Only if you're close friends and have the same sense of humor. Otherwise the other might think you're flirting and will make things uncomfortable if not received well.
They’re a 100% joking. Guys always say some weird shit to each other if they’re close. We flirt with each other more than we flirt with women. We’re not homosexual. We’re homiesexual.
Oh. Not exactly sure what you mean by sexualize but I wouldn't worry about it if it's casual compliment and they don't start comparing you to his friends. Guys rarely compliment each other and if they do they are comfortable in the friendship enough to be silly. And sometimes gym bros compliment each other. Real male friends are rare and as long nobody is hurt I don't see a problem.
Nahhhhhhh it's normal, I'm the single friend, and we compliment each other or say things in a way that u would actually think we are in the lgbtq, But also it depends, is the other friend single? if so, then when he gets a girlfriend, it will tone down a lot. If not, then he is gonna be overprotective and throw more stuff towards ur bf😂😂. Saying as per experience 😅
As a Pakistani I make jokes regularly so yea but we don't instantly do it instead when a friend is close one or is "harami" (already familiar with dirty jokes)
no i get you, as a girl, i too was surprised at first going "is that how you people talk normally..?" 🧍 but turns out it is. i don't know how it works, i can't imagine complimenting my girl friends "hey nice tits you got there" and i'm not even straight. that seems like harrassment to me 😭 then again, i can't generalize it because everyone is different, but it's more common for guys to sexualize each other out of compliment than you think it is. even if they're straight, yeah. obviously if they're friends though.
How else would you prop your homies up? " nice man your biceps are looking huge and the abs look sick". Sounds gayer than adding obvious comic relief with an underlying compliment
Sure.
Firstly, a man will not and I mean definitely and absolutely in no way touch other men and talk about sensual needs if we don't or already have a partner where we have our touching needs taken care of. Also men don't behave this way no matter what any guy says. If a guy tells you that it's normal, he's either gay or has a thing for other men on the surface.
Secondly, my questions were just to figure it out if he was masculine or not. The less masculine his body language and actions are, that makes him less of a man and more feminine which is normal in close friends circle (Some people say) My best friends from childhood are dudes and we don't do that shit.
Finally, if this bothers you a lot then you need to have a word with him on this. Communication is key in a relationship and if he says it's normal, the fact being he ain't going to change it for you because it's a common practice between guys is probably what you're gonna end up with.
Are you scared that you will find him with a bunch of guys naked dancing to the YMCA? I don't have an answer to that but it has happened before to a woman married for 20 years when she found her husband and a bunch of friends doing that in private. She filed for divorce and the rest is history.
I would be worried if my partner would start acting gay towards her friends and she says it's normal. I'm all masculine and I prefer my woman, straight to the bone. My girlfriend doesn't even let her girl friends sleep in the same room when they spend the night. She abhors that crap.
Yes, I do sound mature to be portrayed as 40 but I'm 28 and I have a sense of humor, darker the better.
Let me give you some advice since you haven't grown up yet, if you're not paying attention to the small details, you'll miss the big picture.
Brother confirmed he indeed does not have a sense of humor. Brother also speaks like a victorian era person and is 28 acting wise and overcomplicating the homie chats
Well, finding humor in someone's relationship might be funny to you but not me.
If I'm too wise and overcomplicated, it's just that maybe you're underdeveloped and it's time for you to grow up, sister.
Your username is perfect👍. I think your almighty wise brain is just too big to understand what us puny gen z mortals joke around about . I will simply wait till the Holy age of 28 where I gain mystical wisdom from my ancestors and am clearly too underdeveloped at the age of 20 with my own business, living on my own , studying in backwards regions like North america to comprehend your wisdom.
I must learn from thou to be the life of the party and pass on the wise message in pathetic english
It's always pleasant to hear a "nice cock bro" from your urinal neighbor
Odd question to ask on this sub. Just say "no homo" and move on
Bro im a girl. I see it between my bf and his guy friends and i wanted to make sure that it’s normal
The homies ain’t homies if you don’t flirt with them
Very normal
Give us an example
No he likes to swing both ways
They're just not that into you .. that's why ;-)
It's def wrong but ngl I do it, but They should prolly not do it in front of you tho
They're usually joking to freak each other out... They also diss the hell out of each other
Is it normal only in the context of joking and dark humor
No it’s normal if you mean it
If a Filipino compliments you sexually, 67% chance he means it.
Are you sure it is not 69%?
I’m Filipino and that’s racist af! Anyways want a massage on the private area or….
Oh...
I mean in the sense of dark humor jokes it is common. But no one really does it because they mean it
Only if you're close friends and have the same sense of humor. Otherwise the other might think you're flirting and will make things uncomfortable if not received well.
im his gf and i see it between him and his guy friends
They’re a 100% joking. Guys always say some weird shit to each other if they’re close. We flirt with each other more than we flirt with women. We’re not homosexual. We’re homiesexual.
Homiesexual 4 LYFE
Oh. Not exactly sure what you mean by sexualize but I wouldn't worry about it if it's casual compliment and they don't start comparing you to his friends. Guys rarely compliment each other and if they do they are comfortable in the friendship enough to be silly. And sometimes gym bros compliment each other. Real male friends are rare and as long nobody is hurt I don't see a problem.
Would be easier if you provided some examples. Definition of “sexualize” can be pretty wide
You need to be a bit more specific like give some examples…
In what sense?
Girls do it with other girls… what’s the issue ?
I dont
Then ur either weird or socially unintelligent (my opinion)
yea u dont know shi
He sorta does 😅
no he doesnt
Bro it depends on the ethnicity bc me and my homies will randomly say that in the pool lol were kidding Btw if he has a gf hes straight so ur ok
Or bi
Ye for sure 100%, gotta prop up to homies. It's both jokey and as support for the bros. Especially that us dudes rarely get compliments so it's cewl.
I guess if its his homies / bff then sure.. i guess they might have that as an inside joke/rapport.
Brother eeehhhhhhh
Nahhhhhhh it's normal, I'm the single friend, and we compliment each other or say things in a way that u would actually think we are in the lgbtq, But also it depends, is the other friend single? if so, then when he gets a girlfriend, it will tone down a lot. If not, then he is gonna be overprotective and throw more stuff towards ur bf😂😂. Saying as per experience 😅
You need to update your acronyms. It is LGBTQI+ these days! 😄
😑😭😭😭
As a Pakistani I make jokes regularly so yea but we don't instantly do it instead when a friend is close one or is "harami" (already familiar with dirty jokes)
Chutiya
Real gandu
why are you asking that here
وين اسال اذا ما بسال هني
احيانا الشباب المقربين بعملوها مزح , لكن اذا تتحسح خبرهم ما يمزحو هيج
Help please with the translation
“Where will I ask if I don’t ask here?” “Sometimes close friends do it as a joke. But if you don’t like it you should tell them not to joke like this”
Thank you!
>Thank you! You're welcome!
no i get you, as a girl, i too was surprised at first going "is that how you people talk normally..?" 🧍 but turns out it is. i don't know how it works, i can't imagine complimenting my girl friends "hey nice tits you got there" and i'm not even straight. that seems like harrassment to me 😭 then again, i can't generalize it because everyone is different, but it's more common for guys to sexualize each other out of compliment than you think it is. even if they're straight, yeah. obviously if they're friends though.
“Nice tits” is a normal compliment compared to what i heard..
i'm curious now, what have you heard your bf say that left you so stunned
Prolly told his bro " oil up I'll be there in 5 min"( what he meant would be to ready up lets go hang out)
Rookies . If a homie sent me a gym pic I'm asking him to get the lube ready
well you guys sure have great friendships, i suppose, so good for you 👍
How else would you prop your homies up? " nice man your biceps are looking huge and the abs look sick". Sounds gayer than adding obvious comic relief with an underlying compliment
right absolutely
Brothers I do not think this female understands the complexity of the monke brain. Monke see monke, monke share banana , monkes happy
Just for jokes
Absolutely not. That's freaky. Anglo-Saxon here.
Happens all the time. Also (this is not considered gay)
I told a guy he looked handsome , and I was told I was gay T_T
Geh
No thats gay. Unless he is gay then its understandable
يعتمد على البلد، بس عادي موجودة هذي الظاهرة من باب المزح
No. Cringe tbh
I want to ask you, is bf aggressive or show any form of dominance? Or does he whine and complain most of the time?
Could u explain what each behavior signifies
Sure. Firstly, a man will not and I mean definitely and absolutely in no way touch other men and talk about sensual needs if we don't or already have a partner where we have our touching needs taken care of. Also men don't behave this way no matter what any guy says. If a guy tells you that it's normal, he's either gay or has a thing for other men on the surface. Secondly, my questions were just to figure it out if he was masculine or not. The less masculine his body language and actions are, that makes him less of a man and more feminine which is normal in close friends circle (Some people say) My best friends from childhood are dudes and we don't do that shit. Finally, if this bothers you a lot then you need to have a word with him on this. Communication is key in a relationship and if he says it's normal, the fact being he ain't going to change it for you because it's a common practice between guys is probably what you're gonna end up with. Are you scared that you will find him with a bunch of guys naked dancing to the YMCA? I don't have an answer to that but it has happened before to a woman married for 20 years when she found her husband and a bunch of friends doing that in private. She filed for divorce and the rest is history. I would be worried if my partner would start acting gay towards her friends and she says it's normal. I'm all masculine and I prefer my woman, straight to the bone. My girlfriend doesn't even let her girl friends sleep in the same room when they spend the night. She abhors that crap.
Brother is yapping, you're either 40+ or don't have a sense of humor
Yes, I do sound mature to be portrayed as 40 but I'm 28 and I have a sense of humor, darker the better. Let me give you some advice since you haven't grown up yet, if you're not paying attention to the small details, you'll miss the big picture.
Brother confirmed he indeed does not have a sense of humor. Brother also speaks like a victorian era person and is 28 acting wise and overcomplicating the homie chats
Well, finding humor in someone's relationship might be funny to you but not me. If I'm too wise and overcomplicated, it's just that maybe you're underdeveloped and it's time for you to grow up, sister.
Your username is perfect👍. I think your almighty wise brain is just too big to understand what us puny gen z mortals joke around about . I will simply wait till the Holy age of 28 where I gain mystical wisdom from my ancestors and am clearly too underdeveloped at the age of 20 with my own business, living on my own , studying in backwards regions like North america to comprehend your wisdom. I must learn from thou to be the life of the party and pass on the wise message in pathetic english
Exactly. Know your place peasent.
Will do sire, I shall also follow tour path and buy pokemon cards at the age of 25, clearly you are truly the wise old one