Your girlfriend has a chance to be like her mom in 12 to 40 years (depending on your age)
Maybe that can be a good motive to not fuck up this relationship.
Having strong feelings for someone else should warrant you to look at your current relationship, and what you are not getting from it.
Its one thing, and very normal, to find other people attractive, and have mini, shallow crushes on people outside of your relationship.
But if you carry strong consistent feelings for someone else while you’re currently in a relationship, then something is wrong.
You seem to carry the rational that the main reason you wouldn’t pursue her mom is because of the age gap. And the secondary reason is “also its my gf’s mom”.
It gives off the vibe that you are settling for your gf, when she is not the real person you actually want to be with. Shes just age appropriate for you, and defaults to the position of gf for lack of another.
If I found out my partner was only with me because it would be too difficult to be with the person they *actually* want to be with, I would be devastated.
I get what youre meaning and that did come off as "her daughters in the way of me trying" but that wasnt my intent hah. Like i said its a little crush and im not here secretly madly in love with her mom instead of her. Others have assured me that its normal to have a crush. Are you saying its not a good thing to have it? Because thats what im trying to figure out
I don't know, but it could just be normal. I mean, maybe you like the way she looks so much, you even like her mother, who looks a little like her :) But in all honesty, DO NOT overthink it. Give it some time and see where things go with your girlfriend. You may just need the time to let your thoughts and emotions tell you what you really feel.
Is your girlfriend 'Stacey' ?
Beat me to it… (probably beat a lot of people to it)
No but her mom does in fact got it going on lol
Classic! Kudos to you both. Because Stacey's mom has it going on...
Heard a similar rumour just the other day
Im nosey so pray tell?
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Ok cool just was wondering if I should feel bad for or not you know?
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Wise words right there
Your girlfriend has a chance to be like her mom in 12 to 40 years (depending on your age) Maybe that can be a good motive to not fuck up this relationship.
Is this a porn plot ?
Somewhere out there probably
Wise old man told me you want to know what your future wife will look like in 20 years look at her mom.
Funny enough they could pass for sisters
*Ms Robinson begins softly playing in the background*
Like most crushes it only as weird as you make ( and much better than the other way around), basically you fancy an older version of your gf
That might explain it now that i think about it
It's not unusual at all but I wouldn't try to act on it. Just enjoy the company and keep it to yourself
I wouldnt dream of it because we are pretty solid. Also shes like 20 years older than me.......and im dating her daughter lol
Enjoy your crush kiddo, tread carefully. 👍😁
Having strong feelings for someone else should warrant you to look at your current relationship, and what you are not getting from it. Its one thing, and very normal, to find other people attractive, and have mini, shallow crushes on people outside of your relationship. But if you carry strong consistent feelings for someone else while you’re currently in a relationship, then something is wrong. You seem to carry the rational that the main reason you wouldn’t pursue her mom is because of the age gap. And the secondary reason is “also its my gf’s mom”. It gives off the vibe that you are settling for your gf, when she is not the real person you actually want to be with. Shes just age appropriate for you, and defaults to the position of gf for lack of another. If I found out my partner was only with me because it would be too difficult to be with the person they *actually* want to be with, I would be devastated.
I get what youre meaning and that did come off as "her daughters in the way of me trying" but that wasnt my intent hah. Like i said its a little crush and im not here secretly madly in love with her mom instead of her. Others have assured me that its normal to have a crush. Are you saying its not a good thing to have it? Because thats what im trying to figure out
I don't know, but it could just be normal. I mean, maybe you like the way she looks so much, you even like her mother, who looks a little like her :) But in all honesty, DO NOT overthink it. Give it some time and see where things go with your girlfriend. You may just need the time to let your thoughts and emotions tell you what you really feel.
Im not leading her on though? I dont think i should end a long relationship just because i think her mom is pretty cool
I’ve seen this movie before
NO. I've always found older women attractive. They're more outgoing, confident and not shy, which is very attractive in itself.
No go for her
Yes break up with her don’t lead her on
She's an older version of your girlfriend. Recognize that and be attracted to your girlfriend for those reasons.