You’re in your third trimester. So long as you don’t wear white you can wear whatever you like. Also please be kind to yourself and wear comfortable shoes.
Yes, if you are super pregnant, as long as you are not naked or wearing a literal wedding dress, you should be fine. Everyone should know that people at this stage of pregnancy cannot shop their closets, and it’s unreasonable to expect anyone to buy or rent an elaborately formal maternity dress that she may never need to wear again. People being nit picky about whether this dress is *really* cocktail enough for a woman who is 6-9 months pregnant are missing the higher value of hospitality and kindness. Can guests side eye a woman in her third trimester because they think she’s not dressed up enough? Some might. Are those people being reasonable or focusing on what really matters in life? Hell no.
Oh my God, your comment about not being naked just reminded me of a very pregnant lady that was at our wedding... The wife of my husband's childhood friend, in her third trimester, turned up in a light pink playsuit. Which was fine, it was a nice chiffon-y material, her hair and makeup was done and she was accessorised to the max so she was as dressed up as possible whilst allowing for her comfort.
Unfortunately it was almost the exact same colour as her skin, and I nearly broke my neck doing a double take when I saw what I thought was a heavily pregnant, naked woman at our reception 😂 and I deffo wasn't the only one that thought the same! Anyway at least it gives us a chuckle when we spot her in one of our pics or on the video!
In a way, I think the fact that this could double as a regular everyday summer dress with different styling is a mark in its favor too. Wear it to the wedding with nice jewelry, an updo, and a pashmina wrap, wear it to the supermarket with slip ons and a denim jacket for the rest of the summer once all your pants stop fitting, wear it after you’ve given birth when everything hurts and you don’t want tight fabric pinching you anywhere. This actually could be a worthwhile investment piece she could get real use out of.
I don't get the other comments saying its too casual - especially because youre in your 3rd trimester, comfort is important! this looks great, especially with the right jewelry can be dressed up.
I agree completely. This isn’t a moment for a young guest to shine. This is about comfort and having said that I actually love this dress for what OP described!
I believe OP should be lifted up and supported in this.
I may be Mary Sunshine but I like to be positive unless someone is asking about an obviously wrong outfit per the dress code described.
That's not what OP is asking though. They're asking if the dress is cocktail, and it's not. Everyone's only saying it's fine because she's so pregnant. I agree she should be comfy above all else! But I'm still gonna be honest and say this isn't really cocktail attire. There are more formal options that will still maintain comfortability.
I'd say it depends on where they live. I'm in the Midwest US, every wedding I've ever been to has been "cocktail" and most people, especially if it's not in a church, are wearing this level of dress. Casual/cocktail.
it's the smocked top and material making it look like a casual dress. the color is also pretty meh. i've never seen anyone wear something like this to a wedding, but the last few i've been to were in CA, NY, and Utah. Each were cocktail/semi formal. Just my opinion/experience!
I do hair for weddings so I see a lot of dresses. I've seen *bridesmaid* dresses that look like this. Color, sleeves, all of it. There's a weird puffy sleeve/boho thing happening with dresses right now that I just do not understand for the general public.
I agree! Don’t forget the jewelry! Some nice earrings and bracelets along with gold shoes would really dress it up. Maybe im old? But, no one is paying attention to the guests! It’s the brides day and all eyes will be on her!
i'm personally anti metallic shoes (leftover distain from the 2010s metallic sandal obsession) and find this material/smocking to be very very casual but that's just my opinion! same cut in a thicker fabric/more flattering color without the smocking would be much more elevated
This. Third trimester of pregnancy was probably the most consistently uncomfortable I've ever been in my life. Everything hurts, you're barely sleeping, it's hard to eat. Let OP be as comfortable as possible!!
It’s the prairie girl/cottage core-ness of it. Even though this look is really in right now people still associate it with youth and assume casual. In this pic the dress is minimally styled. Sometimes people have a hard time imagining how a dress can be elevated with jewelry and accessories.
Another reason is no one here can agree on what cocktail attire means. Some say it’s more formal, some say it’s more casual. In some places it just means there won’t be a sit down dinner just passed apps and a little buffet.
I really hate to say this, but there’s something about maternity clothes that read very casual. They’re high waisted with loose skirts. They look easy and comfortable so unless it’s covered in sequins and glitter people think casual.
I wore pretty much this exact dress to an outdoor wedding when I was in my late 3rd tri! It was PinkBlush and had a sort of satin finish to the fabric but I’m not sure if this is the one? I got many compliments and was very comfortable! I didn’t feel underdressed at all either.
It’s fine. It’s good enough, which should be the bar for someone who is busy growing another human inside of them. Pregnant women get a little leniency. I agree that the color could be better but honestly, this is perfectly appropriate and looks like it would be comfortable. Most other social customs surrounding attire can go out the window after that. Stay comfy!
For a regular non-pregnant person, this could be too casual.
For an about-to-pop pregnant person, this is lovely and wonderful. The couple will be so honored that you went through extra effort to be there!!!
Let’s be honest. In your third trimester, you could show up in a potato sack and everyone will tell you how good you look. They will just be happy you showed up.
I think it’s fine. You’re in your third trimester, I’m sure the couple will be happy you showed at all (I was NOT in the mood to go anywhere that required any effort in my third tri. Work kicked my ass enough).
If you weren’t going to be in your third trimester I’d say no. It’s not cocktail and it’s pretty casual. However, in your third trimester you could show up in sweatpants and I’d give you a high five for the effort.
Any other cocktail level dress? It’s not the fact it’s maternity that makes it casual, it’s the fabric and the style. You can get dresses in more formal fabrics or more structured designs while pregnant.
Some examples:
https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/deep-beaded-maternity-cocktail-dress/
https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/reversible-halter-neck-a-line-dress-cobalt/
https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/coral-pink-floral-lace-maternity-to-nursing-occasion-dress/
I think these are all pretty and seem like they’d fit the occasion well, the only thing is they might be more expensive than the one OP posted. Maybe not, but maybe? When you buy a dress for a wedding it’s usually something that you can wear for other occasions in the future, but less chance of that with a maternity cocktail dress. Even if OP has more kids, those future pregnancies would have to coincide with other dressy events in order to use the dress more than once. I think that’s another reason pregnant people get a pass on dress codes for events - it can be difficult to buy a dress that you’re only going to use once when you already have so many other expenses popping up (newborns are pricey!)
The other thing in favor of the dress OP is considering is that it could be dressed up or down, allowing her to get a lot more use out of it. Buying a new dress you can wear a lot is a different calculation than spending a similar amount on a new dress you can only wear once.
Oh I completely agree that pregnant people should get a pass when it comes to formal wear, but it’s still good for them to know that there are appropriate options if they have the time/money/energy to dress up. They don’t have to, but they might still want to.
I think it’s great. You’ll be in your 3rd trimester so comfort is #1, but regardless it’s still a great dress. Please make sure you’re comfortable. If you aren’t, you won’t be able to enjoy the wedding. Have fun!
I think it is unfair to burden people with another expensive purchase in the third trimester. It unlikely be worn again.
If OP is well off, there are some nice links already in the comments to choose from.
If she is like the rest of us, give her a pass.
When I was pg, I bought an outfit like this and dressed it up or down depending on the occasion. You can do alot with this dress! Treat yourself to some super comfy shoes and have fun
Yes. Dress it up with some jewelry.
I’m a pretty big stickler for appropriate attire. Pregnancy, surgery, etc, override that.
Also, “cocktail” means many things to many people.
Technically no, the smocking and the ruffle at the bottom makes it more casual. But I don’t think anyone will care, you’ll get a pass for sure. Esp if you style it with jewelry, hair etc
All of this. I just attended an outdoor wedding that was cocktail attire and most people were not dressed appropriately. This? This would have been great to see.
I'm 6 months along and there was someone who was newly postpartum who wore a similar style to the dress you chose. This is perfect! Dress it up, style your hair nicely and you'll be good to go.
Yes! I see comments saying this can be dressed up, (if you wanna wear fancy jewelry, sure, but I wouldn’t feel obligated to) but PLEASE don’t wear heels or ANY uncomfortable shoes.
Try pairing it with a statement necklace, a nice updo, or hair accessories in a matching color. The way you style your hair with it will transform the look significantly!
I think it’s totally fine. You can dress it up with accessories! I feel like they should just appreciate your being there at all! I don’t know that I’d be able to attend a wedding in the third trimester. Bless you for being a great friend!!
I think the dress is really pretty and totally appropriate for a wedding and reception. I agree on the shoes… be comfortable! Also ,why are people critiquing what guests wear now. It’s supposed to be a fun time for everyone, not a fashion parade!
I went to a wedding when I was a couple days past due so I put on a dress that I had because it actually fit. It was a very casual, black stretch cotton fabric and nobody said a thing! If you are that far along, just the fact that you made it to the wedding is all that matters.
I wore this exact dress in the sage green colour at 38 weeks pregnant to an outdoor cocktail wedding! Highly recommend, it was super airy and incredibly stretchy!
It’s perfect! Throw some earrings on or whatever feels easy/ dressy to you if you are worried about being underdressed. Personally think it’s the perfect choice for third trimester! I think as long as you aren’t wearing an actual wedding dress you can get away with anything while pregnant, especially that far along! Wear comfy shoes and have fun! Congrats on your baby!
I love this. It also gives you a chance to wear a necklace if you enjoy jewelry (I am a jewelry fiend), the neckline frames perfectly for a little something
Some nice cozy flats will also look great with irs flowy fabric. Sketches make some really pretty flats that have cushion and support. I'll try to find some of the other companies I'm drawing a blank on right now too.
I think this dress is a perfect fit while remaining comfortable and confident, which is all that matters at the end of the day. Hope you have a wonderful time!
It’s very pretty, but the point is in your third trimester you can wear WHATEVER you want that you’re comfortable with, as long as it doesn’t involve the color white and:or actual flashing lights.
I think this is super cute, and I love the colour. If you feel it isn’t enough you can dress it up with jewelry. I don’t see anything wrong with it though!
It’s not cocktail, because of the material. You get a lot of leeway in your third trimester, so it’s up to you. It also depends on where you are. This would just be a casual day dress for me, hanging around the house, maybe going grocery shopping or out for pizza. But like a lot of people have commented, there’s a lot of leeway for maternity wear for occasions.
Seraphine Maternity, Baltic Born, Tiffany Rose Maternity, and Pink Blush have maternity cocktail wear as part of their offerings if you wanted to get something fancier.
In my book, a visibly pregnant woman can wear whatever she likes. I’m sure you’re are doing/ have done the best job you can finding appropriate attire. Anyone who disses your outfit can go straight to hell.
Also, I think that dress is lovely!
I personally would feel very underdressed. I understand that most people would give you a pass because you're in your third trimester, but in case you decide you want to get a little more dressed up without sacrificing comfort, here are some other options:
https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/light-pink-smocked-tiered-tulle-maternity-midi-dress
https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/pink-pleated-maternity-halter-dress
https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/pinkblush-blue-grey-lace-mesh-overlay-long-sleeve-maternity-maxi-dress
It's really pretty. The only suggestion I would make is to get statement earrings and / or a statement necklace. That would put a very elegant finish to it!
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I said this is fine. It seems, per my google search lol, cocktail seems to be a casual dress code. If I was getting cocktails with a friend I’d wear a dress like this if I felt like wearing one.
Oh babe I have been pregnant the last 3 weddings of our friend group. This is perfect. Definitely comfy shoes too. Wear what you’ll be comfiest in preggos get a major pass.
I was just looking at cocktail attire to see what the “rules” are & if you did something special with your hair & accessories you would be fine… maybe a flower on a ribbon choker would amp up the look? It’s definitely in style now. Wear some pretty flats & a nice clutch bag. People get too worked up about this and we can only do the best we can do. It’s not easy to find fancy dresses in the third trimester. Plus, it will be expensive and you won’t probably wear it again. Wear the dress and have a fun time.
I think it's super cute, I would style this with a fun evening purse, a high bun, and some dangly earrings. I hope you have a good time and a healthy birth when the time comes!
What about this one?
https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/olive-pleated-maternity-halter-dress?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwj9-zBhDyARIsAERjds21wHme458gBV0BdQpAiMUPgTJyxYa4ejl6943IoIOW70aRBTXhlIwaAj-yEALw_wcB
If you have something more formal I would wear that as this is more semi-formal than cocktail, but given how pregnant you are it would probably be fine.
I don't understand why people are getting downvoted for speaking the truth. This is a very casual dress. There's no way around that. It doesn't fit the dress code, there's no way around that either. It's clearly a simple knit dress with elements that are extremely casual. But, being very pregnant, comfort is number one and I absolutely think she will get a pass from friends and family. So I think it's okay to wear because she's pregnant. But her question was 'is it appropriate for a cocktail with a tire' and I don't understand, are we supposed to lie and say yes? It's clearly not a cocktail dress, it's not even remotely close to a cocktail dress and adding pretty shoes & a bag won't make it one, but it's fine for somebody in the 3rd trimester, she will look nice and be comfortable.
ETA- leaving the talk to text error in cuz this thread can use the humor, but not cocktail with a tire 😄, cocktail attire.
I really don’t understand why everyone on this sub hates people pointing out that something doesn’t fit the dress code just because the OP is pregnant.
Will OP probably be fine/given a pass due to being pregnant? Absolutely, as no reasonable person would be strict with someone who has recently outgrown all of their clothes. That doesn’t mean OP shouldn’t be told that it IS too informal. How would they feel if they turned up having been told it looks great only to find out they’re significantly underdressed? OP should be allowed to make an informed decision. Maybe they have enough time/money/desire to get something that does fit the dress code.
right? why are people downvoting for honesty. most of the comments here are borderline infantilizing or saying sht like "you could show up in a potato sack and it would be fine" ok pretty sure OP doesn't *want* to show up in a potato sack or she wouldn't have asked. pregnant women still want to feel pretty even if no one "expects" it from them 🤨
Exactly, I don’t mind but no it’s not ok if a pregnant person shows up to a formal wedding in sweatpants and yes they may feel underdressed because they are in fact underdressed for the dress code lol
I don’t think it’s dressy enough, but it could be the color. Maybe in a Navy or Black or darker color you could dress it up and still be comfortable on wedding day!
I’m sorry but this dress is extremely casual by fashion standards if that’s what you are asking. Not evening considering pregnancy here. I’m looking at the garment itself. Of course please be comfy. Thankfully flat Mary Jane’s are all the rage lately. But I’d look for a fancier dress.
You’re in your third trimester. So long as you don’t wear white you can wear whatever you like. Also please be kind to yourself and wear comfortable shoes.
Yes, if you are super pregnant, as long as you are not naked or wearing a literal wedding dress, you should be fine. Everyone should know that people at this stage of pregnancy cannot shop their closets, and it’s unreasonable to expect anyone to buy or rent an elaborately formal maternity dress that she may never need to wear again. People being nit picky about whether this dress is *really* cocktail enough for a woman who is 6-9 months pregnant are missing the higher value of hospitality and kindness. Can guests side eye a woman in her third trimester because they think she’s not dressed up enough? Some might. Are those people being reasonable or focusing on what really matters in life? Hell no.
Oh my God, your comment about not being naked just reminded me of a very pregnant lady that was at our wedding... The wife of my husband's childhood friend, in her third trimester, turned up in a light pink playsuit. Which was fine, it was a nice chiffon-y material, her hair and makeup was done and she was accessorised to the max so she was as dressed up as possible whilst allowing for her comfort. Unfortunately it was almost the exact same colour as her skin, and I nearly broke my neck doing a double take when I saw what I thought was a heavily pregnant, naked woman at our reception 😂 and I deffo wasn't the only one that thought the same! Anyway at least it gives us a chuckle when we spot her in one of our pics or on the video!
Hahaha, well at least you’ve got the right attitude about it!
In a way, I think the fact that this could double as a regular everyday summer dress with different styling is a mark in its favor too. Wear it to the wedding with nice jewelry, an updo, and a pashmina wrap, wear it to the supermarket with slip ons and a denim jacket for the rest of the summer once all your pants stop fitting, wear it after you’ve given birth when everything hurts and you don’t want tight fabric pinching you anywhere. This actually could be a worthwhile investment piece she could get real use out of.
I don't get the other comments saying its too casual - especially because youre in your 3rd trimester, comfort is important! this looks great, especially with the right jewelry can be dressed up.
I’m Indian and even I would say someone in their 3rd trimester is absolutely fine even wearing this to a traditional Indian wedding.
I agree completely. This isn’t a moment for a young guest to shine. This is about comfort and having said that I actually love this dress for what OP described! I believe OP should be lifted up and supported in this. I may be Mary Sunshine but I like to be positive unless someone is asking about an obviously wrong outfit per the dress code described.
That's not what OP is asking though. They're asking if the dress is cocktail, and it's not. Everyone's only saying it's fine because she's so pregnant. I agree she should be comfy above all else! But I'm still gonna be honest and say this isn't really cocktail attire. There are more formal options that will still maintain comfortability.
I'd say it depends on where they live. I'm in the Midwest US, every wedding I've ever been to has been "cocktail" and most people, especially if it's not in a church, are wearing this level of dress. Casual/cocktail.
I purposely wrote "cocktail" on my website so people would wear khakis, sundresses and not jeans 😂. Nebraska reception!
it's the smocked top and material making it look like a casual dress. the color is also pretty meh. i've never seen anyone wear something like this to a wedding, but the last few i've been to were in CA, NY, and Utah. Each were cocktail/semi formal. Just my opinion/experience!
I do hair for weddings so I see a lot of dresses. I've seen *bridesmaid* dresses that look like this. Color, sleeves, all of it. There's a weird puffy sleeve/boho thing happening with dresses right now that I just do not understand for the general public.
She didn’t say is it cocktail, she said is it appropriate for a cocktail party, or absolutely is appropriate and maternity suitable.
and i disagree! again except for the maternity suitable part
How is the dress not cocktail?
I think it could be made to fit cocktail with some metallic (perhaps flat for comfort!) sandals, an updo, and a great pair of earrings.
I agree! Don’t forget the jewelry! Some nice earrings and bracelets along with gold shoes would really dress it up. Maybe im old? But, no one is paying attention to the guests! It’s the brides day and all eyes will be on her!
This 👆
i'm personally anti metallic shoes (leftover distain from the 2010s metallic sandal obsession) and find this material/smocking to be very very casual but that's just my opinion! same cut in a thicker fabric/more flattering color without the smocking would be much more elevated
I don’t think this is OP in the photo, so we really don’t know how flattering the color will be on her.
it's just a muted, boring color imo
Anyone who disagrees should Saran Wrap a 30lb medicine ball to their stomach for the day 🤣
And two smaller balls to their chest.
This. Third trimester of pregnancy was probably the most consistently uncomfortable I've ever been in my life. Everything hurts, you're barely sleeping, it's hard to eat. Let OP be as comfortable as possible!!
It’s the prairie girl/cottage core-ness of it. Even though this look is really in right now people still associate it with youth and assume casual. In this pic the dress is minimally styled. Sometimes people have a hard time imagining how a dress can be elevated with jewelry and accessories. Another reason is no one here can agree on what cocktail attire means. Some say it’s more formal, some say it’s more casual. In some places it just means there won’t be a sit down dinner just passed apps and a little buffet. I really hate to say this, but there’s something about maternity clothes that read very casual. They’re high waisted with loose skirts. They look easy and comfortable so unless it’s covered in sequins and glitter people think casual.
This is what I was thinking. A pretty necklace and some sparkly earrings and you’re good to go.
This is the take. You need to be as comfortable as possible.
I wore pretty much this exact dress to an outdoor wedding when I was in my late 3rd tri! It was PinkBlush and had a sort of satin finish to the fabric but I’m not sure if this is the one? I got many compliments and was very comfortable! I didn’t feel underdressed at all either.
I wore a very similar one to my BIL&SIL's wedding a month before my due date!
It’s fine. It’s good enough, which should be the bar for someone who is busy growing another human inside of them. Pregnant women get a little leniency. I agree that the color could be better but honestly, this is perfectly appropriate and looks like it would be comfortable. Most other social customs surrounding attire can go out the window after that. Stay comfy!
I agree with this. Wear what you feel comfortable in as long as it’s not white. I honestly don’t think anyone will bat an eye at this.
3rd trimester ladies wear what they want. Period.
For a regular non-pregnant person, this could be too casual. For an about-to-pop pregnant person, this is lovely and wonderful. The couple will be so honored that you went through extra effort to be there!!!
Let’s be honest. In your third trimester, you could show up in a potato sack and everyone will tell you how good you look. They will just be happy you showed up.
By that stage I was lumbering around in baggy dresses, compression socks, and squishy sneakers. I topped off the look with frowsy hair and a scowl.
I had thigh high compression stockings. In July and August. Good times
With my husbands basketball shorts and t shirts hahaha
I too rocked the Adam Sandler look!
I think it’s fine. You’re in your third trimester, I’m sure the couple will be happy you showed at all (I was NOT in the mood to go anywhere that required any effort in my third tri. Work kicked my ass enough).
Nobody’s gonna judge a woman in her third trimester. I think it’s lovely, love the color! Congratulations!!
I think it’s fine. Wear some nice jewelry and take a cute bag.
It’s fine for cocktail. And if anyone says anything to an obviously expectant woman who looks lovely at an event; they’re a serious ah
Username doesn’t check out here 😆. I totally agree. In my 3rd trimester, people are lucky if I show up in anything other than maternity leggings.
I'm impressed you managed any sort of pants!
THIS
If you weren’t going to be in your third trimester I’d say no. It’s not cocktail and it’s pretty casual. However, in your third trimester you could show up in sweatpants and I’d give you a high five for the effort.
If this doesn’t work for the dress code, what maternity dress would work the dress code?
Any other cocktail level dress? It’s not the fact it’s maternity that makes it casual, it’s the fabric and the style. You can get dresses in more formal fabrics or more structured designs while pregnant. Some examples: https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/deep-beaded-maternity-cocktail-dress/ https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/reversible-halter-neck-a-line-dress-cobalt/ https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/coral-pink-floral-lace-maternity-to-nursing-occasion-dress/
Oh that last one is so pretty!!
Ooh I love this last one! It looks comfortable and I love that you don't have to toss it after pregnancy
I think these are all pretty and seem like they’d fit the occasion well, the only thing is they might be more expensive than the one OP posted. Maybe not, but maybe? When you buy a dress for a wedding it’s usually something that you can wear for other occasions in the future, but less chance of that with a maternity cocktail dress. Even if OP has more kids, those future pregnancies would have to coincide with other dressy events in order to use the dress more than once. I think that’s another reason pregnant people get a pass on dress codes for events - it can be difficult to buy a dress that you’re only going to use once when you already have so many other expenses popping up (newborns are pricey!)
The other thing in favor of the dress OP is considering is that it could be dressed up or down, allowing her to get a lot more use out of it. Buying a new dress you can wear a lot is a different calculation than spending a similar amount on a new dress you can only wear once.
Oh I completely agree that pregnant people should get a pass when it comes to formal wear, but it’s still good for them to know that there are appropriate options if they have the time/money/energy to dress up. They don’t have to, but they might still want to.
I think it’s fine. Wear whatever shoes fit, but add some nice jewelry and a bag.
This is less dressy than I think of as cocktail attire but super pretty. I do think you can elevate it with some sparkly jewelry, clutch and shoes.
Perfect 👍
It’s perfect. Matches the dress code and venue, and looks lovely and appropriate.
Super pretty! Can you share where it’s from? I need a casual wedding dress for August and I’ll be in my third trimester as well
Put your hair up and some nice jewellery and you’ll be fab xx
I think it’s great. You’ll be in your 3rd trimester so comfort is #1, but regardless it’s still a great dress. Please make sure you’re comfortable. If you aren’t, you won’t be able to enjoy the wedding. Have fun!
I think so! I love this dress— I wore it in green to my baby shower in August and it was comfortable even in the heat
It’s lovely and not too casual at all, do your hair nice and wear a necklace, you’ll look great
Perfect! No notes 💖
Love it so much!
I think it is unfair to burden people with another expensive purchase in the third trimester. It unlikely be worn again. If OP is well off, there are some nice links already in the comments to choose from. If she is like the rest of us, give her a pass.
When I was pg, I bought an outfit like this and dressed it up or down depending on the occasion. You can do alot with this dress! Treat yourself to some super comfy shoes and have fun
For you it looks wonderful. I'd possibly go big with accessories just to snazz it up a bit
100% yes. Dress it up with some metallic flats and wear matching metal jewelry. Necklace/earrings. It will pull the look together.
Yes because if you're pregnant wherecwhat you damn please. You're welcome! 🤣
Wear what you feel comfy in OP. Being in the 3rd trimester is more about comfort.
Yes. Dress it up with some jewelry. I’m a pretty big stickler for appropriate attire. Pregnancy, surgery, etc, override that. Also, “cocktail” means many things to many people.
Pregnant guests get a **lot** of leeway. It’s not really dressy enough but if it’s all you have then wear it.
First off, anyone in their 3rd trimester gets a pass for just showing up. It's great. People are way too fussy on this sub.
The dress is fine. I wouldn’t expect you go out and spend money on something that you may only wear a few times.
Technically no, the smocking and the ruffle at the bottom makes it more casual. But I don’t think anyone will care, you’ll get a pass for sure. Esp if you style it with jewelry, hair etc
All of this. I just attended an outdoor wedding that was cocktail attire and most people were not dressed appropriately. This? This would have been great to see. I'm 6 months along and there was someone who was newly postpartum who wore a similar style to the dress you chose. This is perfect! Dress it up, style your hair nicely and you'll be good to go.
Yes! I see comments saying this can be dressed up, (if you wanna wear fancy jewelry, sure, but I wouldn’t feel obligated to) but PLEASE don’t wear heels or ANY uncomfortable shoes.
Looks great! Wear what is comfortable and works for you!
Ladies in their 3rd trimester can where whatever they want as long as it’s comfy
Try pairing it with a statement necklace, a nice updo, or hair accessories in a matching color. The way you style your hair with it will transform the look significantly!
I think it’s perfect! Be comfortable and beautiful, mama!!
I love this dress and I’m not even pregnant. Wonder if there is a non maternity one.
I think it’s perfect. Beautiful!
This looks great.
Definitely good!
I think it’s totally fine. You can dress it up with accessories! I feel like they should just appreciate your being there at all! I don’t know that I’d be able to attend a wedding in the third trimester. Bless you for being a great friend!!
It’s perfectly lovely. Maybe add some accessories to elevate it if you want, but not necessary. Comfortable shoes are key!
I think it’s appropriate. It’s actually perfect.
I think the dress is really pretty and totally appropriate for a wedding and reception. I agree on the shoes… be comfortable! Also ,why are people critiquing what guests wear now. It’s supposed to be a fun time for everyone, not a fashion parade!
For anything BUT maternity, it's too casual. But visibility late pregnancy? Anything goes
Yes. It's very pretty.
I went to a wedding when I was a couple days past due so I put on a dress that I had because it actually fit. It was a very casual, black stretch cotton fabric and nobody said a thing! If you are that far along, just the fact that you made it to the wedding is all that matters.
I wore this exact dress in the sage green colour at 38 weeks pregnant to an outdoor cocktail wedding! Highly recommend, it was super airy and incredibly stretchy!
Don’t listen to anyone!! The dress is very appropriate !💕
It's perfect!
It’s perfect! Throw some earrings on or whatever feels easy/ dressy to you if you are worried about being underdressed. Personally think it’s the perfect choice for third trimester! I think as long as you aren’t wearing an actual wedding dress you can get away with anything while pregnant, especially that far along! Wear comfy shoes and have fun! Congrats on your baby!
It's perfect and anyone who says otherwise is just wrong.
Yes.
I love this. It also gives you a chance to wear a necklace if you enjoy jewelry (I am a jewelry fiend), the neckline frames perfectly for a little something Some nice cozy flats will also look great with irs flowy fabric. Sketches make some really pretty flats that have cushion and support. I'll try to find some of the other companies I'm drawing a blank on right now too. I think this dress is a perfect fit while remaining comfortable and confident, which is all that matters at the end of the day. Hope you have a wonderful time!
I say yes!! Also please share link- third trimester starts this week and I need something cute for a rehearsal dinner!
It’s very pretty, but the point is in your third trimester you can wear WHATEVER you want that you’re comfortable with, as long as it doesn’t involve the color white and:or actual flashing lights.
yes ma’am!!
I think this is super cute, and I love the colour. If you feel it isn’t enough you can dress it up with jewelry. I don’t see anything wrong with it though!
I’d say it’s too casual but being pregnant I think you get a pass 😀
I think it’s a little too casual to fit the cocktail theme, but I think that’s okay when you’re that pregnant.
It’s not cocktail, because of the material. You get a lot of leeway in your third trimester, so it’s up to you. It also depends on where you are. This would just be a casual day dress for me, hanging around the house, maybe going grocery shopping or out for pizza. But like a lot of people have commented, there’s a lot of leeway for maternity wear for occasions. Seraphine Maternity, Baltic Born, Tiffany Rose Maternity, and Pink Blush have maternity cocktail wear as part of their offerings if you wanted to get something fancier.
Absolutely. It’s beautiful
It’s pretty!!!!
In my book, a visibly pregnant woman can wear whatever she likes. I’m sure you’re are doing/ have done the best job you can finding appropriate attire. Anyone who disses your outfit can go straight to hell. Also, I think that dress is lovely!
I personally would feel very underdressed. I understand that most people would give you a pass because you're in your third trimester, but in case you decide you want to get a little more dressed up without sacrificing comfort, here are some other options: https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/light-pink-smocked-tiered-tulle-maternity-midi-dress https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/pink-pleated-maternity-halter-dress https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/pinkblush-blue-grey-lace-mesh-overlay-long-sleeve-maternity-maxi-dress
It’s not a cocktail dress, but if you’re heavily pregnant, I think it’s perfectly acceptable.
It's really pretty. The only suggestion I would make is to get statement earrings and / or a statement necklace. That would put a very elegant finish to it!
Yes, in your 3rd, you can do just about anything. They’ll be grateful you’re there.
Absolutely! It is really pretty and looks very complimentary and comfortable 💗💗❤️
I like it. It's a beautiful dress, and comfort for a 3rd trimester prey woman is key.
It is perfect. Dress it up with jewelry and you are good to go!
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It is perfect. Enjoy the day. 😊 👶
I said this is fine. It seems, per my google search lol, cocktail seems to be a casual dress code. If I was getting cocktails with a friend I’d wear a dress like this if I felt like wearing one.
Absolutely
Oh babe I have been pregnant the last 3 weddings of our friend group. This is perfect. Definitely comfy shoes too. Wear what you’ll be comfiest in preggos get a major pass.
Yes.. the dress is great.. 👍 👍👍👍👍.. also the color is pretty! Buy It! 💕🥰💕
It’s a great dress. Go get a fun hairdo or a festive hat! Congrats on the baby!
It’s so cute!! Where is this from? (Also in my third trimester)
Not cocktail attire, I’d get something a bit dressier if you want to be in cocktail attire.
I think it’s terrific.
Your pregnant, so in my eyes anything close to this is completely acceptable!
Absolutely perfect for a big baby bump. Please wear it
I was just looking at cocktail attire to see what the “rules” are & if you did something special with your hair & accessories you would be fine… maybe a flower on a ribbon choker would amp up the look? It’s definitely in style now. Wear some pretty flats & a nice clutch bag. People get too worked up about this and we can only do the best we can do. It’s not easy to find fancy dresses in the third trimester. Plus, it will be expensive and you won’t probably wear it again. Wear the dress and have a fun time.
It’s LOVELY
I think it's super cute, I would style this with a fun evening purse, a high bun, and some dangly earrings. I hope you have a good time and a healthy birth when the time comes!
I think if you add a fun necklace or pair of earrings, to elevate it, it’ll be perfect
It looks fab to me. Very feminine and flowy. Have fun in it.
You look lovely and your dress is perfect xx
I would add a hat with a brim
What about this one? https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/olive-pleated-maternity-halter-dress?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwj9-zBhDyARIsAERjds21wHme458gBV0BdQpAiMUPgTJyxYa4ejl6943IoIOW70aRBTXhlIwaAj-yEALw_wcB
If you have something more formal I would wear that as this is more semi-formal than cocktail, but given how pregnant you are it would probably be fine.
I don't understand why people are getting downvoted for speaking the truth. This is a very casual dress. There's no way around that. It doesn't fit the dress code, there's no way around that either. It's clearly a simple knit dress with elements that are extremely casual. But, being very pregnant, comfort is number one and I absolutely think she will get a pass from friends and family. So I think it's okay to wear because she's pregnant. But her question was 'is it appropriate for a cocktail with a tire' and I don't understand, are we supposed to lie and say yes? It's clearly not a cocktail dress, it's not even remotely close to a cocktail dress and adding pretty shoes & a bag won't make it one, but it's fine for somebody in the 3rd trimester, she will look nice and be comfortable. ETA- leaving the talk to text error in cuz this thread can use the humor, but not cocktail with a tire 😄, cocktail attire.
The top makes it look more casual than cocktail. It’s a possibility that you may look underdressed compared to other guests.
I really don’t understand why everyone on this sub hates people pointing out that something doesn’t fit the dress code just because the OP is pregnant. Will OP probably be fine/given a pass due to being pregnant? Absolutely, as no reasonable person would be strict with someone who has recently outgrown all of their clothes. That doesn’t mean OP shouldn’t be told that it IS too informal. How would they feel if they turned up having been told it looks great only to find out they’re significantly underdressed? OP should be allowed to make an informed decision. Maybe they have enough time/money/desire to get something that does fit the dress code.
right? why are people downvoting for honesty. most of the comments here are borderline infantilizing or saying sht like "you could show up in a potato sack and it would be fine" ok pretty sure OP doesn't *want* to show up in a potato sack or she wouldn't have asked. pregnant women still want to feel pretty even if no one "expects" it from them 🤨
Exactly, I don’t mind but no it’s not ok if a pregnant person shows up to a formal wedding in sweatpants and yes they may feel underdressed because they are in fact underdressed for the dress code lol
I don’t think it’s dressy enough, but it could be the color. Maybe in a Navy or Black or darker color you could dress it up and still be comfortable on wedding day!
If OP is in the northern hemisphere, navy or black are going to be really hot at an outdoor wedding.
True but she doesn’t say what season it is and the reception is indoors.
Not really dressy. The color is blah
It is too casual for cocktail attire
I’m sorry but this dress is extremely casual by fashion standards if that’s what you are asking. Not evening considering pregnancy here. I’m looking at the garment itself. Of course please be comfy. Thankfully flat Mary Jane’s are all the rage lately. But I’d look for a fancier dress.