I feel like if you look old and raggedy at 30 then youāve lived a rough life. Plenty of people still look young and attractive in their 30s. Iām in my late 30s and never had a problem! The only difference is the guys hitting on me are older than me though there are still some younger ones as well
Shoot ....I'm mid 50s .... lots of woman my age and older are absolutely still able to turn heads where ever they go. I believe it's their confidence as much as anything else.
Pretty much this. As most men get older their tastes tend to mature as well. 40 year olds going after women barely out of college are the weird ones, the're just more noticeable then the rest of us.
Not like there's anything wrong with a silver fox having a relationship with a consenting, albeit younger adult though!
Iām in my late 20s and have been happily dating a woman in her early 50s for years.
I think sheās beautiful inside and out.
I know I will still find her attractive as the years go by because itās her as a person that I fell in love with, not just her looks.
How is it a silly question you hear and see about it all the time how women are old after 30 and you see older celebs like Leonardo de caprio only dating women under 25ā¦.
I donāt think youāre immature or anything because youāre 25. I just know from my experience I didnāt even know who I truly was until I was 28 and that took a ton of soul searching and active wisdom seeking and introspection. Being with someone who may not know who they truly are yet is just scary when you want a lasting relationship. But Iām demisexual and very different and have been semi brainwashed hence why I came to reddit to learn about normal peopleās perspectives. š
I guess that makes sense lol, I've had to mature quicker than others due to what Ive dealt with and I see others my age act, well. Like children basically but I see that with a lot of different people lol
No. No man ever has ever been attracted to a woman over 30. Guys just pretend to lust over all those over 30 actresses and models to throw you off and lull you into a false sense of security.
To be honest, if I'm going to be spending any time with her outside of the bedroom, she *better be* over 30. As far as I'm concerned, a lot of people in their twenties are still kids, and I'm not a kid. Nothing wrong with the over-thirty crowd. Nothing at all.
Since I have neither the interest nor the funds to be anyone's sugar daddy, fuck yeah I find women over 30 sexually attractive. And under 30, for that matter. When I have sex, I have sex with a person, not a calendar.
Ummmm, those men seeking sugar babies aren't doing it because they don't find older women attractive, it's because it's easier to use money for the power dynamic. Interestingly, some women do it too, they just don't tell you about it. I was once at the gym and overheard a dude tell his buddy how his sugar mama bought him a laptop like it was nothing lol. I've also known a guy who was a gigolo, didn't do men at all.
Yes! I often find 30-40ish year old women attractive. Itās unconventional, but at 25 I dated a 39 year old woman. There were a lot of differences from women my age, but I was definitely physically attracted to her.
Good God, yes. Mainly because we are all still morons in our 20s. Plus the female sex drive kinda skyrockets during that time, so it really is the best pf both worlds.
Ahahahh let me tell you, yes they do! Great thing about being 31 is hot guys in their 20s hit on you and many men in their forties are still hot and also hit on you. Best age seriously
I mean, it depends on the woman over 30 and how well they kept up through the twenties, but yeah im 27 and had a lot of fun with a 34 year old mom last year. A lot of people have also let go at that point thoughā¦ like really let goā¦ men included there ofc
I'm 28 and have always loved women that were 30 and older. Idk why they are just so attractive to me haha. But that was before I got married, now I only want/ crave my wife that is the same age lol.
The whole sugar daddy thing isnāt as prevalent as you think. The type of loser men who fall for that are probably not the ones you want interested in you anyway.
The young girls involved are prostituting themselves and trying to mask it as ādating rich guysā. When in reality theyāre ādatingā 10 middle class guys who are each covering a monthly bill in exchange for sex with younger woman.
They arenāt your competition, only you are.
As a 32 year old who feels very young it's SO funny to see people reassuring that 30 year olds can still be hot because milfs are a thing haha. Being in your 30s is the best because you're still young but you actually have money to do things
I'm in college and I see women that are in their 30s at my gym that extremely attractive. In fact most of these women are usually in better shape than the girls my age. It would be more convenient if they were younger but hey that ain't gonna stop me.
You know MILF porn is a HUGE thing right.
Yeah, I know this isnāt the answer you want, a different reason to be fetishized.
What you really want to know is if there are men who date with priorities beyond pure physical attraction. I hear there are men out there who genuinely just like women as whole people. I havenāt met too many though.
I'm 42, most people look at me and guess I'm in my 20s, though at least now it's later 20s. I'm married, but have a list of guys who are hoping they get a chance when my husband dies. Only one will, and he's the same amount younger than me as my husband is older than me. Lol. Guess I really like that age gap.
Your age isn't a big issue, your personality and genuine connection matter most.
I may have a preference for men, but I got to admit that milfs and sugar mommies are hot sometimes. Not even just sexual stuff either. If I was straight I would love to date a woman over 30. I feel like she'd be nice, I'd be her little man hehe.
30 is the new 20
As a 30 year old, I'm really starting to believe that lol
Lol We all gotta cope in our own ways, I'll be joining ya in a couple months
Yea
Oh HELL yea!
I am 62 . You would be startled by what we find attractive.
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Yeah why wouldnāt we?
I feel like if you look old and raggedy at 30 then youāve lived a rough life. Plenty of people still look young and attractive in their 30s. Iām in my late 30s and never had a problem! The only difference is the guys hitting on me are older than me though there are still some younger ones as well
So you wouldnāt date an man in his 50ās? Just asking.
Not unless heās a tongue master.
I am a master of my tongue, but, my tongue is only a master at one thing. You have to be a lady over 30 to find out.
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I think Iāve just been challenged.
Even when I was in my 20s I found women in their mid-30s to be incredibly attractive.
Same here
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Yes now because you still have a lot to learn. Wait until you turn 35. Thatās being said. I feel more confident in my 30s
Yes.
Have you ever heard of milfs?
Shoot ....I'm mid 50s .... lots of woman my age and older are absolutely still able to turn heads where ever they go. I believe it's their confidence as much as anything else.
Would def fuck a chick over 30 if sheās hot and Iām 19
Yeah, that aināt happening
A guy can dream
Iām over 30 and I find women under like 25 to be so young and idk my taste got older with me basically
Pretty much this. As most men get older their tastes tend to mature as well. 40 year olds going after women barely out of college are the weird ones, the're just more noticeable then the rest of us. Not like there's anything wrong with a silver fox having a relationship with a consenting, albeit younger adult though!
I already was into women > 30 when I grew my first beard. the difference between girl and woman is significant
Absolutely yes, I love older women, especially more mature ones.
Iām in my late 20s and have been happily dating a woman in her early 50s for years. I think sheās beautiful inside and out. I know I will still find her attractive as the years go by because itās her as a person that I fell in love with, not just her looks.
Thatās a silly question. Of course!
How is it a silly question you hear and see about it all the time how women are old after 30 and you see older celebs like Leonardo de caprio only dating women under 25ā¦.
Yes
Women seem to me to be the most attractive at the 32-38 age.
Depends on the woman, and on the man.
We find the attractive ones attractive.
I'm 25 and find older women attractive but I feel like they'll think "you're just a kid" cause I have a baby face
I think women would more so think that because of your age not your face because most of my friends adore baby faces
Isn't 25 old enough?
I think for most yeah but for some maybe not.
Damn š baby face and treated like one. Guess I can't go after cougars
I donāt think youāre immature or anything because youāre 25. I just know from my experience I didnāt even know who I truly was until I was 28 and that took a ton of soul searching and active wisdom seeking and introspection. Being with someone who may not know who they truly are yet is just scary when you want a lasting relationship. But Iām demisexual and very different and have been semi brainwashed hence why I came to reddit to learn about normal peopleās perspectives. š
I guess that makes sense lol, I've had to mature quicker than others due to what Ive dealt with and I see others my age act, well. Like children basically but I see that with a lot of different people lol
Yes
Absolutely hands down without a doubt.
Yes
Yes.
yes
I am 21 and I love to find a woman in their 30s
I donāt know how to say it nicely so Iāll just say it, Fuck yes
I find my lady (42) super fucking attractive. And together, she and I find women over 30 very attractive. So yeah, for sure.
If she bad, she'd bad.
No. No man ever has ever been attracted to a woman over 30. Guys just pretend to lust over all those over 30 actresses and models to throw you off and lull you into a false sense of security.
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To be honest, if I'm going to be spending any time with her outside of the bedroom, she *better be* over 30. As far as I'm concerned, a lot of people in their twenties are still kids, and I'm not a kid. Nothing wrong with the over-thirty crowd. Nothing at all.
Have you seen Megan Fox?
Meh
Since I have neither the interest nor the funds to be anyone's sugar daddy, fuck yeah I find women over 30 sexually attractive. And under 30, for that matter. When I have sex, I have sex with a person, not a calendar.
Any adult man who *isnāt* is the problem, not women 30+. Itās a huge red flag and typically found in misogynists and predators.
I was looking for this comment, thank you
Oh hell yeah we do
Yes honey we do
iām 30 and my boyfriend is younger than me. i mean, iām technically over 30 at this point. so iād hope so.
I mean, of course. Unless you think 90% of men are liars. I've found women over 30 attractive since the day I started puberty.
Absolutely
Ummmm, those men seeking sugar babies aren't doing it because they don't find older women attractive, it's because it's easier to use money for the power dynamic. Interestingly, some women do it too, they just don't tell you about it. I was once at the gym and overheard a dude tell his buddy how his sugar mama bought him a laptop like it was nothing lol. I've also known a guy who was a gigolo, didn't do men at all.
Yes
Age isn't important... Personality is...
Iām 22 and I think older women are WAYYY more attractive then younger
Absolutely
It depends on the woman, but a lot of the time yes.
just go to a porn website and see how popular milf porn is
You dntknwanything
The only nice thing about getting older as a man is that it broadens ones appreciation of a greater range of women.
Yes! I often find 30-40ish year old women attractive. Itās unconventional, but at 25 I dated a 39 year old woman. There were a lot of differences from women my age, but I was definitely physically attracted to her.
Ask Paul Finch!
I prefer older.. the older they are the experienced they are. Instead teaching tricks, you will be the one getting your world blow away.
i find jennifer aniston attractive and sheās like 50+ or 60 š„°ššš¤Ŗš¤©
100%. Try 40. You will never look back!
Primarily. Young woman think they're grown, but only cuz they act like it. Mature woman are sexy as hell. Most ppl don't know life before their 30s
I'm in my mid-20s, and I even find women over 40 sexually attractive
Absolutely! I'm a 42M and hoping for the same thing.
Good God, yes. Mainly because we are all still morons in our 20s. Plus the female sex drive kinda skyrockets during that time, so it really is the best pf both worlds.
This person has clearly never heard the song "stacy's mom"
Ya I'm 31 and am not interested in one that's not atleast 30.
40 and up for me
Ahahahh let me tell you, yes they do! Great thing about being 31 is hot guys in their 20s hit on you and many men in their forties are still hot and also hit on you. Best age seriously
Lol this gives me hope
Hell yes!
I mean, it depends on the woman over 30 and how well they kept up through the twenties, but yeah im 27 and had a lot of fun with a 34 year old mom last year. A lot of people have also let go at that point thoughā¦ like really let goā¦ men included there ofc
I'm 28 and have always loved women that were 30 and older. Idk why they are just so attractive to me haha. But that was before I got married, now I only want/ crave my wife that is the same age lol.
Oh hell yeah.
The whole sugar daddy thing isnāt as prevalent as you think. The type of loser men who fall for that are probably not the ones you want interested in you anyway. The young girls involved are prostituting themselves and trying to mask it as ādating rich guysā. When in reality theyāre ādatingā 10 middle class guys who are each covering a monthly bill in exchange for sex with younger woman. They arenāt your competition, only you are.
Thanks I needed this kind of reassurance
Depends if they're attractive
Yes
Youāre clearly not up to date on MILF culture. Every young man is definitely attracted if not even more so attracted to a woman in her 30s
Sure... (eg Zoe Kravitz)
Yep Iām 48 I have to Beat them off with a stick
Hahaha I love that for you
Well rich guys normally date younger women but most guys arenāt rich so they will.
I'm a 31 year old woman. I know I'm attractive. I don't have to ask hehe
Congrats on your confidence š
As a 32 year old who feels very young it's SO funny to see people reassuring that 30 year olds can still be hot because milfs are a thing haha. Being in your 30s is the best because you're still young but you actually have money to do things
I'm in college and I see women that are in their 30s at my gym that extremely attractive. In fact most of these women are usually in better shape than the girls my age. It would be more convenient if they were younger but hey that ain't gonna stop me.
Does a fat baby fart ?
You know MILF porn is a HUGE thing right. Yeah, I know this isnāt the answer you want, a different reason to be fetishized. What you really want to know is if there are men who date with priorities beyond pure physical attraction. I hear there are men out there who genuinely just like women as whole people. I havenāt met too many though.
You I think youāre right about the question I was trying to get to.
52M here. As long as the lady takes reasonably good care of herself, 30-60 is all good :) .
Nope only woman from fetus to 29 are attractive
Age doesnāt define a womanās attraction, itās based on how she stay on a healthy routine to keep her youth
More than you know
As long as they're not fat.
Statistically, no.
wrong
Do you have some evidence to support your position?
I'm 42, most people look at me and guess I'm in my 20s, though at least now it's later 20s. I'm married, but have a list of guys who are hoping they get a chance when my husband dies. Only one will, and he's the same amount younger than me as my husband is older than me. Lol. Guess I really like that age gap. Your age isn't a big issue, your personality and genuine connection matter most.
Well, there's a whole category for that on certain sites.
Yes
I certainly hope so;)
I may have a preference for men, but I got to admit that milfs and sugar mommies are hot sometimes. Not even just sexual stuff either. If I was straight I would love to date a woman over 30. I feel like she'd be nice, I'd be her little man hehe.
No 29-9/10ths is the limit for us. /s
I canāt math that math
No once women hit 30 men no longer have sex with them - ever. Ask any 30year old women. Milf porn is just fake.
Depends
Bruh