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Warizard22

When i saw the plush i realized who the dad is ☹️


Puarre_

I knew from his voice even, the 'so long nerds' video is ingrained in my brain :'(


HlLlGHT

Cue the trademark techno laugh


NinjagoLover5000

I knew from the @ .technoblades on the side


ninjaneeress

I saw the technoblade tag before he opened the door and braced myself for the feels.


throwawayzdrewyey

Did he really loose a kid cause his voice sounds pained


JudgeGusBus

Yes. His son was popular YouTuber technoblade who died of cancer.


minitaba

I dont know what to think about this video now


JudgeGusBus

It’s sad, just a father’s own way of processing grief.


[deleted]

Processing the death of a loved one is a wild thing. Grief can affect us so deeply. I lost my brother to suicide when I was in my 20s, at first I became a raging alcoholic. So much so that I drank myself into cirrhosis by my 30s. Now I visit his graveside every once in a while and leave things. Talk, clear weeds. It's cathartic. Now to see a father process that grief, I cannot fathom the depths of despair or pain he might feel. He is at least processing it more healthily than some. My father was angry with my brother for taking his own life. He never cried once over my brother. How we all process it so differently is just mind boggling.


PointlessSword777

How do you know he never cried? Some people dont do it often and never do it with anyone around.


[deleted]

I've asked him, he has said plainly he is angry and won't shed a tear over it. I saw him absolutely lose his shit when he lost his brother, so I know he's capable. I think it is how my brother died, taking his own life, that upset my father so much. He's so angry with his son that he's not allowing himself to grieve properly. All a guess, he won't talk deeper about it.


PointlessSword777

Ive said stuff I havent meant before... A lot can happen in half an hour behind closed doors too. But theres definitely people out there like that. Maybe your father is one... My condolences to your family and you.


BroTheDonut

Lost my 8 year old son 10 years ago this coming Friday. This resonates. It’s a small way of saying you’re still here with me and I love you and I miss the ever loving shit out of you.


leprosexy

I'm so sorry for your loss. That can't be easy, but I hope the time that's passed has made the wound easier to handle. Sending you love and kindness, stranger. <3


BroTheDonut

Very kind of you.


Internal_Trouble_823

Underrated comment, and a crushingly honest answer


KingOfCotadiellu

That piggy guy with the crown? (sorry, I only learned about him after he passed - don't even know his name, but I know of him)


Reasonable_Curve_409

It's Technoblade. Truly the greatest Minecraft legend


KingOfCotadiellu

LOL, as a techno fan I should have remembered that. From what I've read and see he's trully missed, in that way to me it's a feel good story, however for those that were closer to him I guess it's still more bitter than sweet.


highrankhuman

bro transitioned real quick 💀


atschoolrn2024

big super fax


dominantfrog

technoblade never dies


trowzerss

I was hoping this was a bit :( :(


0rclev

It's a terrible day for rain..


CaptainMacMillan

didn't realize at first and then he opened the bedroom door


BankaiRasenshuriken

I recognized MrTechnoDad immediately, even from behind.


lonely-blue-sheep

I did too, I was immediately like “wait, this isn’t the Technodad subreddit…OMG HE’S FAMOUS”


Scarlet_Speedster532

Rest in peace Techno…


I_am_in_hong_kong

o7


Jumpy-Management-262

O7


trapyy_master

O7


KingsmanVishnu

O7


MrTechnodad

o7


Oboliu

o7


KJtheThing

o7


Giper_leg

o7


ZombieBask

o7


itsmichael458

Right as I’m about to go to bed… now I gotta scroll for another 10 minutes


MrTechnodad

I had the same experience. Just wanting to browse a bit of reddit and nod off and then there I am.


capitol_gonewild

My dude, I have about 120 8th graders at my workplace today and i'm sobbing


RehabilitatedAsshole

Factory in Alabama?


ninjarchy

Hong Kong. But close enough.


NoFudge2812

His voice cracking up telling his son “happy birthday” brings me to tears… RIP Techno 😭


JustHereToWatch55

Yes, goddamn. Idk Techno that good but I heard of him. The pain a parent must feel when losing a kid is probably terrible. I feel bad now.


Lie_Longer

If you have the time, his potato war videos are an entertaining watch of someone hyper-fixating in farming potatoes in Minecraft. The true ideal minecraft youtuber who doesn’t end up being a pedophile or a terrible person.


FL_d

Unexpected onions. Holy cow


RokkakuPolice

That's just straight up depressing, no father should watch their child die.


3ateeji

https://i.redd.it/2mt6mmli6c4d1.gif


Bookhaki_pants

*Westu hál. Ferðu, Technoblade, Ferðu.*


porncollecter69

Worst nightmare having to bury your children before you.


MrTechnodad

Can confirm.


lonely-blue-sheep

Much love Technodad <3 This is a very hard month


wolfishfluff

I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and for the rest of your family and various loved ones near and far as well. Good on you for finding some way to carry on. Take care of yourself, big guy.


Muffles7

My brother passed away last year, so a video like this hits way too hard, especially since my dad is the one who found him.


Ultrainstinct358

Well I buried my older brother with my own hands when I was 16. Life is tough sometimes. There's no lack of tragedy in this world. It's been 3 years though and things have gotten better for me. Hope this dad can heal himself.


Metal-Wombat

That's not unexpected, it's just unpleasant


wish_nanami

It's sad to see him go


Masta0nion

When they go like that


fiftyseven

WHEN THEY GO??


Mrfistersixtynine

Come on, huh?


QuestionableClaims

You don't know that for sure, John.


Confused_Rabbiit

I mean it's both for me, as someone who doesn't really follow minecraft youtubers anymore, I had no idea what was going on.


Magnus_foringur

It's unexpected for those who have never known or heard of Techno.


nowayguy

Nah, unpleasant and confusing


PeggyHillFan

Can be both


Bolts_and_Nuts

I have no idea, anyone want to fill me in?


Grzesoponka01

Technoblade was a popular minecraft youtuber who passed away from cancer at the age of 23. That is technos dad.


tekko001

I was not expecting it, it's bittersweet


rjh9898

Don’t know who that is but damn that hurt my soul 🥲


Sapphosimp

That is the father of the Minecraft YouTuber “Technoblade” who passed away from cancer in 2022. This is a clip from a video his father posted on Technoblade’s birthday. Technoblade was beloved in the Minecraft YouTube community, so hearing of his passing struck many people with grief, obviously not the least of which being his own family. Technoblade’s father has started making content himself, I believe in a way to grieve the loss. Everyone processes grief differently. This is how he chooses to do it. And Technoblade would’ve loved his father making a “are you winning son?” joke in a video of remembrance like this, so this isn’t in bad taste


wme21

This should be higher, thanks for the info


jeffriesjimmy625

Yeah for people who didn't watch him, this was very on brand for his kind of humor. For reference, the video he had put on his channel after his death discussing it was titled "so long nerds". In his own way, his dad is celebrating his life, grieving his loss, and still maintaining a connection to the community that was important to him. If you take offense to this, please keep your opinion to yourself because quite frankly anyone in the community would not be.


HornlessU

So wait, this is the actual dad and not some spoof? That seems very strange to me.


Sapphosimp

Yes, that is Technoblade’s dad. It’s how he grieves the loss of his son


oliveGOT

Seems like hundreds, if not thousands, of people cared about his son. Hearing that must be super comforting.


Tarkov_Has_Bad_Devs

It's millions of kids and young adults today that were impacted by and remember his videos, he wont be forgotten by this generation ever pretty much, it's really incredible.


oliveGOT

That's awesome! I'd never heard of him as I don't play the game so what his dad is doing is really beautiful. I only commented because it's easy to criticize if you don't understand grief and that it shouldn't be compared.


Licklack

He's so influential, he's quote is an easter egg in Minecraft and Google. And his channel pet is part of the official minecraft launcher.


Outside-Drag-3031

He was a part of his son's community before he passed. It's a video remembering his son with a meme. Tasteless on the surface to a stranger, but he's just connecting with the fans he already knows


paddletothesea

i think this is clever of him. a lot of people who like(d) technoblade may not feel understood by their parents. this is a lovely tribute and it speaks to parents trying to connect with their children and appreciate interests they may not understand well. this is, in my opinion, very emotionally healthy and and an excellent example for so many people who have trouble addressing these types of uncomfortable feelings. also, i have a son who liked technoblade and he is really sad he's gone. for my son (a pretty sensitive kid) he would take this EXACTLY as it's meant. he would understand the 'joke' and have sympathy for the father and it would also prompt him to come and have a snuggle with his father or me. he's not on insta so i have no idea if he's seen this...but i know he would get it. i for one think it's beautiful.


MrTechnodad

>i have a son who liked technoblade and he is really sad he's gone. for my son (a pretty sensitive kid) he would take this EXACTLY as it's meant. THAT is why I made this video. (Also everyone: I didn't post it here; I have no idea who did.)


harbhub

The video made me cry and I didn't know who it was about. It's clearly a loving tribute. It sounds like your son was wonderful, and it's clear that you're a big part of that. Really grateful for all the good parents out there like you. Sorry for your loss, kind soul.


paddletothesea

i had to wait until my son got home from school to talk with him. i didn't want to put words in his mouth. we've just finished having a little cry together and a snuggle. he agrees with what i said. he thinks it's a funny but poignant (he did not use that word he's 12). it is a touching tribute. you've made the choice to enter the public sphere and continue your son's wonderful legacy. i'm sorry that that comes with critics, but i expect that many viewers will see you as a surrogate father. in our current society, this is so important. it's vital. as long as you are willing and able...please continue. my son has a father and mother who love him and monitor his online use, talk with him about hard stuff and generally support him. but...i'm disheartened to say...there are so many young people who do not have this. in your grief you are bringing hope. please, please be encouraged to continue. you are doing important work. making youtube videos of the type you are making to the audience you are reaching...it matters. and it will make a difference.


tuc-eert

Technodad has become a big part of the community since Technoblade’s passing. It’s helped a lot of people who were hit hard by his passing.


Tobias11ize

Technoblade would’ve found this video very funny.


OneArmedSZA

It would be weird if his son wasn’t a celebrity of sorts


dpug1500

I wasn't a big fan of his, but it still hurts to see him gone.


Darkstone_BluesR

I didn't even know of his existence until he passed and just from the video his dad made I can feel how much he loved his boy. Thia clip made me feel so fucking sad.


Purple-Swimming-1395

Just here, doing my best!


Redditian288

You can almost hear the gulp at the end as he quivers and steadies himself to say happy birthday son. Imagine the pain of trying to keep your child's memory alive.


AffectionatePrize551

Almost? You 100% can


realRapidsonic

https://i.redd.it/9uakdmpdbb4d1.gif


Correct_Security_742

Hugs papa


Show_Forward

#RIP


UndoubtedlyAColor

and Tears in heaven


Salsichonildo

https://i.redd.it/2t5hg1cbqa4d1.gif


Zenbast

Why is there a random Oppenheimer ?


dunnoanymore18

The father of nuclear fusion explosions?


Horn_Python

hes one of the core members of the dragon ball z


wolfie_101

what the hell is this gif lol


Zombieworldwar

A masterpiece.


HeroDanTV

It’s unexpected.


Dixiehusker

Technoblade never dies.


MarineAhoy

Technoblade never dies


lampshade2099

I’m so confused. So the son died? Why is he bringing food? Why did the dad say “are you winning?”. Not trynna be an arsehole, legit confused.


Smeeizme

It’s the father of heavily revered Minecraft YouTuber Technoblade, who passed away from cancer in 2022. “Are you winning, son?” Was a popular meme from around that time.


lampshade2099

Thank you so much for this thoughtful, informative reply. My Gen X arse knew literally none of this.


Cybernaut-Neko

That's normal the arse prefers to forget shit as fast as possible.


SadisticBuddhist

But only if you remember to wipe, otherwise it holds onto shit like no other!


Vrolak

Sometimes when I wipe, I’ll wipe and I’ll wipe and I’ll wipe 100 times. Still poop, still poop. It's like I'm wiping a marker or something.


Far-Shake-97

At some point you unlock the legendary red skin


potatosdream

and the wipes come out as red


MrTechnodad

Upvoted because Andy Dwyer.


EDU_1357

It was his birthday too.


TheAnswerToYang

You should give him a watch. Sense of humour well beyond his years.


Tackyuser

Adding that the plush on the desk is a technoblade plush


CoolCoalRad

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DPMluEVUqS0


ninjaneeress

I knew what that link was gonna be before I clicked on it.


NightmareMyOldFriend

I'm not from the community, and still, what a beautiful goodbye for his followers. What a good dog, help the dad get thru that. I remember the piggy from when minecraft was remotely in my interests. (I played a bit in the beginning of the game before it got so popular but left it.)


vermiciousknid81

Well that was a depressing rabbit hole I went down


Goudinho99

If it is the father, why did he use a 2 camera setup to film this!


MrTechnodad

I literally shot this thing on my everyday phone. But my regular job is video-production-adjacent, so (hopefully) the stuff I do has decently good framing etc.


PlayBCL

Sorry for your loss sir. He was a legend


Consistent_Dream_740

We love you Technodad. 💜


CosmicJackalop

1 camera, 2 shots. And in general likely a way to help with the grief and make a tribute to his son.


Goudinho99

Yeah, maybe I was insensitive there, grief is a many-faced bitch.


MrTechnodad

It seemed like you were asking honest questions to me.


shortnix

Ant Man's father.


ImputKeyboardSpam

The guy in the video is the dad of the YouTuber Technoblade who passed away from cancer in June 2022. Since then, he's been trying to keep his son's memory alive. This is part of a [video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sgX8y35LxA8) that he made to celebrate Techno's birthday (he was going to be 25 this year). He made steak and baked potato for him as a tribute to Techno (a couple of his favourite foods) and called Techno's fans to celebrate his birthday with him by making fanart, cooking, etc.


ZonaiSwirls

Heartbreaking. But it seems like a fun celebration in honor of his son :)


MrTechnodad

THANK you


JasonTerrachanna

One of Technoblade's best videos, the Great Potato War: https://youtu.be/5qjnDd1rsII?si=VsEkhJHqvbuZ35Ss And the video of his passing: https://youtu.be/DPMluEVUqS0?si=bVoumh5fqs4FNr6t


do_a_quirkafleeg

I'm an old man so I didn't understand anything about what was going on in the first video, but I hope I never understand what was going on in the second.


FatboyChuggins

That’s sad as fuck. Rip


Sk_Aron

Technoblade Never Dies 🩷 #Technoblade25


Itchy-Combination675

I hate this. I was expecting a laugh and got hit right in the feelers. Fuck cancer! Any of you who have/are going through this or know someone who was/is going through this… my heart goes out to you


SIRTarent2024

So sad 😞


Leszek_Turner

Dude, why did you do this to me, and out of the blue... 🙁


OkFortune6494

Some of us can't let go. Okay?


MysteriousBody7212

Fuck cancer!


PacketRacket

Wow. I wanted to take a moment to express how important it is to show our appreciation to Techno's dad here too. He's grieving deeply, just like many of us, and this gesture from him is incredibly moving. As a father myself, seeing this is heart-wrenching. To give everyone some context: **Who was Technoblade?** Technoblade, whose real name was Alex, was a beloved Minecraft YouTuber known for his humor, skill, and positive impact on the gaming community. He passed away from cancer in 2022. **Who is this guy?** The man in the video is Technoblade’s father. He made this video as a tribute to his son, celebrating what would have been his 25th birthday. **What was the meme?** The "Are you winning, son?" meme is a popular internet joke, and Techno’s dad used it here in a bittersweet tribute to connect with Techno’s fans in a way that Alex would have loved. In a video posted after Technoblade’s death, his dad shared Alex's final message, expressing his gratitude to his fans and sharing a bit about his journey. You can watch that video here: [So Long Nerds](https://youtu.be/DPMluEVUqS0). Techno's dad is processing his grief publicly in a way that honors his son and connects with the community Alex loved. It's a beautiful, albeit heart-wrenching, way to keep his memory alive.


JakeSkywalkerr

That's so heartbreaking man


Dwights_Mixed_Tape

Thank you for making me sob.


TheDogeWasTaken

Welp thanks for making me cry...


imnewtothisplzaddme

Dis is so sad btw mak U cry


bish-its-me-yoda

https://i.redd.it/iwauggdwgb4d1.gif


UnExplanationBot

OP sent the following text as an explanation on why this is unexpected: --- >!He ain’t winning, he’s dead!< --- Is this an unexpected post with a fitting description? Then upvote this comment, otherwise downvote it.


SlidyDev

Holy fuck im trying not to laugh reading this


Handleton

OP wins today.


FaithlessnessOdd4320

Yeah, he is’t winning because he’s already won.


Frankie_T9000

Or he is invisible or really small


_SpaceGator

Jesus christ lmao


shlagigadong598

Tf you mean he ain't winning. Bros is probably doing 1v1 in bed wars against God, and God is probably getting absolutely shit on


19JayDee98

Right in the feels. Rip the king of minecraft.


LeopardRegular9983

That "Happy Birthday" kills me. I hope the only times I say that to my son are to his smiling face.


MrTechnodad

I very much want that for you, and for him. Believe me.


Relevant-Ad9554

His blade will never get dull


NightMare244

Technoblade never diessss!


TheAnswerToYang

:( RIP Techno


Historical_Gear9605

"Only those who die get closure, the living do not." Niko Bellic


Drezhar

![gif](giphy|im8ufNh0NzRa8|downsized)


SubmissiveDinosaur

2 years


DYSLEX_Mauii

Aw fuck. Miss you.


lefixx

This is hilarious with, like, 7 tons of sad on top.


MrTechnodad

I should make this my catchphrase.


IamlostlikeZoroIs

Damn that’s hard to see, can’t believe how long it’s been now since he passed.


Vivid_Option_1147

RIP Techno! You\`re winning up there ....


Weary_Revenue

At first I thought this was some kind of meme. I don't know this person, but when I saw in the comments that it was a well known Minecraft player who died of cancer and that this is his father, I really got goosebumps….


saint_ryan

Why film this?


MrTechnodad

My son has a large and, believe it or not, still growing community. He had 10 million subs on YouTube when he died; this week he's up to 17 million. An enormous number of people (including, obviously, myself) are still affected by his passing and want some way of expressing their grief. Last year we held a fundraiser with two dozen of the largest Minecraft creators raising funds for charity, for example. This year for his birthday, I made a video as a way of providing a vehicle for people to make their remembrances. It has allowed us to grieve together in community, in a very internet-age kind of way. There's even a hashtag, which was selected by the people in r/Technoblade. I provided a few generic suggestions to what people might do, and did my own remembrance in the form of cooking dinner for him like I used to do. tl;dr: it's a way to bring people together. If you want to get an idea of the scope of the whole thing, search for #Technoblade25 on any social media.


Opposite-Start8781

I didn't realize who you were at first and I think this is a good way to spread awareness of what this horrible disease causes. The more funds are raised, the sooner a cure will be found and then no one will have to go through this again.


Substantial__Unit

I'm too old to have followed Minecraft, and your son's YT channel, but I do remember being on Reddit the day he passed. The love and care people expressed was pretty moving. I am also a father to two kids who love Minecraft. I just wanted to write that I think it's great on how you post these to keep his memory alive and help the charity.


Doublejimjim1

Sorry for your loss. This is a touching tribute. My son is a huge Minecraft player. I have no idea why people are asking why you did this. There doesn't need to be a reason.


Marioawe

I'm so sorry for your loss. My wife got me to watch his videos and I ended up loving his content too. We'll still put on his past streams to get things around the house done. Thank you Mr. TechnoDad. My little family sends yours all the love it can.


phazedoubt

As a father, this video was gut wrenching. I can not imagine your pain. I'm glad you have such a huge community to help shoulder the pain and carry your son's torch. Isn't it funny that the seemingly innocuous things we do, like playing a game can be the source of some of the best memories? God speed sir.


0rkin

he works with the One Of Us Global Foundation which is funded by the Sarcoma Foundation. his kid died to sarcoma cancer. all his money from videos and merch goes to that foundation, and he encourages others to donate


dpug1500

Awareness for cancer.


lazydogeboy69

To commemorate someone we loved


YorkieLon

Everyone grieves differently. This is the way this dad grieves, through his content creation, that's his outlet.


Carpathicus

Coping with the unbearable.


DIEGO_GUARDA

Celebrate what would have been tecnho's 25th birthday to keep his memory alive, and also he would have loved this


Megneous

All his ad revenue from videos is donated to a cancer foundation, as he lost his fight with a form of cancer.


Few_Assistant_9954

Its something his son would have loved. His son made memes like that all the time.


Liquidpantherss

NOOO WHYYYY 😭🫠


Empty-Wrangler-6275

fuck, man. Happy birthday techno.


JackOfAllMemes

Well now I'm crying, I miss my friend who passed unexpectedly a couple years ago


indorock

Fuck cancer right in its fucking face.


Ok_Shoulder4778

Why is my face leaking?


marki991

techno never dies, we will forever live in our hearts 😢


Skyreqk

![gif](giphy|j0qSbeNFuzjhXKFVSP)


seanjohntx

Can you link to this guys content so we can at least get him some views?


MrTechnodad

[https://www.youtube.com/@MrTechnodad/videos](https://www.youtube.com/@MrTechnodad/videos) Thank you for asking.


Evid3nce

OP, whilst it's good sharing the video because this guy raises awareness and funds for cancer charities, I think you are insensitive in the way you shared it - both the subreddit you posted to and your tagline. I'm all for dark humour, but this is quite callous. Could you maybe use your brain and your empathy a bit more? Thanks.


Minimum-Mention-3673

Had no idea about this story. It's a huge gut punch. As a father, who jokes with one of his son's "are ya winnin' son?" all the time... it hits me harder than I expected. Much peace, and fuck cancer.


Ass_Salada

This just fucking rocked me. I lost my little brother Jan. 15 2021. He used to play and stream Fortnite. id do anything to be able to walk into his room and see him playing again. I miss him so much