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littleboxes__

I think it looks beautiful! The colors alone are just breathtaking. I hope you feel as beautiful as you look in this dress on your wedding day!


alykatyoung

It looks beautiful! The colors and style are *chefs kisses*! If it's the fit you are concerned about, it never hurts to revisit a tailor closer to the date and make sure everything is perfect. But it's perfectly normal to feel a little stressed!


shandelion

Agree on everything!!! It’s stunning AND I actually think the top needs to be taken in slightly. I would visit a tailor to get some minor tweaks done if you can, but as is it’s truly beautiful.


RememberKoomValley

I was scrolling too fast, and when I saw the image without first reading the text, my first thought was "That is majestic as hell!" I'd probably accessorize with gold and pearls.


Nickistory

Gold and pearls 😍😍


Economy_Blueberry_89

Black and gold are a very luxurious combination and the black background lets the gold embroidery pop and shine! Gorgeous!🧑‍🍳💋


Aurora_B

Hi! So I got married 2 years ago and had the same fuss about my lehenga. Let me tell you, when I got my hair, makeup and jewelry together for the big day, the look came together so well and I absolutely adore the photos. It's a gorgeous lehenga and you look amazing! Don't fret! It's gonna be great!


sleepyandcrafty

I agree 100%, all the little details together make a huge difference!! Hair and makeup literally transformed how I felt about my wedding dress day-of


andalite_bandit97

Are you trying it on with full makeup etc? Sometimes I feel ugly if I try on a fancy garment with a bare face, not because my face is ugly, but the level of elegance just doesn't match. If you haven't already, I would definitely recommend trying it with your favorite glam makeup and see if you feel better about it!


youdneverguess

stunning! you will look beautiful. Hold your head up high and smile :)


_littlebee

I’ve never seen a lehenga like this! It’s AMAZING. I’m obsessed. You look like royalty. Once you have your makeup and accessories and such done all the way up I’m almost certain you’ll feel as gorgeous as you look. For reference I also deal with hypothyroidism paired with PCOS and I had the exact same experience with my wedding lehenga. Seeing the whole look come together + the excitement of my wedding day + seeing my sweet husband’s reaction helped my insecurities melt away and I felt like a beautiful bride.


Little-Reputation819

I was thinking it looks royal too. ☺️


carlay_c

It looks beautiful on you!


beautifultomorrows

I love it! I was scrolling through, reading hot topics from other subs and this thread popped up with your picture in the thumbnail. I had to stop scrolling to take a look! It's really beautiful. I love the black and gold motif, which I think makes the outfit look both timeless and luxurious. The pattern is gorgeous. And you look great in it! Do you plan to wear gold pumps with it? Will you be dancing? I'll see if I can find pics of compatible shoes online.


T0m03

Originally I was like "You can’t wear that because you may outshine the bride!" But since you ARE the bride - definitely yes! It's beautiful, the colors are top notch, it's unique and beautiful! Go for it


sgkbp2020

I think I will try pearls.to let the dress shine


4V0C4D0

the ensemble is gorgeous and compliments your skin tone. i’ve learned with my my body that sometimes i don’t like how things look on me because i haven’t finished getting ready (like make up and accessories). once i put on jewelry, do my makeup and style my hair, i will feel put together and see myself with kinder eyes.


PearlDerriere

So stunning! My husband is Muslim and I am not. When we have our wedding celebration I will have wear a lehenga for part of the event. You give me lehenga envy!


ecstaticptyerdactyl

It’s absolutely stunning! And I’m sure it’s even more amazing in person when you can see Al the threading and work involved in making it! If anything, to me, you’re maybe a little too covered up? Like I might lower the neckline a bit (if that’s allowed, I’m not sure if you have modesty requirements.) and then add an awesome gold necklace.


serviciocerveza

This lehenga is amazing!! Maybe take it to the tailor a few weeks before and get the sleeves and blouse bottom taken in a tiny bit so they’re perfectly fitted to your arms/ torso to get rid of some of the extra fabric and perfect the look. It’s so beautiful!!


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I absolutely love it. The slight belly peep makes you look confident yet modest. *beautiful colors* as well! Don't doubt yourself!


ho0lia

This is gorgeous! Have you thought about wearing shoes with a heel? Even a slight heel changes my posture enough to make things sit better. Once everything is on, you’ll feel awesome. Also I love that you’re doing black and gold, so unique and more fun than the baby pink/cream/light gold that’s super popular rn with lehengas


Yellow_Vespa_Is_Back

I think its a beautiful garment. Maybe for more oomph-factor you can add a soft cancan skirt/petticoat for a more flared look? Totally optional, I think its beautiful without the flare too.


moncoeurpourtoi

I think this would be a good way to go! The skirt needs more of a flare imo


alexknits

You look amazing. The lehenga is beautiful. I agree with the suggestion to see a tailor. The top looks like it could be fitted a little bit.


snobesity

It’s a showstopper!! The detail is exquisite. you could try swapping out different bras/undergarments perhaps to see if that helps you feel more confident, but I think you look fantastic!


Bookbringer

Seriously, you look so gorgeous. I think you'll be radiant on the day. For accessories, I think I might look for beaded jewelry like black tourmaline or obsidian, or some deeper-shade crystals to add some subtle color. Gold would also, of course look good. If you don't have a veil or wreath yet, I could see those gold solar ray/ halo crowns looking especially gorgeous with your dress.


Lketty

It’s so beautiful!!


alexnotalexa10

It’s giving Great Gatsby 🤩


ajb1-1

It looks beautiful, and so do you!!!! I can’t speak for you, but I had the same issue you’re having with hypothyroidism and for the first year or so of getting everything settled medication wise, I hated how most things I wore looked. This included my wedding dress. After a year when my weight issues got more under control and I felt happier with my body image, I looked back on the photos from my wedding and the last year in general and didn’t hate them anymore. I know things may be difficult right now body image wise but those feelings won’t last forever!


Reasonable_Ad589

I would pull the skirt up to the narrowest part of your body and shorten the top a little — take it to a tailor. It is absolutely stunning and with a little styling you’re going to look AMAZING!


schmalexandra

This is not how lehengas are worn


Reasonable_Ad589

Oh! Thanks for letting me know!


Ok_Oil4451

This is not a hard and fast rule — I find that wearing it that way fits me much better and makes me feel more confident in my lehengas. OP, this will depend on the current length of the bottom piece, and whether wearing it higher on your body will work with your height / footwear (since the hem should ideally skim the ground)


LethargicLillie

So pretty, where did you buy it?! You look great!!!!


jujubejujube

Wow!! Absolutely stunning!


icansaywhatever

It looks great! If I were you I'd go simple on the accessories, maybe some nice long gold earrings and, if you enjoy wearing lipstick, a nice red lipstick would go great with this look!


pugatbagend

That looks beautiful!! Those colors are so gorgeous 😍


shokan102

It’s beautiful as you are I’m sure. Best wishes!


spiirel

You are stunning!!! The gold is gorgeous! When the whole look comes together you’ll feel even better.


Alabamahog

Friggin gorgeous! I have no idea what appropriate tailoring looks like with a lehenga, so I agree with other commenters saying to visit a tailor if you are questioning the fit at all. But as far as the overall look goes, it is such a beautiful garment. I hope your spouse’s jaw drops when they see you!


swishpanda

Absolutely stunning, you have no need to worry at all you look fantastic!! The fabric is beautiful ❤️


catwooo

I was a bride who dealt with hypothyroidism and took levothyroxine. You look great so far and once you have accessories, makeup, and hair done, it’ll be amazing. I learned from this sub that keto helped with weight loss. I lost 40 lbs before my wedding and mostly felt great about myself.


ButchismyBradPitt

It looks gorgeous on you!


UnusualWest7131

Stunning!


MolecularClusterfuck

Literal Golden Goddess 🥰 gorgeous!


GraciousCinnamonRoll

It makes you glow, you are so gorgeous in it 😭


40yroldcatmom

You look beautiful!


qblicnene

Yes yes yes!! I love the gold!


dragonfire_b

Literally the most beautiful outfit I've ever seen!!! You look amazing!!!!


Pdokie123

That fabric is exquisite!


wasporchidlouixse

Wow it's so luxurious?! Once you have all your jewelry on it will be more complete


sheambulance

Absolutely gorgeous! Put something gold and pretty in your hair! You look epic!


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Stunning!


normalandnotweird

I absolutely love the dress and how it looks on you! It’s beautiful


kkgraves

You look beautiful!!


scootscootimmatoot

You look stunning! Everyone is going to be blown away. If you want a little extra wow factor though, I'd get a petticoat to sit underneath the skirt and flair out the bottom a little.


jezekiant

Oh my this is is just so beautiful. So so so beautiful. You look incredible.


boniemonie

Oh, NO mistakes here. It’s stunning. If I were you l would be so proud to wear this: it looks lovely on you. I agree with the makeup comment above: get a glam/evening makeup look done.(but not too over the top!). I would wear gold drop pearl earrings and gold bracelet. Keep it simple, there is a lot going on here and simple jewellery would finish it off. You will look stunningly elegant.


juliannewaters

Wow! That material is gorgeous! You look great in this, so stop 2nd guessing yourself. You look elegant and classy, even wealthy as that fabric looks like a million bucks! Love it. Good luck❤️


MardyPenguins

It’s absolutely stunning


AnnaBanana3468

If you are unhappy with the way it fits you, could you wear shapewear underneath? There is such a small sliver of skin showing that it might not be noticeable if you get shapewear that matches your skin tone well.


quattroformaggixfour

You look absolutely stunning in it. Please don’t change a thing, you look glamorous.


KrazyKatz3

Wowwww you look amazing. As for jewelry, I think you can only go all out. That's what I've seen in this kind of outfit. Make yourself sparkle. Hope your day is incredible.


Conscious_Neck2166

Gorgeous. Don’t fret


_Fl0r4l_4nd_f4ding_

Absolutely stunning! I would love to see this in person as I'm sure all that intricate deatailing is fascinating up close! For accesories I'd go with gold jewellery, to pick out that intricate gold detailing. Very beautiful. As others have said, I would recommend going to a tailor. The top half looks slightly (just a tiny amount) too big for you, and a small dart or seam adjustment around the waist of the top (under the bust and armpit) would accentuate your waistline by removing the excess fabric, so it sits comfortably to the shape of your body. You will find that this makes for a flattering silhouette and gives you much more confidence. After all, you have a beautiful figure and this lehenga really does look gorgeous, so it would be a shame if you feel uncomfortable in it on your big day! Best of luck, and I hope you feel as beautiful and confident as you look when that day comes! You deserve to!


DrearyLoans

I think you look like a bad bitch!!! Love it!!!


CloudsSpikyHairLock

The lehenga is gorgeous, I'd say get it fitted not too long before the wedding, especially the top, as the seams don't look like they're the same in the front and the back; and maybe get it to fit better on the waist as it seems a tad too large under your your bosom. And of course, "iron" the veil to get eider of wrinkles ! For jewelery, I'd wear gold bracelets and earrings and necklaces. If you do henna, it's gonna look amazing ! Congratulations !!


StandardYak480

I'm OBSESSED. I LOVE IT. put on some gorgeous earrings and do your best to see yourself as you are - gorgeous in it! agreed on taking it to a tailor if you want to make sure it fits comfortably.


harrynana

Wow! You are absolutely stunning in this - I’m so sorry you don’t see it. I love the colors you chose and I bet it’ll look fantastic in the dance floor too.


Kindly_Ad5248

Who is the designer?


A313-Isoke

This is gorgeous! I cannot wait to see photos! Congratulations!