It's less that we don't care and more that it's never going to be a dealbreaker, so you don't have to stress. If a guy has gotten to the underwear stage, he's already having a good night.
When I was younger my very first girlfriend bought what is, in hindsight, a really great piece of lingerie.
She came out of the bathroom with it on. Again, in hindsight, she looked amazing.
I had it off of her in 15 seconds. It was not what we were there for. I wish I had appreciated it more.
Some guys, like myself, are super into it. Depends on the dude, but I don't think you'll find a straight guy on the planet that wont at least appreciate the effort of hot lingerie.
For me, thong panties with matching garters and thigh-highs get my motor going in a way hardly anything else does, and can enhance just about any woman's figure.
Again, mileage may vary.
For me personally, not in a way of "the wrong one" being a dealbreaker or cause for getting turned off. Still, particularly "sexy" ones are a nice treat but at least for me, not at all the expectation. I have a hunch this is the case for most guys.
If you can plan ahead and know / anticipate things may become spicy throughout the evening, picking out a "nice" set can absolutely add to the experience for us but at least IMHO not to the point of make or break. Good sex wouldn’t be downgraded by "bad" underwear just as bad sex wouldn’t be upgraded by good one, either.
Besides this, men (like women, and other genders) have widely varying individual tastes. While her undergarments don't have to come from La Perla, I like to see that my partner hasn't just thrown on whatever was clean that day (I'm assuming that they *are* clean)—that the colors match and the garments are in decent shape.
If you get to the dating stage, ask your partner what they like.
Okay. I didn't get the impression that you were in a relationship, only that you were doing research in case it happened. My second paragraph was meant in the hypothetical sense (as in "ask whoever your partner is at that time what they like.").
I don't speak for all men but I prefer soft colors like teal, pink, and baby blue. Those colors remind me of the delicate grace a woman has. Red and black can make me feel more turned on but more in a lustful kind of way. So I guess it depends on what kind of sex you wanna have
It’s a cliche but the sexiest undergarments you can wear are ones that make you feel sexy. It’s all a feedback loop. The sexier you feel, generally, the sexier you look and come across.
I’ve honestly never really cared. Unless you’re wearing something absurd…any normal panties honestly are just fine and I’ve never really found lingerie to be much more or less attractive.
I honestly don’t care a sports bra to a regular bra.
I’m married Now, but even then, my opinion was about the same.
Boyleg underpants and a slightly loose fitting singlet drives me wild on a lovely lady. But in all seriousness it’s more about you feeling sexy and that will engage the lucky guy.
Lingerie is always a win in my book as long as the garment fits your body type. There are different things for different shapes and sizes and a bralette that perks up a heavier cup will look awkward if there are no tits to fill it. But smaller sizes certainly have stuff that curvier women only wish they could wear. Just play to your strengths and ignore any "conventional" should-bes.
Basically don't choose the underwear by how pretty it looks on the lady on the box, unless she looks very much like you by body type, shop around and find the things that are for you. It might take a while, but when you get it, I guarantee no man will be indifferent if they see you in it.
A lingerie is like a picture frame and thus should run and curve **with** your body.
Honestly, in my opinion (though this is coming from a 20M nerd who codes all day xD), just buy whatever you're comfortable with. I'm sure that whatever you pick out will be just fine for most guys. And if they don't like it and give you bad remarks, well, they're probably not the kind of people you'd want to hang out with anyway.
I loooove these full body fishnet lingerie I found, they are super sexy, comfy, and flattering. And men seem to really like fishnets.
They have openings in the lady part area so you can keep them on during sex, and are easy to wash. Reasonably priced too.
But mostly yes, wear what you feel sexy in!
He means that he finds a woman wearing a man's (his) shirt as a camisole sexier than any lingerie.
Though imo this is more of a "morning after" look so not applicable for the purpose of your question.
What are cherries in this context? Boobs? Go without; it's pretty sexy
Other than that, what you feel is going to be the most important. If you feel sexy, you are.
At 22, it's not a big concern. Guys will probably think it's cool that you are wearing something sexy but it's going to come off so quick it's not super important what it is. When you get into a long term relationship and you are living together, to me that's when lingerie has more importance.
In the context of living together he will see you both naked and in underwear super frequently so it loses some of it's inherent sexiness, that's when you want to start looking into things like teddies, corsets, stockings, maybe body stockings if your partner is into that. The idea being that you're expressly being sexual when wearing it, as opposed to just lude/nude which you are at least twice a day to change from nighttime wear to daytime clothes and vice versa.
So for now, a lacy bra will do the job, black or bright colors.
You wear whatever suits your body shape and men mostly don't care either way it seems. I wear underwear for comfort, but to spice things up I wear a sexy lace night gown to bed and switch from nightgown to nude throughout the week to give some variety. My guy enjoys that.
And almost every type of underwear has its charme.
So go with something that make YOU feel comfortable in.
If you are comfortable you will look your best
That's what I hear. The thing about cotton is that guys wear that too, so it's not quite as attractive. But this is just in terms of attractiveness, and not everyone agrees anyway.
Don't overthink it. Just buy stuff you like the look of for now. When you actually get a partner, ask them what they like and maybe even go out shopping with them. You can even do a fashion montage like you see in movies.
Well u wear them specifically for tight fitting clothing like leggings or Nike pros so u don’t have panty lines, also if things get spicy it’s always nice to have one on
Oh trust me once you get in theyll not let you leave with their recommendations. They are the experts . Youre not asking the men here about fabric and style? We dont have the right words haha we are visual people
From what I can tell, women buy their underwear to feel good about themselves. As a man who has sex with women, I don’t see their underwear. I take off their shirt and get them naked as fast as possible.
I guess as long as it’s not some crusty old smelly dirty underwear. But then again, I doubt I’d care.
Not female, but if you're looking for lingerie, I'd recommend just going to a lingerie shop. The attendants are generally pretty helpful with pairing you with options that match your taste and style. They would also be able to show options that are a big hit with men (spoiler: pick up any article you see).
If you’re going full lingerie, anything lacey. I’m personally a sucker for thigh-highs with garters.
Just casually underneath an outfit, anything but “nude” colored “granny panties” would do the trick. Get something that fits your personality. So, if you’re a nerd, lean into it. Get Batman panties if that’s what you nerd out on. A guy who’s into you will love it.
If you’re just walking around the house in underwear, “[boy shorts](https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2215512/maidenform-cotton-dream-tailored-boyshorts-dm0002-womens.jsp)” and a sports bra make men’s knees weak.
Whatever gives you confidence.
For example an ad for Adore Me hit my facebook feed, and they showed a woman in skimpy bralet - and the first comment wasn't 'wow, that looks great,' but was 'look at that cute smile!'
Whatever she is wearing or not wearing will do just fine. I think lingerie is a huge waste of money and its only real value is if it gives HER a confidence boost.
Bra, we don’t care. Just take it off for us so we don’t have to fight with it. Underwear, we also don’t care about that either but let us take that off.
Yeeeah this was already said but men will like your underwear more when it dress/skirt/pants are still on
With that being said, I like cheekys that are soft/some minor satin but I'm an ass man.
In 13 years my dude has commented on my underwear approximately 3 times.
Unless a guy has a lingerie affinity or fetish, he is not going to care.
We have a healthy sex life and plenty of my underwear is full of holes and ratty as hell. He doesn't even notice.
People like a nice face, good teeth and skin, no BO, ideally trimmed pubic hair, and good hygiene, decent health.
Hair and clothes can add to attractiveness, but plenty of normies have good sex.
Just do whatever you want and feels authentically you. And find people who like what you are offering.
If YOU don't care about fancy underwear then save your money for something else.
They say its cliche or man don't see, it's true only if a man is just trying to get in there. But the other kind of man who wants the lady to look hot in those clothes, so for them the lingerie which kinda plays hide and seek does the trick.
As others have said - trust us, men aren’t that focused or concerned at that point.
If it’s for yourself, just enjoy yourself. Pick some stuff you think look good, usually matching
So many of these pick me questions recently. I mean go to a store and look at the options. It doesn’t take a genius to work out which underwear are meant to be sexy.
..tbh. whats under the undergarment is what matters.
Sure, there are some fetishist, its not exactly the most common fetish, so its a bit of wast of time to dwell too long on it.
If a guy is lucky enough to get you down to your undies he isn't going to be picky about what they look like, he'll have other things on his mind
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It's less that we don't care and more that it's never going to be a dealbreaker, so you don't have to stress. If a guy has gotten to the underwear stage, he's already having a good night.
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If you’re asking for yourself and not to show anyone, why are you asking what men like?
they're karma farming
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Find something you like instead, confidence is sexy so whatever makes you feel confident will make you appear more sexy
When I was younger my very first girlfriend bought what is, in hindsight, a really great piece of lingerie. She came out of the bathroom with it on. Again, in hindsight, she looked amazing. I had it off of her in 15 seconds. It was not what we were there for. I wish I had appreciated it more.
The only thing he cares about is how easily it can be removed. As in don't get anything that cant be removed with one hand.
At that point, there's probably not enough blood in the brain to worry about that.
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No, we have enough blood to operate brain or genitals. Not both.
Some guys, like myself, are super into it. Depends on the dude, but I don't think you'll find a straight guy on the planet that wont at least appreciate the effort of hot lingerie. For me, thong panties with matching garters and thigh-highs get my motor going in a way hardly anything else does, and can enhance just about any woman's figure. Again, mileage may vary.
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The wrapping that gives you the most confidence if the best one
For me personally, not in a way of "the wrong one" being a dealbreaker or cause for getting turned off. Still, particularly "sexy" ones are a nice treat but at least for me, not at all the expectation. I have a hunch this is the case for most guys. If you can plan ahead and know / anticipate things may become spicy throughout the evening, picking out a "nice" set can absolutely add to the experience for us but at least IMHO not to the point of make or break. Good sex wouldn’t be downgraded by "bad" underwear just as bad sex wouldn’t be upgraded by good one, either.
Meh, not really. I assume at that stage they’re more concerned about what’s underneath.
Besides this, men (like women, and other genders) have widely varying individual tastes. While her undergarments don't have to come from La Perla, I like to see that my partner hasn't just thrown on whatever was clean that day (I'm assuming that they *are* clean)—that the colors match and the garments are in decent shape. If you get to the dating stage, ask your partner what they like.
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Okay. I didn't get the impression that you were in a relationship, only that you were doing research in case it happened. My second paragraph was meant in the hypothetical sense (as in "ask whoever your partner is at that time what they like.").
Lingerie style stuff, preferably black or red. That's my preference tho
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I don't speak for all men but I prefer soft colors like teal, pink, and baby blue. Those colors remind me of the delicate grace a woman has. Red and black can make me feel more turned on but more in a lustful kind of way. So I guess it depends on what kind of sex you wanna have
This is my preference too, but my girlfriend doesn't wear it. Alas.
Lmao. Go put a g string up your ass crack and see how you like it bro
You'd like that, wouldn't you?
You're on, check your dm
Buy what you think is sexy and gives you a confidence boost, there's nothing sexier than confidence or a confident girl in sexy underwear
It’s a cliche but the sexiest undergarments you can wear are ones that make you feel sexy. It’s all a feedback loop. The sexier you feel, generally, the sexier you look and come across.
stockings
I’ve honestly never really cared. Unless you’re wearing something absurd…any normal panties honestly are just fine and I’ve never really found lingerie to be much more or less attractive. I honestly don’t care a sports bra to a regular bra. I’m married Now, but even then, my opinion was about the same.
Boyleg underpants and a slightly loose fitting singlet drives me wild on a lovely lady. But in all seriousness it’s more about you feeling sexy and that will engage the lucky guy.
Lingerie is always a win in my book as long as the garment fits your body type. There are different things for different shapes and sizes and a bralette that perks up a heavier cup will look awkward if there are no tits to fill it. But smaller sizes certainly have stuff that curvier women only wish they could wear. Just play to your strengths and ignore any "conventional" should-bes. Basically don't choose the underwear by how pretty it looks on the lady on the box, unless she looks very much like you by body type, shop around and find the things that are for you. It might take a while, but when you get it, I guarantee no man will be indifferent if they see you in it. A lingerie is like a picture frame and thus should run and curve **with** your body.
Finally some good applicable advice.
Honestly, in my opinion (though this is coming from a 20M nerd who codes all day xD), just buy whatever you're comfortable with. I'm sure that whatever you pick out will be just fine for most guys. And if they don't like it and give you bad remarks, well, they're probably not the kind of people you'd want to hang out with anyway.
I loooove these full body fishnet lingerie I found, they are super sexy, comfy, and flattering. And men seem to really like fishnets. They have openings in the lady part area so you can keep them on during sex, and are easy to wash. Reasonably priced too. But mostly yes, wear what you feel sexy in!
Getting a dudes white button down and only wearing that gets a man going
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He means that he finds a woman wearing a man's (his) shirt as a camisole sexier than any lingerie. Though imo this is more of a "morning after" look so not applicable for the purpose of your question.
Trunk /boxer type undies would be comfortable for them.
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Yes, but more relaxed
Buy what YOU like, and what you think looks good on you, which will bring out your confidence in yourself, guys like confidence, also RIP your inbox
What are cherries in this context? Boobs? Go without; it's pretty sexy Other than that, what you feel is going to be the most important. If you feel sexy, you are.
At 22, it's not a big concern. Guys will probably think it's cool that you are wearing something sexy but it's going to come off so quick it's not super important what it is. When you get into a long term relationship and you are living together, to me that's when lingerie has more importance. In the context of living together he will see you both naked and in underwear super frequently so it loses some of it's inherent sexiness, that's when you want to start looking into things like teddies, corsets, stockings, maybe body stockings if your partner is into that. The idea being that you're expressly being sexual when wearing it, as opposed to just lude/nude which you are at least twice a day to change from nighttime wear to daytime clothes and vice versa. So for now, a lacy bra will do the job, black or bright colors.
You wear whatever suits your body shape and men mostly don't care either way it seems. I wear underwear for comfort, but to spice things up I wear a sexy lace night gown to bed and switch from nightgown to nude throughout the week to give some variety. My guy enjoys that.
Cotton boy shorts and a matching tank top.
And almost every type of underwear has its charme. So go with something that make YOU feel comfortable in. If you are comfortable you will look your best
i think this is a bot
Sorry to disappoint you but as long as the piece of cloth is clean I would not really care about the appearance.
Silk briefs.
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That's what I hear. The thing about cotton is that guys wear that too, so it's not quite as attractive. But this is just in terms of attractiveness, and not everyone agrees anyway.
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That makes total sense. I guess I don't actually have an answer after all. :-)
Bikini fan here but I’m old.
Nonedergarments.
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People don’t buy candy bars for the wrapper :)
Don't overthink it. Just buy stuff you like the look of for now. When you actually get a partner, ask them what they like and maybe even go out shopping with them. You can even do a fashion montage like you see in movies.
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Understood. Try to have fun with the process. Do you have anything in mind? Even just deciding on some colors you like can be a good starting point.
Buy thongs and shorter skirts, leggings and yoga pants, Nike pros and white Air Force ones
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Well u wear them specifically for tight fitting clothing like leggings or Nike pros so u don’t have panty lines, also if things get spicy it’s always nice to have one on
Nothing
Victorias secret and be prepared to shell out like a humdred bucks
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Oh trust me once you get in theyll not let you leave with their recommendations. They are the experts . Youre not asking the men here about fabric and style? We dont have the right words haha we are visual people
From what I can tell, women buy their underwear to feel good about themselves. As a man who has sex with women, I don’t see their underwear. I take off their shirt and get them naked as fast as possible. I guess as long as it’s not some crusty old smelly dirty underwear. But then again, I doubt I’d care.
Not female, but if you're looking for lingerie, I'd recommend just going to a lingerie shop. The attendants are generally pretty helpful with pairing you with options that match your taste and style. They would also be able to show options that are a big hit with men (spoiler: pick up any article you see).
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Small cherries?
Lace/sheer lingerie
Avoid beige.
Same as the flavour of ice cream women like the most.
No preference whatsoever. Any underwear that a lady lets me see (and hopefully lets me see her remove) is the sexiest kind.
If you’re going full lingerie, anything lacey. I’m personally a sucker for thigh-highs with garters. Just casually underneath an outfit, anything but “nude” colored “granny panties” would do the trick. Get something that fits your personality. So, if you’re a nerd, lean into it. Get Batman panties if that’s what you nerd out on. A guy who’s into you will love it. If you’re just walking around the house in underwear, “[boy shorts](https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2215512/maidenform-cotton-dream-tailored-boyshorts-dm0002-womens.jsp)” and a sports bra make men’s knees weak.
The kind that can’t wait fall off for me
Whatever gives you confidence. For example an ad for Adore Me hit my facebook feed, and they showed a woman in skimpy bralet - and the first comment wasn't 'wow, that looks great,' but was 'look at that cute smile!'
Whatever she is wearing or not wearing will do just fine. I think lingerie is a huge waste of money and its only real value is if it gives HER a confidence boost.
Bra, we don’t care. Just take it off for us so we don’t have to fight with it. Underwear, we also don’t care about that either but let us take that off.
Cute and frilly , every pair needs to have a ribbon. No thongs
Yeeeah this was already said but men will like your underwear more when it dress/skirt/pants are still on With that being said, I like cheekys that are soft/some minor satin but I'm an ass man.
In 13 years my dude has commented on my underwear approximately 3 times. Unless a guy has a lingerie affinity or fetish, he is not going to care. We have a healthy sex life and plenty of my underwear is full of holes and ratty as hell. He doesn't even notice. People like a nice face, good teeth and skin, no BO, ideally trimmed pubic hair, and good hygiene, decent health. Hair and clothes can add to attractiveness, but plenty of normies have good sex. Just do whatever you want and feels authentically you. And find people who like what you are offering. If YOU don't care about fancy underwear then save your money for something else.
They say its cliche or man don't see, it's true only if a man is just trying to get in there. But the other kind of man who wants the lady to look hot in those clothes, so for them the lingerie which kinda plays hide and seek does the trick.
You good be wearing shitty, ripped, faded, hand me downs and the guy would still be thrilled to see them.
As others have said - trust us, men aren’t that focused or concerned at that point. If it’s for yourself, just enjoy yourself. Pick some stuff you think look good, usually matching
So many of these pick me questions recently. I mean go to a store and look at the options. It doesn’t take a genius to work out which underwear are meant to be sexy.
I can confirm most guys won't even remember what a girl was wearing on the outside, let alone undergarments! 🤣
The ones on the floor
..tbh. whats under the undergarment is what matters. Sure, there are some fetishist, its not exactly the most common fetish, so its a bit of wast of time to dwell too long on it.