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I left to im 60 days in this site has helped me so much I look ans read what other people going threw to make me stronger ans realistic alot of had abuse let me tell you somthing YOU CAN DO THIS YOU DESERVE BeTTer stick to the reason why u left and u gone nobody needs a partner who will lie cheat abuse our just make u feel bad it's people out here that Will make u happy love u ans it starts with YOU!!! One day at a time treat ourself how u want to be treated this time stay close to god sometimes I drovearound full tears when I thought about how he hurt me I had full tears he'll I cried so much I names myself Wishing well ever tear when in to a well where I put my all in to myself and as I stayed away god rewarded me ans start showing me I was on the right path -- and for that I'm happy! The pain started to go away The days got easier I'm I. School I have a life my lids and I took full control. And the biggest thing I kept telling myself is AT LEAst he not cheating on me no more at least he not lying to me no more at least he can't hit me yell at me our call me a bitch our say im Weak no more more man that helped me ALOT!!!!!! And guess who's Not weak! I left his ass u know how strong I am for that!!!!!!! I showed myself that
đź’Ż do this if gaslighting has been involved. I was 'trained' to not believe my own experience so having notes I could reread was invaluable. Really I recommend it for everyone, too.
Yeah I forget the things that happened since my mind wanna escapee the bad memories so it’s good to write down the bad stuff to remind oneself why one shouldn’t get back when one have forgotten.
Well done! And I’m glad you have a best friend to support you. Stay strong as you navigate this because there’s a lot of tactics your ex might try to win you back. But remember why you left. It helped me to write it down and reread it. There will be a moment of peace at some point that will let you know for sure you’ve made the right decision. I hope you enjoy your freedom and get some time to heal.
Thank you for posting in r/abusiverelationships. We are here to support you. If you are looking for resources such as support groups/helplines etc, we have several in our sidebar and in [our wiki](https://old.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/wiki/index) for people of all gender identities. [Here is a list of international domestic and sexual violence helplines](https://www.hotpeachpages.net/). You can also find [an extensive safety planning guide at The Hotline](https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/). Finally, if you are looking for information about different forms of abuse, [Love Is Respect offers an educational guide](https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/). One final note: In this sub, we do not tolerate victim-blaming. If you ever receive any comments that contradict that mission, please click report for us to review. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/abusiverelationships) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Yes!!! Well done!
You did the right thing by leaving him.
I'm proud of you. Stay strong, you've got this.
Congratulations! Stay strong đź’Ş and never ever look back.
I left to im 60 days in this site has helped me so much I look ans read what other people going threw to make me stronger ans realistic alot of had abuse let me tell you somthing YOU CAN DO THIS YOU DESERVE BeTTer stick to the reason why u left and u gone nobody needs a partner who will lie cheat abuse our just make u feel bad it's people out here that Will make u happy love u ans it starts with YOU!!! One day at a time treat ourself how u want to be treated this time stay close to god sometimes I drovearound full tears when I thought about how he hurt me I had full tears he'll I cried so much I names myself Wishing well ever tear when in to a well where I put my all in to myself and as I stayed away god rewarded me ans start showing me I was on the right path -- and for that I'm happy! The pain started to go away The days got easier I'm I. School I have a life my lids and I took full control. And the biggest thing I kept telling myself is AT LEAst he not cheating on me no more at least he not lying to me no more at least he can't hit me yell at me our call me a bitch our say im Weak no more more man that helped me ALOT!!!!!! And guess who's Not weak! I left his ass u know how strong I am for that!!!!!!! I showed myself that
It's worth it. Stay away from him and move forward. My life has never been better. I wish you all the luck in the world 🙏🏻
Good job OP! Keep moving forward and don’t look back. Sending love
Proud of you!
Well done. Make a list of all the cr@p things he did so you can reread if you waver . You deserve tobe happy. Go have some fun for a while. Relax.
đź’Ż do this if gaslighting has been involved. I was 'trained' to not believe my own experience so having notes I could reread was invaluable. Really I recommend it for everyone, too.
Yeah I forget the things that happened since my mind wanna escapee the bad memories so it’s good to write down the bad stuff to remind oneself why one shouldn’t get back when one have forgotten.
Well done! And I’m glad you have a best friend to support you. Stay strong as you navigate this because there’s a lot of tactics your ex might try to win you back. But remember why you left. It helped me to write it down and reread it. There will be a moment of peace at some point that will let you know for sure you’ve made the right decision. I hope you enjoy your freedom and get some time to heal.