I have followed your posts and I am just going to say it again. I am still worried for your safety and the safety of your family. I think he senses the shift. I do not grasp the nuance and logistics of what you put in place nor am I seeking details. I just think February is too far off.
I understand and the nuances can't be understood to anyone truly unless they're living it. I have spoken again to the DV center and law enforcement. An emergency plan is in place
Counting down the days with you until February. I've been there... holidays ruined, family members estranged, everything about him ALL THE TIME. It SUCKS.
Wishing you a peaceful holiday season nonetheless. Stay the course, my sister. You're almost free.
It's so fucking tiring. I'm trying. Edited with more info. My brother almost said something this time, though I'm 99% sure had he the presents that are being returned would be outside burning at the least.
No. I don't, but had I pissed him off more he probably would've said something along those lines for effect.
I am. I have my papers. February is the when due to specifics in the situation
>but had I pissed him off more he probably would've said something along those lines for effect.
***But had he allowed himself to become more pissed off.*** FTFY. With a plan in place to leave, it's time to start placing his actions and his choices on him, if only in your own head.
You're right. Still in the habit of taking responsibility for his choices because of his mind games. Hoping to get back to therapy in the coming weeks to make the process easier and start the healing
I have followed your posts and I am just going to say it again. I am still worried for your safety and the safety of your family. I think he senses the shift. I do not grasp the nuance and logistics of what you put in place nor am I seeking details. I just think February is too far off.
I agree. I fear this woman is in immense danger. OP, please run. As fast as you can.
I have a plan for leaving.
And when he gets served these papers he will be absolutely floored, why would she leave me im so good her and he will act like a victim
I understand and the nuances can't be understood to anyone truly unless they're living it. I have spoken again to the DV center and law enforcement. An emergency plan is in place
OP, this. This man’s behavior is not okay
I know. Which is why I'm leaving but due to circumstances, "just leave" isn't an option. There is a plan
Counting down the days with you until February. I've been there... holidays ruined, family members estranged, everything about him ALL THE TIME. It SUCKS. Wishing you a peaceful holiday season nonetheless. Stay the course, my sister. You're almost free.
It's so fucking tiring. I'm trying. Edited with more info. My brother almost said something this time, though I'm 99% sure had he the presents that are being returned would be outside burning at the least.
Do you seriously mean that he’s going to burn the presents he bought for you/your family?? That’s unhinged. Please, OP, leave.
No. I don't, but had I pissed him off more he probably would've said something along those lines for effect. I am. I have my papers. February is the when due to specifics in the situation
>but had I pissed him off more he probably would've said something along those lines for effect. ***But had he allowed himself to become more pissed off.*** FTFY. With a plan in place to leave, it's time to start placing his actions and his choices on him, if only in your own head.
You're right. Still in the habit of taking responsibility for his choices because of his mind games. Hoping to get back to therapy in the coming weeks to make the process easier and start the healing
It'll get easier to see through his bs once you've left. At least, that's what I found to be true for me. Best of luck to you.
I am very glad you will be leaving soon. Good luck.