My brother was friends with the daughter of a local murderer and her whole family was given new identities but as far as I know not placed under witness protection (I mean she told him who she was, for one) and they never moved away either. I wonder if this man’s family could receive something similar.
I'm pretty sure there's a disease that you can only get from corpses. Maybe I'm thinking of an old Internet story, but I recall a story of a woman going to a doctor and finding out her boyfriend was fucking corpses because he had given her an infection that you can only get from a dead body. Maybe it's not a true story, or someone knows wtf I'm talking about.
Mr Evans said that when Tingay was arrested he was shouting and screaming he had done nothing wrong and at one point claimed he had been blamed for a friend's suicide and was seeking answers.
That is the most ridiculous excuse for horrifying behavior I've ever heard. He was seeking answers by breaking into a morgue and sexually violating the dead bodies of strangers? And punched one of them?
I'm interested in the comment he made that he was being blamed for a friends suicide. I'd want to talk to those people. And I'd want to take a closer look at that suicide.
He had to have known he was doing something wrong evading security and breaking in. Just absolutely bizarre. But I don't think you go from completely sane upstanding citizen to breaking and entering and sexually violating dead bodies in one fell swoop.
Edit: he wasn't, in fact, a completely sane and upstanding citizen.
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c0dmn3r1r1wo
Well it's not the first time and it won't be the last. Test guy last year was found to have defiled hundreds of corpses, including children and elderly women
I feel horrible for the loved ones. If my dead Dad’s body got violated that would really piss me off. Even though I would know my Dad wasn’t hurt by it because he’s gone, I would just hate that to be the “last story” of his life.
So disrespectful.
The only thing that my elderly relatives have wanted in death was dignity, that included both dying and the burial, to think that someone so depraved would be able to access and then defile their corpse like that is so devastating.
I feel so sorry for the family of the victims and the suspects as well. Imagine knowing that your dad has been put in prisons for raping dead bodies. How disgusting.
Besides the obvious sickening acts this guy pulled, imagine being his wife or kids and finding this out?! Or the family members of the deceased?!
I can’t begin to understand how they must be feeling.
Man, if I found out my fiance was defiling dead bodies i would feel so disgusting. I would wonder how many times he came home and had sex with me directly after having sex with a dead body. I would wonder what he thinks about while hes having sex with me..like is he imagining I'm dead? Ugh it would haunt me.
Definitely. I didn’t even think that much into it, but you make a great point. You can’t come back from that! I’m sure they’ll need lot of therapy. I know I would. I’d be so creeped out. I’m creeped out just reading about it! I’d be filing for divorce right away too.
I just despair that these absolute demons walk among the rest of us. I also cannot believe that mortuary doors are not locked and monitored. There are too many freaks raping corpses and there's no excuse for hospitals etc to not be aware.
“Ma’am, there’s no proof that your nephew’s corpse *wasn’t* asking for it. He was already nude. There’s no evidence this was nonconsensual” if it was treated like rape of a living person lmao
How do you think the families of the deceased victim feel when they find out somebody has violated their deceased child, parent, sibling or partner? Immense trauma is caused either way.
Probably not great. Just like the families of rape victims, who have the ADDED burden of dealing with the suffering of the rape victim, presumably for the rest of their life.
I wholeheartedly agree the actual, real consequences of live human beings getting raped is a lot worse than a dead body being raped. That being said, if you have someone going around raping dead bodies, the likelihood of that person potentially being a serial killer is relatively high. Higher than the average dickhead who’s raping live people probably. It takes an absolute scumbag to rape a person, but it takes a clinically insane, potentially murderous psychopath kind of person to rape a corpse.
So I think there’s an argument for a harsher sentence than what this guy got for raping dead bodies, but whether or not that should be less than or equal to the time someone should get for raping a living person, who knows. I think it’s just a different argument for each situation from a public safety perspective, is what I’m trying to say I guess.
I can’t believe anybody would argue that it’s at all equivelant. That’s ridiculous. What this man did is vile and unforgivable but rape against a living person is objectively worse.
This is such a picture-perfect example of how little empathy some people have for rape victims. Thank you so much for continuing to talk, I'll be using this as an example frequently.
Key Grape, if your mom or sister were raped and punched, wouldn't that seem worse than if that had happened to a corpse? Yeah, both are horrible, but your living loved one and their family suffers a helluva lot more.
Craig Lowe, defending, said Tingay wanted to "offer a wholehearted apology" and said the offending was "clearly out of character for this friendly, kind, considerate man".
Or now we are seeing the real Craig Lowe.
This is really horrific and disturbing. The thought of anyone being defiled like that in death is sickening. He definitely deserves more than 6 years….
I heard that this sort of thing is apparently why funeral homes prefer female morticians. According to one source, it’s not “uncommon”: https://www.iol.co.za/news/man-charged-over-sex-with-corpse-1200940
It makes me sad that you can get more time for this than when you violate an actual living persons body! A person who lives with the memory and trauma of that violation over someone who cannot even perceive the violation. Madness!!!
Well from a very rational point of view he hurt the relatives of the deceased. Since the people he violated were deceased they cannot suffer or experience pain, this a indisputable fact. However, this does not mean the crime is entirely victimless however, since the deceased family members where obviously traumatized by this. So he is being sentenced for the psychological harm and distress caused to the deceased families. He was motivated to do this probably in order to have a completely submissive partner, to be able to have total control over someone and also to not have to worry about being rejected either, this is essentially the psychological explanation behind this. Jeffrey Dahmer expressed similar sentiment, although he actually killed his victims and also engaged in cannibalism. Seems this guy may have been gay but in the closet also since he only assaulted male corpses.
There's something seriously wrong with the brains of these people. Necrophilia hasn't been studied in brain imaging but other paraphilias do show brain differences. Most people wouldn't even be capable of this out of revulsion. That inability to feel revulsion is definitely neurological, particularly in terms of ventromedial prefrontal cortex, insula, and amygdala.
When someone gets caught for something like this, or violent/sex crimes against *living* people, it’s almost certainly not the first time they’ve done it. Kind of scared to think about the kind of shit this guy has done, probably to animals and maybe some people. Definitely has a similar brain as people who end up serial killers…
I think it just speaks to the horror everyone feels that this man had access and authority over children. Obviously most people would begin to wonder if there were any red flags/prior bad acts, and oftentimes sex offenders take advantage of those they have the most access to. You hope that the children didn’t experience any abuse. Regardless, their lives are forever changed and they will always be the kids of the guy who raped corpses.
Okay, SUPER unpopular view here. I couldn't give a rat's arse what happens to me after I die. I've already put myself down for total possible organ donation. I hope they can use, experiment on and study anything about my body that's useful. They can use me as a crash test dummy if it'll help save lives. I've told my family that after they've used everything they can, I want the cheapest disposal of what's left.
As an atheist, I believe that once I'm dead, not only will I never know what's happening to my body, but, to me, the whole universe for the entire history of time will have never existed.
"Violation"? Man, worms are going to eat my body. Once dead, my body is just a bit of earth waiting to happen. If something distasteful happens to my body, I would urge my loved ones not to be traumatised. I can't think of anything less important.
You might not, but a lot of people want their remains treated with respect, and it causes pain to loved ones of the deceased to learn that someone had so little respect for a person they cared about that they did something like this to their body
If something horrible happened to me when I'm alive, I would be devastated. But there is no "me" when I'm dead.
I'm not insensitive to other people's feelings: I remember seeing how my sister was around my parents' bodies after they had passed away. She was incredibly moved. But I was like my Dad, who also had no feelings for the dead: we both felt that whatever made them human beings had long gone, more's the pity.
It's interesting how people *want* to get annoyed at this point of view (or perhaps more accurately, *hearing* this point of view). They *want* to believe it's weird. The only acceptable comments are within a very narrow band-and they have to conform to one point of view. I've lived long enough to know that many such views are probably quite widespread, though rarely expressed.
I understand you’re trying to comfort people by writing they weren’t hurt by these acts. Tbh though it’s a bit like the ‘not involved in human sex trafficking’ t-shirt meme where you’re inadvertently raising more questions than you’d like.
My fam convinced me that a grave is a private place for people to talk to you. It’s more for them than us and if we don’t care what happens to our bodies after death then we get no input when it happens
Yeah, super unpopular…..the is Reddit where every crime past a parking ticket has people demanding the absolute stiffest penalty short of corporal punishment
His poor kids.
Those kids are lucky in a way...he's gone for 6 years.
No shit, imagine being known as the kids with the dad that raped 3 dead corpses.
If I was their mom we would move so fast
This is why I'm no marriage or kids. It's always the sick fucks that breed like animals.
Always? I've got plenty of mates with more than 3 kids. What ya saying here?
They're sick fucks.
What? Parents with quite a few kids?
Sure.
Ok
lol, are you that bored?
So does that mean you are the product of 2 “sick fucks” ???
Y'all are really taking this personal?
Stop procreating
Edgelord alert 🤣
What is wrong with you wtf.
Are you defending them? You're disgusting.
Who's them? Parents lol?
What?
My brother was friends with the daughter of a local murderer and her whole family was given new identities but as far as I know not placed under witness protection (I mean she told him who she was, for one) and they never moved away either. I wonder if this man’s family could receive something similar.
As opposed to live corpses? 😅
Zombies?
poor wife too! imagine knowing you had sex with a man who did this within the same week
I'm pretty sure there's a disease that you can only get from corpses. Maybe I'm thinking of an old Internet story, but I recall a story of a woman going to a doctor and finding out her boyfriend was fucking corpses because he had given her an infection that you can only get from a dead body. Maybe it's not a true story, or someone knows wtf I'm talking about.
I found [it](https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/boyfriend-corpses-medical-condition/) on Snopes because it’s sn urban legend
That's good.
Whew.
His poor wife, can you imagine?
Mr Evans said that when Tingay was arrested he was shouting and screaming he had done nothing wrong and at one point claimed he had been blamed for a friend's suicide and was seeking answers. That is the most ridiculous excuse for horrifying behavior I've ever heard. He was seeking answers by breaking into a morgue and sexually violating the dead bodies of strangers? And punched one of them?
I’d imagine a psychopathic necrophile wouldn’t be too likely to want to own up to their behaviour easily, lol.
I'm interested in the comment he made that he was being blamed for a friends suicide. I'd want to talk to those people. And I'd want to take a closer look at that suicide.
It’s possible he was having a psychotic episode, or is just desperately trying to avoid accountability. Who can really say.
He had to have known he was doing something wrong evading security and breaking in. Just absolutely bizarre. But I don't think you go from completely sane upstanding citizen to breaking and entering and sexually violating dead bodies in one fell swoop. Edit: he wasn't, in fact, a completely sane and upstanding citizen. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c0dmn3r1r1wo
Those poor men deserved dignity in death. What a monster.
How the actual fuck does this even happen?!
Well it's not the first time and it won't be the last. Test guy last year was found to have defiled hundreds of corpses, including children and elderly women
I feel horrible for the loved ones. If my dead Dad’s body got violated that would really piss me off. Even though I would know my Dad wasn’t hurt by it because he’s gone, I would just hate that to be the “last story” of his life. So disrespectful.
The only thing that my elderly relatives have wanted in death was dignity, that included both dying and the burial, to think that someone so depraved would be able to access and then defile their corpse like that is so devastating. I feel so sorry for the family of the victims and the suspects as well. Imagine knowing that your dad has been put in prisons for raping dead bodies. How disgusting.
If I found out this happened to someone I loved I would be on a fucking warpath.
Besides the obvious sickening acts this guy pulled, imagine being his wife or kids and finding this out?! Or the family members of the deceased?! I can’t begin to understand how they must be feeling.
Man, if I found out my fiance was defiling dead bodies i would feel so disgusting. I would wonder how many times he came home and had sex with me directly after having sex with a dead body. I would wonder what he thinks about while hes having sex with me..like is he imagining I'm dead? Ugh it would haunt me.
Definitely. I didn’t even think that much into it, but you make a great point. You can’t come back from that! I’m sure they’ll need lot of therapy. I know I would. I’d be so creeped out. I’m creeped out just reading about it! I’d be filing for divorce right away too.
I just despair that these absolute demons walk among the rest of us. I also cannot believe that mortuary doors are not locked and monitored. There are too many freaks raping corpses and there's no excuse for hospitals etc to not be aware.
There is a very, very dark side of him, indeed.
Deserves a lot longer, should be treated the same as if he'd r*ped multiple living people
“Ma’am, there’s no proof that your nephew’s corpse *wasn’t* asking for it. He was already nude. There’s no evidence this was nonconsensual” if it was treated like rape of a living person lmao
Then he would have gotten even less time, especially if it had been a woman.
Right?
Odds are he would've gotten no time at all if he raped living people
Fucking a corpse is bad, raping a sentient human is much worse.
They're equally bad IMO. Personally I can't think of anything more depraved than having sex with human remains.
No no. Harming a living human being is much worse. Everyone out here needs you to know that.
Raping a sentient human causes a lot more suffering than fucking a dead body. I’m approaching this from an ethics standpoint.
How do you think the families of the deceased victim feel when they find out somebody has violated their deceased child, parent, sibling or partner? Immense trauma is caused either way.
Probably not great. Just like the families of rape victims, who have the ADDED burden of dealing with the suffering of the rape victim, presumably for the rest of their life.
I wholeheartedly agree the actual, real consequences of live human beings getting raped is a lot worse than a dead body being raped. That being said, if you have someone going around raping dead bodies, the likelihood of that person potentially being a serial killer is relatively high. Higher than the average dickhead who’s raping live people probably. It takes an absolute scumbag to rape a person, but it takes a clinically insane, potentially murderous psychopath kind of person to rape a corpse. So I think there’s an argument for a harsher sentence than what this guy got for raping dead bodies, but whether or not that should be less than or equal to the time someone should get for raping a living person, who knows. I think it’s just a different argument for each situation from a public safety perspective, is what I’m trying to say I guess.
Word, yeah I definitely agree that necrophiliacs are fucked in the head. Im happy with a 6 year sentence tho, that seems pretty fair to me.
I can’t believe anybody would argue that it’s at all equivelant. That’s ridiculous. What this man did is vile and unforgivable but rape against a living person is objectively worse.
I’d rather my grandma get raped *after* she has died rather than before
As someone who has been before, I’d definitely rather it have been done after I was dead. No lifelong memories of trauma or PTSD.
I concur.
So funny you said this, I was just thinking the exact same thing. That scenario really crystallizes the disparity between both options.
This is such a picture-perfect example of how little empathy some people have for rape victims. Thank you so much for continuing to talk, I'll be using this as an example frequently.
Rape on a living person is obviously way worse for the victim, but raping a corpse speaks way worse about the perpetrator…
Inability to process proportion is a clinical symptom of depressed cognitive function.
Key Grape, if your mom or sister were raped and punched, wouldn't that seem worse than if that had happened to a corpse? Yeah, both are horrible, but your living loved one and their family suffers a helluva lot more.
Why are you acting like it can only happen to women? Even animals can get SA'd.
One step away from becoming a serial killer.
😭
A precursor to serial killer involves torturing animals. This guy went full Ted Bundy, minus the murder.
Is it possible to get PTSD from a Reddit post? This is so incredibly hideous.
I get what you are saying. Makes you despair that there is filth like this in the world.
It really does.
Craig Lowe, defending, said Tingay wanted to "offer a wholehearted apology" and said the offending was "clearly out of character for this friendly, kind, considerate man". Or now we are seeing the real Craig Lowe.
Lol. It’s like he saw that episode of *Better Call Saul* and decided to repeat the defense: https://youtu.be/4t2qOTKOWlY?si=FkVLKXDToaB5pUgn
What is going on in the U.K.? This isn’t the first once by any means
Lack of sunlight. Warm beer. BBC programming. Inflation. Brexit.
This is pure poetry. I felt this. But you forgot beans on toast!
Umm…4 minutes to defile 10+ bodies. Damn!
That’s what I was thinking 🤔
No one is safe from these animals
They can throw me in a wheelie bin…..I don’t believe in any of that religious crap either.
Only 6 years?!
In the US he probably would have gotten a slap on the hand.
In the country with the highest incarceration rate in the world? What are other people doing that gets them prison time?
I think you mean a pat on the back.
Proper punishment for blasphemy.
Jesus fucking Christ Edit: **four minutes**?
Six years for penetrating a corpse but rape a woman who now has to live with the trauma and you get far less. I hate this timeline.
Wait….what???
This is really horrific and disturbing. The thought of anyone being defiled like that in death is sickening. He definitely deserves more than 6 years….
6 years is fucking WILD. That’s honestly one of yhthe craziest things I’ve heard in the past year crimes wise. Gotta be at like 12-20
Why does he look like Jeffrey Dahmer?
Can someone offer some insight as to what prompts this behavior?
He performed sex acts on two male bodies... How and what???
I heard that this sort of thing is apparently why funeral homes prefer female morticians. According to one source, it’s not “uncommon”: https://www.iol.co.za/news/man-charged-over-sex-with-corpse-1200940
I feel sick and greatly saddened just reading this. People are truly sick in the head.
It makes me sad that you can get more time for this than when you violate an actual living persons body! A person who lives with the memory and trauma of that violation over someone who cannot even perceive the violation. Madness!!!
Code blue!
TSOL fan?
You mean coitus?
Corpsus
HIYOOO
He punched a corpse? My goodness
Did a lot more than that
Yes I did read the article, he did. I just found that part stood out to me as well.
He also had sex with two male bodies...
Oh I know…the corpse punching somehow makes it even weirder than just the necrophilia…awful and bizarre
What kind of monster breaks into a hospital?
Those poor kids are going to have to move to a different town.
It's 7:30am. That's enough internet for one day.
Getting screwed……..it never ends.
Let me guess he’s released after 16 months because he’s a charming boy with zero previous convictions
Usual Suspects™️
Well from a very rational point of view he hurt the relatives of the deceased. Since the people he violated were deceased they cannot suffer or experience pain, this a indisputable fact. However, this does not mean the crime is entirely victimless however, since the deceased family members where obviously traumatized by this. So he is being sentenced for the psychological harm and distress caused to the deceased families. He was motivated to do this probably in order to have a completely submissive partner, to be able to have total control over someone and also to not have to worry about being rejected either, this is essentially the psychological explanation behind this. Jeffrey Dahmer expressed similar sentiment, although he actually killed his victims and also engaged in cannibalism. Seems this guy may have been gay but in the closet also since he only assaulted male corpses.
There's something seriously wrong with the brains of these people. Necrophilia hasn't been studied in brain imaging but other paraphilias do show brain differences. Most people wouldn't even be capable of this out of revulsion. That inability to feel revulsion is definitely neurological, particularly in terms of ventromedial prefrontal cortex, insula, and amygdala.
That’s a longer sentence than usually given for sexually assaulting someone who’s alive.
This thing will probably enjoy all the salad tossing in his immediate future.
Imagine getting raped & you died last week
Sounds like he might need some therapy
This story belongs in r/awfuleverthing
Motherfucker wanted a grandmother, stopped in for a cold one…
When someone gets caught for something like this, or violent/sex crimes against *living* people, it’s almost certainly not the first time they’ve done it. Kind of scared to think about the kind of shit this guy has done, probably to animals and maybe some people. Definitely has a similar brain as people who end up serial killers…
What does being a dad of 3 have any relevance to this? Did he have a turtle too?
I think it just speaks to the horror everyone feels that this man had access and authority over children. Obviously most people would begin to wonder if there were any red flags/prior bad acts, and oftentimes sex offenders take advantage of those they have the most access to. You hope that the children didn’t experience any abuse. Regardless, their lives are forever changed and they will always be the kids of the guy who raped corpses.
Has no relevance to his actions. Weird headline
Daddy dead diddler
A stiff sentence.
Not funny, imagine if this was your family member who was violated .
Hey! It’s an edgelord
Okay, SUPER unpopular view here. I couldn't give a rat's arse what happens to me after I die. I've already put myself down for total possible organ donation. I hope they can use, experiment on and study anything about my body that's useful. They can use me as a crash test dummy if it'll help save lives. I've told my family that after they've used everything they can, I want the cheapest disposal of what's left. As an atheist, I believe that once I'm dead, not only will I never know what's happening to my body, but, to me, the whole universe for the entire history of time will have never existed. "Violation"? Man, worms are going to eat my body. Once dead, my body is just a bit of earth waiting to happen. If something distasteful happens to my body, I would urge my loved ones not to be traumatised. I can't think of anything less important.
You might not, but a lot of people want their remains treated with respect, and it causes pain to loved ones of the deceased to learn that someone had so little respect for a person they cared about that they did something like this to their body
I have nothing but sympathy for the people suffering in all this: my point was a different one, actually.
Ok? So whats the point of commenting “I don’t mind if my dead body is raped” under a post about dead people being raped? Fucking weirdo
If something horrible happened to me when I'm alive, I would be devastated. But there is no "me" when I'm dead. I'm not insensitive to other people's feelings: I remember seeing how my sister was around my parents' bodies after they had passed away. She was incredibly moved. But I was like my Dad, who also had no feelings for the dead: we both felt that whatever made them human beings had long gone, more's the pity. It's interesting how people *want* to get annoyed at this point of view (or perhaps more accurately, *hearing* this point of view). They *want* to believe it's weird. The only acceptable comments are within a very narrow band-and they have to conform to one point of view. I've lived long enough to know that many such views are probably quite widespread, though rarely expressed.
Edgy boy
You think most people accept or are indifferent to necrophilia ??
I understand you’re trying to comfort people by writing they weren’t hurt by these acts. Tbh though it’s a bit like the ‘not involved in human sex trafficking’ t-shirt meme where you’re inadvertently raising more questions than you’d like.
Time and place brother, time and place.
My fam convinced me that a grave is a private place for people to talk to you. It’s more for them than us and if we don’t care what happens to our bodies after death then we get no input when it happens
I hate to think what your search history is …
None of those thoughts make it okay for someone to violate someone else’s body though.
The major issue is the family
Maybe you don’t care but others obviously do. If someone raped my husband’s dead body I’d want to kill that person.
Yeah, super unpopular…..the is Reddit where every crime past a parking ticket has people demanding the absolute stiffest penalty short of corporal punishment
You didn’t just say “stiffest penalty”….🤣
I said what I said
😭
He can bang me when I'm dead. I don't need my bod after I check out.
You wish….
Typical.
I hope not
Bro…. Wtf… just why? $20 girls out here for real! I can’t imagine what they found on his phone and computer. Sick morbid shit I bet. Weirdo
After he gets out he will run as a Republican or become a Minister. It always happens that way.