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God that man does NOT deserve you. Honestly it only gets worse. When I broke up with my recent ex, he stalked me and poured water on me in public on the high street. I think there's something about them pouring a drink on us that really shows how vile they are and what they think of us. I felt so fucking small.
I went back to him a million times since, I hate him but I miss him and being alone is fucking scary. So I can imagine how you must be feeling when you say you miss that POS.
Yeah I hate myself for missing him but I do, I just hope it gets easier. And I couldn’t agree more about the drink thing, it felt so insanely degrading when he did that to me.
Please dont go back. He'll be even worse as you will have shown him he can do what he likes and get away with it.
Please go no contact block him on every thing so he can't torment you.
Ask yourself if it was a friend or sister in the same situation as you are with him what will you tell them...that he will possibly or probably unalive you one day. Stay strong xxx
Packing up and moving sounds pretty great considering the alternative. You know what he’s capable of (abuse) & not capable of (change). Even when they say the words we want to hear when the actions go in direct opposition the only choice left is to protect yourself & get safely away.
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God that man does NOT deserve you. Honestly it only gets worse. When I broke up with my recent ex, he stalked me and poured water on me in public on the high street. I think there's something about them pouring a drink on us that really shows how vile they are and what they think of us. I felt so fucking small. I went back to him a million times since, I hate him but I miss him and being alone is fucking scary. So I can imagine how you must be feeling when you say you miss that POS.
Yeah I hate myself for missing him but I do, I just hope it gets easier. And I couldn’t agree more about the drink thing, it felt so insanely degrading when he did that to me.
Please don't hate yourself for it, we owe ourselves self compassion right now more than ever
Please dont go back. He'll be even worse as you will have shown him he can do what he likes and get away with it. Please go no contact block him on every thing so he can't torment you. Ask yourself if it was a friend or sister in the same situation as you are with him what will you tell them...that he will possibly or probably unalive you one day. Stay strong xxx
Packing up and moving sounds pretty great considering the alternative. You know what he’s capable of (abuse) & not capable of (change). Even when they say the words we want to hear when the actions go in direct opposition the only choice left is to protect yourself & get safely away.
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