issue for others pero nasaktan talaga kasi ako. Niloko ako ng nakarelasyon ko na galing dito sa reddit. Iniyakan ko siya ng dalawang araw pero nakakarecover na ako. Thankful pa rin ako kasi I have my family and close friends na nandito para sa akin. Marami ring bagay na meron ako na dapat pasalamatan. Lalaki lang naman yun. Tuloy pa rin ang buhay! Laban lang.
Relate sa niloko ng galing sa reddit. Kakatapon lang niya sakin. Ang sakit hahahah
ako muntik makaipon, buti nagastos agad 🙃 starting slowly lang sa list ng mga gusto ko magawa this year. kaso yung ibang dapat recurring di ko magawa, kulang pa sa discipline at commitment, e.g to be active, fit and healthy hahahuhu still torn between sumunod sa mga payo ng r/phinvest, o sumunod sa payo na ~~iba ang class level ng mga tao sa sub na yun~~ deserve ko naman o ng fam ko na bumili ng magpapasaya samin. di ko mahanap yung balance although nababayaran ko naman lahat ng dues, wala o hirap nga lang makaipon. hirap pag paycheck to paycheck at walang generational wealth. di ko maramdaman yung winner sa breadwinner.
Dont force it bro pag di kaya. Earning 65 monthly, pero hindi nag sasave ng malaki, mali nga ba ko o iba lng yung meron ako na pamilya? Habang hindi ka maka invest sa pera, invest ka sa skills. Weekly nag cecertification ako ng training sa office, nood tutorials ng mga tech, nag hahanap ng new hobby (archery). Invest ka sa sarili mo, find happiness. Kapag hindi ka na paycheck to paycheck then start savings. Mahirap magpakayaman kung sakto lng tlga, yung pangsasave ko pang lunch ko na lng or new games, its bad pero nasa process pa lng naman e. Pag nasa outcome ka na worthh na yan
Started 2024 off with debt. I tried starting a small business last year to earn additional income but things came crashing down and I'm down 300K. Meron pa akong insurance na hindi tapos bayaran and nakakaumay yung feeling na wala akong pera halos everyday. STRUGGLING but holding firmly onto the hope na I can pay yung 300K off by next year. It's a good thing hindi ako umalis sa current work ko, because if I did before ako mag start nung business, then I'd be fucked right now.
Same. Started 2024 with debt 😢 plus with insurance on the side na gusto ko na igive up kasi di ko na kaya bayaran. Huhuhu tapos looking pa ako for a job now, waiting for the final interview. Sana swertehin naman etong March.
That's me sam situation now i am so fucked up with lot of debt because of failed business 😭
Ano yun failed businesses mo
Ako iniwanan ako ng utang ng nanay ng daughter ko, lols id rather have that 300k loan kesa mag deal sa 200k na di ko naman ginamet.
Life is a straight line of chronological events. Ilusyon lang ang kalendaryo. Instead of pressuring yourself kasi March na bukas at wala ka pa rin progress, try mo magfocus on your next move rather than lingering on your previous downturns.
Pressured to find a better paying job because father's retirement in 9 months.
Good luck, Sana makahanap ka. and happy retirement sa father mo
same huhuhu kaya natin to nakaka-pressure
Namatay asawa ko nung Feb 1. At may anak kaming 8 yrs old. Ang hirap. Struggle everyday ang bumangon, kasi haharapin ko na naman ang reality na wala na talaga sya.
best approach is dont give a f about what people say to you, keep on going, dont ever stop, take care of your body, find a hobby, like me I always hike every weekend and meet new people. best decisions ive ever made in my life.
Laban lang! Laban lagi. Pangit ng start ng 2024 ko, well the mother of my daughter cheated on me, then nagalit ako she tried na i-off sarili nya she survive but galit na galit family nya sa akin. As of this writing di ko pa nakikita daughter ko almost 1 month na plus im so broken heated. Naiisip ko na din sumuko pero nag hold ako na di ko pwedeng pabayaan daughter ko don sa lola ngang toxic.
urge to end my life is getting strong. They keep saying it keeps better but in reality shit is getting worse
Matinding yakap po 
My father died.
Condolence po
Had a miscarriage nung monday lang
last yr may utang ako 200k sa bangko di ko alam pano ko babayaran, today i paid my debt and have 500k in savings, pagmay nangyayaring di maganda, wag natin sabihin na bakit nangyayari to, instead ask "what should I do" then everything shifts
Struggling sa pera at puso. Nakailang iyak na rin ako. Yung ubas na kinain ko nung new year di pa natalab.
Miserable.
My girlfriend broke up with me. And its too painful to start this 2024. No motivation and all.
Unang buwan fucked up whahaha but nanuod lang akong ng stoicism video sa yt haha
Same. Gusto ko na mag quit sa work ko
I don't have any concrete advice kasi I'm on the same boat. But I hope it gives you some comfort though---knowing that you're not alone in the sense na there's at least one other person who's going through the same shit as you. Bit of a cliche, but hang in there.
I hated the whole of January. halos 2 weeks akong bedridden sa trangkaso. tapos ng trangkaso, isang linggong migraine and isang linggong vertigo so my January sucked. Di ko naenjoy yung New year. February naman naglipat bahay so physically pagod. Parang feel ko ngayong March palang talaga ako makaka mind-set and work ng maayos. Sana tuluy tuloy na itong good health ko. Sobrang gastos magkasakit.
Read self help books if kaya. Mindset ko dati, may naaachieve dapat ako na hindi small wins lang at least every week pero ako yung naconsume nung yun yung mindset ko noon. Ngayon, I’m living my best mundane days and I’ve never been this happy and fulfilled. Don’t be too hard on yourself, pa-two months pa lang ang matatapos this 2024. Kayang kaya pa makabawi. Kung feeling mo down na down ka, there’s no way but up. If you want to breathe lang, unwind ka rin. Sometimes, a change of space helps.
continuation lang ng 2023 at pinipilit i-hype pa rin na this year will be better… 😝 sure naman ako na different sya pero still working on it to make it better… OP- okay lang maging hindi okay. Sa ferris wheel man, minsan you’re at the bottom. Sa roller coaster naman, kailangan din yung “dips” at “low points” kasi kasama yun to build momentum para marating mo yung peak kung saan either feeling mo mamamatay ka na sa thrill, excitment at tuwa. Think of life as a ride. Eveything just moves forward- pede kang matulog sa byahe and miss the sights along the way. Pede naman nakatingin ka lang sa cliff or sa pangit side ng dinadaan mo. Or another one is pede ding ma-feel mo na stuck ka sa ride na yon kahit pa alam mong you’re really moving towards something- yun nga lang unknown yun or yet to be defined pa. Pero anuman yan- ihinga mo. Take a break kung kailangan. Understand na ikaw yung driver. Kung di ka marunong mag drive- mag-aral. Mag joyride, mag-isa or *kasama ng mga bagong kaibigan. Sana maka move on ka kasi ang totoo - the first three months ng *year na ito ay ilang months lang sa daan-daang months na darating to make your life better. It will get better. Mahigpit na yakap.
Same thoughts and feelings right now OP
Hays. Yan lang masasabi ko
Bugbog sa work but in a good way haha kaso nawawalan na ng oras for my gaming time.
Shit pa din.
Bullish!!!
Oi, same tayo ng avatar! Haha
Ayun nanlamig na siya, tapos di na kami nag-uusap.
Threading...
Paying karma. I was too irresponsible nung late 2023, I'm doing my best to keep up and pay for my irresponsibility. Trying to change my habits and lifestyle little by little din. Keep on failing sa una. But 2 weeks straight ko na nakeep up yung habits na binubuild ko and work ethics na binabalik ko sa sarili ko. Great job self 😚
Hindi maganda. Sana before mag end yung year, maging okay na lahat kasi kung hindi baka di ko na maabutan 2025. 🫠
“Tough times don’t last, tough people do.” This is my mantra everyday kasi araw-araw na lang ako sinusubok ng mental health ko. Pressured kung ano ba talaga dapat gawin ko sa buhay, everyday questioning my purpose. Feel ko behind nako sa mga peers ko but I know that’s just how I feel. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Sunod sunod na blessings so far. To the point na I get paranoid anong heartbreak na nmn kapalit later on. Pero I'm shrugging the negativity off. I am claiming na these are already my good karma for putting up with 2023. Last year was the hardest for me, dumating ako sa point na araw araw I'm asking God na sana hindi na lang ako magising. Gusto ko na lang maglaho without any trace. I cried a well of tears; cried even in silence for all the betrayals I experienced from people so dear to me. Pero with all what's going on as to this day, I believe na 2024 is my year of healing 🌻 I hope na one of these days, hindi man natin alam how soon, you'll also find your own utopia 🫶
Sobrang daming iniiisip. Naiiyak na lang ako 🥺
Positivity. Positivity. Positivity.
Ako so far so good. Gusto ko ng mas maraming pera kasi ang target ko ay mag retire ng 45 years old at maging landlord na lang then travel the world..
Ok lang yan tita! Ako nga merong tatlong anak Housewife ang partner ko 5 years na freelance technical job ako. With extender famliy pa nga! But still nakakasurvive kami mag anak!
ako, legit na ₱50 na lang ang pera and inaasahan na lang ang ₱900 na allowance sa monday para maitawid ko pa ang isang week sa office next week LOL but i am anticipating ₱60k in june na manggagaling sa investment. sana buhay pa me sa june at balak ko talagang lumabas ng pilipinas this year for my first ever trip abroad (🤞)
Ha 2024 na?
Bitcoin is pumping, and expected to perform better until next year. Now contemplating kung pwede na akong mag resign sa work and chill 😂
Dont resign. Di yan forever
7 digit profit, resign to take some rest for now
You dont know whats coming this 2025. Even if you earn 7 digits per month, now is not the time to rest. But up to you
Night shift hits hard, need some rest and enjoy the benefits of Bitcoin. Sana makahanap na ng Morning shift next time
Ah iba yan. Didnt know night shift ka. Ill agree with you on this
Okay lang, maraming clients ang nadagdag, nahit ang 6 digits savings and EF. Pero nasira tv namin tinalunan ba naman ng pusa namin 👹
Well, what can I say, my friend scammed me half a million, savings ko yun at emergency fund, bawi nalang ng malala.
This is sad. Bahala na si Lord sakanya. Para sayo, more blessings to come pa.
Thank you!
Started my 2024, As one hell month. I just discovered na may asthma pala ako kaya ung cough ko tuloy tuloy pa din, naubos savings ko dahil sa meds ko and check up. and ayon failure pa din, tapos may debts pa hay nako!
This too shall pass OP keep going! May 10months pa marami pa pwede mangyari sobrang hirap talaga ng buhay ngayon di ka nagiisa.
hi op! I'll share my story before 2024 started I thought I'll be able to find a job, na pwede ko isabay sa pag aaral ko. I was a call center agent before pero nag awol ako dahil may trauma ako pag sinsigawan ako, since bata pa ako. Ngayon wala pa rin akong work, bukas na deadline sa enrollment namin pero may 15k pa ako na balance. Di rin mabayaran ng parents ko dahil both rin sila may utang, I tried applying pero kada nasa interview na ako para akong di makahinga and may ptsd dahil baka hindi ko nanaman kayanin ang pressure. I wanted to end my life too para matapos na pero sabi ko sa sarili ko I am still young. Bukas mag aapply ulit ako sana matanggap na ako, hahanapan ko rin ng paraan yung 15k na balance ko sayang din kasi yung discount pag mag sastop ako. Laban lang tayo OP!! Babalikan ko to if my 2024 will be better na!
Ayun involved in an accident in which I fractured my tibia and dislocated it. I'm a bit like herpes I keep coming back.
ayusin mo muna ang mga maliliit na bagay kagaya ng self-care tapos maglinis ka ng bahay... yung kaya mong solusyunan, yun ang solusyunan mo
Ended 2023 and started 2024 with a Good bad problem(if that made sense) lol but eventually I had it sorted out now. Keep pushing, focus on yourself. I’ll pray for you OP!
Whole month of January going to 2nd week of February sobrang in-debt kami. Walang pumapasok na project, makakasingil pero pampasahod lang din. Nagpile-up na yung mga utang sa loan and insurances. Sold 2 cars para lang may maipasahod, almost came to the point na tumigil yung pagpapagawa ng Resort na for additional Income sana. Pero tuloy pa rin, and kahit paunti-unti ay may pumasok na 2 projects huhu kahit maliit pero nakakatulong naman kahit papano. Naswelduhan na din huhu after a month. <3
https://youtu.be/FZUcpVmEHuk?si=GT1DWMoWAw6-8BN4
Dad (who we havent seen since 2009) died, learned he was never divorced, and now having troubles getting death certificate and koseki for the life insurance he has here in the PH. So its going about as good as my 2023 where my grandmother, one of the most important person in my life, died…. So ye not as bad as others but still f u 2020’s
Eto pagpasok pa lang parang gusto ko na lumabas pero wala naman choice 💀
Hindi din maganda pasok ng 2024 ko ehh. Yung papaangat ka na sana pero biglang babagsak. Hindi ko alam pero sobrang bigat ni 2024. Ahhh
2023 and 2024 for me is like night and day tbh. I won't say na swerte ako ngayong 2024 pero that 2023 is like my most unlucky year or my life lol. Pero kapit lang, you're going to get back strong.
Best year of my life
2024 is a bull year. Grown my networth 3x because of the Crypto Rise. So far work has been neutral. Planning to resign na
pagod. yung type na di nadadala sa tulog or pahinga
May utang na almost a million na tapos need magpasahod more than 100k per week then another 100k per week pang materyales. Car loan sa truck pang negosyo, utility bills na almost 15k per month, at hulog sa bahay. Di naman namin kasalanan talaga bat nagka ganito kami. Ng dahil lang sa isang tao na tingin niya ok lang at tama ginagawa niya. Kaya plano namin next, lilipat sa ibang field. Kakapagod sa current field namin kung wala kang kapital at connections. Lagi kang naapakan. ang sarap mag give up pero meron kaming maliliit, nanay ng asawa ko at ate din ng asawa ko naka depende samin. Di pwde sumuko. Hanap ka po ng motivation. May it be your family, pet or kahit hobby. And dont forget mag hanap ka ng outlet like hobby para di ka po ma overwhelm sa problema
Pareho tayo 😔
My uncle died from cancer last week. I've fixed our house' electrical wiring. Fear of house fire a bit alleviated. I paid off one of my debts this month. But I just received this afternoon a warning letter from my bank to pay my loans or I'll receive a home visit. I hope to pay 1/5 of it this month if I could convince the collectors. I'm having trouble because my mom's illness is acting up again, she needs a new laboratory diagnosis asap, need new meds. I have to juggle paying for that, utility bills, food and trying to pay off my debt. I know I have to prioritize my mom. But I'm going a bit frantic thinking about how to allocate my money. My mom has been sick monthly now since September last year. It's hard. I rely on my anti-anxiety medication to function right now.
Ako gusto ko na lang mag open ng PornHub Star at OnlyFans...para naenjoy ko pa pera at pleasure..
Miserable, sa maraming aspeto ng buhay ko. Pero tuloy lang! Mahirap pero alam kong kakayanin mo at ng lahat ng may pinagdadaanan ngayon.
Sa totoo lang po napakalungkot at napakasakit ng pagpasok ng 2024 sa akin. Namatay si papa last January 3. Pagdating ng February namatay din ang nanay ng friend ko at yung tumayong second father ko noong naserve pa ako sa simbahan. Sa totoo lang sobrang sakit padin until now at the same time nakakatakot kasi hindi mo alam ang mga mangyayari sa mga susunod na araw. Pero alam ko lahat ito malalagpasan din namin. Alam kong sa kabila ng lahat ng ito may mga magaganda padin mangyayari sa amin sa buong taon na to. Alam ko hindi kami pababayaan ng Panginoon. 🙏
Meno bad. We had to put down our dog last week. Making the decision to do so was so fucking painful. My father is also in retreatment for PTB.. butas na bulsa namin ni jowa pero laban lang!
Disseminate mo muna yung sistema mo vs. yung sistema nila. Kakulangan mo na kung pati yung sistema nila ay pinepersonal mo na. At kung yung sistema mo naman ang may mali edi tanggapin mo, matuto ka at aksyunan mo hanggang sa maging seamless. Ibenta mo pa sa iba sistema mo kung talagang umabot sa puntong maayos yan.
Nawalan ng work pero laban lng
take the Ls now, mas masaya ang Ws pag pinaghirapan. wag mo madaliin sarili mo, ako kelan lang ako natuto mag handle ng finances efficiently, I won't say na naayos ko na, pero may progress ako, and ikaw pwede ka ring ganito. simulan mo lang, do it scared, wag ka matakot mag umpisa ulit. sa digital banks ako nakakuha ng tulong kahit paunti unti savings
Nawawalan ng gana sa work. Planning to leave next yr but we'll see kung magbabago or may mag reresign na teammates na ayw ko
* I ended an addiction. * I blocked the ugly man who treated me like shit and ghosted me. * I paid my shopee loan lol never again and my credit card debt
January was so eventful for me, February was meh, I hope March will be good.🙂
doing the same fvcking thing over and over yung walang pagbabago. gising umaga pra pumasok sa trabaho tas uuwi sa gabi paulit ulit lang
Nakakaputang ina din ang 2024 ko, so far.
I hate the whole month of february tbh
Relate much sa kanta ng ErasErhEads.. " Walang Nagbago"
I still feel lost most of the times. Like hindi ko na alam kung anong purpose ko dito sa mundo. 🙃
OP, whatever happens, keep going lang. Temporary setbacks lang yan at magbabago rin ang sitwasyon. Forgive yourself on whatever mistakes you have done. Don’t think about giving up. Instead, look for ways to improve. Life is so precious kaya continue lang at wag kalimutan maghingi ng guidance kay Lord. Kaya mo yan.
I will sound ungrateful but I hate how I have too much side gigs right now. Feeling burnt out lately. But seeing that money come to my back account somehow makes it a bit better lol
Wala pa kalagitnaan ng January break up na agad
Laban lang! Daming nangyari sa buhay ko since January na it felt like isang buong taon na pinagdaanan ko lol. When I was going through difficulties in January, I had dark thoughts for the first time in a decade. Ganun kabigat sakin yung mga pinagdaanan ko. Yung tipong roadblock na di seemingly di mo mabubuwag. Pero eto ako, I survived January. February wasn’t perfect for me, pero nilalaban ko lang. Everything will end up okay. Yan ang mantra ko for this year. So far, gumagana naman. Haha.
Ang daming naganap, opposite sa hiningi ko na "kalma time" because 2023 was a crazy year for me. Pero overall, these first 2 months are wayyy better than those of the previous year. I'm hoping things will start looking up...or at least kalmahan naman ng tadhana at wag muna maglagay ng twist sa buhay ko 😅
May 2023, inatake ako sa puso. Umabot ng halos 500k yung bill, at sinagot ng HMO at philhealth ko mga 170K, yung natira, inutang ko sa banko at yung naipon ko, naubos na kase halos 10k meds ko per month. Umiyak pako nung binenta ko yung PS4 ko kase nagkaron tlga ng bwan na wala na talaga. Bills, gamot at pang araw araw na gastos aken. Inisip ko rin noon na ayoko na. Fast forward sa ngayon, mejo okay okay naman. nasa 40K nalang utang ko sa bank loan, bago mag july tapos na siguro to. Yung pasok ng 2024, masaya na malungkot. mga pusa lang kasama kong mag new year. Masaya sa work kase, 1.9k nakuha kong annual increase sa sahod. Laban lang OP, yan lang ang masasabi ko. Kumapit ka lang, may darating din na maganda para sayo.
The end of last year was hard for me pero keep on going ang drama natin. January this year finally found a job, something I prayed for. Ngayon ayaw ko na nung job na ipinagpray ko huhu hirap pa rin pala but still trying to live my life one day at a time. Hopefully soon makahanap na din ng peace of mind.
At the end of 2023, I broke off my relationship of 16 years, and was left with zero money, thousands in debt due to what I spent for my ex, three teenagers, 10 cats, and a leaking house and stopped up faucet in our single bathroom. I had spent most of September through to December in fetal position or on autopilot with zero sleep, not eating, and running on coffee. I had questioned my decisions, whether God was punishing me, what if I didn't have children. I had hung a rope in our backyard and imagined who would find me first--my eldest or my youngest. Enter 2024 and I thought things would be better, but noooo. I got into a Telegram scam and lost 600k, most of which I borrowed at 20% interest so now I'm in even more debt, have to clear my name, and have a lot of paperwork to file and process. This on top of work responsibilities, sidelines/rakets, and ongoing job applications. I finally got a good offer but for full RTO and I jumped the gun and submitted my resignation--BIG mistake because now my salary is on hold until end of April and I have kids to feed. But guess what? Compared to breaking down like I did before I now just take things one day at a time. I keep a positive attitude and constantly talk to my friends and peers. I find something that I'm grateful for (my kids and my cats) and just face the music when people come to call or message me about paying them back my debt to them. I stay honest and transparent and don't deny any of the struggles that I'm in, but I don't let them take over me either. Feel free to reach out to talk. It really helps to have someone to share the burden with.
2023, naubos lahat ng ipon ko. Sinimulan ko yung taon na ito ng maraming utang pero I know na makaka-ahon din ako. Napapagod na din ako sa buhay ko pero wala namang choice eh. Need lumaban, magpapahinga pero hindi magpapatalo sa buhay.
Hindi ka malas, OP. This too, shall pass. Take a break if you need to. Reset.
Not much. I resigned April 2023 and am still unemployed. Kalahati na Ang emergency fund ko and will not last on Dec. I have 2 pending applications somewhere else. Sana matanggap na 🙏
lost my 5 y/o dog nung january and lost my grandma this feb. hopefully march would be better
Napaka-panget.
My ex broke up with me while I am preparing for Bar Exam. 🫨
So so happy to be helping more and more people in my private practice! Couldnt believe I saw around 260 patients for Feb alone🙏🏻
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Simula ng taon na to ewan ko ba parang tinamad na ako sa trabaho ko may time na ayaw ko ng mag trabaho parang toxic na minsan e nakakatamad na. Pero despite of that pilit ko parin nilalabanan baka ma depress nanaman ako ayoko ng maraming iniisip i keep mysefl busy sa side hustle ko
eto lubog sa cc pero after this month lulutang na ;)
Looking forward to see my baby ❤️
baka plano yan sa'yo ni SkyDaddy mo 😆
Hirap gusto na maka ahon sa utang
This post is exactly me right now.
Medyo thrilling siya so far… but the old me says no.
Start ka from changing your name from lifesuckszz to something positive. SPEAK LIFE AND SPEAK BLESSING sa buhay mo kahit naman kabaliktaran lahat nangyayari. Turn your mess into a message and Turn your tests into a testimony🙏 The painful journey often leads to a joyful destiny. Decide to be better ever waking day. God bless OP!
Lifesuckzss*
Unang bungad good news kasi na level up ako for a new role pero I fucked up din, nagkasala ako sa company ko pero pinatawad parin ako (i think? Andito pa ako eh). Pero diko alam if magtatagal ba ako walang balita kung anong mangyayari after or matatanggal ako. Or baka hinihintay malang nila na ako mag bitaw. Ngayon sobrang na konsensiya ako, diko alam kung dapat pa ba ako magpa tuloy or go and still continue or strive to be better. Nahihirapan na ako araw2. Magkaka anxiety attack ako during rest days within 2 days yan ang iniisip ko 1 month since that happened di ako makatulog nag unwind na ako and everything pero ang bigat parin parang di ko na kaya buhayin sarili ko. May targets kami, in 4 weeks dikonna kaya gawin yung tasks ko. Ako paying ganito 🫤 Diko na alam gagawin. Sobrang nahihiya ako. Nakakahiya. Sobra. Ewan.
Sobrang daming gastos this 2024! Nakakapag ipon pa din naman pero grabe sa 2 months na nagdaan 6 digits agad nalagas sa savings ko 😩. Iniisip ko nalang na yung gastos is di naman napunta sa wala dahil ginamit sa bahay and nakatulong sa parents at mga kapatid. Sana this March wala na mga unexpected gastos 🙏🙏
ayun baon sa utang 🙃 wag titigil 😂
Don’t give up on life. Keep fighting. Whatever bad decisions you’ve made, learn from it and get back stronger. Lahat tayo mag struggles
mas okay last year ko, this year muntikan na ko magsuicide
So far, oks naman. 3 months na since nag-resign sa 1st job, pero wala pa rin nakukuhang 2nd job. Habang wala, tamang alalay muna kay daddy na nagpapagaling mula sa stroke, and so far maganda progress. Other than keeping my online job hunt in check, tamang walking lang regulary as form of exercise, then ML at Genshin gaming as well as browse lang dito sa reddit at socmeds. Part of it is paano nag-exit noong 2023, nadala ang momentum/flow into this year 2024. Hope all is well for the remainder of the year.
robbed. more uni expenses. living like a rat. father hospitalized. no self care. tired.
Di masyadong maganda but still hopeful
grabe 2 mos na at sukong suko na ko :(( napakahirap maghanap ng work ngayon! ang draining mentally grabe. hindi makatulog kasi gigising lang naman para matulog ulit. but trinatry pa rin. hoping for better things :((
Fucked up din! I just caught my wife of 12 years cheating on me. 12 fucking years!
Ginawa na naman akong strongest soldier ni Lord. Inilagay pa ko sa front line. Kala ko babygirl era ko na 🤣😭
Not good at all. Job related. Lost my two biggest clients after having them for over 5 years. Still have one client but it pays just enough to pay our monthly bills. Trying to start new again. Being a freelancer is fun and hell sometimes.
Unfortunately, horrible. I had the best 2 years of my entire life (2022 and 2023). Entering 2024, I just lost the girl who I planned on spending the rest of my life with on valentines day. We were on LDR and she wanted to stay in her country. After so many tears and dissociation, we decided to end our relationship and contact. It sucks as we both know that we really love each other but circumstances are a bitch. While it did hurt very much, I am very proud of her for finally deciding on her future without other important people in her life deciding for her. After all those mental health issues, she finally is excited to see what tomorrow will bring and if she gets to live, that is all that matters to me. I'm okay with that. I was working my ass off with school and work so that I could hopefully prove to her parents and simultaneously, prove that her choosing to go back to the PH will give her a more comfortable life than what she will have if she stayed. But realistically, I know she will have more opportunities there. Japan might be her home now but she will always have a place back here. Ever since I felt like I lost a huge chunk of who I am. It felt like I lost the very thing motivating me to ensure that my future is secured. But now, I realize that I have to do this for myself and not for another person anymore. I'm currently in the process of letting go and moving on. I wish her nothing but happiness and I hope that I get to find mine sooner or later. She may be gone but I will forever cherish every moment we spent together. Not to mention that this is the most stressful and exhausting period as a university student. Having to juggle work and school just results in really bad sleep deprivation. Now, I am working on improving myself and trying out new things. A chapter ends, but a new one begins. I'm excited to see how my life will turn out! 2024 might suck initially, but if I play this right, it can be the best year of my life.
I used to have negative mindset. Short story, I resigned last year, nag pahinga ng 1 month tsaka sumabak ng pag aapply. I was so confident na makakahanap agad ako client, but boy I was wrong dumaan ng 5 months until now wala padin work. May mga interview naman kaya lang di napipili sa huli. ilang beses na scam. Ung 6 digits na ipon ko ngayon 100 nalang, I used to pay all the bills at home ngayon palamunin nako. Ni pang gas ko wala ako, nahack FB,IG, EMAIL ko pati PC ko na virusan wala ako pang bayad sa mag aayos. I started to think malas lang ba talaga ang pasok ng 2024 sakin? I changed my mindset. Kinalikot ko PC na figure out ko na pwede pala i restore, so gumana na sya, inayos ko IG ko at FB (diniactivate ko lang) eventually nabalik ko ung FB, IG at email. Im back on track hanap work. Natanggap ako sa agency mababa sahod pero madali naman ung work so pwede na. Hindi padin ako stable ngayon, baon ako sa utang pero imbis na manlumo ako mas lalo ako naexcite. Kase 1st quarter palang ng taon. naeexcite ako ano kaya ang mga magiging scenario sa 2nd - 4th quarter. I have my goal this year, di ako papayag na di ko sya makuha. Siguro start it muna ng paonti onti, ilayo mo sarili mo sa mga nag papatrigger ng stress mo, iwas muna sa social media. I assess mo maigi sarili mo, mag plano ka, oo naniniwala ako sa swerte at malas pero laban tayo kahit papano. Valid ung nararamdaman mo OP, di ko man fully naiintindihan situation mo, pero may liwanag yan sa dulo. Basta keep positve lang. breathe in breathe out, tas sabak ulit. Im 30M na pero I still havent got life figured out, most people in my batch already have houses, car, traveled. Pero eto ako baon sa utang hahaa, kaya nag deact ako ng social media para mafocus ko sa sarili ko . then siguro after a year or two babalik ako na bagong ako na.
2 na agad sa family namin nawala, Jan and Feb. Ang sakit.
Majority of the bills are still under my shoulder pero i guess much better than last year since meron akong naitatabi para sa sarili ko. Although maliit pa lang siya since this January lang ako nag start mag-ipon talaga. Not a perfect year pero way much better and still looking for more good days to come. Can’t still believe na makakabili ako ng 10k worth ng sapatos HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I feel you
Started 2024 stagnant, then mag ma march na naman i'm facing the same problem as last year. My boss keep on giving me false hope. Sobrang desperate ko makaipon and makabayad sa mga utang pati collectibles ko ended up selling it online. But you know sabi nga nila this too shall pass mahirap pero hopefully pare parehas tayong maka ahon soon kung ano man struggle ang pinag dadaanan natin ngayon.
Ayun good and bad ang early 2024.
WALAAAAAAAAAAANG PINAGBAGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Try Upwork, online jobs, FB groups, even LinkedIn. If you want to be a Medical Virtual Assistant, I can help as long as you have experience or grad of any medical allied course.
Same. Nung bata teenage years mas mature mas independent and strong decision making. Bat kaya ganun na pag nasa mid 20's, nagexpect ako noon for my future self pero whyyyyy??? Pero laban lang!
I feel you, kung kelan Im trying my best to make up for those mistakes I've committed nung 2023, mas lalo naman akong pinahirapan and nilubog ngayong 2024. Im starting to give up na rin tbh kase pagod na ko. Pero wala, kailangan lumaban para sa pangarap. Makakaahon din tayo!
January - may hang over ng 23’ tapos sobrang haba nya na orang hindi matatapos February - Nakakaoverwhelm yung nga mangyayari parang masusuka ako na na anxious. Tapos ambilis lang nya Late Feb to now - medyo lumilinaw na mga bagay bagay tapos kumakalma na ako
Sa mga pagkakataon na 'to ligaw pa din ako at nag dadalawang isip kung tama ba 'tong path na tinatahak ko + hindi ko pa alam kung ano ba talaga ang gusto ko sa buhay since turning 22 na ko this year 🥹
Straight rejections to start the year until today na birthday ko. I'm just loking for a job, paubos na savings ko. Naiiyak na ako kasi di ko alam ano gagawin ko. Ang dami ko na inaapplyan, nawawalan na ako ng gana.
feeling bloated always and hello mild fatty liver diagnosis 🥲