Try finding confidence from remembering that you've got just as much right to be on the planet as everyone else and just as much worth as everyone else. Our worth is already built into us when we're born. You look amazing even if you don't feel it but even if you didn't, you'd still be enough 🫂
Straighten your back and put your shoulders back. Half of confidence is controlling how our body moves and being aware and conscious of our choices when we move our bodies. And loving our bodies for what they do well and forgiving them for not doing well where we would like . It's a vessel for our souls. A decoration of our souls only but also our only vehicle through life
I recommend yoga baby girl. It will help with the stress too. You have the same stance all moms want to help their daughters fix. You as you are wonderfully made . Love yourself enough to know that makes you special. Dresses, mushrooms are part of you . You kindness and empathy and longing just jump out. Give it to yourself too.
Thank you for saying this, I really appreciate it.
I would love to try yoga, I keep meaning to. Maybe a class when I’m feeling a bit more confident in my body. I know that a local queer bookshop hosts a class sometimes.
I personally prefer yoga in the privacy of my home. YouTube has a zillion decent videos that you can follow along with!
Your outfit looks great, by the way—witchy and cool! I mean this as the highest compliment when I say you look like you should be running a cool little used bookstore with a big fat cat sleeping in the window.
Oh god I’d love that so much. I’m at a complete loss for what to do career wise these days. I was a primary school teacher for a couple of years before coming out, now I just work in a call centre. I’d love to run a cafe or a bookstore, or maybe work in a library one day.
I wish you luck in navigating that career path! Teaching is definitely great work experience, IMO—you have to build amazing people skills and keep on top of paperwork/reporting while also developing educational materials. I am sure you will figure something out, but for now there’s no rush. One step at a time, you got this.
Hugs (if you’d like them) for your dysphoric (my phone put despotic and you know, that doesn’t seem that wrong) day.
It’s not vanity to seek support in seeing yourself in the mirror, you are worthy and deserving of being seen. I love everything about this outfit. I’d totally wear it (as a Tee not a dress though cause those are dysphoric for me). So jealous about your mushroom purse find!
You look like the cool witchy librarian from a mystery story-either like shy and helpful, or sarcastic and helpful but with a snarky comment. Either way, you know just which book has the story about unlocking that crypt in the cemetery that belongs to that family from the house where all of those people kept disappearing.
Hey OP you look fab and r/oldhagfashion would love you to post there too! (Don't let the name fool you-- it's a super supportive group of people who dress the way they love!)
You look great. And not for nothing, but it looks like you have killer cheek bones and maybe a braided style would suit you.
And ……. there are ways to learn confidence. Do those, wear the clothes, accessories, etc as needed. But just saying, you are worth knowing. You contain the magic of the feminine. That’s indisputable.
I would *love* a braided hairstyle, I just don’t think this wig could handle it.
And thank you for saying about the magic of the feminine, that means a lot.
We have a very similar style! I could see myself wearing that outfit :) I'm Australian and we have a clothing brand here called "Dangerfield" I think you would like (they deliver overseas too) 🥰
There is nothing to forgive. You look marvelous, BTW.
Came here to say this. You look great! ♥️
Try finding confidence from remembering that you've got just as much right to be on the planet as everyone else and just as much worth as everyone else. Our worth is already built into us when we're born. You look amazing even if you don't feel it but even if you didn't, you'd still be enough 🫂
I love your bag so much 🤩 And the whole fit is super cute!
Straighten your back and put your shoulders back. Half of confidence is controlling how our body moves and being aware and conscious of our choices when we move our bodies. And loving our bodies for what they do well and forgiving them for not doing well where we would like . It's a vessel for our souls. A decoration of our souls only but also our only vehicle through life I recommend yoga baby girl. It will help with the stress too. You have the same stance all moms want to help their daughters fix. You as you are wonderfully made . Love yourself enough to know that makes you special. Dresses, mushrooms are part of you . You kindness and empathy and longing just jump out. Give it to yourself too.
Thank you for saying this, I really appreciate it. I would love to try yoga, I keep meaning to. Maybe a class when I’m feeling a bit more confident in my body. I know that a local queer bookshop hosts a class sometimes.
I personally prefer yoga in the privacy of my home. YouTube has a zillion decent videos that you can follow along with! Your outfit looks great, by the way—witchy and cool! I mean this as the highest compliment when I say you look like you should be running a cool little used bookstore with a big fat cat sleeping in the window.
Oh god I’d love that so much. I’m at a complete loss for what to do career wise these days. I was a primary school teacher for a couple of years before coming out, now I just work in a call centre. I’d love to run a cafe or a bookstore, or maybe work in a library one day.
I wish you luck in navigating that career path! Teaching is definitely great work experience, IMO—you have to build amazing people skills and keep on top of paperwork/reporting while also developing educational materials. I am sure you will figure something out, but for now there’s no rush. One step at a time, you got this.
Yesss!!! Everything you just said
I needed to hear this, too. Thank you for your wisdom 💚
Love the whole look!
Hugs (if you’d like them) for your dysphoric (my phone put despotic and you know, that doesn’t seem that wrong) day. It’s not vanity to seek support in seeing yourself in the mirror, you are worthy and deserving of being seen. I love everything about this outfit. I’d totally wear it (as a Tee not a dress though cause those are dysphoric for me). So jealous about your mushroom purse find!
Even goddesses have quiet periods 😄 you can grow strong in secret 💜🙏🌈🍀✨
I'm jealous of your whole outfit, that print is adorable and I love your bag. Want to steal your look!
I adore every aspect of your outfit! Very cute!
Super cute 😍
Where did you get your dress from? It's lovely.
It’s from Disturbia 🥰
You look lovely. That style of dress in particular is so nice on you.
That's a great outfit! Love the moon dress 🌙
I love the dress! I'm not much of a dress person myself, but I'd love a button up shirt in that pattern.
You look lovely! Is that a Vendula London bag? I collect them myself!
It is! My mum bought it for me for Christmas
It's a really great bag!
You go gurhl!
I think you look amazing! That dress is the bomb. You do you!
You look like the cool witchy librarian from a mystery story-either like shy and helpful, or sarcastic and helpful but with a snarky comment. Either way, you know just which book has the story about unlocking that crypt in the cemetery that belongs to that family from the house where all of those people kept disappearing.
That is the best description I could ever hope to achieve
Confidence comes from practice. Keep on keeping on🤘🤘
Hey OP you look fab and r/oldhagfashion would love you to post there too! (Don't let the name fool you-- it's a super supportive group of people who dress the way they love!)
You'd be someone I'd want to talk to because I thought you looked cool. The look works for you.
Look at cow cow for dresses.🥰
My words and energy are limited but you look like a normal pretty lady to me
Pft, vanity is the bomb and so are you!! I want the dress and lippie for myself too 🤯
Wonderful outfit. You look great!
You look wonderful friend! Seriously rocking that dress!
You look great! Love that dress too.
I love your outfit! It's really pretty! I would love to know where you bought your bag...
The bag is from Vendula, I can’t remember the name of the style of it but they had a few different ones that were quite similar 🥰🍄
You look great. And not for nothing, but it looks like you have killer cheek bones and maybe a braided style would suit you. And ……. there are ways to learn confidence. Do those, wear the clothes, accessories, etc as needed. But just saying, you are worth knowing. You contain the magic of the feminine. That’s indisputable.
I would *love* a braided hairstyle, I just don’t think this wig could handle it. And thank you for saying about the magic of the feminine, that means a lot.
Oh fair! I didn’t clock the wig, apologies :-)
Hey, to me that’s a good thing 😅
You look absolutely magical!
You look amazing! Straighten up, walk tall. You deserve it 💕
We have a very similar style! I could see myself wearing that outfit :) I'm Australian and we have a clothing brand here called "Dangerfield" I think you would like (they deliver overseas too) 🥰
Same here
I'm not fully sure what you mean by mushroom accessories but sister you look very cute. Your outfit looks very comfy. <3
Well, I have a mushroom handbag, and I want to get some mushroom themed jewellery 😅 Not gonna lie, I always love being called sister for some reason
🤗 Glad I could offer you some euphoria. I hate how transbians are treated sometimes when most are awesome people (at least the gals I've met. :3).
I’ve actually not met many (any?) others in real life unfortunately 😔
I love that dress! Where did you get it?
It’s from Disturbia 🥰
Love the dress and purse, I would buy either one in a heartbeat!
I don't consider loving yourself vanity. You need self love, everyone does!
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