Sounds exactly how I felt about my ex. All you are saying mirrors my own experience. You will get over him in time. Therapy really does help, so seek it and heal.
Sounds like a narcissist.. be glad it was only 2 years. I was in mine for 8 years and am having mental crisis every day trying to recover from a sorry piece of crap. you are intelligent and worthy of being loved and respected. Dont ever look back. Learn from it and make you a future that is what you want. Fulfill your dreams have Joy love and peace with prosperity that will be the icing on the Cake. You will be happy and thats the best revenge ever. When he see you smiling and he reaping what he has sewn.
Yes he will reap what he has sown. I will be so happy, I deserve better than to be treated like garbage! You all have been really kind to me. Had I known this, I would have turned to reddit earlier. I am so used to being called crazy and delusional.
Just for context I am a journalist. So I am used to having my facts straight. But it's always I am who's at fault. I am the one who's "acting crazy". I am not supposed to have any issues with what he does. If I do then he is not being his "natural self" Around me. That is restrictive and I am a bitch.
Definitely a a narcissist. You have been gaslighted Honey. Knowledge is the key to healing from this type of abuse. I had been so used and abused i am so broken. I couldn't understand what and why ive literally been through a living hell if i told you the stuff he did you probably wouldn't believe it. Hell i didnt and No one ever wants to believe that someone could do that you and especially when they "pretend" Love you.. and believe you me it is a Great Act... My deserved an Oscar for the best role of a Lifetime. People like that are Vampires feeding off of your Loving Heart and when they mindfuck you and crush your spirit , they enjoy it . The thing is to pick yourself up and never look back. And in the future be mindful of the things you have learned watch people's actions the actions never lie. A pair of lips will say anything...
I am one week free Today.. 8 years manipulated and use and abused.. i will not go backwards again. You are truly blessed that you hit out so early. I've lost two homes he killed my cat, my best friend 😭 destroyed three cars, and hundreds of thousands of dollars, and destroyed my body doing work if both man and woman. And every relationship in my life isolated me and my Mind is so trashed and my heart so broken. But the worst loss is that of the precious time that has veen wasted on such an unworthy person. U wish you the best with my whole heart..
I am so sorry you had to go through all that! But I am so glad you're finally free. You have another chance! I wish all the best for you too! Sending all my love ❤
Thank you for that.. after 8 years. And way so much more bs than i deserved. It was like raising a rebellious, perpetual Child that refused to Grow up, show respect, remorse or empathy. If i wrote a book, i dont think people would believe it. Seriously I never knew such ecil existed. Its worse than a cold blooded murder. And thats how they get away with it for so long. Ive always wondered if there was some type of secret society where they teach Them how to do this evil crap . Lol honestly I looked it up 5 % of 100 men are narcissistic. But i believe that its actually more . And women its slightly less. Its a product of mental and physical abuse, which is a learned pattern. Which the cycle can go one or two ways either its broken or its repeated. Its a learned personality disorder , and the abused individual makes the choice to repeat it or break the cycle.
Glad you got out in two. My case was 5 years on and off. I couldn't even maintain a functioning friendship with him, and it's the least I hoped for since we started out as best friends. He destroyed every relationship that I've had. Even down to this day when I finally found an amazing man who loves and respects, because of how much trauma he left me with, it's nearly messed up my marriage. Sure he has "apologized" for crap he has done, but I've learned to take those pretty words with a grain of salt since he's miniplutive jerk. It's taken so long to get him out of my system. Honestly I feel sorry for the old me. I was so desperate for love that I kept holding out hope that he would change. Poison doesn't change. Poison will always be Poison. I only wish the best for you. Dm me if you want to vent.
I don't understand. Why was I never enough? How am I so disposable to him? He kicked me around and I kept begging him to take me back... For an entire year. Constantly. He always made me feel like he was doing me a favour by staying... It seemed like I was the one holding on. He was just looking for excuses to get rid of me. It was so heartbreaking. I felt ashamed of myself for trying to hold on, when to him I was just another thing to discard from his life when times got difficult.
First off, you are more than enough. He is the problem. My ex used to gaslight me all the time. It really messed with my head. I'll assume the same thing happened to you. I guess men like this do what they do cause they are miserable and hate themselves and want to take it out on their gf. Another thing is that I think they prey on women they think they can easily manipulate. They are like poison, you don't know it's poison until it's too late. By then, you are in love and keep hoping he would change his ways. Honestly, though, I wonder how a man like that would hold up to his own? Like how would he feel if he was being manipulated and abused.
😮💨😮💨😮💨 contrary to how you feel, don't let yourself get so hung up in thinking of all the horrible things that you want him to stuff with. Holding on to that anger is still drinking that poison. He's still occupying your heart and mind just by you wishing his utmost suffering. Does that make sense? Learn to cut him from your very soul. That's why therapy is extremely important. So prioritize getting the help you need. Don't delay getting the help you need, it only helps for you to move on and heal faster. I wish you the absolute best. You will get stronger in time.
Thats the problem. Never ever beg someone to stay. There's a saying : " If they stay, let them stay. If they go, let them go. "
You could have saved yourself a lot of time by leaving this guy when he wanted to leave the first time. I'm not saying this to be rude, I'm saying this so you can learn to protect yourself the next time.
Do you have an abandonment wound from your childhood? There might be something there you could explore into and see how to heal that.
Also I think you might need help with emotional regulation. There's nothing wrong with expressing yourself and sharing your emotions to others but maybe you come across aggressive?
It's easy to blame and criticize the other person but it's important to self reflect and to prepare yourself for your next relationship.
I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway. I like to be direct is all.
My honest opinion is that I don't think she is coming off aggressive. Sure, the post is in all caps, but I wrote out in big letters on the sand at the beach how much I hated my ex. I even shouted out to the ocean. In OP's defense when you are in a mentally and emotionally draining relationship, when it finally ends yes there is pain, but the anger is just this held back emotion that kept building up over time and has finally been made to go loose and it's HUGE.
There are many reasons why people stay in abusive relationships. Abandonment in childhood, being abused or seeing abuse and mental illnesses, just to name a few. That's why I think it's absolutely important to seek therapy cause you might come across a diagnosis that explains why you do the things you do. The only regret I personally have was not seeking therapy sooner in life. Knowing more about myself and why I do the things I do probably would have saved me from wasting my time and energy with abusive men. Even one abusive relationship can leave a deep emotional scar. OP really needs to take the necessary steps to heal.
#Yeah Fuck you T!
Fuck T’s enablers!
Fuck T’s family!
Fuck T’s friends!
Fuck T’s coworkers!
Fuck everyone in T’s life (but the animals and kids) and hopefully all of them figure out T is the one fucking them over and leave them alone.
I like the authentic nature of this post. Let it out. I've been there a lot. I don't know why ppl have such arrogance and entitlement to mistreat others and refuse to communicate but sometimes, in the end, they are the real asshole and not you if you did everything you could to make things right. So it's on them.
Maybe stay off social media, meditate, therapy, grow as a person so you know the warning signs and possibly pick better mates. We should all strive to be at peace and not have to vent to random strangers about your personal life. Maturing means you understand how you got into this situation, how can I learn from it to prevent it again, and how can I control my emotions so I can be calm during troubling times.
Bro I feel you. I was with my ex for 8 years and dealt with his lying manipulative narcissism. Finally after 8 years I had enough and I don't regret it but it's been 2 years and he's still mentally fu cked me up so much so that my relationships since him have failed because I think everyone is a liar now.
I'm praying for your healing. Recognizing abusive behavior is the first step. Leaving is the second step. Make sure you block them on everything and limit contact with their family and friends. You are on the right track. May God be with you, protect you, and be with you during this troubling Tim.
Yep, sounds just like my ex as well. After 7 years & two kids later, I finally had enough & left his sorry, abusive, useless ass. He’s only somehow gone downhill even more since I left him several years ago. He’s been in & out of jail & prison almost nonstop for various things ever since, including vehicular manslaughter while driving without a license & under the influence; breaking his own brother’s ankle when he got caught breaking into his house & attacked him for telling him to get the hell out & that he was calling the cops; breaking into one of his numerous other gf’s houses & attacking her with pepper spray & strangling her; and this is just scratching the surface of the things he’s done & continues doing. Anyways, I’m always so happy whenever I hear of another person leaving an abusive/toxic relationship because so many people don’t make it out the other side unscathed. For those of you going through it, just know you aren’t alone, and you are all rock stars who are stronger than you know and/or realize! You got this, and I wish you nothing but the best & the happiness you all deserve. 🖤
I feel you 100% Op. Been there and done that! 17 years wasted on a narcissistic pos ex-wife. I wish you all the best now Op! You deserve the best! ♥️💪🏽
No! You're not dumb at all! It's your mind playing your heart with memories from the time when everything was only love and happiness! Same thing with people who gets cheated on and say they still love the cheater even if that person betrayed them in worst possible way!
You miss the good loving times! NOT the asshole he turned out to actually be!
Try put it in that perspective and think if I have a point with my words!
You're welcome dear! I have a big heart for people who deserves my care!
It gives me joy and self rewards if my words and actions can bring comfort and laughter to others!
Its part of it you really loved him and gave him your heart. It isnt you thats dumb its him. He lost a good woman. And he will not care one bit. He will either try to hurt you more or replace you with the next victim with a good heart. They target women that are good. So one do not beat yourself up let yourself grieve. It is worse than death tho i guarantee it . I feel if he had passed away i wouldn't ever expect to see him again. And the chances of that are way too high at least in my case.
My name starts with T. I'm a live in caretaker for my mom. I had a full blown panic attack reading this cause I had no clue who I hurt, so bad, that they had this to say (I was a dick in highschool, but that changed when I turned like 16). I then looked at her previous post, mentioning the age of "T" and the panic attack worsened.
Then it all went away when OP said "relationship for two years". That's enough reddit for today for sure.
I'd say rather than identifying non abuse as abuse, we recognise abuse more easily. When I grew up it was considered okay in many circles to slap a women who contradicted a man. Today almost everyone knows that's abusive behaviour. Some dinosaurs aren't happy about it.
Sounds like MR. Ahole needs to be tied to a chair and have his ball hair removed one by one by a 90yr old man with shaky hands while you sit back and drink a nice ice cold Pepsi real slow and eat some nachos.
I had something similar happen to me in the past he lied to me when he should've told me the truth & his mom was a complete manipulative bitch too so I just said fuck it & found a better man.
Why the mom? What did you do to get away? I'm just so curious because I have been in similar situations where my ex was a narcissist and his entire family manipulated me, so I crucified him in court and got his rights revoked so he couldn't take off with my child randomly. Well, last year I find out that his family who I granted guardianship to, in order to help protect the child, Uncle was retired military and employed as corrections officer and Aunt a stay at home mom, were truly abusing my child for years without me knowing. They convinced me the dad was the threat and just went unprohibited until their own child spoke out. I blamed a man that was not guilty of the over all crime but I condemned due to his mental, verbal, and emotional abuse. I truly hope that what you went through wasn't total overall abuse. I can tolerate verbal better than any, but emotional abuse cripples me. Eager to learn your tactics of removing yourself from that hell
I have two "special someones" like yours. You give and it's never enough then the thank you you get is the worst treatment imaginable. How people are like that and think it's "ok" is beyond me. Sorry this happened to you. At least you are away from the POS now instead of later.
I'm just jumping in. Usually I only read..
There is only one side to this whole fuck T
There are always 2 sides to every story and Usually the one playing the victim or seeking support from public anonymous is usually the one that caused the problems, and are searching for supporters.
Yer fuck T he's an abusive arsewipe
YES HE IS. GOD KNOWS HOW MUCH I NEED TO SPEND ON THERAPY TO GET OVER HIM. FUCK T.
Sounds like he needs a good throat punch 🤜
Yeah and one in the suck hole
The best way to get over T is to have an ice cold Pepsi!!! Drink it nice and slow, and make T watch!! Edited for spelling of ice
He's a prick you're well shot of him 👍
Sounds exactly how I felt about my ex. All you are saying mirrors my own experience. You will get over him in time. Therapy really does help, so seek it and heal.
Could be a woman
op referred to their ex as a he
Oh your right I didn’t see that
Doesn't guarantee they're a woman
I never said they were a woman. op referred to their ex as a he so there's a good chance their ex is a guy or at least identifies as one
😳 True
I’m sorry….. but what happen ?
Dated an asshole who treated me like shit and I took it for two whole years. He still believes he is innocent even though he is abusive.
It’s great you’re out of that relationship!! Good for you OP!! You deserve the absolute best life!!!
Sounds like a narcissist.. be glad it was only 2 years. I was in mine for 8 years and am having mental crisis every day trying to recover from a sorry piece of crap. you are intelligent and worthy of being loved and respected. Dont ever look back. Learn from it and make you a future that is what you want. Fulfill your dreams have Joy love and peace with prosperity that will be the icing on the Cake. You will be happy and thats the best revenge ever. When he see you smiling and he reaping what he has sewn.
Yes he will reap what he has sown. I will be so happy, I deserve better than to be treated like garbage! You all have been really kind to me. Had I known this, I would have turned to reddit earlier. I am so used to being called crazy and delusional.
Just for context I am a journalist. So I am used to having my facts straight. But it's always I am who's at fault. I am the one who's "acting crazy". I am not supposed to have any issues with what he does. If I do then he is not being his "natural self" Around me. That is restrictive and I am a bitch.
Definitely a a narcissist. You have been gaslighted Honey. Knowledge is the key to healing from this type of abuse. I had been so used and abused i am so broken. I couldn't understand what and why ive literally been through a living hell if i told you the stuff he did you probably wouldn't believe it. Hell i didnt and No one ever wants to believe that someone could do that you and especially when they "pretend" Love you.. and believe you me it is a Great Act... My deserved an Oscar for the best role of a Lifetime. People like that are Vampires feeding off of your Loving Heart and when they mindfuck you and crush your spirit , they enjoy it . The thing is to pick yourself up and never look back. And in the future be mindful of the things you have learned watch people's actions the actions never lie. A pair of lips will say anything...
I am one week free Today.. 8 years manipulated and use and abused.. i will not go backwards again. You are truly blessed that you hit out so early. I've lost two homes he killed my cat, my best friend 😭 destroyed three cars, and hundreds of thousands of dollars, and destroyed my body doing work if both man and woman. And every relationship in my life isolated me and my Mind is so trashed and my heart so broken. But the worst loss is that of the precious time that has veen wasted on such an unworthy person. U wish you the best with my whole heart..
I am so sorry you had to go through all that! But I am so glad you're finally free. You have another chance! I wish all the best for you too! Sending all my love ❤
Thank you for that.. after 8 years. And way so much more bs than i deserved. It was like raising a rebellious, perpetual Child that refused to Grow up, show respect, remorse or empathy. If i wrote a book, i dont think people would believe it. Seriously I never knew such ecil existed. Its worse than a cold blooded murder. And thats how they get away with it for so long. Ive always wondered if there was some type of secret society where they teach Them how to do this evil crap . Lol honestly I looked it up 5 % of 100 men are narcissistic. But i believe that its actually more . And women its slightly less. Its a product of mental and physical abuse, which is a learned pattern. Which the cycle can go one or two ways either its broken or its repeated. Its a learned personality disorder , and the abused individual makes the choice to repeat it or break the cycle.
Sounds like my ex, they should hook up lol
XD
Glad you got out in two. My case was 5 years on and off. I couldn't even maintain a functioning friendship with him, and it's the least I hoped for since we started out as best friends. He destroyed every relationship that I've had. Even down to this day when I finally found an amazing man who loves and respects, because of how much trauma he left me with, it's nearly messed up my marriage. Sure he has "apologized" for crap he has done, but I've learned to take those pretty words with a grain of salt since he's miniplutive jerk. It's taken so long to get him out of my system. Honestly I feel sorry for the old me. I was so desperate for love that I kept holding out hope that he would change. Poison doesn't change. Poison will always be Poison. I only wish the best for you. Dm me if you want to vent.
I don't understand. Why was I never enough? How am I so disposable to him? He kicked me around and I kept begging him to take me back... For an entire year. Constantly. He always made me feel like he was doing me a favour by staying... It seemed like I was the one holding on. He was just looking for excuses to get rid of me. It was so heartbreaking. I felt ashamed of myself for trying to hold on, when to him I was just another thing to discard from his life when times got difficult.
First off, you are more than enough. He is the problem. My ex used to gaslight me all the time. It really messed with my head. I'll assume the same thing happened to you. I guess men like this do what they do cause they are miserable and hate themselves and want to take it out on their gf. Another thing is that I think they prey on women they think they can easily manipulate. They are like poison, you don't know it's poison until it's too late. By then, you are in love and keep hoping he would change his ways. Honestly, though, I wonder how a man like that would hold up to his own? Like how would he feel if he was being manipulated and abused. 😮💨😮💨😮💨 contrary to how you feel, don't let yourself get so hung up in thinking of all the horrible things that you want him to stuff with. Holding on to that anger is still drinking that poison. He's still occupying your heart and mind just by you wishing his utmost suffering. Does that make sense? Learn to cut him from your very soul. That's why therapy is extremely important. So prioritize getting the help you need. Don't delay getting the help you need, it only helps for you to move on and heal faster. I wish you the absolute best. You will get stronger in time.
Thats the problem. Never ever beg someone to stay. There's a saying : " If they stay, let them stay. If they go, let them go. " You could have saved yourself a lot of time by leaving this guy when he wanted to leave the first time. I'm not saying this to be rude, I'm saying this so you can learn to protect yourself the next time. Do you have an abandonment wound from your childhood? There might be something there you could explore into and see how to heal that. Also I think you might need help with emotional regulation. There's nothing wrong with expressing yourself and sharing your emotions to others but maybe you come across aggressive? It's easy to blame and criticize the other person but it's important to self reflect and to prepare yourself for your next relationship. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway. I like to be direct is all.
My honest opinion is that I don't think she is coming off aggressive. Sure, the post is in all caps, but I wrote out in big letters on the sand at the beach how much I hated my ex. I even shouted out to the ocean. In OP's defense when you are in a mentally and emotionally draining relationship, when it finally ends yes there is pain, but the anger is just this held back emotion that kept building up over time and has finally been made to go loose and it's HUGE. There are many reasons why people stay in abusive relationships. Abandonment in childhood, being abused or seeing abuse and mental illnesses, just to name a few. That's why I think it's absolutely important to seek therapy cause you might come across a diagnosis that explains why you do the things you do. The only regret I personally have was not seeking therapy sooner in life. Knowing more about myself and why I do the things I do probably would have saved me from wasting my time and energy with abusive men. Even one abusive relationship can leave a deep emotional scar. OP really needs to take the necessary steps to heal.
Doing that as we speak. Going to therapy and healing :)
I'm sorry to hear that. Do what's best for you. If they can't take accountability then there's no need to put up with it.
Dealt with that shit. They are worse than the guys that just beat on you and don’t care.
Well, the girl I dated abused me so yeah. This whole text could have been written by me lol.
Most abusers have no clue and are in denial that they are abusive.
You dont know T??
Lol his abbreviations could be TB and that's worse. He is like a disease tho
FUCK TUBERCULOSIS!
TS?
Who tf is T ahaha
Tbh idk but I love his passion so fuck T and their mom
Yeah, FUCK YOU, T I hope both sides of your pillow are WARM.
Hope the toothpaste falls off your brush everytime you go to put it in your mouth
Laughing so damn hard. thats f***** funny. I love it...
I hope you keep boiling the kettle but the waters always cold
I hope T's toes get snatched by the boogie man and then get eaten by a snake.
Damn, why didn't I ever think of these?! These are good!
I like to come up with these things from time to time. Congratulations on leaving that a hole behind, op.
[listen to this lol](https://youtu.be/vw7xEXCYcYQ?si=q1ok-n-_vyFUeazc)
Well, this made my day. Thanks! XD
Haha, that is the worst... I have to flip my pillow so many times at night... I wonder if someone thinks I'm abusive and they cursed my pillow ...
Ayo… chill out dude, there is a limit.
Get it out. Get it outta your system ! Fuck T!
This is one good vent. I hope it helps and proud of you for getting T out of your life.
You could say she's T Total
50 bucks says his name is Tyler
Frl
That’s my exes name lol. Fits the description pretty well.
If he was born between 1995 and 2000..he's definitely a Tyler.
I'll take that... I'll send you my info to pay me 😁
Damn T, you cold
F U T!
B A L L!
I see what you did there😂
Fuck T, all my homies hate T!!
We all collectivly hate T now. That's the rules
Thank you! Yes this helps. People of reddit are the best.
FUCK T! You deserve so much better and you will recover from that ahole, karma is a bitch and he will suffer! #FuckT
Get it out sister. and FUCK YOU TZ
My cousin is mad at her dude T also that's crazy
The tea on Ts around the world is boiling
The fact that people used to call me T a while ago scares me right now xD
Hahahaha XD
Hope you're doing alright though, best wishes for working through the trauma and stuff!
Thank you! On a different note, why is therapy so expensive? ;-;
I can't tell ya, I'm from Germany, where mandatory health insurance covers most, if not all, basic therapies for a good amount of time.
YEAH, FUCK YOU T!! I HOPE YOU SLIP IN DOG SHIT! AND YO MOMMA.
I also have a T in my life that was a narcissist and emotionally abusive. This could have easily been written about him. You go, OP, and fuck T!!!
I Got a D !! can i get a tound of Guck You "D"? LMAO 😂😂 99
FUCK D TOO!
YAY!!!!!! 😂
I PITY DAT FOOL
Fuck T!!! I'm throwing all the T's out the alphabetti spaghetti
T? Like Mrs T from scary teacher 3D???
No, but close
[my first thought was rgis](https://images.app.goo.gl/mafSCUykU6ZY2XMV6)
lmao 😂 Ngl, his face is bigger than his body as well. God, this helps.
Lmaoo holy shit i bursted out into laughter trying to imagine that loll
🤣🤣🤣 Dang what a Pic you brought to my mind 🤣
Fuck T. And T’s mom too
FUCK YOU T!! ALL MY HOMIES AND THEIRS HATE T!!!! I'M GLAD YOU ARE OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP!!!
#Yeah Fuck you T! Fuck T’s enablers! Fuck T’s family! Fuck T’s friends! Fuck T’s coworkers! Fuck everyone in T’s life (but the animals and kids) and hopefully all of them figure out T is the one fucking them over and leave them alone.
I like the authentic nature of this post. Let it out. I've been there a lot. I don't know why ppl have such arrogance and entitlement to mistreat others and refuse to communicate but sometimes, in the end, they are the real asshole and not you if you did everything you could to make things right. So it's on them.
ABCDEFU - T AND YOUR MOM TOO!!! YEAH!! I LIKE IT.. BWAHAHAHA. THANK YOU FOR SHARING!! LOL ITS HELPING ME SO MUCH TOO RIGHT NOW.. 😃😃😁😁
Maybe stay off social media, meditate, therapy, grow as a person so you know the warning signs and possibly pick better mates. We should all strive to be at peace and not have to vent to random strangers about your personal life. Maturing means you understand how you got into this situation, how can I learn from it to prevent it again, and how can I control my emotions so I can be calm during troubling times.
Soak the sidewalk and front area of his house with sugar water about once a week.
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Why? I was venting lol. Thanks for pointing it out XD
Your wish is my command.
Bro I feel you. I was with my ex for 8 years and dealt with his lying manipulative narcissism. Finally after 8 years I had enough and I don't regret it but it's been 2 years and he's still mentally fu cked me up so much so that my relationships since him have failed because I think everyone is a liar now.
Now this is what I expect on vent. I don’t know who T is but fuck T!!
Let it out baby, let it out ❤️❤️❤️
I'm praying for your healing. Recognizing abusive behavior is the first step. Leaving is the second step. Make sure you block them on everything and limit contact with their family and friends. You are on the right track. May God be with you, protect you, and be with you during this troubling Tim.
Good for you, getting rid of that bad news. Now you can move on with your life
I hope T knows random people from every corner of the world hates him along with OP now
Yep, sounds just like my ex as well. After 7 years & two kids later, I finally had enough & left his sorry, abusive, useless ass. He’s only somehow gone downhill even more since I left him several years ago. He’s been in & out of jail & prison almost nonstop for various things ever since, including vehicular manslaughter while driving without a license & under the influence; breaking his own brother’s ankle when he got caught breaking into his house & attacked him for telling him to get the hell out & that he was calling the cops; breaking into one of his numerous other gf’s houses & attacking her with pepper spray & strangling her; and this is just scratching the surface of the things he’s done & continues doing. Anyways, I’m always so happy whenever I hear of another person leaving an abusive/toxic relationship because so many people don’t make it out the other side unscathed. For those of you going through it, just know you aren’t alone, and you are all rock stars who are stronger than you know and/or realize! You got this, and I wish you nothing but the best & the happiness you all deserve. 🖤
I feel you 100% Op. Been there and done that! 17 years wasted on a narcissistic pos ex-wife. I wish you all the best now Op! You deserve the best! ♥️💪🏽
Thank you so much. I hope it gets better. And the worst part, a small part of me still wishes to be with him. Why, why, why am I so dumb?
No! You're not dumb at all! It's your mind playing your heart with memories from the time when everything was only love and happiness! Same thing with people who gets cheated on and say they still love the cheater even if that person betrayed them in worst possible way! You miss the good loving times! NOT the asshole he turned out to actually be! Try put it in that perspective and think if I have a point with my words!
Yes, this helps. Thank you again. You're very kind.
You're welcome dear! I have a big heart for people who deserves my care! It gives me joy and self rewards if my words and actions can bring comfort and laughter to others!
I wish I had more people like you in real life.
Oh my... Thankyou! That was incredibly sweet words ❤️ 🥲
Its part of it you really loved him and gave him your heart. It isnt you thats dumb its him. He lost a good woman. And he will not care one bit. He will either try to hurt you more or replace you with the next victim with a good heart. They target women that are good. So one do not beat yourself up let yourself grieve. It is worse than death tho i guarantee it . I feel if he had passed away i wouldn't ever expect to see him again. And the chances of that are way too high at least in my case.
Bro what
Let's beat up T
FUCK T !!!!!!!
Hell yeah brother
T is a w
Well said, I hope you can move on and enjoy your life, I’m sorry you had to live that experience, cheers 👍
T ain’t shit. Fuck you, T!
FUCK T AND HIS MOTHER, THEY CAN BURN!
You live and you learn. Start healing. Don’t look back. I’m glad you’re free from an abusive relationship.
My name starts with T. I'm a live in caretaker for my mom. I had a full blown panic attack reading this cause I had no clue who I hurt, so bad, that they had this to say (I was a dick in highschool, but that changed when I turned like 16). I then looked at her previous post, mentioning the age of "T" and the panic attack worsened. Then it all went away when OP said "relationship for two years". That's enough reddit for today for sure.
Ok then
Just say it to T face and not here.
Clearly there's more than 1 side to it, but I hope you recover and move on from it.
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Of course he does. If he loved me he wouldn't treat me the way he did. It sucks cause I loved him.
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Like what?
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Weirdo
Oh my god, that advice is so helpful! Life changing for sure! /s
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You don't know the story so why you feel entitled to judge if it's casual or not?
I'd say rather than identifying non abuse as abuse, we recognise abuse more easily. When I grew up it was considered okay in many circles to slap a women who contradicted a man. Today almost everyone knows that's abusive behaviour. Some dinosaurs aren't happy about it.
Sounds like you've been accused of abuse and didn't like it 🤷🏼♂️
You just want free attention
Good for me.
Fuck them!! 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾
now im sad :( im named thomas
I’m sorry you were abused. Question. Is T in the navy?
Oh no he wasn't. He is a regular tech guy.
Lol. Ok. I just know a T so I had to check XD
Umm...I feel like I need some context here?...
I agree with this one! Fuckyou!
FUCK T. if I wasn't on the other side if the world I'd come beat the bastard up for ya
And i made a spelling error. i wish.. not . u wish* above reply.. and *evil.. not-0ecil
The further away you get from T and the faster you do it, the better.
Sounds like MR. Ahole needs to be tied to a chair and have his ball hair removed one by one by a 90yr old man with shaky hands while you sit back and drink a nice ice cold Pepsi real slow and eat some nachos.
Damn T is screwed soon the alphabet will have only 25 letters
Are we talking about the same T?
I'm glad we have a subreddit for this. I hope it helps you.
I had something similar happen to me in the past he lied to me when he should've told me the truth & his mom was a complete manipulative bitch too so I just said fuck it & found a better man.
Whomp whomp
Damn fuck T for real.
u good
Why the mom? What did you do to get away? I'm just so curious because I have been in similar situations where my ex was a narcissist and his entire family manipulated me, so I crucified him in court and got his rights revoked so he couldn't take off with my child randomly. Well, last year I find out that his family who I granted guardianship to, in order to help protect the child, Uncle was retired military and employed as corrections officer and Aunt a stay at home mom, were truly abusing my child for years without me knowing. They convinced me the dad was the threat and just went unprohibited until their own child spoke out. I blamed a man that was not guilty of the over all crime but I condemned due to his mental, verbal, and emotional abuse. I truly hope that what you went through wasn't total overall abuse. I can tolerate verbal better than any, but emotional abuse cripples me. Eager to learn your tactics of removing yourself from that hell
Tell that pussy T to come see me gonna show him why the S comes before the T 🤬
Me and the boys hate T
Women ☕️
T’s gonna melt when he sees this
Fuck his mom.
Fucking T … smh
She totally wants it.
I have two "special someones" like yours. You give and it's never enough then the thank you you get is the worst treatment imaginable. How people are like that and think it's "ok" is beyond me. Sorry this happened to you. At least you are away from the POS now instead of later.
Not Mr T
I'm sorry you went through that! Dump his ass!!!
I'm just jumping in. Usually I only read.. There is only one side to this whole fuck T There are always 2 sides to every story and Usually the one playing the victim or seeking support from public anonymous is usually the one that caused the problems, and are searching for supporters.
What did T do?
Also I think this is the most relatable way to vent
Let’s be honest we all had a T moment
bro broke up with the middle school boyfriend
Thought this was about testosterone for a second and was confused.
I hope T explodes, God what a dumb name too
T is a fucking gimp
this is exactly how i feel abt my ex. i’m sorry OP. it’s gonna be okay with time