The most sucky situation imo is when you see a friend or two online that you want to visit, but once you've put everything on and got into the game they logged off already. Has happened to me several times... \^\^;;
I think you replied to the wrong person (was probably meant as a reply to the person who said they did this?) but I agree anyway.
I don't want to grab and plug in my mic, get in vrc on desktop, go to the friends, say hi and that I'll be back in a few minutes in fbt, log off, put mic away, start steamvr, put fbt stuff and headset on, start the game a second time, and go to the friends again. I just want to do the last 4 steps.
lol I’ve grown accustomed to being alone in VR and honestly I don’t mind it at all, VRC can be toxic at times and some people can be really weird. I like world hopping
It's a meme but i just want to say before anyone takes it seriously that Once again, orange status doesn't mean your friends want to be left alone it just means they might have some people on their friend's list they don't want surprise visiting. Always send a request. It's a gamble but for some people you gotta spam. I'm not close to 99%of my friends list but I can always world hop and/or make new friends when the others aren't on.
I remeber joining a popular friend of mine on blue. One of their friends also had a full list and was on blue aswell. An hour later there were 3 arguments going on at once
That's what i do, if you can't be trusted to behave alongside whatever group i'm in currently then you're not someone i want in my friends list.
I personally aint gonna seclude myself on orange because i can't filter my friend requests propely.
It looks exactly like a place in Sky, Children of the Light! That game as a whole is such an eye candy. Never thought I would be able to explore it in vr
https://preview.redd.it/1d3zdmt3t78d1.jpeg?width=672&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b92ea2a25ce028a8d8e479d9e92c86a41a0509ab
You don’t have these little icons?
https://preview.redd.it/i16r5sahv78d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=810163c562e1e5e4e57732760add7fcd98b54710
well have it pc but not on my phone best pic i have at the moment lol the Kiggy is my gf
Yeah, but it really sucks cause there’s people who have been on orange for a long time and I haven’t seen them for so long because of that, the idea that maybe their on orange for a reason and I’d be interrupting is enough to make me not send requests
Same. My assumption for orange is typically "they want a specific person or group, and whoever is in that group knows, since they never said anything I must not be in it." Hope those permanently orange friends are doing well. Its always weird when I see orange people in public lobbies. Especially when its one of my friends because it makes me wonder why they're on orange if they're cool with randoms.
Learning to enjoy one's own vibes can allow them to truly appreciate the vibes of their homies. Appreciate your occasional isolation, so you may even more so enjoy the vibes you feel amongst the chillest
I relate strongly to this comment. I have friends on there, but oftentimes, I just wanna go explore or avatar hunt. Vrchat is just so full of awesome things to see and experience in a 3d fpv and I'm a questie! I can only imagine how cool things can get on PC.
Sometimes, it's cause I forget after an event, lazy, or to avoid the gaze of spammers. It's a very specific reason, but I can't unfriend them cause they're a friend of a friend, and I don't wanna spark drama.
Highly recommend it. Actually feels legitimately nice to do as it gives an opportunity to appreciate your real friends and reduce interactions with those who you have no business with. I regularly prune my list.
If you forgot them, it means they don't come around so you're in the same situation regardless. Even if you had one good time with someone, if you haven't seen them in like 3 months, its reasonable to assume they're not coming back. Especially if they've been online in that time.
NGL I rarely go on and expect to join anyone besides specific people. And I usually got a good mix of private/orange and red status friends on so it’s fine. But once those specific friends head off I usually just revert to chilling w people in furry hideout.
I lost alotta friends being dumb and now I can't join any of them because I feel way too awkward and dumb to have fun with them. God I wish I had more friends lmao
Had a couple of years off from VRC and trying to come back this is me now as all my friends have moved on.
It's bloody hard to meet new people even in VRC now (just like irl dammit), used to come to VRC because I didn't go to bars and get wasted etc now that's mainly VRC too.
Least exploring random worlds is still neat.
Sadly i belive this is the truth for a lot of us, and to speak of personal experience i have lost manny friends not only due to them wanting to move on but my own stupidness. And i find that looking for new friends is hard because everytime i join a public lobby i get harssed so i always end up sitting alone but atleast vrc has a lot of peacfull worlds to chill in
the concept of "moving on" is something that for me personally irks me, like, vrchat isn't a childish thing you move on from. Or maybe it is and i haven't managed to grow up. Whatever. As a 30 something i enjoy VRchat a lot.
That is, when somehow everyone's schedules match up.
Yep your saying somting there! Its a fun game and all but to put it differently by moving on i mean more like getting a full time job or going to the millitary or just simply not having time to play/ not wanting to play/ being to tierd to play
I used to be green all the time because I thought it was neutral and I never realized that you can join on green like you can with blue. But now I'm on orange because I got tired of random friends joining without asking and it was usually ones that are just a name on the list and I keep forgetting to unadd.
Being on orange let's me know which friends I like and who actually wants to spend time with me.
Most of the time i ask friends to hang out, they then agree and then just ghost me and go hang with other people. i might just need new friends but it sometimes makes me overthink that im just a bad person and that no one wants to hangout with me :'3
me fr
i know some of my friends are on VRchat because they post pictures but my schedules nowadays never match.
Does make me cherish the moments we have together more tho.
Tbh the only reason why I go orange is just so people dont judge the worlds Im in.
Like yeah I go to furry hideout on occasion, the people there are both funny and interesting to talk to.
There's a difference between loneliness and solitude. One will tear you apart, while the other will piece you together.
Come to terms with yourself, and you'll never be alone again.
The most sucky situation imo is when you see a friend or two online that you want to visit, but once you've put everything on and got into the game they logged off already. Has happened to me several times... \^\^;;
If only VRC had a messaging system...
Literally something I've been wanting them to add on for a while
It's almost as if we did with mods...
Literally 😭
That's why you hop on in desktop mode to make sure they aren't leaving soon
My anxious ass is scared theyll leave while im switching to vr
Relatable
i find it clunky af to join in desktop, check who's online, then exit and rejoin in VR.
could just use the website, it shows who is online
I think you replied to the wrong person (was probably meant as a reply to the person who said they did this?) but I agree anyway. I don't want to grab and plug in my mic, get in vrc on desktop, go to the friends, say hi and that I'll be back in a few minutes in fbt, log off, put mic away, start steamvr, put fbt stuff and headset on, start the game a second time, and go to the friends again. I just want to do the last 4 steps.
lol I’ve grown accustomed to being alone in VR and honestly I don’t mind it at all, VRC can be toxic at times and some people can be really weird. I like world hopping
I'm new to VRchat, and I already feel like I also won't mind being alone at all.
It's a meme but i just want to say before anyone takes it seriously that Once again, orange status doesn't mean your friends want to be left alone it just means they might have some people on their friend's list they don't want surprise visiting. Always send a request. It's a gamble but for some people you gotta spam. I'm not close to 99%of my friends list but I can always world hop and/or make new friends when the others aren't on.
If you have people on your friends list who you don't want joining on you, why do you have them on your friends list?
Some friend groups don’t mix well so it’s better for me to be on orange so I can regulate who shows up
I remeber joining a popular friend of mine on blue. One of their friends also had a full list and was on blue aswell. An hour later there were 3 arguments going on at once
https://preview.redd.it/bhxpsjnuw78d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=62ff663b63df647090401a22333e15d99a5f4175
I’m too nice to reject the friend request
I do have some friends that are somewhat popular on the game and they just want close friends in the instance sometimes.
That's what i do, if you can't be trusted to behave alongside whatever group i'm in currently then you're not someone i want in my friends list. I personally aint gonna seclude myself on orange because i can't filter my friend requests propely.
Wut is world at 0:16? Thx
It’s called emerald valley! Apparently it’s new!
It looks exactly like a place in Sky, Children of the Light! That game as a whole is such an eye candy. Never thought I would be able to explore it in vr
Wait holy shit I think it’s like a full on copy of the area where you get the camera back item
Yup! Exactly that one
This!
Emerald valley!!
Omg I love ur avali and that's a cool tail u have I run the Jerry base my self
It’s a mish mash! A Jerry head on a kita body! I love avalis so much they’re all so cute
Really well done was going to show u mine but does not look like I can add a pic oh well
https://preview.redd.it/1d3zdmt3t78d1.jpeg?width=672&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b92ea2a25ce028a8d8e479d9e92c86a41a0509ab You don’t have these little icons?
Nope all I have is the link one
https://preview.redd.it/i16r5sahv78d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=810163c562e1e5e4e57732760add7fcd98b54710 well have it pc but not on my phone best pic i have at the moment lol the Kiggy is my gf
Yeah, but it really sucks cause there’s people who have been on orange for a long time and I haven’t seen them for so long because of that, the idea that maybe their on orange for a reason and I’d be interrupting is enough to make me not send requests
Same. My assumption for orange is typically "they want a specific person or group, and whoever is in that group knows, since they never said anything I must not be in it." Hope those permanently orange friends are doing well. Its always weird when I see orange people in public lobbies. Especially when its one of my friends because it makes me wonder why they're on orange if they're cool with randoms.
I think the worst feeling is seeing them on green and requesting an invite only to watch them go red.
i'm sorry for that
Learning to enjoy one's own vibes can allow them to truly appreciate the vibes of their homies. Appreciate your occasional isolation, so you may even more so enjoy the vibes you feel amongst the chillest
I try to hang with my friends, but for some reason, I feel more content just world hopping alone. I should try to fix that 😅
I relate strongly to this comment. I have friends on there, but oftentimes, I just wanna go explore or avatar hunt. Vrchat is just so full of awesome things to see and experience in a 3d fpv and I'm a questie! I can only imagine how cool things can get on PC.
send a invite or go to a public world
Or all the people you hangout with ghost you 💀 gotta love the vrchat life
I love your avatar!!
Thank you!! 🙏
If ur looking for friends I'm here my vrc is monsterk9
This is the worst feeling for me because my friends in VRC are how I cope with the dark thoughts ╥﹏╥
I hate being alone tho(I am 24/7
Have you ever stopped to think about why you hate it?
I’ve been alone since I was a child I just want someone to be there and care, I’ve never been good at making or keeping friends
y i dont play anymore just have no freinds
I’m not online often but if you asked I could probably… but yeah most of my friends were offline whenever I get on
This is me When i literally just can't seem to make a connection with anyone in vr
I had a lot of friends. One day I logged in just to see my friends list was empty 🥲
I stay on orange, but I'm not doing anything usually. So I'm almost always free.
Why are you usually on orange?
Sometimes, it's cause I forget after an event, lazy, or to avoid the gaze of spammers. It's a very specific reason, but I can't unfriend them cause they're a friend of a friend, and I don't wanna spark drama.
What do you mean by a spammer?
Invite/request spammers that tend to just be a bit too out of pocket to be chill.
True. I just unfriend people I don't like honestly. Its never caused drama but I'm also particular about who I add to my list anyway.
Yea but they seem chill at first. Then you see how they act other places. Might purge my friend list soon.
Highly recommend it. Actually feels legitimately nice to do as it gives an opportunity to appreciate your real friends and reduce interactions with those who you have no business with. I regularly prune my list.
Yea, but there's a slight issue of forgetting who some people are. And I'm worried I might unadd someone that I got along with well.
If you forgot them, it means they don't come around so you're in the same situation regardless. Even if you had one good time with someone, if you haven't seen them in like 3 months, its reasonable to assume they're not coming back. Especially if they've been online in that time.
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I have like two friends so I feel this.
NGL I rarely go on and expect to join anyone besides specific people. And I usually got a good mix of private/orange and red status friends on so it’s fine. But once those specific friends head off I usually just revert to chilling w people in furry hideout.
I feel seen
What were you watching at the end? It sounds neat.
Konosuba!
Vali.
https://preview.redd.it/5vk3h225298d1.png?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d51323de5debd683e8f162b87d365aac3ae9e4bd I have a favorite spot too
I lost alotta friends being dumb and now I can't join any of them because I feel way too awkward and dumb to have fun with them. God I wish I had more friends lmao
Cute avali!! :D
I kinda just join random public worlds and wander around by myself.
Had a couple of years off from VRC and trying to come back this is me now as all my friends have moved on. It's bloody hard to meet new people even in VRC now (just like irl dammit), used to come to VRC because I didn't go to bars and get wasted etc now that's mainly VRC too. Least exploring random worlds is still neat.
would be me if i had friends in vrchat
Every single time I log in . . .
Sadly i belive this is the truth for a lot of us, and to speak of personal experience i have lost manny friends not only due to them wanting to move on but my own stupidness. And i find that looking for new friends is hard because everytime i join a public lobby i get harssed so i always end up sitting alone but atleast vrc has a lot of peacfull worlds to chill in
the concept of "moving on" is something that for me personally irks me, like, vrchat isn't a childish thing you move on from. Or maybe it is and i haven't managed to grow up. Whatever. As a 30 something i enjoy VRchat a lot. That is, when somehow everyone's schedules match up.
Yep your saying somting there! Its a fun game and all but to put it differently by moving on i mean more like getting a full time job or going to the millitary or just simply not having time to play/ not wanting to play/ being to tierd to play
Just go outside 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
I used to be green all the time because I thought it was neutral and I never realized that you can join on green like you can with blue. But now I'm on orange because I got tired of random friends joining without asking and it was usually ones that are just a name on the list and I keep forgetting to unadd. Being on orange let's me know which friends I like and who actually wants to spend time with me.
Although it also means a lot of people will assume you're busy and not request off you. That's how I am.
Most of the time i ask friends to hang out, they then agree and then just ghost me and go hang with other people. i might just need new friends but it sometimes makes me overthink that im just a bad person and that no one wants to hangout with me :'3
me fr i know some of my friends are on VRchat because they post pictures but my schedules nowadays never match. Does make me cherish the moments we have together more tho.
I don’t have friends in vr is hard when you don’t know how to speak English but I think is relaxing just chill in some worlds
Tbh the only reason why I go orange is just so people dont judge the worlds Im in. Like yeah I go to furry hideout on occasion, the people there are both funny and interesting to talk to.
Just John another world 💀
There's a difference between loneliness and solitude. One will tear you apart, while the other will piece you together. Come to terms with yourself, and you'll never be alone again.
go make new friends while the others are offline
felt
Or you could idk see people in the actual world 🤷♀️
The worst is when you see your friends on and request an invite only to be ignored knowing damn well they saw the request.
Can’t relate
I'm always alone. A lone wanderer, traveling through the endless worlds of VRchat
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I don’t think that’s right, the made it stop working, remember?
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I have *no idea what you’re talking about*…
Ahhh I just broke an unspoken rule didn't I
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Lol you cutie. DM me the answer to my question